On today’s episode -- Why are people comparing HIV positive folks to unvaccinated folks? And what does the rapper PLIES have to say about it. PLUS for the past 3 decades various HIV vaccines have been in development -- so why don’t we have an HIV vaccine yet and what are some contenders. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/q0O9t9M0Uxo HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Pli...
Nov 03, 2021•1 hr•Season 8Ep. 11
This episode we’re playing a little dating app game designed to weed out the losers. Then -- a conversation about boundaries and standards in romantic partnerships. Plus marriage is on the decline! We’re gonna talk about why and give our thoughts about a BBC series all about ethical non monogamy. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/lxztyg85vic Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): We play a game with Tinder matches called “What’s your most controversial opinion” AND we discuss why Jennifer...
Oct 27, 2021•51 min•Season 8Ep. 10
This episode we’re talking about the scariest phenomenon -- the white hotep. We could end the episode there. But we won’t we’re also getting into allegedly sonic smoothie sex, safer sex toys, why Texas legislators are increasingly the worst, queer animals and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/cq0BxMCljzM Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): Facebook White Hoteps and Megan Fox and Machine Gun Kelly’s myspace teenage romance Fuck That (Currents Events): Sex Toy safety standardi...
Oct 20, 2021•1 hr 3 min•Season 8Ep. 9
Akua's celibacy journey has opened her eyes to the red flags that come with dating cis het men. Learn more about Akua's journey and how to spot the red flags this week only on Patreon. Hit up our Patreon and pledge as little as $2/month to join the conversation: https://www.patreon.com/InnerHoeUprising
Oct 13, 2021•1 min•Season 8Ep. 8
We got some alleged gay gorillas, a misinformation conversation, a spooky season love story, social media debate about “natural” bodies and BBLs and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/omiUY4OHihc HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SPONSOR(S) Remember you can start living a happier life today with Betterhelp by using code IHU for 10% off your first month. WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PA...
Oct 06, 2021•54 min•Season 8Ep. 7
Married Black lesbian couple Martina and Tawanna join us to talk about their love story, nurturing your partners artistic endeavors, travel, luxury, Black Family values, religion, lesbian community in the 90s, the old Brooklyn, freedom and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/fEP_elmexbE HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES Find Tawanna and her work on the Web: htt...
Sep 29, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Season 8Ep. 6
This week we get into Astrology and sex, love, and dating with our special guest J. Dooley. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/C6Y7j_xwuas Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our guest J. Dooley walks us through the ins and outs of using Astrology to analyze your sex, love, and dating life. We talk about Mercury in retrograde, whats woowoo bs, Christianity and being gay the natal chart, moon, rising, mercury, mars & venus, Stelliums, Soulmates, Costar, Fatalism Determinism, Reincarnation PLUS 3 roma...
Sep 22, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 8Ep. 5
This episode we’re talking all about the journey of going thru gender affirming hormone therapy or GAHT for short from the perspective of a non binary transfemme. We’ll be talking about romance, emotions, the physical body, second puberty and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/etlqQlFBr6Y Fuck It (Topic of the Day): We interview Ambre, a non binary trans femme embarking on her journey with gender affirming hormone therapy. Some topics include: the process of getting on hormones, emoti...
Sep 15, 2021•56 min•Season 8Ep. 4
Rob and Sam talk about exclusive dating expectations, Only F*ns haters, de-centering nonsensical men, meeting someone and taking it slow and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/FbLELbfs368 HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SPONSOR(S) You can use code IHU for 15% off of some very pleasurable Dame products site wide. WEBSITE InnerHoeUprising.com PAY A HOE Paypal.me/innerhoe https://www.p...
Sep 01, 2021•51 min•Season 8Ep. 3
We answer some of your burning questions about the Inner Hoe Uprising podcast like: Do we date listeners, how do we balance the show with our personal lives, is hot human summer ending? Plus Akua got her back blown out for the first time in years and Rodecka is heading into surgery. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/kYKypsTfRog HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversation on social media and let others know that you are listening. SPONSOR(S) You can use code IHU f...
Aug 25, 2021•50 min•Season 8Ep. 2
We answer some of your burning questions about the Inner Hoe Uprising podcast. Some questions include: How can we all continue being hoes with Covid going on? How has it been navigating your respective friendship dynamics while recording a show together? Did any of you have a fascinating mind blowing make you wanna holler s*xual experience on your getaways or just this summer? Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/2zfH_jdDs3g HASHTAGS Use #InnerHoeUprising and #Podin to keep up with this conversati...
Aug 18, 2021•58 min•Season 8Ep. 1
This episode — what happens when you don’t get sex ed, also -- Queer Plantonic Partnerships and Romantic Friendships -- what the heck are those? PLUS the Supreme Court ruled on a pretty big case regarding Queer couples and their rights to foster. What was the court’s decision and what does it mean for the country? We getting into it all that and more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/4fYYsk2kQiY Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): Someones faith in cishet sex is a little misguided, th...
Jun 23, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Season 7Ep. 23
It’s pride month -- and we gotta talk about some gay animals. We’re also getting into our bae of the week -- a tennis baddie not named Naomi or Serena who aired out the clip recently. You’ll learn about why your balls (if you have them) are similar to your brain. Plus an IHU breakup has occurred! Find out who and what happened. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/6S7drJxISfs Animals do be Gay tho: There are 130 species of birds that display homosexual behavior. We talk about a few of them. Fuck T...
Jun 16, 2021•51 min•Season 7Ep. 22
Extreme baddie Vilissa Thompson, joins us to talk all about the sexual liberation journey of a Black disabled woman, K*nk and navigating the lifestyle as both an LG and a Domme, the journey transitioning from a social worker to s*x therapist and so much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/skgStwQMWfA Points of discussion include: sex ed as a disabled youth, LGs v brats, the nuance of being LG and disabled, Inspiration porn, race and gender in domming, Dom red and green flags, match making, ...
Jun 09, 2021•1 hr 19 min•Season 7Ep. 21
This episode we’re talking about how to keep your head above water in many polyamorous relationships. We’re also talking about ball ripped dild*s, poppin s*x toy parties, and a lack of pleasurable s*xual sensation in people with cl*t. PLUS -- ANOTHER one of us is processing their demis*xuality. Find out who and whats been going on. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/O57qtAgzOIM Self Care Tip: Having trouble with time management in your poly relationships? Rebecca’s got a calendar based self care...
Jun 02, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 7Ep. 20
We’re reviewing the worst (and maybe the best?) of the ridiculousness that the internet has to offer in the realm of sex, love, and dating. Everything from sexy robots, thirsty motherfuckers talking to themselves in the DMs, condoms twice used and much more. Youtube: https://youtu.be/KtdVM3ao_K8 Fuck is this?! (ridiculousness): Will pole working robots replace us, people who talk to themselves in your DMs, wearing the same outfit as your date, the call to bring back tonic masculinity, a new name...
May 26, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Season 7Ep. 19
This episode is allll about play parties. For those who aren’t familiar with the term a play party is a social gathering where m*ther f*ckers do be fucking (if they want). But there's a lot more to it than that. Today we’ll be talking about play party etiquette, how to find play parties, what to expect, conversations around consent, wild stories and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hzBPd2aGyRU Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Rodecka ( a play party enthusiast) guides us thru play parties...
May 19, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Season 7Ep. 18
This week we celebrate the life of our homie and brilliant lesbian luminary Nikeeta Slade! Then we talk about probiotics and the pum pum, the diagnoses of a rare mood disorder, what it looks like to have a solar AKA hoelar return, and a trip to “twang land” Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RMcj43RwnDo Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): A trip to “twangland” plus a conversation on sex and hygiene Self Care Tip: Akua talks about her journey using pro bionics to supplement her vaginal a...
May 12, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Season 7Ep. 17
This week we’re joined by a member of generation (se)X to all about growing up as a “fast” black girl in the 1980s, discovering sexual autonomy and kink at 50+, middle age f*ckboys, sexless marriages, infidelity, words of wisdom to millennials and get Z and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/s1XrNZZZfbc Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Our guest Melissa aka Melahoe joins us to talk all things sex, love, and dating as a Black woman a part of generation X Points of discussion include: Adopti...
May 01, 2021•1 hr 31 min•Season 7Ep. 16
We’re talking alllll about cannabis, food, pleasure and liberation with our guest Chef Steph. Things like — how does weed effect your dating life, herbal self care tips, cannabis meals to cook for bae, dating as a heavy weed user, Black farm to table communities, mass incarceration, and much more! Youtube: https://youtu.be/cpGb_GHJrMA Self Care Tip: Adding herbs to your weed or just ingesting herbs for anxiety and other reasons Fuck It (Topic of the Day): We’re joined by cannabis user and chef S...
Apr 21, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Season 7Ep. 15
The hoes are talking all about the science of hormones, trans affirming health care, and the big ol white supremacist, patriarchal, capitalist, conspiracy to stamp out trans folks in the United states PLUS what you can do to stop it. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/h2hYhGmYoS8 PoliDicks (Politics): 2021 is a Record Year For Anti-Transgender Legislation, we talk about why this is happening and what you can do. Topics of discussion include: Group think, misinformation, the conservative right, a...
Apr 14, 2021•1 hr 14 min•Season 7Ep. 14
On this episode -- background checks for Tinder dates, couples therapy, who pays for the 3rd wheels meal, s*men on the moon, sensual fantasies, the end of the world, post pandemic polyamory & much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/j_ludt9EmDE Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): We answer the question “who pays for your 3rd wheels meal” and chant down Twitter gender wars. Fuck That (Currents Events): Tinder is partnering to bring background checks to the app: We talk about dat...
Apr 07, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Season 7Ep. 13
This episode we’re talking all about living with a hormonal condition that affects 7–10% of people who menstruate — PolyCystic Ovarian Syndrome. We’re answering -- what is it, how do you know you might have it, how societal oppression interacts with some of the conditions, symptoms and much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/E5-nkoC_354 F*k It (Topic of the Day): Our guest this week Sam T joins us to tell us all about living with PCOS. Some topics include: PCOS and Sex drive, PCOS symptoms...
Mar 31, 2021•56 min•Season 7Ep. 12
This week Sam hosts solo all about, the Atlanta massacre targeting Asian massage parlors, an explainer about race, gender, fetishization, sex work, and law enforcement and how that all ties into the massacre, & an ass media documentary review about some very vulgar show girls. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/7yUEUYt0BeM Fuck That (Currents Events): The Atlanta massacre and intersections on race, gender & sex work. Ass Media (Media Reviews): The Show Girls of Pakistan Love & Light ...
Mar 23, 2021•44 min•Season 7Ep. 11
The hoes chat about 1 year pandemic anni self care, one mans vendetta against urinary health, the anti capitalist anti violence origins of International Women’s Day, Savage Fenty’s Newest and Littlest bad btch, non binary and women fire fighters, the science of ASMR p*rn & much more! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/hJj8w0DgIcQ Self Care Tip: Sam gives some advice who are feeling bad and good as we head toward vaccination in the US. Bae of the Week: @AyeThatsMera on Instagram Fuck is this?...
Mar 17, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Season 7Ep. 10
Akua shares her parenting journey. Everything from teen motherhood, raising a special needs child, finding the balance between parenting and self, dating as a mom, a homophobic baby daddy and much more. Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/ZeQMlf0WPms Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A listener wrote in asking for Akua to share her parenting journey so we did just that! Points of discussion include: Pre c*m, sex education, poor boundaries, coercive sex, coitus interruptus, infrequent periods, PCOS, tee...
Mar 10, 2021•1 hr 32 min•Season 7Ep. 9
This episode we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as a Black, fat, femme in the southwestern United States. Plus were getting into cummunity organizing, intersectional feminism, academia, hoe meals and much more with our guest Karlyn Bradley. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/k1UmruOQ6Jk Fuck It (Topic of the Day): We interview Karlyn Bradley all about community organizing, the southwest, being a Black fat femme, intersectional feminism, academia, hoe meals and much more! Points of dis...
Mar 03, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Season 7Ep. 8
The hoes are talking all about bipolar disorder. Everything from living with it, how it can show up in your sex, love, & dating life, debunking stereotypes, how one of us on this here podcast came to be diagnosed and much more. Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/L4lS8FtHu2I Fuck It (Topic of the Day): The science of bipolar disorder. Specific points include: The kinds of bipolar disorder, myths about bipolar disorder, symptoms, what manic and depressive episodes might look like, treatment an...
Feb 24, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Season 7Ep. 7
On this episode ya'll are all” deadass this” and “facts, b” that -- but really, what was it like to grow up in NYC. Particularly, what was it like to grow into a sexual being in NYC?! Today, we’re talking all about sex, love, and dating as early adolescents and taking a look at a Netflix teen drama that claims to spill the real tea on youth in the big apple. Youtube: https://youtu.be/eORTY2aJ1SA We review the Brooklyn based teen drama Grand Army and reflect on our own experiences as high schoole...
Feb 17, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Season 7Ep. 6
The hoes chat about tart and stank asses, tart and stank transphobes, embarking on an adventure into abstinence, paternalistic gynecologists and much more! Don’t Fuck with me: Rob discusses being on Whoreible Decisions podcast. They unpack things like colorism, non-binary transphobia, the safety in passing as cis in white male spaces, silencing & more. Fuck is this?! (Pop culture ridiculousness): A twitter user hypothesizes that large butts are both “tart” and “stank” Fuck You (Your Lives): ...
Feb 10, 2021•51 min•Season 7Ep. 5