Ever wonder why some people (maybe even yourself) find themselves remaining put in relationships, which can be toxic and even severely abusive? Though there’s so much more to consider, this clip gives Betrayal Trauma in simple terms and helps to understand the not-so-understandable.
This short excerpt provides more phrases commonly used in the cyclic behaviors of Narcissistic Abuse in family, romantic, and associative (friendships) relationships.
PTSD (Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) Is classified as an emotional & physical reaction to occurrences/situations that are similar to past traumatic experiences. PTSD is a triggered reminder of a past traumatic experience that has not been healed or handled with the care of professional/emotional help. If left unattended, it can create self destructive behaviors, trigger depression, and even influence suicide. Often people “numb” by creating illusionary environments that distract them from t...
Although it’s believed Narcissism is found more in men, opposed to women, Female Narcissists are undetectable due to their extremely covert tactics. Which leads me to believe, how can one generalize a gender, when covert behaviors are utilized?
In this clip, I give some of the characteristics of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and how the signs mimic Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Please be sure to check out Intuitive Vibez Narc Survival 101 on YouTube for up to date content and our weekly lives.
In this clip I discuss the reality of the dynamics between the Narcissist & The new supply. It’s not what most victims believe. Please be sure to check out more content on my YouTube channel: Intuitive Vibez Narc Survival 101
A lot of victims of Narcissistic Abuse have wondered why, after all is said and done, why a Narcissist would go Silent. In this clip, I (joined by my best friend Amanda) give a few reasons why a Narcissist would go silent, after a discard.
So many have become aware regarding Narcissism, Narcissistic Personality Disorder & Narcissistic Abuse. But what if the person (or people) you’re dealing with isn’t a Narcissist? What if who you thought was a Narcissist, is really something else? In this clip we’ll go over the different types of personality disorders and how many can get them confused with Narcissism
After enduring one of the most painful and traumatic experiences one can have with a Narcissist, one often wonders... will they EVEN apologize and if they do, are they being genuine?
Many stay in relationships with emotionally unavailable people b/c they think they can change them or teach them how to properly love/treat them, while there are people walking this same earth, who have not only been taught, but have learned with life that happiness and love come from WITHIN, and are passing them by b/c they’re focused on trying to “fix” someone else. If you choose to take on this RESPONSIBILITY (because that’s what that is) understand you are making room for disappointment.
******Advisory: Explicit Language****** These people are not worth your time, energy, or effort. They will drain you of everything and STILL blame you for running on empty, STILL hold YOU accountable for their nonsense, and STILL have you looking a fool if you think blind loyalty is what’ll make the boo boo better. Heed the signs.
After a heartbreaking, gut wrenching discard, most would think victims of Narcissistic Abuse would NEVER return to the person(s) who degraded them, demeaned them, and discarded them. Unfortunately, this is farthest from the truth and in fact, a lot of victims end up returning to the abuser (some more than once).
It’s common for Narcissists to have people (exes) they’ve dated in their surroundings as “Friends” because Narcissists like to recycle. Whether they be Covert or Inverted, If/when supply is running low, Narcissists will keep exes in their surroundings, to fuel them. Be mindful of those who have exes/past partners as friends, as they may play a bigger, more deceptive role than you think.
*Some Explicit Language In this clip, I give MY three rules on how I manage to acquire the dynamics I need in my life and maintain the peace I deserve. Anyone who has experienced Toxic Relationships and/or Narcissistic abuse, though they can find it difficult to achieve, they know the importance and imperativeness of having and maintaining peace in their life. People of Narcissistic nature will have victims believing: 1. Their mimicking behaviors are the abuser’s true nature 2. The victims are m...
(With my Discard as an example) A discard can be UNBELIEVABLE because you literally do not recognize the person who, in your entire relationship, told you they loved you, promised to (in so many words) to be kind, gentle, loyal, decent, and most importantly... respectful. As a victim, this common mistake can make or break how your future relationships turn out.
A narcissist is very coherent in their decisions and it’s primarily due to the IDEA that they will get what they want and will get away with the deceitful actions committed. Being self absorbed and self serving, they know what they are doing is wrong, they simply do not care. It’s all about their needs and desires... everyone else is nothing but a warehouse of supply.
For most who’ve endured Narcissistic Abuse, a lot of people hear certain phrases and terminology, yet are not quite sure what it means. In this video, I give you some of the phrases and examples of these phrases, to help with understanding. Terms in Video: 1. Triangulation 2. Flying Monkeys 3. Gaslighting 4. Supply 5. Narcissistic Discard 6. Deflection 7. Negging
If you’ve gone through the motions (discard) with a Narcissist, please understand their family was fake from the jump! The Narc has been the victim of abuse, manipulation, gaslighting, gossip, shame, etc... by people of their own dynamic.. trust me, you will be no different. Please do not attempt to reach out to them, thinking they care... THEY DON’T!!!
Whether the Narcissist is a family member or romantic partner, they will stoop to the lowest levels to keep their victims stuck or even trap them, to maintain all sorts of control.
People can change, right? They can work on becoming better individuals. What about a Narcissist? Well... let’s see... How does someone, who believes everyone external to them is the problem, and not themselves, change?
What happens when a Narcissist fails in their “endeavors”? When they’ve been found out or rejected? Or when they simply run out of fuel? Listen in...
“The Narcissist’s Secret Fears” Most wonder if people, who feel entitled and are completely egotistical, have any fears. If people who feel the need to be “perfection” in the eyes of others, and feel they can “do no wrong”, is it possible they could have fears... Answer: yes! Narcissists not only have fears, but fear others knowing about these fears, as it would be revealing their weaknesses. In this clip we learn some of their fears, what exposure does, and deciphering narcissists in your surro...
“A son is a prince raised, with the loving, devoted care of his mother, to become a King... who will attract his loving devoted Queen” Unfortunately, a son of a Narcissist will have a long, burdensome journey of endless toxic cycles before he can ever accomplish that, let alone appreciate that. With the length of toxicity and abuse, the son is liable to attract toxic women (codependent - narcissist / narcissist - narcissist relationships) because the leading woman of his life laid the toxic foun...
Narcissists do not know love... but they sure as hell know OBSESSION.. especially when they’ve lost control. If they want to be “part of your life”, it simply means they want power and control in your life.
She’s entitled She’s one sided She’s insulting She’s demeaning She’s quick to anger She’s about image It’s her way or the highway... She’s the DEVIL!!!
Not only giving a reminder as to how these females are, but informing those who are not sure. Female narcissists are extremely damaging, manipulative, and down right con artists. Their “persona” is just that... these people are just so malicious, internally envious, and feel the world should drop to their feet. Don’t fall for their “humble” demeanor, as they are utilizing a false mask for their own personal gain
“The Beginning” This story was a tough one to make because it meant reliving the events, re-feeling the pain, and tempering myself so that I’m not triggered. I attempted to make this story 2 times and both times, I went into emotional discord. However... I needed to get it out. Someone needed to know they’re not crazy, they’re not “unloveable”, and they’re not doomed. Speaking from a humble space, a torn heart, and devotion to help others... This is my story...
Narcissistic personality disorder derives from a narcissistic environment. In Healthy family settings each member plays a role based on the dynamics. In a narcissistic family, a member is given a role based on the mood and manipulation integrated by the narcissistic member who holds the most “control”. The family (cast) is as follows: 1. The Narcissist (Tyrant) 2. The Enabler/Codependent (supporter) 3. The Flying Monkeys (Manipulated band wagoners) 4. The Golden Child (idealized child) 5. The Sc...
After all the damage that was said and done, they want to keep you as a “friend”, failing to mention the reasons why. Narcissists are known for keeping a harem (group of people sharing one person) of their exes in a friend zone as a form of “tangible” use. They use a friendship as a cover up for their REAL agenda, which is to use you whenever and however way they can; especially if supply has reduced or they are yet again bored with whom they are involved with. Narcissists have a number of their...
It’s not new that narcissists and those who are extremely narcissistic, can be very egotistical and selfish. But ever wonder what they do when they think no one is looking? In this video, we go over what Narcissists do when they think no one is looking. The following is described: 1. They go through your personal things (all relationships) 2. Numerous dating profiles (romantic relationships) 3. Contact exes through social media (romantic relationships) 4. They try to turn friends & family ag...
