Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener who doesn’t want to feel obligated to make friends at work. They then talk to author Angela Chen about asexuality, her journey toward the label and how asexuality can inform us about consent. Lastly, reframing your thoughts! How hard is it to do? How can it help you make healthier choices and have better self-worth? Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com...
Aug 19, 2020•1 hr 14 min•Ep. 75
Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener wondering how to find the right support group for herself and maybe her daughter. They then talk to legendary storyteller and superstar from Reading Rainbow, Roots and Star Trek, LEVAR FREAKING BURTON, all about storytelling, politics, social media and just... everything. And finally, emotional intelligence. What is it? And how to build it? DID WE MENTION LEVAR BURTON IS ON?! Subscribe to LeVar Burton Reads: https://www.stitcher.com/podcast/stitcher/lev...
Aug 12, 2020•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 74
Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question about how much conflict is normal in friendships. Then, they talk to documentary filmmaker Erin Carr (Mommy Dead and Dearest, Heart of Gold) about her filmmaking process, how to spot a liar and whether documentaries are entertainment or journalism. Lastly, working from home! Let’s keep doing it even after the pandemic is over. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www...
Aug 05, 2020•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 73
Allison and Gaby attempt to help a listener whose wealthier friends refuse to talk about money and privilege. They’re then joined by journalist Tuck Woodstock to discuss the horrors of federal troops in Portland. And finally, Gaby shares what it’s been like to officially be living with her partner! Content Warning: Discussion of race, class and police violence. Resources: Tuck on Twitter: https://twitter.com/tuckwoodstock Tuck on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/gender Tuck on Venmo: https://ven...
Jul 29, 2020•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 72
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who wants to be supportive of her friend’s upcoming wedding... but thinks she's way too young to get married. They’re then joined by Hank Green to discuss all things social media. And later, microaggressions! How to spot them and how to stop doing them! Content Warning: Discussion of racism and transphobia Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodca...
Jul 22, 2020•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 71
In this week’s episode, Allison and Gaby answer a listener’s question about whether or not it’s kosher to ask your therapist if they support Trump. (Who would want a Trump supporting therapist?! Not us!) They’re then joined by "OMG WTF Does the Constitution Actually Say?" author, Ben Sheehan, to discuss... you guessed it... the constitution, and what it really says. And finally, why won’t people wear their damn masks?! WEAR YOUR MASKS!!! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: htt...
Jul 15, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 70
EPISODE 69. And it’s all about sex, BABY. Okay, maybe not allll. Gaby and Allison start off by giving advice to a listener who is distraught that her father has taken a job working for a prominent Trump supporter and donor. They then break down sexuality and sex shaming with clinical sexologist Stephanie Hunter Jones. And finally, self-confidence! Where’s the line between confidence and arrogance? Gaby thinks she knows. Content Warning: Sex and trauma Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever...
Jul 08, 2020•52 min•Ep. 69
Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener whose parents constantly criticize their weight and skin. How do you ignore toxic words from your parents? They’re then joined by KCRW producer, Cerise Castle, to discuss BLM protests, the treatment of the press by police and her own experience getting shot by a rubber bullet while holding her press badge. Finally, the girls discuss Biden as the democratic candidate and what that means for progressives who don’t like him. Content Warning: Mention of eat...
Jul 01, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 68
Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question regarding relationship timelines and the subsequent judgement. They then speak to Rasha Pecoraro, co-host of the podcast ‘Root of Evil,’ about her family and their involvement in The Black Dahlia / Elizabeth Short murder. Rasha’s great-grandfather was George Hodel, the main suspect in one of the most infamous “unsolved” murders of all time. They also get into the anti-diet movement and the toxicity of the weight loss industry. It’s a dark, but ultima...
Jun 24, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 67
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who doesn't like anyone who likes them back. They’re then joined by Dr. Rajita Sinha of the Yale Stress Center to break down the science of stress and how it affects our bodies. And finally, some tips on how to feel less lonely. Spoiler: Get a dog! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: https://foreve...
Jun 17, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 66
Gaby and Allison give a listener advice about whether it’s healthy to fight with her partner. Then, they talk to Jon Lovett -- Crooked Media co-founder, host of Lovett or Leave It and co-host of Pod Save America -- about the power of language and the ways political speeches can sway, comfort or incite. And to wrap it all up, they discuss the pros and cons of exposure therapy while Gaby freaks out about ants. Stay safe. We love you. Also, Black Lives Matter. Here's where you can learn more: Black...
Jun 10, 2020•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 65
Gaby and Allison tackle the conundrum of a newly married woman who realizes she does not enjoy penetrative sex. Then, they talk to comic book writer Greg Pak about indie presses vs. working for Marvel, Asian representation in comics and the collaboration between storyteller and artist. Also bucket lists! What’s on them? Why do people make them? What’s stopping us from both getting pet rabbits? Come nerd out with us! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts...
May 27, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 63
Gaby and Allison give advice to a listener worried about bringing up marriage to her boyfriend who went through a nasty divorce. They then discuss anti-science sentiment with “Brain Scoop” host and museum curiosity correspondent Emily Graslie. And finally, they break down some defining childhood moments. Also, penis bones??? Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A F...
May 20, 2020•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 62
On this week’s episode, Allison and Gaby grapple with a listener’s question about self-forgiveness. They’re then joined by Hood Feminism author, Mikki Kendall, to discuss intersectionality, inequality and what it truly means to be a feminist. The girls end the episode with a lively discussion about what you need to know about a potential partner from the get go. Mainly, are they a republican who hates their job? If so, pass. Content Warning: Mention of rape Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on F...
May 13, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 61
Allison and Gaby try to help a listener deal with a potential new mental health diagnosis. They’re then joined by Fire Drill Fridays activist Jessica Wilson to discuss climate change and how to help during and after a pandemic. And finally, a tough discussion about the realities of unemployment. Is it a “fun” episode? Maybe not! But you’ll definitely learn something! (We hope.) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https...
May 06, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 60
Allison and Gaby help a listener who wants to learn to communicate with her partner without constantly seeking reassurance. They’re then joined by Planned Parenthood’s Alexis McGill Johnson to discuss conservatives' sneaky attack on reproductive rights during the pandemic. And finally, sleep. Goodnight! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A FOREVER DOG PODCAST: ht...
Apr 29, 2020•58 min•Ep. 59
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener who can’t seem to find joy in Zoom Hangouts with her friends. They’re then joined by investigative journalist, Natasha Del Toro, to discuss an investigation that involved 14 women and the many people who didn't believe them. And, finally, Allison and Gaby describe their perfect lives. (It involves animals for Allison and multiple partners for Gaby. Shocking!) Content Warning: Discussion of rape and sexual assault during the interview portion Listen to ...
Apr 22, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 58
Allison and Gaby start off by helping a listener decide between passion and practicality when it comes to choosing a college major. They’re then joined by writer and podcaster Nora McInerny for a frank discussion about grief and how to keep living when you lose someone you love. And later, aliens. (With a little bit of ghosts and cryptids!) This show is wild, y’all! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.insta...
Apr 15, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 57
How are we holding up under self-quarantine? Allison and Gaby offer (conflicting) advice to a listener about staying sane during the pandemic. They then discuss the hazards of social media and the spread of misinformation with Andrew Marantz, author of “Antisocial: Online Extremists, Techno-Utopians and the Hijacking of the American Conversation.” And later, the girls chat about sexism in politics. Light, fun stuff for a comedy show! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://...
Apr 08, 2020•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 56
Happy self-quarantine, everyone! Allison and Gaby discuss how they’re handling the coronavirus crisis (lots of games). They then offer advice to a listener whose mom won’t take their mental illness seriously. They’re also joined by writer Ashley C. Ford, who shares a heartwarming story about real love. And later, we analyze and dissect our own social skills in possibly the nerdiest way ever. Chef’s Kiss! Content Warnings: self harm, suicide, mention of an eating disorder Listen to Just Between U...
Apr 01, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 55
Get ready for a special episode featuring Simone Biles and SK-II! Gaby and Allison answer a listener’s question about whether she actually enjoys her feminine presentation or if she’s a victim of societal beauty pressures. They then interview the greatest gymnast of our time, Simone Biles, about SK-II’s Beauty is #NOCOMPETITION campaign, toxic beauty standards and her involvement in SK-II Studios’ six-part animated series “VS.” They’re also joined by beauty expert and the host of the podcast Nat...
Mar 25, 2020•52 min•Ep. 54
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener now and forever dubbed QUEEN EMILY. No spoilers, but it’s a can’t miss International Question involving an exploding bag of chips! They’re then joined by Cathy Campbell, a University of Virginia nurse who sheds light on the much needed support for our transgender senior citizens. And later, Allison and Gaby discuss maintaining a healthy work-life balance! Content Warnings: Mentions of domestic violence, transphobia and elder abuse Find out more about o...
Mar 18, 2020•53 min•Ep. 53
Why are we SO UNCOMFORTABLE talking about money? Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener dating someone who is having a tough time with his finances. They’re then joined by Lori Gottlieb, a best-selling author and therapist, who talks about her own journey through therapy. And later, we share some of our biggest misconceptions! Hindsight is 2020! (Pun alert!) Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagra...
Mar 11, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 52
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a queer listener struggling with internalized homophobia after her brother came out. They’re then joined by host of the podcast America Dissected, Dr. Abdul El-Sayed, to talk about the dangers of supplements, wellness crazes and other untested cure-alls being sold for our health. And later, we get super personal! How do Gaby and Allison feel about having kids in the age of climate change? Trigger Warnings: Disordered eating and infertility Listen to Just Between ...
Mar 04, 2020•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 51
Some days, you’re so happily in love that you could cry. And others… you feel nothing at all. Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener struggling to make sense of her conflicting emotions after recently being diagnosed with Bipolar II Disorder. They’re then joined by Craig Antico, a former debt collector who turned his life around and started a charity to help those drowning in medical debt. And later, we debate whether people can truly change. (Good news! They can!) Watch how RIP Medical Deb...
Feb 26, 2020•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 50
Gaby and Allison discuss how to balance your friendships and partnership after a listener writes in to say her roommate feels neglected now that she has a girlfriend. Then, they welcome Fake The Nations’ Negin Farsad to muse on the 2020 Democratic candidates. And finally, kindness! When and where can we extend it and why it is so important to prioritize. Unless of course, someone asks you to get in their van. Trigger Warning: Discussion of sexual assault Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Fore...
Feb 19, 2020•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 49
Gaby and Allison offer some mental health alternatives to a listener who can’t afford therapy. They’re then joined by immigration lawyer, Marko Maglich, to discuss Trump’s disastrous policies and roadblocks in the American immigration system. And to round it all out, what the heck is a healthy relationship? And how do you maintain it? We definitely know! Trigger Warnings: xenophobia, racism Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETW...
Feb 12, 2020•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 48
Allison and Gaby offer solace to a listener who has been ghosted after an international love affair. They’re then joined by The Trevor Project’s Director of Research, Dr. Amy Green, to discuss advocacy and crisis prevention tools for suicidal queer and trans youth. And finally, the girls give all the content recommendations you never asked for! Meow! (You’ll get that later.) Trigger Warning: Suicide, homophobia, transphobia, brief mention of assault. Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever ...
Feb 05, 2020•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 47
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener wondering if they should tough it out and consume media even when it’s difficult and upsetting. (Yes? No? Maybe?) They’re then joined by Gaby’s partner, musician Mal Blum, who shares all the dirty details of Gaby’s attempts at seduction. And later, queer baiting and why we hate it! Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www.instagram.com/jbupodcast JUST BETWEEN US IS A F...
Jan 29, 2020•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 46
Allison and Gaby offer advice to a listener whose jealousy is out of control! They’re then joined by disability rights activist, Annie Segarra, to discuss her fight to get properly diagnosed with a rare genetic syndrome. And later, Allison opens up about her highly personal (and scary!) decision to go back to school. (OH GOD!) Trigger Warning: Medical Malpractice / Abuse Listen to Just Between Us Ad-Free on Forever Dog Plus: http://foreverdogpodcasts.com/plus FOLLOW JUST BETWEEN US: https://www....
Jan 22, 2020•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 45
