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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwellwww.justbreakuppod.com
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Episodes

Episode 571: When Our Partners Become Our Caretakers

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose normally supportive partner isn't taking care of her well. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 23, 202530 minSeason 1Ep. 571

Episode 570: What About the What-Ifs?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who really likes his friend but doesn't want to be a creep. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 21, 202536 min

Episode 569: Should Marriage Be an Ultimatum?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend isn't sure if he doesn't want to marry *her* or doesn't want to get married at all. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 18, 202534 min

Episode 568: Self-Proclaimed Player but Actually a Lover

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to date casually but isn't behaving casually. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 16, 202529 min

Episode 567: He Didn't Even Tell Me He Was Moving!

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose good friend is moving away and didn't tell her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 14, 202533 min

Episode 566: You Have to Break the Pattern

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't stop comparing herself to her really awful ex and his new love interest. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 11, 202532 minSeason 1Ep. 566

Episode 565: Is a Lack of Physical Attraction a Deal Breaker?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke up with their seamingly perfect partner because he wasn't attracted to him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 09, 202527 minSeason 1Ep. 565

Episode 564: My Partner's Hidden Credit Card Debt

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who just found out their partner of two years has over 40k in secret credit card debt. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 07, 202539 minSeason 1Ep. 564

Episode 563: Post Break Up Regrets

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who regrets breaking up even though she still thinks it was the right thing to do. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 04, 202533 min

Episode 562: I Found His List of Reasons to Break Up With Me

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found a list of reasons her partner should break up with her in his planner. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 02, 202528 min

Episode 561: My BF Searches the Internet for Explicit Pictures of His Ex

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is searching for explicit photos of his ex multiple times a week. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 31, 202531 minSeason 1Ep. 561

Episode 560: I Didn't Cheat...But Almost

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who didn't cheat on her partner but definitely crossed some lines. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 28, 202529 min

Episode 559: Crowdsourcing Why This Guy Ghosted Me

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who posted a picture of the guy she was dating in a "Is This Your Man" forum and it kind of blew up on her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 26, 202536 min

Episode 558: I'm Stressed About My Partner's Future Health

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stressed her partner could have a heart attack one day. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 24, 202534 min

Episode 557: My Boyfriend Might Have a Secret Family

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who broke into her lover's safe and thinks his dead wife might not actually be dead Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 21, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 557

Episode 556: Real Life: I Want to Have an Affair

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to have an affair on his wife of 27 years. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 19, 202537 minSeason 1Ep. 556

Episode 555: Slimier Than the Nickelodeon Kids' Choice Awards

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found out her boyfriend of four years was cheating on her the whole time Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 17, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 555

Episode 554: He Asked Me Not to Text Him...Should I?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like he met THE one, even though the one told him not to text him. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 14, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 554

Episode 553: Turns Out He Sucked the Whole Time

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who found out her ex was saying awful things about her to her friend during their relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 12, 202526 minSeason 1Ep. 553

Episode 552: He Cheated and I Was Controlling – Can It Still Work?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she was the unhealthy one in her relationship. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 10, 202535 minSeason 1Ep. 552

Episode 551: How Sierra's Birth Anxiety is Like Your Relationship Problem

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to change her dating patterns (and Sierra announces her new pregnancy). Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 03, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 551

Episode 550: I Love Him as a Husband But Not as a Coparent

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someonoe whose partner is a wonderful husband but a difficult and lacking coparent. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 03, 202536 minSeason 1Ep. 550

Episode 549: My Boyfriend's Anger Issues

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someonoe whose partner has anger issues that come out in scary ways. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 03, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 549

Episode 548: Honoring Your Love By Walking Away

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should get back with her ex who seems to be turning his life around. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 28, 202535 minSeason 1Ep. 548

Episode 547: Finding Clarity in Confusing Friendships

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is friends with a guy she also might be dating?? Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 26, 202529 minSeason 1Ep. 547

Episode 546: Is It The Ick or Just Your Feelings?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who got the ick from their partner taking care of them. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 24, 202541 minSeason 1Ep. 546

Episode 545: The Person Who Hurt You is Broken, Not You

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is haunted by the ghostly presence of her awful ex. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 21, 202529 minSeason 1Ep. 545

Episode 544: How Do We Let Go of Hurt?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who has forgiven her partner but still wonders if he is secretly betraying her. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 19, 202531 minSeason 1Ep. 544

Episode 543: I'm the Maid of Honor and I Hate the Groom

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is the maid of honor but she doesn't have anything positive to say about the groom. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 17, 202533 minSeason 1Ep. 543

Episode 542: He's Benefiting From You Hating Yourself

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like she doesn't deserve love...and apparently, neither does her boyfriend. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 14, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 542
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