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Jillian on Love

Jillian Turecki | QCODEqcodemedia.com
Let’s build healthier and more fulfilling romantic relationships. Jillian is on a mission to teach people how to completely transform their love life, and where you start is by addressing the relationship you have with yourself.  Whether you’re looking to strengthen the relationship you’re in, heal your heartbreak and choose better partners, develop a stronger sense of self, or move away from dysfunctional patterns into highly functioning ones this show is for you. Jillian Turecki is a certified relationship coach, teacher and writer who for 20 years has guided others on journeys toward fulfilling relationships. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ~~ Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her website at www.jillianturecki.com ~~ Jillian On Love is brought to you by QCODE.  To advertise on the show, contact us!

Episodes

Boundaries: "Special" Friendships Outside of Your Relationship.

In this unique episode, Jillian answers a listener's complex question about what she should do if she feels threatened by one of her partner's friendships. What Jillian says might surprise you, and it will definitely help you navigate how to approach this and similar circumstances in your own relationship or future partnership. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentio...

Jun 19, 202334 minSeason 1Ep. 42

How to Sustain Physical Attraction in a Relationship

In this powerful episode, Jillian dares to go where other's don't. She explains the habits and things we do unconsciously that impact physical attraction and desire. With both compassion and sense of humor, Jillian shares what we need to stop doing and start doing if we want to remain attracted to each other in a committed relationship. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resourc...

Jun 12, 202346 minSeason 1Ep. 41

How to Repair With Your Partner

The health and vitality of a relationship rests heavily on our ability to repair after an argument and disconnection. In this episode, Jillian breaks down "the repair process" she has helped hundreds of couples use to restore connection, peace and harmony in their relationships. Note that you can apply this to ANY relationship, ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentio...

Jun 05, 202340 minSeason 1Ep. 40

The Truth About Chemistry

In this much awaited episode, Jillian breaks down sexual chemistry. She discusses what it is, the difference between healthy chemisty and unhealthy chemistry, and what to consider if your "picker" is off so you can re-wire yourself for healthy love. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on...

May 29, 202356 minSeason 1Ep. 39

A Relationship's Impact on Our Mental Health

The quality of our lives are determined by the quality of our relationships. Strong relationships make us strong, and weak, unhealthy relationships make us sick. In honor of Mental Health Awareness Month, Jillian discusses the impact of relationships on our mental well-being, when to leave the situation-ship, what to consider before beginning couple's work, and her tried and true tips and strategies for nurturing mental health. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at he...

May 22, 202358 minSeason 1Ep. 38

The Chaser and The Runner: the Pattern that Destroys a Relationship Part 2

Jillian shares Part 2 of one of her most popular episodes: The Chaser and The Runner. How do two people who love each other get trapped in a pattern of anxiety and avoidance? How can they break free of it? Jillian shares the truth about this dynamic and how easily it can erupt between two people. Get ready to learn things about this pattern you have never learned before. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on App...

May 15, 202342 minSeason 1Ep. 37

Mother's Day Special: The Mother Archetype and the decision to not have a child.

In honor of Mother's Day, Jillian dedicates this episode to all the women who have decided - for various reasons, not to become a mother and to those who cannot. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitter: @JillianTurecki Visit her...

May 08, 202335 minSeason 1Ep. 36

A Look Inside Vanderpump Rules: Tom and Arianna - JOL + Unlock

As a special treat for our listeners we're unlocking an episode of JOL +. Jillian shares her perspective on the recent cheating scandal in Bravo's popular reality TV show, Vanderpump Rules. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jillianturecki Tik Tok: @jillian.turecki Twitte...

May 04, 202327 min

A Mature Relationship: 3 Skills to Master Your Love life

A healthy and secure relationship is a mature relationship. Yet, why do so many people struggle to create this? In this powerful episode, Jillian teaches that it boils down to 3 main skills that we need to practice and develop if we want to master our love loves and have healthier relationships. Get out the pen and paper - get ready to learn a lot! ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon ...

May 01, 202341 minSeason 1Ep. 35

From Rock Bottom to Thriving: A story of transformation with Doug Bopst

Jillian interviews Doug Bobst, a former felon and drug addict who transformed his life. Today he is an award winning personal trainer, author, speaker and podcaster. His story from victim to hero and the unlikely guide who helped him transform is one that will both touch and inspire you. Plus, Jillian coaches him on his love life! Not to be missed. Doug Bobst Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/dougbopst/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC1xly1FdiIE2s8c5wUr2dgw Podcast: https://podcast...

Apr 24, 20231 hr 9 minSeason 1Ep. 34

Ghosted: The Dark Side of Dating

In this powerful episode, Jillian discusses ghosting and online dating. She clarifies what ghosting is (and isn't) why she believes it's on the rise, why people do it, and what to do to protect yourself from it as well as what to do IF it happens. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on I...

Apr 17, 202344 minSeason 1Ep. 33

The Myth of The Conscious Relationship

"Conscious Relationship" and "Conscious Partner" seem to be what everyone is looking for these days. People are sick and tired of being ghosted, toxic relationships, and feeling under valued by love interests. But what exactly is a conscious relationship? What does it mean to be a conscious partner? Is it just another fairtytale ideal we have projected onto the complicated reality of love and partnership? In this detailed episode, Jillian explores this phenomenon, busts myths, and explains what ...

Apr 10, 202347 minSeason 1Ep. 32

The Silent Destroyer of A Relationship

In honor of Stress Awareness Month, Jillian describes the impact of stress and chronic negativity on a relationship's health. Almost all relationship problems are at the ROOT caused by our consistent reaction to the stressors in our lives. Stress, or how we react to stress has the power to end relationships that could have lasted. In this powerful episode, Jillian gives actionable and practical steps to manage stress better so that you can prevent it from sabotagng your current or future relatio...

Apr 03, 202347 minSeason 1Ep. 31

Surviving Infidelity and How to Grow as a Couple: Kerrilynn and John

Many of us do not have examples of enduring love. Kerrilynn and John and been married for almost 30 years, having met when they were young, wild, and immature. They did everything that we're not "supposed" to do in the beginning, and yet, they were able to get through the toughest of circumstances and heal their trauma, together. In this powerful episode, Jillian goes deep with couple who truly represent what it means to love and grow. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the sh...

Mar 27, 202356 minSeason 1Ep. 29

The Truth about Love-Bombing

Love-bombing is a popular term in the current zeitgeist, but what does it actually mean, and what do you need to do and NOT do, to prevent it ftrom happenig to you? What Jillian shares about this dating phenomenon will surprise you. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @jill...

Mar 20, 202327 minSeason 1Ep. 30

Ending the cycle of toxic and abusive relationships

In this powerful episode, Jillian outlines the differences between unhealthy relationships and abuse, and how BOTH present similar patterns. She shares some of the signs of relationship toxicity and what it means to value honor and respect in a relationship. Jillian also shares her personal story with an abusive partner, and the hard truths one must face within themselves to heal from an abusive or unhealthy relationship. Episode Resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline Hours: 24/7. Languag...

Mar 13, 20231 hrSeason 1Ep. 29

Lewis Howes on Transforming your Self-Doubt and Trauma into Internal Peace

Jillian welcomes Lewis Howes, New York Times best-selling author, keynote speaker, industry-leading show host, and former pro-athlete, to the podcast. Their conversation will guaranteed inspire you! Lewis vulnerably shares his journey from feeling stuck, insecure and filled with-doubt to the freedom of self-acceptance and internal peace that is his emotional center of gravity today.The relationship we have with ourselves has tremedous influence over the relationship we have with others, and Lewi...

Mar 06, 20231 hr 21 minSeason 1Ep. 28

When Your Partner is Depressed: What to do to help them AND yourself

One of the most frequently asked questions Jillian receives is: "How do I help my depressed partner?" Although every situation is different and each circumstance is unique and nuanced, Jillian explains what are some of the things you can do AND stop doing if your siginificant other is struggling with a bout of depression. What you'll learn in this episode will likely surprise you. Episode Resources: https://www.mentalhealth.gov https://mentalhealthhotline.org/ ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @j...

Feb 27, 202319 minSeason 1Ep. 27

From Single and Lost to Marriage with Anna Goldstein

Anna Goldstein is an OG coach, having been in the business long before it was trendy. She was also Jillian's first coach, and without Anna, Jillian wouldn't be where she is today. In this riveting episode, Jillian and Anna discuss how Anna went from being completely lost in life and love to finding purpose and a life partner. They get real about the ups and downs of long term relationship, and how we can bring more self-awareness and minfulness to partnership. Whether you're single or have been ...

Feb 20, 20231 hr 17 minSeason 1Ep. 26

Surviving Valentine’s Day Heartbroken: How to let go of your ex and move on

It’s unfortunate that Valentine's Day triggers loneliness in so many people, and it can be particularly difficult for those who are trying to get over a relationship that ended. Jillian dedicates this episode to helping all the people who feel rejected, who are stuck obsessing over someone, and who are struggling to let go and move on. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resource...

Feb 13, 202333 minSeason 1Ep. 25

The Art Of Choosing The Right Partner

In this powerful episode, Jillian shares the 10 most critical steps to choosing the right match for you that when followed, is guaranteed to help you. If you're single and tired of always dating, loving and attracting the "wrong" people, this episode could change your life. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations ...

Feb 06, 202329 minSeason 1Ep. 24

Relationship Anxiety: How to Overcome it

Relationship anxiety is at an all time high, and it's not just related to attachment styles. Sometimes, the anxiety is so intense, we get trapped in obsessing, rumination and doubt. Fear of abandonment, commitment, rejection and intimacy are all part of relationship anxiety as is "anxious attachment" and "avoidant attachment" styles. In this profound episode, Jillian breaks down what relationship anxiety is and how to start to heal it. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the sh...

Jan 30, 202351 minSeason 1Ep. 23

Relationship Trouble: How to restore connection and save your relationship

Nothing is more stressful than relationship trouble. Nothing keeps us up at night filled with anxiety than being in a relationship that is struggling. In this episode, Jillian explains in detail the 3 biggest reasons why most relationships end and how to prevent it from happening to yours. This episode is a free couples session - but even if it's just you listening to it, it will help immensely. Ps - If you're single, this will give you temendous leverage for your next relationship! ~~ Follow th...

Jan 23, 202346 minSeason 1Ep. 22

Dating with a chronic illness with Jillian Tuchman

In this episode, Jillian speaks to Jillian Tuchman, a brilliant functional medicine dietitian and trauma coach who helps those with chronic conditions heal and reclaim their lives. Her work focuses on the nervous system and the role of emotions -specifically shame, on our physical states. Both Jillians discuss the impact of shame on dating and our love lives and how to date with more confidence. Jillian Tuchman Website: www.workyourgenes.com Instagram: @JillianTuchman Links for waitlists: Dating...

Jan 16, 202356 minSeason 1Ep. 21

How To Actually Love Yourself and Raise Your Self-Worth

How we feel about ourselves determines the quality of of our lives. And, how we feel about ourselves is reflected in our romantic relationships. Jillian discusses how we all fear that we are not enough in some way, and a large part of our life's work is to learn to feel more secure in who we are and in what we want. She defines self-love as the ability to accept ourselves in spite of not always liking ourselves, the ability to forgive ourselves when we have done something we are not proud of, an...

Jan 09, 202357 minSeason 1Ep. 20

10 steps to a better relationship with yourself and your partner in 2023

After 20 years of working with people, Jillian shares her top 10 most necessary changes and cotemplations most people need to consider to strengthen their relationship with themsleves and with their current (or future) partner in 2023. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in the show at the Jillian on Love Recommendations Follow Jillian Turecki on Instagram: @j...

Jan 02, 202339 minSeason 1Ep. 19

JOL + Unlocked - Listener Questions: Am I making the right choice? How do I trust again?

Happy Holidays from Jillian. In the spirit of giving, we are unlocking a taste of the Jillian On Love Plus subscription. Jillian On Love + gives listeners exclusive episodes including meditations, audience questions and deep dives into relationship topics. Sign up today for even more Jillian content via the links below. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Email the show at [email protected] Subscribe to Jillian on Love+ on Apple Podcasts or Patreon Find Resources mentioned in t...

Dec 26, 202219 minSeason 1Ep. 18

The Chaser and the Runner: The Pattern that Destroys a Relationship

The chaser and the runner, the pursurer and the distancer, the anxious and the avoidant. The push and the pull. This pattern is one of the most common patterns in a relationship and it causes an immense amount of suffering. Jillian teaches that this cycle goes beyond attachement theory and describes how our needs for both connection AND autonomy are the reason behind everyone will struggle with this cycle many times throughout their love lives. ~~ Follow the show on Instagram: @jillianonlove Ema...

Dec 19, 202251 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Over-coming childhood trauma, mindfulness, and learning how to be in a relationship with Cory Allen

In this episiode, Jillian speaks with Cory Allen, meditation teacher, podcaster, audio engineer and author of "Now Is The Way". Cory overcame some pretty heavy childhood trauma through educating himself on psychology and neuroscience and teaching himself to meditate. Through years of rigorous self-examination and a determination to thrive, he worked hard to unlearn patterns that were a result of the trauma he endured. We talk about his journey, which includes his relationship with his wife -whic...

Dec 12, 20221 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 16

The Uncomfortable Truth about Family and Being Triggered during the Holidays

In this episode about family dynamics and relationships, Jillian goes super deep into healing parental wounds, and why so many people get triggered when they go home for the holidays. Jillian then shares a very personal story about overcoming triggers and rage as well as a story from when she was 19 and not listening to her mother's advice on a toxic boyfriend. This is a must listen for everyone, regardless if you're a parent or not and regardless if you are home for the holidays or not. ~~ Foll...

Dec 05, 202237 minSeason 1Ep. 15