Let’s Talk About Sex with Amanda Louder Let’s face it… Sex can feel scary and a bit overwhelming, especially if you have been in a relationship where there has been betrayal. Today Sex Coach Amanda Louder joins me to give you the first steps you need to gain feelings of safety and confidence in your sex life. The insights and tips she shares are game-changers. Amanda Louder is a Certified Sex & Marriage Coach who helps Christian men & women overcome their obstacles to create a more emoti...
Jul 12, 2023•35 min•Ep. 189
All the information you have learned about habits in the past is only making you feel like a failure. Want to know why? Today’s guest, Monica Packer, is here to tell you all about it. Monica Packer is passionate about teaching practical-but-deep transformation. As a top-rated podcaster and coach, she guides women to find sustainable growth by adopting progress over perfection in their identity, habits, and fulfillment. Monica is a former middle school teacher, a forever Oprah fangirl, a perpetua...
Jul 05, 2023•33 min•Ep. 188
Are you comfortable standing naked in front of the mirror? Michelle Newman is going to challenge you to get naked and get comfortable with your hot body. Because here is the mother trucking deal, your body is worthy of love. It NEEDS your love. It isn’t until we start loving our bodies that we take care of our bodies. On today’s episode, Michelle is going to help you get started. Her mission is for you to know that you are not defined by the way your body appears. Michelle comes from the persona...
Jun 28, 2023•36 min•Ep. 187
Is it time to throw that out? Organizing expert Abi Ness is here to help us clear out the crap. Whether you are wanting to get organized or you are ready to clear out the baggage from a past relationship, Abi is here to help. Don’t miss out as Abi shares her story of how she went from a homeschooled, innocent fun-loving free girl of faith to trying to heal from an abusive drug dealer ex-boyfriend. To being thousands of dollars in debt and becoming suicidal, no longer loving or knowing who she wa...
Jun 21, 2023•28 min•Ep. 186
This week we kick off our summer series of podcast episodes with a doozy. Please welcome Tony Overbay LMFT to the show. We sit down to talk about all things Narcissism. Tony lays it all out there… beware you may feel called out. Tony Overbay is a licensed marriage and family therapist, speaker, author, and podcast host. With over 8 million downloads, his award-winning podcast, The Virtual Couch, has been listened to in over 170 countries around the world. Since its release in mid-2021, his podca...
Jun 14, 2023•44 min•Ep. 185
We have never laughed this hard before during an episode. Which seems ironic because we are talking about S.E.X. and answering a question you asked regarding how we talk to our kids about sex in a more inclusive way. While we aren't experts, we can share our experiences. For context, here is the question that was submitted: “I feel it's important to talk to our children openly about sex and boundaries. My oldest son told us he was gay a couple years ago. I would love for you guys to talk about h...
Jun 07, 2023•48 min•Ep. 184
It just isn't fair! Is this how you are feeling right now in your relationship or in life? I am going to tell you something you aren't going to want to hear... Life isn't fair. It is never going to be fair. But you know what you can have in your relationship that feels even better than fairness? Listen in as Jess and Matt discuss what it is you are really looking for. Want to claim the last spot for Jessica's Group Coaching? Let's make sure it is the right fit for you by getting on a call or you...
May 31, 2023•23 min•Ep. 183
In the words of the Spice Girls "So tell me what you want, what you really really want. I'll tell you what I want what I really really really want. I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna, I wanna really, really, really wanna zigazig ah." Except here is where we disagree... today I am asking you to think about your past. Let's talk about little you. What did you want to be when you grew up? How did you want to feel? How did you want your life to look? And why is this important for your life now? Want...
May 24, 2023•16 min•Ep. 182
Things I, Jessica, used to say and/or think to make myself feel comfortable with how the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, the church that Matt and I are currently still an active members of, views and treats the LGBTQ Community. This conversation did NOT go how I thought it would and threw us all for a loop at the end. It did gives each of us more understanding as to where Steve, Matt and I each stand on this subject. Pick up the FREE workbook "Trust Your Gut After Betrayal" by click...
May 17, 2023•51 min•Ep. 181
Do you know what it feels like when your gut is telling you something? Do you know how to hear what your inner voice is calling you to do? Many of us have never know what is was like to trust ourselves. We have been told since we were young that we shouldn't feel "blank". That we should do this. That we shouldn't do that and it has shut down the natural gift that is in us to trust ourselves. Today we are going to talk about how we start to get that back. Pick up the Free Workbook that goes with ...
May 10, 2023•28 min•Ep. 180
What is going through the mind of the "betrayer" or the one who comes out? Find out today as Jessica asks Steve some hard questions about what he felt and experienced after the affair. Get $1000 off the retreat price until FRIDAY May 5th! Claim one of the last spots to the BOLDly You Retreat before they are gone.! theboldlogic.com/septemberretreat OR get on a call with Jessica to make sure it is a good fit for you. https://theboldlogic.com/call Have a question or topic you want us to cover? Send...
May 03, 2023•46 min•Ep. 179
You won't You won't believe this... BUT WE ARE ALL BACK! And today we are answering a question sent in by YOU: What would Steve and Jessica go back and tell themselves post Steve coming out but pre affair...😬 You will not want to miss this discussion. ONE LAST SPOT FOR THE APRIL 2023 RETREAT! Theboldlogic.com/retreat Have a question for us or a topic you would like us to cover on the podcast? Drop it here and we will be sure to get is covered asap! ------- Be sure to follow us on Instagram and ...
Apr 19, 2023•41 min•Ep. 178
We’re back! Did you miss seeing us record LIVE at Treefort? Probably because there were roughly 10 people there and I am guessing you weren’t one of them.HA! BUT that doesn’t mean you have to miss out on the action. This episode we share our live recording from Treefort. Ready for some gentle healing to be BOLDly you? Claim one of the last two spots for the April BOLDly You Retreat HERE ! Let’s Chat! Schedule a Call with Jess here! Ask us anything and we will record about it in an upcoming episo...
Apr 05, 2023•45 min•Ep. 177
Today I am sharing some sad news and the gratitude I feel in it. Hold your loved ones close and please know that we love YOU! Let's retreat together for some Gentle Healing. You need that break to process all the things you need. If you are ready, let's get on a call! https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall ------- Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook ! -- You can find the podcast on Apple , Google , Spotify , Stitcher , or wherever you listen to podcasts...
Mar 15, 2023•16 min•Ep. 176
This episode comes to you thanks to people telling me who I can and can't be in the comments on Instagram... It is my reminder and your reminder that you get to be who ever the hell you want to be. Interested in the next retreat where we will embrace gentle healing to be Boldly You? Get on a call with Jessica to see if it is a good fit. https://calendly.com/jessicawiththeboldlogic/healingcall ------- Be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook ! -- You can find the podcast on Apple , Google ,...
Mar 08, 2023•21 min•Ep. 175
Do You Feel Like… This isn't what your life "Should" look like and there is no moving forward? You have been trying to be the "perfect wife" for so long you don't know who you are any more. Like you have no one that understands. Do you feel no one is (or no one will) support you in the decisions you want to make. You don't know how your life will look now. You don't know what you want. You don't know how to feel. You are worried about your kids. You are being left behind to keep real life movi...
Mar 01, 2023•52 min•Ep. 174
Matt really wanted to record about Valentine’s day, which sent us on a few different but related tangents. Join Matt and I (Jessica) as we dive into how we have betrayed each other and moments we have betrayed ourselves. Don’t miss the moment I ask Matt a question that had me holding my breath until he answered. Would you ask your partner that question? Are you both confident and humble enough to be prepared for the answer? If it is February 22, 2023 when you are reading this, then this is your ...
Feb 22, 2023•40 min•Ep. 173
It has taken me, Jessica, years to say these words to describe what I have experienced in my relationship. Was I trying to protect Steve and Matt? Was I trying to protect myself? I am still now 100% sure and I don’t know that it matters. What matters is that I am fully acknowledging what I have been through and the depth of that. Are you ready to acknowledge this within yourself? Are you ready to figure out how to move forward after a Crisis in your Relationship?! Claim your spot at the FREE wor...
Feb 15, 2023•52 min•Ep. 172
It’s not all laughing and teasing through hard conversations. This week emotions run high as we continue our discussion about switching up our daughter’s custody schedule. How did that really feel as co-parents navigating this big decision? Join us as we dive into the nitty gritty and finish out the conversation we started last week. Are you ready to figure out how to move forward after a Crisis in your Relationship?! Claim your spot at the FREE workshop “Figure Out The ‘What NOW?!’ After Betray...
Feb 08, 2023•34 min•Ep. 171
This ends abruptly! Ever wanted to be a fly on the wall during a HARD conversation?! Well today is your lucky day. We are talking all about how we are navigating custody for Penny. After we recorded this episode we decided it warranted two episodes! So be prepared for some hard conversations, as well as an abrupt ending and what turns into some high level emotions next week… Will Steve and I come to blows? Will Matt have to break us up? It was Matt’s idea to record about this so I blame him… Are...
Feb 01, 2023•36 min•Ep. 170
Things are shifting ever so slightly around here. You have probably heard me allude to it but today I am tackling it head on. I have heard from women over and over again, "Jessica, I am feeling all the same things you are describing but I didn't have a partner come out." Why is that? Is that weird? I am here to answer all your questions about why you are feeling all the same things. Let’s dive into how your experience may feel similar, even though it is different. FREE WORKBOOK! “Trust Your Gut ...
Jan 25, 2023•32 min•Ep. 169
Things change quickly and often when you have shared custody. This may be hard to believe but there are things that have happened in our lives’ that we have not shared with you. But we recognize, and hope you recognize, that there is a time and place for sharing. As we sat down to reflect on the things we have learned over the past year and what we want to take with us, so things came up that we have not shared yet. A LOT has changed in our families over the past year that we have kept on the DL...
Jan 11, 2023•48 min•Ep. 168
It only took us 11 Years to get here... This episode is sharing what happened this holiday in our little family. I kept thinking how did we get here?! What are we doing?! And then reminding myself that this is what living into your values instead of the "shoulds" looks and feels like. We hope that sharing will help you be ready to do the same. Ready to figure out "What NOW?!" after betrayal? Pick up the FREE Workbook to get you started. theboldlogic.com/freeworkbook . Had a parnter come out and ...
Jan 04, 2023•20 min•Ep. 167
What does it look like when you add a third “Dad” to your child’s life? We can’t say how it goes for everyone but in this episode, we share what it has been like for us and our daughter. Jalen is back to share how it has been joining our family. What the move to Boise was like. And how many plants Steve and Jalen own. They are definitely plant dads. Want to be a safe place for your friends and family who come out? Pick up the FREE guide, “Six Ways To Be A Better Ally”. https://theboldlogic.com/l...
Dec 21, 2022•42 min•Ep. 166
Joining us today may be the most anticipated guest EVER in the history of podcasting… Okay, maybe just in the history of the Husband in Law Podcast. Any guesses?! How did you get that right?! Maybe because we gave it away in the last episode. Jalen, Steve’s boyfriend, is here with us today. And you will see why he fits into our little family so perfectly. He opens up about IT ALL! By the end of this episode, you will get to know him and love him just like we do (well, maybe not quite how Steve l...
Dec 14, 2022•54 min•Ep. 165
You had questions and we have answers… Kind of. Haha! Okay we do answer your questions in this episode. Everything from finding a new community after coming out, to how pissed did Jessica and Steve get at each other during the “in between phases” of their relationship, to how did Steve and Jalen meet. BUT the thing we want you to know most is that we share what has worked for us. And while some of the same things might work for you, what is most important is that you do what feels right for you....
Dec 07, 2022•59 min•Ep. 164
This episode is a quick reminder as to why gratitude is so dang important AND some insight as to what gratitude can really do for you in your life. Enjoy! Feeling the pressure of the holidays? Ready for more joy and less stress during the holiday season while feeling connected to yourself and others?! Register for the FREE Holiday Boundaries Class to get just that starting TODAY! There will be a replay because I know the holiday season gets crazy! BUT you will only have access to that if you are...
Nov 23, 2022•11 min•Ep. 163
It's the most wonderful time of the year... except when it isn't. The holidays can be joyful or straight up stressful. More often than not they are a combination of both. This holiday season set yourself up the best you can with some Holiday Boundaries. LAST CHANCE! Gnomies are rolling out fast! Grab yours while you can. Head to theboldlogicshop.com to get yours before they are gone. (This may be the last year we offer these... It will for sure be the last year Jessica is hand making them. So if...
Nov 09, 2022•38 min•Ep. 162
Have you see the "Mormon No More" documentary on Hulu? Whether you have or haven't won't make a difference as you listen to today's episode where the three of us sit down to share our own unique perspectives on it. Don't miss the names/titles Matt felt would have been more fitting. Do you think any of us will see eye to eye on it?! 😅 Want a simple way to create holiday magic without the elf and even as your kids are growing up? Get on the Waitlist to claim a Gnomie as soon as they are available...
Nov 02, 2022•38 min•Ep. 161
Steve always tells me he doesn't want to live past 60. 😅 Which quite honestly pisses me off BUT he carries very strong feelings about "getting older" and until we recorded this episode I didn't realize that Matt has very strong feelings as about it as well. You can hear what Matt has to say by listening in now. What are your thoughts about getting older? I didn't say this on a the podcast but I feel like it is a daily gift I am given and I am here for it. 🙌🏻 I am glad you are here today as we...
Oct 26, 2022•31 min•Ep. 160
