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Intuitive Vibez Narc Survival 101

Erica G Sanchez
Discussions about the everyday issues we face with romantic relationships, family dynamics, and mental health issues. Intuitive Vibez is a place where we dissect the problems, get down to the nitty gritty, and help people to not only understand, but evolve. For more info, please check out my YouTube channel www.YouTube.com/intuitivevibez
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Sons of Narcissist Mothers

“A son is a prince raised, with the loving, devoted care of his mother, to become a King... who will attract his loving devoted Queen” Unfortunately, a son of a Narcissist will have a long, burdensome journey of endless toxic cycles before he can ever accomplish that, let alone appreciate that. With the length of toxicity and abuse, the son is liable to attract toxic women (codependent - narcissist / narcissist - narcissist relationships) because the leading woman of his life laid the toxic foun...

Oct 16, 202012 min

Daughters of Narcissist Mothers

A child of a narcissist will either develop narcissistic traits or codependency issues and can even develop C-PTSD (Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder) as a result of psychological abuse. Explained in the video: 1. Abuse 2. Emotional unavailability 3. Control 4. Competition The dynamics between a mother and child should be filled with unconditional love, emotional support, empathy, devotion, understanding, and trust. We owe them the right to have loving, long lasting and healthy connections,...

Oct 12, 202015 min

The Narcissist Mother (Pt. 3 of 3)

The final chapter for the objectives/behaviors of the narcissist mother. Depending on where she lies on the spectrum (mild to severe), a Narc mother may carry some, most or all of the traits/behaviors and behaviors may be overt (easily recognized) or covert (undetectable). Regardless... toxic is toxic! • • Behaviors in video As follows: 12. She Has to be The Center of Attention 13. She’s Childish & Petty 14. She “Parentifies” 15. She’s NEVER wrong 16. She Blames 17. She Terrorizes

Oct 03, 202011 min

The Narcissist Mother Pt. 2 of 3

A continuation from “The Narcissist Mother pt. 1” • • * A Narc parent will likely create two types of children: - A child with NPD (emotionally unavailable) - A child with codependency (fear of abandonment) Which robs them of their identity and true potential A mother’s love should be filled with emotion, tenderness, security, assurance, respect, and honesty. We are the first ones to connect when our children enter this world and we owe it to them to give them the world 🌎❤️ • • In this video th...

Oct 03, 20209 min

The Narcissist Mother (Pt. 1 of 3)

Wonder how a Narcissist is created? Note: not ALL behavior and characteristics MUST Apply to determine traits of NPD It’s devastating to ever have to come to terms that a mother would/could be a narcissist. Sometimes it’s undetectable because of years worth of manipulation, the children think it’s part of life... they think it’s “Normal” ... It’s anything but. • To a narcissistic parent, children are to serve their (the parents) needs. Parents who have NPD not only deprive their children of prop...

Oct 03, 202011 min

“No Contact with a Narcissist” (the RIGHT way)

[Excerpt from YouTube video] Many find it hard to go “No Contact” with someone they really want to contact... imagine that with a Narcissist. Going no contact is probably one of the hardest phases in the start of the healing process and it’s due to the “addiction” to the Narcissist. Though it may be hard, it’s NOT impossible. Of course, this all depends on how serious you are about your healing and how serious you are about reclaiming your life back.

Oct 01, 202015 min

“Are you Codependent? Codependency in relationships”

Codependency in relationships (whether with a Narcissist or non Narcissist) can be toxic either way we look. The person in the Codependent role has no sense of identity and therefore relies on external sources/people to emotionally gratify them. Codependency, much like Narcissism is an expanding epidemic. If you think you suffer from Codependency, it’s never too late to get the help you need to overcome it

Sep 24, 202011 min

“The Inverted Narcissist a/k/a [Covert] Codependent Narcissist”

Inverted Narcissists (IN) are classified as Codependents who ACTIVELY seek relationships with Narcissists, regardless of the abuse afflicted. IN are reliant on the dynamics of a relationship with Narcissists and cannot sustain relationships with Non-Narcissists. Like any other Narcissist, IN when faced with injury and rage, can be just as hostile and volatile. Discussed in the video: 1. The Rage 2. The Response to injury 3. The Reaction to breakups 4. The Lifestyle/Upbringing

Sep 16, 202022 min

Why I put primal focus into Female Narcissism

(Some explicit Language) Because... Because I have a son, whom I worked so hard to protect and teach him unconditional love. Because we women, who give our all, are tired of fixing hearts we didn’t break. Hearts broken with someone else’s actions, all to have ours destroyed in the process

Sep 09, 20209 min

6 Secrets a Narcissist hopes You never learn

(YouTube channel: Intuitive Vibez) It’s no secret that narcissists are arrogant, self centered, feel entitled and lack empathy. But much like what kryptonite is to Superman, narcs have their own fears. In this segment are 6 secrets the Narcissist hopes you never learn, tactics they may resort to, and what you should do as a form of “Strategic Survival”. Narcissists can be relatives, friends, colleagues, and romantic partners. Know the signs, discern the patterns, take back your power and cleanse...

Sep 03, 202013 min

The Malignant Narcissist (6 traits of the Toxic Narcissist)

(YouTube channel: Intuitive Vibez) The Malignant Narcissist (a/k/a The Toxic Narcissist) is considered one of the dangerous narcissists on the spectrum. Borderline Sociopaths (Narcissism + ASPD), malignant Narcs can go to extremes to hurt/destroy their victims. In this episode, the following is explained: 1. Entitlement 2. Lack of Conscience/Empathy 3. They are Sadists (Sadistic) 4. Extremely Egocentric 5. Extremely Paranoid 6. They project their bad behaviors onto others

Aug 31, 202016 min

The Cerebral Female Narcissist

(Audio clip from my YouTube channel Intuitive Vibez) The Cerebral Female Narcissist, alongside the Malignant Female Narcissist, is considered to be one of the most dangerous (as well as undetectable). A master manipulator, who utilizes the mind and “words” in effort to gain narcissistic supply and deteriorate the mind of her victim(s), with the precise use of gaslighting and diversion. Cerebral narcissists utilize their intellect to make others feel unintelligible and completely inferior. Their ...

Aug 27, 202018 min

The Female Sociopath

As a truly sensitive and feeling person, it upsets me in knowing these types of females exist. They don’t care who they hurt or manipulate. Fellas/Ladies discern! • The Female Sociopath is a Female Narcissist, but with extreme intent. Though not as common as male sociopaths, they still exist and lie under the form of extreme narcissism. The traits as follows: • They Mirror & Love Bomb to obtain information• • They possess superficial charm• • They Covertly try to Sabotage others• • No Remors...

Aug 25, 202014 min

Reasons why it’s hard to let go of The Narcissist

After the betrayal of family, or a horrendous discard from a Narcissist ex, you’d think one would be able to just let go of the Narcissist. However, letting go is not so easy. If it were... leaving would be easier

Aug 12, 202019 min

7 Signs of the Somatic Narcissist

Somatic Narcissists are considered to be the most vain, on the spectrum of Narcissism. Though they are most superficial and materialistic, they are no less worst than any other Narcissist. In this video are listed 7 signs of a Somatic Narcissist: 1. They obsess over their appearance 2. They use sex to validate their self esteem 3. They take credit for YOUR accomplishments 4. They neglect your needs 5. They hate criticism 6. They gaslight you 7. They criticize people based on their appearance

Aug 11, 202015 min

Dynamics of Toxic Attachments

If left attached and unhealed, toxic attachments (family, friends, romantic relationships, addictions) can truly sabotage your life and even make you sick (mentally, physically, and spiritually). You’ll find yourself either continuing the same cycles with the same people or creating the same cycles with different people... dynamics remain the same. Detachment can be hard, especially if the toxic attachment is with a family member, nonetheless necessary. If you find yourself in the same patterns ...

Aug 02, 20207 min

Dealing with a Bitter Ex

There is a difference between being an “Ex” and being a “bitter Ex”. An ex is one who, despite the circumstances, will walk away with their dignity in tact. A bitter ex is one who, because they no longer can control, manipulate, or make your life miserable for their own personal gain, would do anything to sabotage your chance at having a great relationship. Know the difference... know the thin line.

Jul 15, 20206 min

Why you can’t let her Toxic A** go

Succubus: a female demon who appears to be a very beautiful woman and has sex with men to feed off their sexual energy. * * * Her [covert] toxicity, you find “exhilarating”. Her beauty, you can’t just help but feel proud to have. She’s “exciting” and “adventurous”. She’s the one all the men want, but YOU have her... * * * She’s in control. She’s the best you’ll ever have. No one compares to HER. She’s your trophy. She’s also... YOUR DOWNFALL!

Jul 11, 20209 min

Why you keep attracting Toxic Relationships

(Some explicit language) **Emasculation not limited to only mothers** **Toxic females either were emotionally/mentally abused/deprived by fathers, or abandoned. Often, people ask themselves, “What did I do to deserve this?”, and the truth is, absolutely nothing. You are not responsible for how others internalize their trauma, which they then project onto you, hence a “Toxic Relationship”. Toxicity is a dynamic created by projection... projection of fears, internal pain, disconnect, and deprivati...

Jun 28, 202010 minSeason 2Ep. 2

She doesn’t love you... She loves the Control over you

Fellas (or ladies - depending on preference), understanding the difference between love and control. If you’re dealing with or have dealt with women, whose actions don’t match their words, if she’s lied, cheated, demeaned, disrespected and blamed YOU for her wrongdoings, yet manages to continually come back claiming to change and loves you... that’s NOT love. She loves the control she has on your mind.

Jun 25, 202021 minSeason 2Ep. 1

Traumatic Bonding - 5 Signs you are in a Trauma Bond with a Toxic Person

The 5 signs you or someone you know is in a trauma bond with a toxic person: 1. You know, but you can’t let go 2. You give... they just take 3. You feel “addicted” 4. You’re driven to self destruct 5. You forget your worth Trauma bonding makes you physiologically addicted to abuse. This explains why going no contact feels like you’re coming off a drug

Jun 25, 202010 minSeason 1Ep. 13

What is Narcissism?

This clip is from when I first started on my mental health awareness “mission”. Giving detail, within a few minutes, about what Narcissism entails and where it’s derived from. Learning the gist of Narcology and what to look for in case you come across a Narcissist.

Jun 22, 20207 minSeason 1Ep. 12

The Female Narcissist (unmasking the truth)

(YouTube Channel: Intuitive Vibez) Female narcissists are extremely hard to detect, as they are covert abusers/bullies, especially since they work very hard at maintaining a “humble, spiritual and noble” image. The only ones who are aware of the true identity of these vicious females are the victims, who’ve endured the mental and emotional abuse firsthand. They’re extremely convincing and manage to manipulate others into believing the narc has their best interests at heart. • Subtypes mentioned ...

Jun 20, 202013 minSeason 1Ep. 11

A Day in The Life of a Sociopath (signs and symptoms

A sociopath is someone who suffers from Antisocial Personality Disorder. Sociopaths pose as charismatic and charming individuals, yet can be extremely volatile and hostile if they feel their sense of control is threatened. The most common traits of a sociopath are: •Anger, Aggression, Hostility •Irritability, Antisocial behaviors •Lack of empathy •Rule breaking •Compulsive lying, Manipulation •Disregard for safety of self and others •Charisma & Charm (use discernment) •Mistreatment of others...

Jun 13, 20208 minSeason 1Ep. 10

Signs you are (were) a Victim of Narcissistic Abuse

In this segment, I go over signs of Narcissistic Abuse. Signs may be obvious to those standing on the outside, but oblivious to the victim. Though there are plenty, the following give examples of signs you are or have been a victim of narcissistic/emotional/psychological abuse. Dissociation Walking on Eggshells Paranoia/Mistrust Suicidal Ideation/Self Harm Comparing yourself/Competing for Attention Self Sabotage/Self Destruct Protecting/Defending Abuse(r

Jun 08, 202015 minSeason 1Ep. 9

Signs of a Manipulator

In this clip are listed signs of a Manipulator you may be dealing with or have dealt with. Mentioned are the clear cut red flags of a Manipulator and tactics often used.

Jun 06, 202010 minSeason 1Ep. 8

Signs You are Dating a Narcissist

In this episode, I give some of the signs that you or someone you know is dating a narcissist. There are several, however, the main signs are in listed in this episode. For more content please be sure to check out my social media accounts: YouTube: Intuitive Vibez Facebook: Intuitive.vibez

May 29, 20209 minSeason 1Ep. 6

Attachment Styles & Relationships

“Attachment Styles” (YouTube Channel: Intuitive Vibez) An attachment style is in theory the thread of attachment you receive from your parents, which determines how you attach to others throughout your relationships. Your Attachment Style plays a very big role in how your personal (and even professional) lives play out. In this episode, listed are the following four Attachment Styles: * Secure Attachment. * Dismissive/Avoidant Attachment * Sub: Anxious-Avoidant Attachment * Anxious/Insecure/Preo...

May 20, 202023 minSeason 1Ep. 5
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