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Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties

Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwellwww.justbreakuppod.com
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Episodes

Episode 600: Should I Tell My Ex I'm Bisexual?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering if she should tell her ex she's bi as an explanation for their breakup Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 07, 202531 min

Episode 599: Is There A Difference Between Coffee and Dinner?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend said he was going to get coffee with his ex but got dinner instead Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 04, 202540 minSeason 1Ep. 599

Episode 598: Still Holding On—But to What?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like all the works she's done in her relationship has gone into a bottomless pit Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 02, 202532 minSeason 1Ep. 598

Episode 597: We Got Engaged...And Now I'm Panicking

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels emotionally disconnected from their partner Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 30, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 597

Episode 596: Is It Weak If I Stay With a Cheater?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who recently found out her husband cheated more than three years agao Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 27, 202526 minSeason 1Ep. 596

Episode 595: The Stories People Tell About Us Aren't Ours

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose terrible ex-friend is still talking sh*t about her Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 25, 202533 minSeason 1Ep. 595

Episode 594: You're Allowed to Ask for Privacy in Your Relationship

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to balance her own privacy with her partner's right to share Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 23, 202543 minSeason 1Ep. 594

Episode 593: Is My Grief Ruining My Relationship?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose parner shared how hard it is to watch her grieve Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 20, 202544 min

Episode 592: Herpes Isn't A Moral Failing

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose newly contracted herpes has changed her relationship with herself and her body, with sex, and with future partners Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 18, 202535 minSeason 1Ep. 592

Episode 591: Closeted And Heartbroken

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose on again/off again partner is now dating someone else Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 16, 202533 minSeason 1Ep. 591

Episode 590: Is Empathy Okay After a Breakup?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she should be more angry at her ex Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 13, 202530 minSeason 1Ep. 590

Episode 589: Her Needs Are Truths, Yours Are Burdens

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels uncomfortable with the physical relationship between her wife and their friend Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 11, 202540 minSeason 1Ep. 589

Episode 588: His Browsing History Is Spicier Than Our Bedroom

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose very vanilla husband is looking at very spicy porn Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 09, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 588

Bonus Episode: He Wants Me to Be Sorrier for Being a Former Cam Model

Sam & Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend can't get over the fact that her former cam work might still exist online Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 02, 202544 min

Episode 587: What Does It Look Like for You to Say No More Often

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who wants to know why her mother gets to fully grieve but she doesn't Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 30, 202531 minSeason 1Ep. 587

Episode 586: You're in Two Different Relationships and Both Aren't Working

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if she's the toxic one after having an affair with her married coworker Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 28, 202537 minSeason 1Ep. 586

Episode 585: Am I Doomed to Be Isolated With Kids in The Midwest?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling lost, afraid, and like she's running out of time Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 26, 202537 minSeason 1Ep. 585

Episode 584: Do I Owe My Father Forgiveness?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose wondering if she should reconnect with her estranged father Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 23, 202538 minSeason 1Ep. 584

Episode 583: He *Always* Picks Up When His Mom Calls

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is talking to his mom ALL THE TIME Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 21, 202530 minSeason 1Ep. 583

Episode 582: So...My New Boyfriend Doesn't Tip

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend is a terrible tipper Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 19, 202531 minSeason 1Ep. 582

Episode 581: Now I Have to See Him at the Gym 6 Days a Week :(

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is trying to hold space for the complex person his ex is Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 16, 202532 minSeason 1Ep. 581

Episode 580: Navigating a Twenty Year Age Gap

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is concerned about the future of their relationship with someone who is 20 years older than them Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 14, 202539 minSeason 1Ep. 580

Episode 579: But...I Don't Want To Set My Friend Up With My Crush!

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want her friend to date her crush Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 12, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 579

Episode 578: Can You Prioritize Yourself While Trying to Save This Relationship?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose shared about her addiction with her partner and he didn't handle it well ⁠Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!⁠ SUBMIT: ⁠justbreakuppod.com⁠ FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 09, 202539 minSeason 1Ep. 578

Episode 577: My Friend with Benefits Caught Feelings!

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose former friend with benefits is hurt that she broke things off ⁠Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more!⁠ SUBMIT: ⁠justbreakuppod.com⁠ FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit ⁠megaphone.fm/adchoices⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 07, 202526 minSeason 1Ep. 577

Episode 576: Fumbly Chemistry or Sexual Incompatibility?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is disappointed with her sex life with her new partner Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 05, 202540 minSeason 1Ep. 576

Episode 575: We Don't Always Have to Know

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner has a crush on a mutual friend Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 02, 202529 minSeason 1Ep. 575

Episode 574: He's Changed but I Can't See It

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is deeply frustrated by the boyfriend in her head Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 30, 202534 minSeason 1Ep. 574

Episode 573: Why Did My Ex Send Me $2000?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex sent him $2000 and he doesn't know why. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 28, 202539 minSeason 1Ep. 573

Episode 572: Why Can't I Get the Healed Sober Version of Him Like Everyone Else?

Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to get the wonderful man her ex has become now that he's sober. Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, monthly office hours, and more! SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 25, 202529 minSeason 1Ep. 570
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