We chat about our thoughts on the recent #Netflix documentary on Kanye. Our Come Again Segment?! on how Ciara & Russell handled running into an ex/baby daddy. Follow on your favorite podcast platform . Tune in for the conversation. Thank you to everyone who supports bi-weekly. All you have to do is like, follow, share, and or subscribe! You can rate on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! We appreciate it. IG and Facebook: @inowpronounceyoupod https://inowpronounceyou.buzzsprout.com #selfawareness #s...
Mar 10, 2022•32 min•Season 3Ep. 65
This week we chat about our experience at a recent concert, Miguel & his wife rekindling, Kim & Kanye's debacle and the importance of understanding who you are marrying. Follow on your favorite podcast platform . Tune in for the conversation. Thank you to everyone who supports bi-weekly. All you have to do is like, follow, share, and or subscribe! You can rate on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! We appreciate it. IG and Facebook: @inowpronounceyoupod https://inowpronounceyou.buzzsprout.com #s...
Feb 22, 2022•39 min•Season 3Ep. 64
This week we chat about our upcoming 8th Wedding Anniversary, not rescheduling our joy this past weekend, compatible zodiac signs, and the importance of male relationships. Celebrate Male Love can be found on @psychologytoday Compatible Zodiacs @xonecole Follow on your favorite podcast platform . Tune in for the conversation. Thank you to everyone who supports bi-weekly. All you have to do is like, follow, share, and or subscribe! You can rate on Apple Podcasts and Spotify! We appreciate it. IG ...
Feb 10, 2022•36 min•Season 3Ep. 63
Its another fabulous Wednesday ya'll! Catch up with us as we talk about things that we have done, experienced, or like that may not fit our persona or personality. Tee reads Trav two quotes about men and women and discuss whether they believe its TRUE or FALSE. We get into attraction and what it means to different self. We elaborate on how loving yourself determines who you attract and what you will and will not tolerate. Follow on your favorite podcast platform . Tune in for the conversation. T...
Jan 27, 2022•45 min•Season 3Ep. 62
Welcome back everybody! We are back, no guest in tow. We enjoyed our conversations the last two episodes. Double back to Episode 59: Divorce w/ Aaron Thomas and Episode 60: Reel Talk w/Dr. Jamaal Scott. This week we chat about Tee's 22 New Experiences for 2022. She names somethings that she wants to do and shares why she feels bad for Trav. Next, we get into @xonecole's article where men share what they want in their relationships for the new year. To read all of them head on over to www.xonecol...
Jan 12, 2022•46 min•Season 3Ep. 61
Today, we have Dr. Jamaal Scott a Queens native who graduated with his BA in Psychology from Morehouse College in Atlanta. He then transitioned to Wright State University’s School of Professional Psychology, in Dayton, Ohio completing his doctorate in 2010. Dr. Scott currently resides in North Carolina. He's been a Staff Psychologist for the North Carolina Department of Juvenile Justice since 2016. He discusses the challenges and rewards to the position. He's the creator of Reel Talk. A group th...
Dec 28, 2021•55 min•Season 3Ep. 60
This week we talk with Atlanta Family Law Attorney, Aaron Thomas. Aaron uses his experience from practicing law to answer a plethora of questions regarding the road to divorce. Discussing some premarital taboos may actually help you in the long run. We discuss the stigma around prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. And why even the average married couple should have one. We also chat about the importance of discussing financial plans before getting into marriage. We all know that premarital cou...
Dec 08, 2021•38 min•Season 3Ep. 59
Welcome back and hello to all newbies. Today, we catch up on Tee's Birthday, Thanksgiving, hitting a new podcast milestone, and more. We dive into @therealtarzann "How to Love Yourself" thread. It gives us reminders of how to achieve different aspects of self love and questions to ask yourself. Come along for the ride with us as we discuss! Listen to us on Amazon Music, Spotify, iHeart Radio, Google Podcast, Buzzsprout, Tunein, and Apple Podcast. Join us every Wednesday for a new episode! Please...
Nov 25, 2021•56 min•Season 2Ep. 58
This week we catch up discussing what we are currently reading and feeling. We discuss Will Smith's reaction to son Jaiden Smith's Emancipation debacle from years past. We discuss how we would feel if our kids recommended this and what we are hopefully doing to combat it. Later, we discuss Lawrence and Issa's breakup due to his baby on the way from the show #Insecure. We share our feelings and talk about decisions that affect other aspects of our life and how sometimes they feel unavoidable. Las...
Nov 10, 2021•48 min•Season 2Ep. 57
Welcome back to another episode of I Now Pronounce You! This week we chat about our journey to ATL this past weekend. Our need to go with our gut and how you can find solace in that. We discuss the viral Dad's on Duty video showing black fathers stepping up in their community to make a impact. Tee and Trav share their views of how beneficial black men are to their community and the power they hold. From @xonecole 's blog we discuss quotes from an article of men and women sharing why their marria...
Oct 26, 2021•44 min•Season 2Ep. 56
Hello Everyone! Hope you are pushing through the week. Better yet enjoying it. We start off this week's episode with a mental health update. We talk about Stephn Jackson's miss at the altar. Was he wrong for cancelling his wedding? We chat about the documentary #KosherSex. Its not exactly what you may think. We discuss points a Rabi made about marriage/relationships. So press play, and dive in! Listen to us on Amazon Music, Spotify, iHeart Radio, Google Podcast, Buzzsprout, Tunein, and Apple Pod...
Oct 13, 2021•51 min•Season 2Ep. 55
In this week's episode, we share what we enjoy about FALL. An update on how we celebrated our teenager this past weekend. And our plans for fall. We briefly discuss #WillSmith recent #GQinterview where he confirmed the rumors of he and #JadaPinkettSmith open relationship. We share his thoughts on marriage not being a "prison". Are there traits that you possess that are stopping you from living your best life? I do! We chat about #YvonneOrji 4 traits from her book #BamboozledbyJesus. Which are yo...
Sep 29, 2021•39 min•Season 2Ep. 54
What's up everybody! We're back with another biweekly episode. Its humpday and we're trying to be present in the week day. This week we catch up with eachother. Trav realizes there has been affirmations all around him. Tee tries to articulate when people think her kids may"miss out" on something. We discuss a practice by Dr. Daniel Amen called Accurate Thinking. Trav tries it out using the negative statement "I'm lazy". Listen to the 5 step process and see if it's a practice you can use. This we...
Sep 14, 2021•38 min•Season 2Ep. 53
We're back with another episode. This week we talked about back to school and an age old question in our relationship. We look at @xonecole post that provided quotes from women who are terrified of marriage. We read and discuss. Don't forget to follow us on your favorite music platform. Rate us on Apple podcast. IG: @inowpronounceyoupod
Sep 01, 2021•48 min•Season 2Ep. 52
Happy Wednesday...night everyone! This week we chat about Tee's interpretation of Trav's recent solitude. We attempt a relationship check in that Trav struggled to answer. We share our thoughts on "Do you love the totality of someone's existence or the fragments of them that cater to you". So much that we still haven't chewed on for this one. We discuss the difference between the "Sorry, I'm married" vs. "No, I'm married." Tee shares a repost from #McKenton that puzzles her and shares other exam...
Aug 19, 2021•49 min•Season 2Ep. 51
I wasted no time and jumped right in with this one. I had so many questions for Kiana Raquel @kianaskitchen22. Getting to know more about someone who is authentically themselves and hear about part of their journey to get there was well... amazing. Every time, I would move towards ending the conversation I'd think of something else. 01:24: As an educator, I could not resist asking about her journey of becoming a Special Education Teacher. I find a lot of people have an interesting road map of ho...
Aug 02, 2021•40 min•Season 2Ep. 50
Hello, hello Everybody! We're back with another episode. We start off catching you up on being late to one of the latest #verzuz and what's been going on the past few weeks. Today's conversations around the topic of addiction. We talk about how addiction impacts our lives. We review a addictionrecovery.com list of the Top 10 Common Addictions and discuss whether we agree. Tee reads a Cherokee Tale: The Tale of Two Wolves and we discuss its significance. Which wolf do you feed? Which wolf will wi...
Jul 21, 2021•50 min•Season 2Ep. 49
We catch everyone up on our trip to Richmond and the 4th. This week's convo focuses on a thread from @realdepressionproject via @blackmarriagemovement. We go through the 15 statements of What Anxiety looks like in a Relationship. We share whether we have personally felt that way, how we moved through it, or how we deal with it depending on the situation. Then, we get into our segment"I Read it on Reddit" where we give advice to a 23 year old young woman whose boyfriend keeps giving her advice fo...
Jul 07, 2021•47 min•Season 2Ep. 48
Welcome, welcome. This week Tameira asks Trav some questions. They discuss the kind of father he is, they compare each other based on the age of 12, and even play game. Tune in to see who won. We also discuss #DisneyChannel 's #SidneytotheMax episode on #microaggressions directed by #RavenSymone. Tameira describes the episode and Tee chimes in when necessary. Welp...that's the episode. Don't forget to do all of the things to help the pod out below. Listen to us on Amazon Music, Spotify, iHeart R...
Jun 21, 2021•31 min•Season 2Ep. 47
Hello guys. Welcome back to the podcast. Press play and listen in on the conversation. We start out with a life update per usual as we talk about Tee's school year ending and summer coming. Tee uses Trav's text messages as inspirational quotes on IG. Check out our reels @inowpronounceyoupod. We chat about Destination Addiction. @just_mohit on Twitter tweeted about this concept that happiness is always somewhere else or coming up. Do you agree or disagree? "People want to be understood, not figur...
Jun 09, 2021•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 46
Welcome everyone! We're back this week with another episode. We chat about feeling more connected this past weekend as we tackled a home project. We found simplicity and comfort in hanging out on a DIY Sunday. We talk about @keonpolee 's honest Tik Tok post about women commenting on him as a married man. It led to a conversation about temptation and self-awareness. You have to know yourself. Being mentally stronger is something a lot of people currently or at some point struggled with. So, wheth...
May 25, 2021•52 min•Season 2Ep. 45
Today, we have...our daughter on the podcast. I thought it would be dope to capture some moments with her. And she can't wait to do it again! I may have to replace Trav. We chat about her coming of age. The distinction between being a #tween and just a kid. How she feels about not having a cell phone? What being social really means? Her advice for kids her age that don't feel like they fit in. How the pandemic made her feel? Her advice on choosing friends. She discusses her choice to become pesc...
May 12, 2021•33 min•Season 2Ep. 44
What's up guys! This week we chat about our mental health days that we recently took. And how they helped? We chat about dreams and progression and what that looks like for us individually. @duskpoppington said it best when he talked about dreams being free so why not do it big. (See our previous Episode 8: a Dreamer to hear more.) We chat about work wives and husbands. Do they exist in our lives? Are they appropriate? Healthy relationships include uncomfortable conversations. Would you be willi...
May 05, 2021•49 min•Season 1Ep. 43
This week our small talk at the beginning of the episode turned into us getting some stuff off our chest and processing some things. I swear articulating your thoughts and humanizing your partner is necessary. This quote sparked conversation, "I personally feel like men appreciate what they work for. I want to be appreciated." We talk #TiffanyHaddish on #Common's pursuit of her. "There's a difference between being interested and committed." #JaymieMoran What are somethings you are interested in ...
Apr 28, 2021•57 min•Season 2Ep. 42
We catch up on our week. Share some activities that the kids have started and Tee talks about her kickball story. Sometimes we romanticize relationships and in those moments we should look within ourselves to grow so that we can feed into our relationships. Community is important. Do things that reflect your individuality. We look at #Khadeenellis #Devaleellis on #TheBreakfastClub. Their honesty about arguments, #sidechicks, and marriage continues to be refreshing. "We buy into this mythical rea...
Apr 21, 2021•42 min•Season 2Ep. 41
This week we talk about energy. How is your energy right now. How is it affecting your life? We look at medium.com 's 5 Ways Subtle Energy Effects Your life by #KimForester. This brought out all types of conversation about the power of positivity. We discuss the quote "Eventually you'll stop calling them coincidences and realize how powerful you are." Have you ever manifested something you dreamed of, hoped for? We also look at a I Read it on Reddit thread called Life After Death which allowed u...
Apr 14, 2021•57 min•Season 2Ep. 40
Hey guys! This week we chat about some things floating around on the internet that prompted Tee to ask Trav some questions. What else is new? 1. @mh4prez "What album do you associate with your first car? 2. #DMX #FunkFlex "What do you do when you see a friend in need? 3. #KierGaines #NoemieGaines We discuss standing up for yourself and anger. 4. #DaNaiaJackson "Do you think the appearance of your spouse matters?" 5. #TheThoughtBubble "What part of yourself do you take care of the most?" 6. Trav ...
Apr 07, 2021•55 min•Season 2Ep. 39
Hey Guys! Tee's checking boxes and taking names, crushing the week! This week we start off the chat about a nagging thought Tee's been having. "Can something still hold value even though it has dissolved?" There's so many ways to take this with parenting, work, marriage, etc. We discuss #Saweetie and #Quavo as an example of this concept. We've been on a documentary kick lately: #FreeBritney, #I,Tina, #LeavingNeverland, #AllanvsFarrow, and #Kid90. We briefly pull out some key points discussed in ...
Mar 31, 2021•48 min•Season 2Ep. 38
This week we recap Tee's in person teaching experience. Of course, we shared how we enjoyed the weather with the fam bam. We chat about#DerrickJaxn. We discuss if we put our own relationship on a pedestal? If one of us cheated and decided to continue with the relationship, how would we handle it publicly? We thought Charlemagne said it best "I'd rather be an honest sinner than a lying hypocrite." So big ups to people speaking their truth regardless. This week's segment is Who you Got?! If choosi...
Mar 24, 2021•42 min•Season 2Ep. 37
Hello Everybody! This week we talk the change in the weather. Happy Spring! Tee's dabbling in listening to a wonderful Zoom Call put on by #MarylandHumanities highlighting @really.gilly and @kimberlylatricejones' book I'm Not Dying With You Tonight. Its always nice hearing how we can all support each other despite our differences in the nation. We discuss Chloe & Halle's new song about the 80/20 Rule. They put a twist on the traditional meaning. Would you rather have 80% of what you want in ...
Mar 17, 2021•52 min•Season 2Ep. 36
