“You’re making up for all of us” with Nikki Glaser

thank you. And I always try to think, wait, have we met? And I think we met at the comedy the Comedy Seller. But I do remember meeting you because you're Bethany Frankel. I mean, I'm not gonna not remember that. I'm delighted that you even have any memory of meeting me. But yes, it was with Gad. I think it was our Yeah, I was, Oh my god, I forgot about that. So I was with Gad because I met him online,

like online dating. I forgot about even meeting ya. Yes, but were you like dating, like so you guys were like dating? No, I forgot. I think I had like lunch with him one day and then that was our night date to go see him do comedy. And who's the other comedian that Sharade smalls? Oh, yes, Sharade. I love Sharade so much. So yeah, you get good people, you know, it's just celebrities that art comedians get brought into the cellar, and you're always like, who brought that?

Like it was I was like so glad to see that. You're friends with my friends, So it was it was awesome to meet you and hang out with you, and you're just so you know, I feel familiar with you obviously from Instagram and just everything. So you're one of those people that's so likewise. And it's so funny because

I've always sort of touched comedy for years. I used to go to the Comedy Seller with Brian Coppleman, my ex who produces Billions, and he was good friends with Alan Havey and we used to go see John Stewart at the Comedy Seller. So I always liked going to see comedians, and just over the years I became friends with Lisa Lampanelli and um, you know Steve and Ross and like, I don't know why, So I've always known comedians.

Just I know why, because you're funny. I appreciate you're so honest, and like that's turned it into this very specific kind of like skill set. But it all starts with a comment. That's why I think reality stars really overlap with comedians a lot, because you're just putting a lot out there, and but you're your whip smart and so funny, and I'm I'm patting comedians on the back by saying like you're one of us, like we are too. But like that's why, that's why it fits for sure.

I mean, I'm watching this episode just you are so funny. You say the funniest stuff in the heat of the moment where it's like you're so quick, which you've always been, but just this, I think this UM episode really highlighted how funny you are and how enjoyable it is to just watch you, you know, get get angry, lose it,

go off. It's awesome. Well, you know, I can't only watch other shows where other people were sort of a show because this is in many ways, I don't really have many regrets, but you know, if I regret anything, it's sort of calling names. I never really assassinate character I'll talk about someone's choices, but I won't just call

someone a name. So that was sort of unique for me to do that with Luanne, and I do always sort of I'm accountable to what I've done, but by the same token, a lot of this episode is quintessentially me. It's me going through a brutal divorce and I don't work the way I used to. I realize I was so and it's so annoying, like watching someone who's so busy, which I was, but it's like someone saying, oh, I'm so exhausted. No, no, it's different levels, like as I feel.

I felt I empathized a lot with you when you were saying I worked so hard my free time, I don't want to be spending it doing this, like I mean, and let's be honest, this is work too, like shooting the reality show. This is the that there's no point you have to you all, yeah, but but it wasn't. This isn't your free time, and you're right, like, when there is supposed to be this relaxing thing, you don't want to be with these people that you're not really

like that you have contention with. I mean, it's insane. But the name calling, I feel I liked how the producers handled it because I know as someone also who hates name calling, I feel like I hate I hate that. I keep trying to be like, I just like you because I like you so much. It's seems ridiculous to say, but you, you like, knew right away that it was like an ugly side of you that you were like ashamed of. You're joking about the tea coming to you.

That says easy. Now, you were like kind of grossed out by what you said. Fact, you stood by it a little bit, but the producers allowed you to have those right away, so which that's fair. And also it's like you've eaten disgusting food, but you wanted the food that you ate it, you loved. You wanted that disgusting food. You feel gross right after, but I wanted it. I wanted to say it all it was what it was.

Oh yeah, oh, And honestly, you do see red in those moments, those moments where my anger takes over and I just there is a tiny voice in the back of my head that goes, You're gonna have to apologize for this later, You're gonna have to count for all of this, the fact that you did this in someone's home at their party, the fact that to the person you're saying it too, even though that's gonna be harder

to do. You know, all those voices, and you go want even though I'm gonna have all that ship, I still need to say it and you can't stop it. It's totally but it was really it was a smasher over the head with an antler, which, by the way, I believe that there was probably a reindeer nearby. And you were just because I don't know how my mind works, like you're just I can see how where you're getting things from. I wish would have shown whatever it was that I don't know why. I yeah, I don't know why.

I don't know if there is we have to find out. There are fish on the wall in one room. But it's you know, you know those days you're like, like, yesterday was a day like that. I'm like, I am a bitch on wheels today. And I realized why I said bitch on wheals. My assistants were like, what does that mean. I'm like, because I can cover more ground and someone was about to start with me, and I'm like,

they don't know what they're walking into today. This is like, this is a full full fest and I'm gonna kill somebody. So that was also what was going on up there. Ad ad alcohol add it's four o'clock in the afternoon, which is what's funny too. But that is why people wonder is it real? Like, how do you say, is it real to hang out with people you don't normally hang out with at four in the afternoon on a weekday, drink alcohol up in the Berkshire's wearing makeup, Like is

it real? I don't know this, what I'm doing is real? Okay, So I just want to say that the smashing the are just the Yeah, just seeing Red going into a fury saying things you don't want to say. And also, oh, I know where I wanted to leave off. You said that is this really? Are these really your friends? Is

this real life? As someone right, I've done one season reality show and Eve with me and my family and my friends, and then I host f Boy Island And what I'll say about reality shows is that, yeah, it's fake, Like the situations are fake. You didn't want to be a Dorinda's in the Berkshires that weekend like you were placed in a thing, but everything that happens is real. I mean some of those setups for conversations, but then

once the conversation gets going, it's real. And so I always say people who say raality shows are fake, I'm just like, well, do you think the zoo is fake? Like it's as much like these they're putting in her habitat together, and now these people have to let these You know, you're right. I don't know why I just thought of this, but I had an appearance a couple of months ago and I went to it. It's a big company, multi billion dollar company that I wanted to work with, and I went to go speak and I

didn't handle anything right. It was like really not great, meaning no one in my hotel room wasn't ready and no one was there. And then they wanted me to go to this event at night, but no one greeted me, and I was like walking The driver didn't know where it was, and I was walking through the street in an unsafe city and it just was a shit show. And even though I knew that I should shut the fuck up and just go and be a loser the way I was being treated, I still said something because

it's who I am in that scene. So no, I don't normally have that kind of thing happened, but I still was, like, I let them know it's fucked up, even though I knew I would burn the bridge of that big retailer, but I still did it. So it's kind of like what you're saying. We're in. We are in Duranda's house, we are human beings. Luanna's there, and this is what went down in the Berkshires, and I mean, and then the her taking credit for skinny, I mean, it's it is insane and it would have that's what

set you over. Okay, So was that exactly all right? So let's start. So now we're in We're in the Berkshires because it's to be continued, and um, we kind of just get into it with lou Anne, who really just wants to like she wants to like meddle with me, meaning I will kind of just ignore her and just say shitty things under my breath, but she really just it seems like she really wants to address my hair,

which does look similar to her in that scene. So I will I will say that and that I didn't know that in the moment because my hair was just dumb that day. Who knows how it was done, but that okay, so it looked like hers. And she had said in the beginning of the season. I think it was that she was like she kind of came up with the skinny girl Margherita with me because she was sitting at the dinner table when I told her what

it was. So that's the type of thing for me to take the bait on and she was fucking with me with the hair to what end? I don't know. So let's hear what you have to say about that. Yeah, I mean, I didn't see. I wish I could have seen all the times in the past where she had said that, but I saw enough at the conversation about her saying that where she was like, well, I was there, I was at the table and it's just like, what

are you talking about? You? And then it did cut back to you ordering your drink talking about it, and then her say, oh, it's getting girl hukay okay, And you're like, kind of what in what world would she be one of the founders of it because she witnessed you tell her about it, I mean, and then you go on just she asked you about who you're dating, and you're telling you, why would you if someone who takes credit for something you mentioned that you cream up with,

how could you trust? I mean, it's it's so insane. I can't. Ramona verified too. It's funny because Ramona I swiped in on some guy in Turks on somebody else and the two of them have gone back and forth. But Luanne is the hall of fame. That girl, Like, she is that girl you do enter the Witness for Action program and you're dating something you don't even you just know that she's just gonna start because I can't explain.

Like more so, she will make a She will be the sniper and the red light on that person, even if she thought about that person. Yeah, I've had it happened. You're I'm talking to someone. She doesn't know who they are, but she thinks because I'm talking to them, they're probably some billionaire who has a plane, who's gonna buy her a big piece of jewelry. Yeah, like chill out. You almost want to like test it and like I'm like fell for this homeless guy just to see if she's like,

what are you talking about? Oh? Totally no, I'm to other people on the show, just tell um there's gonna be a bunch of billionaires there, Just telling me a bunch of rich guys there. So yeah, that's the type of person. I mean, I'm it's almost I would like to be friends with someone like Luanne because I liked I would like to see them try with my boyfriend because I just know he would never fall for that.

But it does. I always like enjoy when other women hit on or like try to get but it's my boyfriend. But it's it's just the it's just me though, and it's like, but you, I know she would go through with it if she could. That's so how could I ever call this person a friend? You just can't. And no, lonely, I mean I feel bad talking about someone like they're not a real person and like they're a character or something.

But she is such a character. I feel like I feel bad for her the person that she wasn't twenty sixteen or whenever. This was like it's lonely, like no one trusts you, but she's so she's so unaware of her the way her actions, there's no awareness where you are, you are immediately being aware of oh, my god, you're in the room upstairs, and let's not talk about even about even the interview later, where like months later, you have to reflect on it right away. You're going, that

was ugly. There's no awareness on her part. It's so frustrating. I can't spending a weekend with that, right. But she wants to clean it up for optics immediately, but it's just to do the cleanup. But it didn't happen. You know, No, it's not sincere she said you was insane. I know. But it's funny. There are people that start out on a show with bad behavior and continue that the whole way through, and they're in such a not perfect box that it doesn't matter what they do. It doesn't matter

because you have that reputation. If you don't have that reputation, you do one thing and everybody thinks you're a piece of shit. It's really amazing. I start out being that person everybody the countess like she just does that. Nobody cares. Yes, But if you are good all the time, like you know, just a normal person, then you have one freak out,

it becomes who you are more. So that's really interesting because it is what it's like it's a bit of nails, you know, like you just don't even notice it anymore with her like this is and you know what the flip side, she does something human or constable, like where she as nice and you go, she's amazing, Yeah, my god, like I I love her. She's done, she's done a

one eighty and you forgive so much more. It's so fascinating. Well, well, I don't need And it's funny because I thought I called her a horror and that's what came out because I've made that the game of telephone in the scene, I didn't I've maybe referred to I called her a slut and right, and I love how everyone was like, I would love to be called slut. Bromota is like, oh, I would love it, right, Oh my gosh. But what's well two things One to the point we were talking

about before about the bet and nails. In this episode, we find out that Luanne has called a human being a pedophile, and yet the slut shaming is seems way bigger an offense. I'm in way more trouble. She never gets in a big trouble for pedophile, except for by the person she called it to, which wasn't technically slut shaming. I was shaming the better than and not admitting and being hypocritical about being a slut. Yeah, you're listening. This is what you are, this is what you're about, this

is what you do, this is it. Yeah I didn't. It didn't feel slut shaming to me. But I'm sure you got the h a lot of gruff after that, like you are still probably people remember that moment because but you're right, she the pedophile thing that is so hurtful. And then Louianna hurts to dating someone who is twenty five. I go, wait, why is because Luianne just says, like you and me, She says whatever thing whenever she pops into her head, and there's no question of like, could

this be hypocritical? It's honestly an anomaly. Okay, So Louie Drenda calls me a sniper with the red dot, which I do enjoy me. I love that. It is kind of true. I just I was like, I'm gonna come fucking get you now. You started, I'm gonna kill you now. So yeah, and you're It's just like the one thing I worry about though, I would I would rather you come at me even though you're gonna be a sniper

and like hit me probably where it really hurts. You would probably tell me something true about myself if we got into an argument. But I would worry we're arguing or getting in a fight with someone like Louianne, who is gonna say like the meanest, most superficial like thing about like my Like I get is worried. I don't like to get into, you know, fights with people who I think are gonna like punch low I want by the way, she might say something who's not even true,

but then it's out there. It's like a bad divorce lawyer. You always want a good divorce lawyer because they're gonna at least fight fair. The bad ones are cowboys and they'll go do crazy shit and you can't deal with them. Yes, well, I mean you want you want a good one on you. Do you want a bad one on you? You You want to both. You want a good one on both sides for that reason. Just you want even though they're a great expect for the other team, and it's like a

good it's like Lebron and Michael Jordan or something. You want that because you're not it's not playing with someone who's half cocked and crazy. Like that's what you're effectively saying. You want like a good game, you know, like and there's not a lot of that going on in the house. Wise, No, there isn't to be scary and it's a hurt it could be hurtful, and you're absolutely right. I didn't even think about the context of like, Okay, this bitch shays

this thing that is a lie. It is crazy, and now it's what everyone's gonna no, no, or think or that's gonna be the truth. Like It's kind of relates to when I do ross and someone makes fun of me in a way, talk about like low blows, like makes fun of my looks in a way and says something about myself that only I've ever thought in private about myself, and then everyone laughs and you're like it's

out there now. So now I have people coming up to me being like hey, Owen Wilson, like now it's a thing that follows me, and I'm like, oh, you know, like they would have never seen it. That's why I don't like posting clips of my stand up on Instagram or YouTube, because it's what's on HBO Max or whatever.

I don't read. There's no comments for people who are watching it to read, because I think so often we get we figure out how we feel about something online by reading the comments first, or even if we watch it, we then read the comments and go, oh, actually, yeah, she is kind of a bitch in this. Like even me, and I'm a savvy consumer, I totally get side sidelined

and completely influenced by comments. And I think that that's that's why I They do give you a different point of view sometimes too, like if they're howl, yeah, totally, but they can steer it the wrong way. And do you as someone I mean, I'm sure you've answered this many times, as someone who's been in this kind of spotlight for so long, do you subject yourself to comments and criticism? How do you avoid it? What's your relationship with that? I think a lot of it's true. It's

the same thing if someone's just character assassinating. Oh you look old, It's like, okay, well I think I am getting older because the clock seems to be going around in circles today. But I do think some of it's constructive, and being on reality TV has in some ways been good for self reflection in that way, if you're able to deal with it. So And I don't think everybody who comments is a troll. I think you can kind of see through. But there are different breeding grounds that

are different. I do think that everybody. I think of it as like a parasite and the host, and when one thing happens and then something is said, all of the parasites run to that thing, and you kind of gotta not give it blood to suck off for a while, to let them just like calm down, because everybody comes in then and you think it's real. And I've been on I've been like very very close to cancelation, like whatever that means. But I've been like on the line

so many times. Shure, there's like a way to drive the car where you're not holding the steering wheel too tight or too LuSE you can't let go, but you can't like hold it too tight. You gotta just like kind of cruise the car at fifty five. Like, so pay attention to what they're saying. We don't pay too much attention. No, you can't live in there, head a visit there and then get the fuck out. What about

but these cancelation times. How do you censor yourself? Do you look back on those times and go, oh, I see what I did wrong there? I mean, as the businesswoman you are, I know your course correcting, but like or those are those totally like flukes, like it could happen anytime, So just not everything needs to be said, Like not everything needs to be said. So it's a lesson in life about when you want to go fuck

with some people or not if it's not necessary. But I don't like being a baby and being and not saying what I think. So I've really ridden and crossed that line many times. And in watching the show, do you is it hard for you to watch these shows? Or is it kind fun? No? It's so fun and so stupid. And I also find myself having a you know, affection for people that I didn't like while on the show because I don't think they were great housewise, but they seem like nice people. And we'll get into that

with Jewels. She seems like a lovely, sweet, defenseless girl. But she was like, you gotta get out of my way. We're playing all star here. We can't have babies, you know, Like I've had that Kristen was lovely. Takeman, but you're dealing with a bunch of pack of wolverines. You gotta get the fuck out of the way. We can't have like nice sweet people, all right, Well do you think do you think you do need those women though too be there as the like the just the witnesses to it. Yeah,

you gotta have a little like bring something to the table. Yeah, a little more like a little more than than that. You know, you can't just bring it once in a while. Like Tinsley's a perfect example. She she she's she's a nice person. She doesn't really gossip and talk badly that much, but like there's enough of ridiculous drama and her wearing some wedding dress that like trying at a wedding dress

and she's engaged. There's enough stuff there that she was decent. Yeah, other people are just like taken up a spot and we need good players on the team. That's how Yeah. Yeah, I was just texting with my mom because she's such a fan of you and the franchise and and I'm not I don't I've watched like the first season of New York and then I watched your spinoff shows like I followed you, but this I'm not familiar, you know, and I know all the characters pretty much just from

paying attention to people talking. But when I had my own reality show and I was just texting my mom because we were both on and I'm like, we just needed more of this, like we I wish ay at Lynn were still alive. I'm like, we needed more conflict, like and I wish I would have gone a little bit harder in that direction. I think I was just scared to be portrayed as a bitch, to have that side of myself seen, and it makes me want to like redo and like bring a little bit more conflict,

more realness. But I was just I think trying to like, no, exactly, you don't need it the alternative, so it could be so damaging that that's the line. And if you cross it, be in a different situation with your family. And yes, it's a challenging thing. You know. I just need to get some friends that I want to like, not be

friends with in two years. Yeah, exactly. So speaking, so, I noticed that there were a lot of like there was a lot of cancelation type talk that I didn't that we didn't think about then, so Carol says lou man and she says something later, but that's kind of like saying that Luan is really a man and it would that play today or No, I didn't clock it because I just thought it was so funny and it's

just like a you know, play on words. But yeah, I mean there's definitely because the implication is that I'm making fun of you right now you seem like a man a woman that is. Then yeah, I think that that would be that would be something that would get talked about. And it's so funny that like it isn't because it's not airing right now, but it's still out

there exactly. And I you know, it's rare to see Ramona where she's just like so perky and happy because the ship pile is not on her, Like she's so happy. And I do give her credit for like piling on about Tom too, because that's a good housewife. That's my point. She's not in the fray, so Jules doesn't try to get herself in the fray at all except for talking

about her father, you know, which was sad. But but Ramona is not even near the line of fire, which she will do all the time accidentally, and yet she's still like, let me come in here and fucking fun with you a little bit. Did so I respect a good housewife. That's a great house That's my point. Like you don't like Ramona. The thing is not every person is politically correct, like you have to have this show

reflect human beings, likable not likable. So that's why like Ramona, no matter what, is a good housewife and it was lovely, but was not a good housewife she I mean she the way I saw Ramona go into the kitchen with lu Anne and then get Luanne going because Luanne's going off on like this. It's not her birthday. There's a birthday cake right here, and she's going off and then ramo Oonah's calculate laughing in a way that I know

that laughter. It's like she's trying to egg lu Anne on, get Lunn's spirits back up, and then she gets in with the now you should text them. She's a great ringleader, a great housewife, a great game player, and just crazy. And what's funny is that? And this is my hand to god. I haven't been caught lying in this life let yet, So it's not gonna happen now. Ramona's the first one eight to talk about ratings. I didn't even understand what ratings were, like, I didn't think about them

because we weren't. They didn't allow us to know what they were because they wanted us to be like handmaids, you know in Bravo. But I'll be the same. We're in the same. But Ramona is the first person to like I was always just living and then wherever the camera was, the camera was, it was following us. Ramona will go over to the came like she's the first us to the cameras are over there, get the cat. She will say to a camera, bring the cameras over here.

And my life, I've never asked with the cameras to come somewhere. Like she's aware of where the camera is. And if you watch the grows to that lens, you'll see a Luanne is like that too, like they want to be they know they want to be in more scenes. Say yes, it's very funny. But I did see Tom. I was out for dinner, and I don't remember who I was out with, but I did see Ramona out on one of her famous dates with Tom. Maybe even twice, but definitely once. So that's well, they went out seven times,

is what she said. And to me, that is enough where you should maybe if you're a Luanne, check in with your friend and go, is it cool if I go out with this guy? And then she said half a doesn't. But I believe because I think I saw one to two of them and I knew about it.

But like, that's the Upper east Side sewage pot. They all just date each other and like they all hang out at the same desperate divorcee bars, and it's really very cliche, and that's a show like that little circuit, the Circuit the Upper east Side, so it could be called is a group of people, it's a little eight

it's like aged now, but yeah, that's a crew. Did you ever so you've dipped your toe in it and just seen it and gone ugh no. But I lived on the Upper Side in my like twenties and early thirties, so I knew the people and I knew it, but I always wanted to live downtown. It was just there was something about it up there. I was not a fan of. Let's just discuss Luanne going outside with jewels,

couldn't give a good funck about jewels dying. Father didn't even ask, like, you know, when you're like, oh, I'm sorry, can I get you any something? You know, someone's like I don't feel well. They're like in Chicago, you're on the phone, Hey can I order use some food? Like they don't have lubrets. Like it was saying something to say, did you know that they're not gonna actually take you up on it? Of course? Yeah, she can't even give

her that exactly. It was let me get the check, like that, they're not gonna be like none of this. She's just uh, she is a rare person, Like I just don't even understand. She's fascinating to watch, just having I don't know how she has friends. I don't know how she's has had relationships, And I just don't know how. I want to know how this person gets by on pure ego, which is all a deep underbelly of low self esteem, which is the irony of all of it.

Is like everything that she presents and projects is both like being you know, emotionally not that smart, but also really insecure and just but that moment, just not being able to even give her the smallest like oh, I'm so sorry, and I'm sorry that I'm going through that we've been going through something and our friend is going through something worse, and you throw them a bone, but you get back to your thing because you go, I know this is dumb, but but and I'm so sorry

because I know your father's sick and I shouldn't be so selfish, right, like some people just get away with being like that. And thank god she's a good housewife, you know. Yeah that we get to watch it, Yeah, thank you because it is actually and Drenda, it's so I love the calm before the storm stuff like Dorinda's look so calm. I'm just the host and everyone's so crazy around here and whatever. And then the cake and that's like a famous scene that in the moment seemed

like nothing. I wasn't even there. I don't think what was that? What was it about? You don't talk about my mom's cake. It's like, wait, what what are we witnessing? Well, because we've been drinking during the day now, and so you know, and then and this thing is escalating and you have no idea whether Dorinda is just like watching it all and then something happens it makes her feel sad. You could want to get in coach, put me in the coach. I've been benching myself. I want to get

in there in the fight. Like there could be twenty things. Alcohol could have just kicked, like so many things are going on. You're just like, but Drenda can snap like I reckon, you know how Dorinda can just like it's not sniper, I'm sniper with the red thing, which is more or like I'm gonna fuck you up right now and it's I'm premeditated. Durnda. Well, it's just like she's sitting there and she's just gonna snap. And it could

be you said something. But when Dorinda's when Luanne said to her in Coosta, I mean in Columbia years later about DNA Dorinda, she's turning or she's turning or something. It was that one little thing that just set Direnda off like oh okay. So it was just like about it doesn't matter what it is. It's like she's making fun a little yeah, like she said she's presenting this weekend is not about her birthday yet there's a birthday cake and she didn't like to be made fun of.

It involved her mom. I thought, maybe you're her mom made it and her mom sick or something. It was like, no, your mom bought it, and it was just like, why why did you care so much of the most cake your mom bought? And it's because she made fun of it a little, like she made fun And then it's like Drinda's defenseless mom, Like she made fun of the cake because it wasn't that cute of a cake. So then you're right, that's it, you know what it was? It was it was like she was embarrassed of her

mom's selection of cake. She was aware of it. She clocked it because she even mentioned, you can make fun of my decorations, which were all like corny and cheesy, much like the cake. But don't my mom did the cake. I didn't make fun of my cheesy shit. Don't make fun of my mom's taste, right, I was very confused by jewels is like weird snack bag. Like at Dorinda's house, it's a big house. She has a lot of food she made at night, like there was like a little

bad parcel of pretzels. But you know what, like I know I have friends who are like you know, in treatment and in recovery, and they have to have like their foods that they know are going to fit their meal plan and so it felt safe, safe, safe, And I mean I have I still have leftover things where I'm like, I have to bring these certain things because I don't know if they'll if I want to eat what they have, like just control and like but it was weird, yeah, yah, same, it just was. It was

a unique snack to war. But I'm sure it was like the kind of pretzel that is like the least amount of calorie and like you know what I'm saying, Like my pretzel it's like a like a rice flower pretzels. Yes, yes, like callow pretzels or something. I don't know. Now we get into the vagina and Sonya's I did never hear of trout mouth. Sonia is very set. Sonia and Ramona or Darnda but more Sonia Remota are very savvy about like procedures. Sonya had like the string thing she said,

polastic surgery. Ramona's had everything. The two of them. I have to say Carol's had some stuff too, could in that Carol knows a lot about a lot of it exactly. But the vagina like it's tightening. Yeah, I don't even know what they were exactly. I guess they were fixing the tightness she said, or the I know there's a lot of things you could do down there in terms of like there's just like a sagging that happens, because it's like there's could be stuff. I don't know exactly

what they were. I don't think it was like surgical sagging. I think it was like an overall tightening type of vagina, like like like like isn't is it called vagioplastica or do I make that? I think I made that up. Vaginaginal right right right? Um? Yeah, And then there's vaginal steaming. I don't really know. I mean I would definitely that's like steaming. I think a steam room and just like yeah, open your legs and plan. Uh yeah, I don't I

don't know. I just remember that one I got an O shot, which was like I got my They took like my blood and spun it in a little thing and then did the PRP and then injected it into my to like to make more blood blood flow down. That was fun. Yeah, but I don't know I would I would definitely get a tight, Like why wouldn't I get a tight? Like if they could stick a wand up there and and do some stuff and tighten it.

I'm I love procedures and stuff like this. I wouldn't get in on the three months or like that's they've only been doing it three months. I'd wait a little bit longer. Oh, I would also, I wonder if there's a thing like if you go on a plastic surgery tour, they'll tell you, like, oh, from your nose to your lippits that many millimeters and or your face has So it'd be nice to go on and be like, put that thing in and tell me how how my vagina

compares to Emily Radikowski's vagina. Yeah, let's just I don't even know what hers looks like. I'm guessing based on the rest of her body. Pretty perfect, pretty like peage and taught. Yeah, but I'd like to know, like, let's take a yacht, like, let's yes, how does it compare? How does stack up? I've done that with my my friends.

I've like whenever we're on girls trips, which we do like three times a year with my best friends from like my whole life, we always end up comparing our vaginas and kind of like see because you don't see other vaginas a lot as a woman, Like in the locker room. We're not like walking around. They're not hanging out like dicks are, right, but dick guys can always clock Dick's size and get an idea of where they

are in locker rooms. But girls, we don't know. So it is nice to see and compare and go, oh yeah, I do them a little bit more poking out than she does. But you're never the worst one. I mean, someone has to be or there's something that they have to get that surgery. It's very like it's like having an out lay, a plastic yes, yes, yes, yeah, yeah, so all right, but I you know, and I always it's like Sonia is the one washing her underwear in

her bidet and going to get her vagina tight. And you gotta love this is when people want to have a seed. You have a storyline like you're just gonna have to do it. You do the vagina thing, Sony, you got to own it right right right? Well, I feel like I look enough like Sonia, like I like what I like the work she's had done, even though she does have like a little plastic surgery face. I'm like, oh,

I probably had for that kind of luck eventually. Right, Well, I said that, you know something that I like when

I spoke about the plastic surgery tour. Yeah, I love that that you have to really decide what you want to look like that there's a woman who Lisa Hawks scene she's on Miami, which I haven't seen the show, but I've met her, and she was married to a plastic surgeon like you guess it's a boom guy but adjacent and she looked like a doll like every but it's like boom boom, but I it's not for me.

But like I look at her and I'm like, oh my god, that that that person has to like be decked every day and like do that king, You're right set sweatsuit doll? Look like you gotta who look? Yes, I think it's you're right. You have to. You can't have that face and wear just like sweats to you know, daddy's in a T shirt. You look weird? No, yeah you would. That's a good that's a good point. It is.

I think it's very risky to have these procedures and like because they can go so wrong, as we've seen, But I respect I think there's this culture of being like, why did she ruin her face? And I'm always just like, she's just trying to stay young and like ruined it. You're just not used to looking at it that way, Like, yeah, has work, for sure, but she looks good, and everybody

like you had good Chris Jenner. I think the Kardashians, some of it's a little alien like, but a lot of it's good work good And so I would take the chance of some and be like, oh, what did

she do to her face? She did plastic surgery, but like you did, meaning I have a friend who did it and you can't tell anything, and like I don't be able to tell him nothing like a little okay when you get a haircut and like no one know like notices you want someone to go you look great, like my friends that like convinced me to start getting stuff done, says no one ever notices is if it's subtle enough, But they always just say, like you look amazing,

Like you just get more compliments about how well rested you looked, or like you're glowing or like you know certain things that but I definitely want to see the results. And I always think my nose is getting bigger and say age as your nose and ears do. And I was recently teliating to my girlfriend's while like I just want to maybe get a tiny nose job to get back to the way it was when I remember my nose being like it's just grown a little bit more

in the last five years. And they're just like they kind of want to do it too, but they're scared too, and they don't want you to. If you do it, then I'll have to do it and we all have to have this perfect nose. And it's like, I don't know, and if you sold out people that want I tell these stories on my garin, I sold out, Like did I say, do you are you? Are you vain? Yes? I mean I no, I can be, like I can be,

I can. I grew up with a really pretty sister and I was like the ugly sister, if you know, between us, and so I grew up with a sister that was younger than me that all the guys that were my age liked, and like I just grew up hearing your sister's beautiful in front of me all the time, where it was like they wouldn't even think to not say it in front of me because I'm so not as beautiful as her that it couldn't hurt her feeling she's a boy or like you just it was like

and it was so funny. Family, that's a good yeah. I mean I that that's what made me. My sister's a school teacher, doesn't want any kind of fame, any kind of phrase from the outside world, and I'm desperate for it, um and that's why I think it led me to have this kind of career. But it was so interesting and I hate to even bring this up because it was such an embarrassing moment. But I was at lunch this weekend with my girlfriend and this guy that was like working at the counter of this vegan

place we went to. We were like, oh, he's cute, and he was young, but we were like, oh my god, if we were ten years younger, we'd have a crush. And he came over and he asked my friend out in front, like and I got sucked. I didn't even I wasn't even attracted this guy. I have a boyfriend.

I don't want to be asked out. It's awkward. I got so hurt that he that, Yeah, it was almost like, I in my mind, he's thinking I could do this in front of that other girl because she's so not as attractive as her friend that she wouldn't even think I would ever talk to her, right, But really it could have been many. He could have just been more. He's more. Yeah, yeah, exactly, but I may And I wouldn't tell my friend at the time because it's so

embarrassing to have this feeling. And so I texted my other friend who's like, you know, we work on therapy stuff, and I'm like, I'm having this response. This is so ridiculous. And I was there for my friend because she was so excited. She's like married and like feels like washed up a little bit, and she's like, oh my god, this twenty five year old kid thought I was thirty and like, because he was like, I think you're probably

five years older than me. She goes, you think at thirty, and so it was like this moment she was so excited. She there's no part of her rubbing it in my face, but I just took it so personally, and it's so in those ways I think, yeah, I am vain, like why do I need that? And it discussed me about myself. And there are other times where I get so relieved

when I don't care about what I look. When I have those moments of like because like you said, when people go, oh, you look old, Oh I'm so sorry I aged, Like, yeah, there's nothing wrong with aging, so I want to feel you know. That's like what my you know, hour of comedy about that I'm on the road with now is really about. Is like grappling with this idea of like I can't wait to age because I can't wait to give up, and like not give up,

but like interest then worry about my face. It's I've never been vain because I had a mother who like what was gorgeous, but she went to everywhere and like overalls and never were a makeup, So yeah, I never It's only about like preventative, and if it's something I would ever want to do, I don't want to do it late because then you have to do more. But I keep all right, so ah yeah, because that's the problem. If you wait, it's more to do shows more and

it lasts less time. So for me, it's about always about logic, about like locking the door if you think you're gonna yeah, yeah, okay, so Andy Cohen described this show as um like being in the Berkshires is a drawing room comedy, like to me personally, And I love that because you're hearing all these I love the way

they're shooting it, and it's just in one house. You're hearing all these conversations in different rooms, and there's eavesdropping that's happening in real life, like you can hide in a closet. It's like a game of clue. It was.

It was incredible and I love that. Like Ramona keeps saying to Luan, who has already called someone a pedophile and already tried to steal someone's idea, who has you know, done a thousand things on the show that are horrifying and certainly the opposite of class that Ramona keeps saying, Well, no, you should apologize. I mean, you're the countess likes it?

What is I mean? You are assigned like I'm the joker, Like you are assigned a title that that like now you're supposed to You're from Connecticut, You're not from like you're Europe. You're not friends you know, you're not connected to Kate Middleton, Like why are you supposed to have more decorum than anyone else. It's so stupid. I hate like that. It was so funny when they cut to a clip of you even saying that to her, of like what class with the countess? Like do you have

more class? Because you all right, I don't even understand this, Like but Ramona, that's her at work, being the perfect puppet master of like do this, like I know how to get Luanne to do anything. A countess would do this behavior, stay stay up with your countess behavior. So she's just like she knows exactly what Luane needs to hear, which is this dumb title she's given herself that seems to give her some sort of pride and identity that and that makes her feel better than everyone else and

gives her a periority. Yeah, it worked because her big line as well, when someone's like you're not you're not married him, and he's like, well this queen Latief is not a queen, that's her like yeah, oh god. She was so excited when someone gave that to her. She probably because there's no way she thought of that on her own. No, but I know the day that someone said that, she goes, oh, I'm writing that that is good. That's good. I'm writing it down and like memorized. It's like, okay,

get another example. Doctor Dre's not a real doctor. I'll give her that one, right, she just needs to mix it up, have more examples. I was a very good speller, and I was cringing when no one spelled pedophile, like I am not just saying I used to with it, like it's not that like pedophile, that's like that was embarrassing, and she's arresting. I'm so glad you won't pointed that out because that was such a hilarious moment. I'm like, you don't know a pedophile or start with a p, like,

let's just get give me a letter? Yeah, I do bad away yes, And then the housewives apology, I am sorry that you misunderstood what I may have miscommunicated like this, I don't yeah, and Ramona is like she didn't misunderstand. I love of that. Yes, Ramona had your back so hard and even like saying like, well, Bethany smart, keep putting. I love how they were trying to make their text to you smart. So by doing that, they re used the word misunder they thought misunderstood was like a real

smart word. So they used it twice in their in their in their text to you to be like, so Bethany, she'll get this because like it's one smart girl. That was right, thank you. That wasn't very intelligent. So funny that you're so right about the housewife apology, which I've even had to tell my mom, like apologies aren't First of all, apologies don't have the word. But like at the end of them, there's no or you, you or you, and I think it's like just those apologies. And she

was so proud of herself. Luanne was so proud of herself for sending those. Oh she's because she's the bigger person, but that was I mean, she's so everything. I just don't know how this will I would love. There's probably that like envies this delusion. Well, I want to not because I don't want people to, Yeah, you want to go in for one scene and just put me in coach, and so do I, but I wouldn't do it for any amount. Well I want to do I envied lu

AM's delusion being that you know, ignorance is bliss. And it seems pretty like she seems to be having a good time thinking she's right all the time. So you're the writer, you're the comedian. In closing this crazy shit show, I want to know your favorite, just your rose and your thorn of the episode, Like the best line, the worst, or who won or who lost? Is that kind of thing? I mean, man, there was My best line was you saying I'm gonna crack her over the head with an

antler and then you go, I'm smash her. That was just the word choice as a comedian was so spot on. The randomness, like you've never heard that insult before you got it? And then the low point. Man, it was this was a great episode. I mean, is this episode one of like do people talk about it reference it often? I mean, is it one of the best in your opinion?

Because I think it's an excellent episode. And I'm going to tell you something as a as an efficient business person who likes an ROI we could go on a

plan I always like the trips. We go to Miami, we take a two and a half hour flight where there are two days burned that place to the ground, come out and we get the same amount of episodes as them taking us to Israel on an eleven hour flight, and we have to do all the ship with these people that we don't want to be with, and we didn't see Israel and we hate like it wasn't a good trip. So the efficiency of the Berkshires with more than one episode in the same house, don't have to

do a location change, don't forget a minivan. It's just for me. It's so good, it's so concentrated. So I like that. The low point for me was you sadly opening your little pajamas that trenda got you on your bed and then putting them to the side, and just I saw you in your head going like, well, that's I'm not taking that home now. Beth to get rid of these fucking pajamas in some way, she's gonna have to like donate that, Like I don't know where I

want to really, what did it say? I'd say something. It's it's something Christmas themed pajama that I think Darrenda probably got them. It's a cute idea. You probably all got the same pair. They're little goofy striped. But I just saw you laying them out on the bed and I just go, Bethany's gonna have to take those back. Then She's gonna have to like tell someone like, hey, we gotta take some things to Goodwill, like it just

is a pajamas and it's just done. You get a gift and you're like, this is a this is a job. Thank you, but this is now gonna be work for me and um, and that was the low play for picture. Yes, yes, that's why I struggle with that when people send you free stuff and you don't literally don't like it, like you just I guess to be honest, you just go thank you for this. That's not saying you like it or don't like it, but if you like something. Um, but I really want to say before we go, thank

you so much for all of the makeup. I've always been buying all my makeup at Walgreens. I like, don't ever, I've always been doing drug store makeup, and you have just exacted my game. Like we we have some of the same overlaps where I've been like, yes, wet and wild do we found Oh my god, it's it's the best. It's the best. But you, I mean, you've turned me on. Me and my friends send each other your things and

I go, I got it, I just got it. I got this one like I put on so I would say at least five or six items in my makeup bag that are my regular things. And I right, Like my favorite think about it is the people in the comments are like, oh my god, you were right. Like I'm not lying, I'm not being paid ninety nine point. I think that I think I'm getting good at this. Like I think I'm right. I'm sure Walgreens has approached you.

You should do a part. I mean they should because now it's there's no there's no chance even if you got sponsored, that you would be leading us astray, Like you can always find something that would be great, but you, I really, it's such a good market you've cornered on, just like the like, let's call out this bullshit of paying eighty dollars for a fucking primer that is the same as a four dollar one, Like it's just even not that though, but primer is moisture, like going even

deeper bronze or his eyeshadow and blushes. I didn't know that highlights all the same. Yeah, I didn't know that. It's so or a circle. You're you're you're doing so much. I just think for women's budgets and like self esteem of like just something. But you're not missing out. It's the same shit, Yeah you're not and you and and and watching someone like you that could afford all that

stuff going like I'm not I'm being savvy. I'm not spending fucking forty dollars on this eyeshadow that I don't need. It's it's so refreshing. So oh yeah, they're and you just always you're so cool, You're funny. It's it's it's inspiring those videos just like the casualness of it, but like the directness and the way you talk is just hilarious. I mean, you're I study your word choice. It's like

comedian level of funny. So I just did give you. Yeah, you're really quick, and you very much could have been a comedian if you wanted to be. Oh, I believe me. It's a side dream of mine. Um, I feel the same way about you, and I want to like be friends and get together. Some day I'll be a comedian. Yeah, one day. Only help, Like what I hope I get to be a comedian one day? Um, let's get together. I would love it. I would love it. It would

be so fun. All right, Bye Nicky Bye, Athany, thank you, Bye,