You’ve probably had first dates that you thought went well, with good conversation and no awkward silences. And then when you ask her out again, she lowers the boom: “Hey, I just didn’t feel a spark. But we can be friends.” Or maybe she just ghosts you! It’s so frustrating. Your problem? Odds are, you’re not “escalating” on dates in the 5 core ways that dial up romantic connection. If you don’t know these Escalation Secrets, you’ll likely struggle on dates and not even know why. In this episode,...
Oct 10, 2023•25 min
Do you feel stuck in your dating life? Would you like to approach beautiful women, but something holds you back? Do you consume dating tips on YouTube, but you’re STILL not “shooting your shot” with your types of women? Do you feel like the wheels of your love life are spinning in mud? Here’s the problem: You’re trapped in Information Mode. And you need to get into Action Mode. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett gives you a simple strategy to go from “stuck” to taking the right action...
Oct 06, 2023•27 min
You know what’s frustrating? When you’re talking to an attractive woman—say, on a date or at a social event—and you get stuck in your head. You overthink. You judge yourself. You worry, “What do we talk about next? What if I run out of things to say?” This hurts your confidence and leads to awkward conversations. Yikes. Well, those days are over. It’s time to unleash the power of presence! Dating coach Connell Barrett has had over 1,000 dates, and in this episode of the Dating Transformation pod...
Oct 03, 2023•32 min
Is dating just not fun for you? Do you judge yourself harshly after dates or interactions with women? Do you struggle with flirting and talking to cute girls, and you’re not improving? Let’s get this handled! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett shares a simple mindset drill called the Coin of Self-Assessment. It’s a simple mental tip you can apply every day to make dating a LOT more fun, while helping you get better at flirting, approaching, and connecting on first dates. Listen now, a...
Sep 29, 2023•23 min
Swiping and swiping. Lack of quality matches. Women who ghost. Fake accounts. Chances are, online-dating just doesn’t work for you. But it’s NOT because you’re unattractive. It’s because you’re making a big dating-app mistake… and you’re not even aware of it! So let’s fix this. In today’s episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the truth about online-dating, so you can STOP swiping without success, and START getting matches and dates with wonderful women. If you want to turn your phone int...
Sep 26, 2023•32 min
First dates can be scary. Will she like you? Will you run out of things to say? Will there be awkward silences? Will she dump you for the cool bartender with the man bun? Questions, questions… Fear not. Your host, dating coach Connell Barrett, has had more than 1,000 first dates. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, he shares the 5 essential moves that he and his clients use to have great dates with wonderful women. Stop going on lame dates and start making sparks fly. Listen no...
Sep 22, 2023•28 min
You know what sucks worse than Mondays and paper cuts? Wanting to “make a move” with a woman you’re into and then freezing up. It’s frustrating. You want to talk to that cutie at your gym, but you’re stuck in your head. You’d like to ask out your crush, but what if she says no? It’s frustrating, because you’re tired of being lonely, but you can’t seem to get going. It’s time to stop spinning your wheels and start taking action! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell tells ...
Sep 19, 2023•29 min
It’s the scariest moment of a date: Going for the first kiss. You probably don’t how to read her signals to know if you can kiss her. If you move in to lock lips too soon, you’ll creep her out. If you wait too long or don’t even try, hello, “friend zone.” Ouch! And if your kiss attempt is awkward, she’ll likely reject you and give you the cheek… and there won’t be another date. No worries—dating coach Connell Barrett can help. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell shares ...
Sep 15, 2023•39 min
There’s a good chance you struggle with what to say and how to flirt with women. You get stuck in your head. You doubt yourself. Maybe you fall into dreaded “interview mode” with a woman and interrogate her. The consequences? She either disappears, or she says, “You seem great, but I didn’t feel a spark.” Either way, she’s lost interest. And this can kill your confidence. Never fear—7 new flirting moves are here! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett ...
Sep 12, 2023•29 min
So you’re texting a cool, cute girl, and then… silence. Tumbleweeds. She vanishes! It’s frustrating to get SO close to a date, only to have her disappear. It can feel devastating, like there’s something wrong with you—and make you want to delete the apps for good. The good news? You can fix this! It’s time to STOP getting ghosted and START getting dates. How? Use the “3 Times Rule,” a simple, tested texting system that gets results. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating co...
Sep 08, 2023•38 min
You may think that women want a bold, brash “alpha male” to show her who’s boss. But think again! The truth is, women love men who are in touch with their feminine sides. Embracing that side of yourself doesn’t rob you of your masculine essence. It balances it, making you more complex, complete and attractive to women. Yes, a “real man” approaches and makes moves. But he also empathizes, listens, and shows compassion for women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell B...
Sep 05, 2023•31 min
Odds are, you’re making a BIG mistake with a woman and you don’t even know it: You’re playing it safe. Being timid. Not going for it. Sure, you’re a nice guy and a true gentleman, and you don’t want to “creep women out.” That’s a good thing! But if you play it too safe in dating, you convey low confidence or come off as boring. And this repels women. Why? They don’t want a safe, timid guy. They want a confident risk taker. Hello, friend zone and rejection and loneliness. Never fear—dating coach ...
Sep 01, 2023•27 min
It’s another installment of “Ask the Dating Coach!” This week, your host Connell Barrett helps you solve your trickiest online-dating problems. Today’s questions include: “How long should I text a girl on an app before I ask her out?”, “Should I boost my profile, or is that a waste of money?”, “What’s a smooth way to ask for her digits?” And much more. Yes, online-dating is challenging, and you’re probably struggling in some areas. But Connell has ALL the answers. (Got a question for him? Email ...
Aug 29, 2023•41 min
Do you lack dating confidence? Do you feel that women of a certain beauty are out of your league? Do you struggle with what to say to girls and how to flirt? It’s frustrating, especially when you see other, more outgoing guys dating the kinds of women you’d LOVE to be with. Let’s fix this! The great news? EVERY woman is attracted to confidence, and today you’re going to take yours to a whole new level. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares the 4 Pillar...
Aug 25, 2023•37 min
Chances are, you struggle with how to talk to women. You’re just not sure the right way to flirt or what to say, and you get stuck in your head. Or perhaps you come across as boring or not charismatic. And women just don’t seem to feel romantic sparks with you. It’s frustrating! You’re in luck. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the two BIGGEST mistakes that men make when trying to flirt with women. (Make sure you’re not doing them!) He also...
Aug 22, 2023•30 min
Rejection… ghosting… not knowing what to say… low confidence. Man, dating can suck! But it doesn’t have to. What if you had simple, tested moves to not only flirt with wonderful women, but to also ENJOY dating? It’s true—looking for love can be fun! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares his “happiness blueprint”—a new way to have fun on the singles scene, whether you want more matches on the apps, flirty conversations with desirable women, or s...
Aug 15, 2023•33 min
We open up the “Ask the Dating Coach” mailbag to help you solve your most vexing dating questions. “How do I flirt over text?” “How do I stop getting friend-zoned on first dates?” “Why do women not reply to my openers?” “How do I stop fearing rejection so I can confidently approach?” And more. Dating coach Connell Barrett has fixes to all of these problems, so you can take your dating life to the next level. Listen now! FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL, TO LEARN HOW TO ALWAYS KNOW WHAT TO S...
Aug 11, 2023•38 min
So you’ve been dating an incredible woman (YES! You deserve it!). But you’re not sure how to go from “just dating” to “boyfriend-girlfriend”? Should you bring it up, or should she? How many dates until you suggest being a couple? What if she turns you down? Could you end up losing her? It’s confusing. When you feel you’ve found The One, it helps to have a plan. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett give you the playbook to turn the wonderful woman you...
Aug 08, 2023•30 min
You often see intriguing women in bars, cafes, or at the gym, and you WANT to talk to them, but fear holds you back. You think, “What if I creep her out? What if she rejects me?” This anxiety feels paralyzing, and is costing you confidence and romance. Real talk: If you can’t walk up to a woman and flirt, you have room to grow as a man. So… let’s fix it! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the No. 1 way to approach women in a confident way th...
Aug 04, 2023•27 min
Have you ever fallen into “interview mode”? That’s when you ask your date lots of boring questions (“How was your day? What’s your job? How many siblings do you have?”) that lead to bad dates. Instead of connecting with her, you interrogate her. And there’s no second date because she “just didn’t feel a connection.” Interview mode is frustrating, but you can fix it… TODAY! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares 8 tested tips to help you become m...
Aug 01, 2023•32 min
If you’re like most single men, you doubt your attractiveness to women. You think you’re not handsome enough or not tall enough or not outgoing enough—not SOMETHING enough—to connect with cool, cute girls. This hurts your confidence, costs you dates, and just bums you out. The great news? Today you can stop doubting yourself and start dating wonderful women. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett shares the 5 Super Shifts to help you banish doubt and c...
Jul 28, 2023•29 min
Don’t you hate it when you meet an attractive woman and you want SO badly to be funny, witty, charming… but you spend the whole date “stuck in your head”? There are awkward silences, and you can tell she’s not that into you. Odds are, you’re making a common mistake that’s keeping you from being your most confident, witty, authentic self. Let’s fix this! In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett smashes another five myths that are hurting your confidenc...
Jul 25, 2023•33 min
There are 7 “deadly dating sins” that many men commit in the #MeToo era that will get them ghosted. Make sure you’re not making any of these mistakes. In this special episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, host Connell Barrett tells you what they are, so you can avoid these dating pitfalls. Plus, Connell shares a raw, personal story about a woman he once date who is survivor of sexual assault. He explains how she opened his eyes about the importance of the #MeToo movement, and how she hel...
Jul 21, 2023•25 min
The #MeToo era has made dating more confusing than ever. As a good-hearted guy, you’re caught between two extremes. On one hand, you don’t want to do anything inappropriate. On the other, you fear that doing nothing will land you in the Friend Zone. And you’re just not sure… Can you still approach, or is that harassment? Should you ask for her number? Can you go for a first kiss, or is that creepy? It’s confusing! In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett shares ...
Jul 18, 2023•35 min
You may think that desirable women only want to date handsome men, or perhaps guys who are tall or rich. But the truth is, most women just want a confident, authentic man who has his life together. But believing these outdated beliefs can crush your confidence and cost you dates. After all, it’s hard to talk to and ask out a woman if you think she’s out of your league. In this episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, host Connell Barrett takes a sledgehammer to 5 debilitating dating myths t...
Jul 14, 2023•39 min
Getting dates is great (yes!) What’s NOT great? Struggling with what to say, and dealing with long… awkward… silences (nooooo!) In this episode of the Dating Transformation Podcast, listen in on a coaching session that coach Connell has with his client Tom. Tom has gone from getting ZERO dates to landing as many as FIVE DATES a week! Just one problem: He’s still struggling with what to say and how to flirt. Listen now, as Connell gives some practical tips to avoid awkward silences and keep the c...
Jul 11, 2023•1 hr 7 min
When you see an attractive woman you’d love to meet, fear of rejection likely holds you back. “What if she doesn’t like me?,” you think. Or if you want to go for a first-date kiss, the R-word paralyzes you, and you worry, “What if she turns away?” Hello, Friend Zone. In dating, fear of rejection is the Big Bad Wolf. It costs you confidence and romantic success. In today’s episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you cure your fear of rejection, so you can ...
Jul 07, 2023•37 min
Do you lack self-confidence with women? Do cute girls tend to see you as not attractive enough or not tall enough or not charismatic enough… not something enough? Low confidence makes you less attractive and leads to rejection and loneliness. It’s frustrating… but it’s fixable! If you want to learn how to be more attractive to women, you’re in luck. In this special “live coaching” episode of the Dating Transformation podcast, Connell Barrett shares a game-changing coaching secret for the first t...
Jul 06, 2023•1 hr 15 min
Do you get stuck in your head when talking to women? Do you doubt yourself and think, “What would she see in me?” Do you send boring texts that make girls ghost you? If so, then it’s time to use your dating superpowers! That’s right! EVERY guy has a dating superpower. You just have to harness it. This week, dating coach Connell Barrett helps you uncover YOUR special dating skill. He also shares 6 powerful tools that you can use to get more dates and more confidence. Listen now so you can make sp...
Jun 30, 2023•26 min
So you have a big date lined up, or maybe you’re gonna hit the bars to socialize with women, but you have NO idea what to wear. Do labels matter? Should you wear sneakers or shoes? Or those chinos the right choice, or do you look like your dad’s golf buddy? Your clothes can either make you MAGNETIC… or they can make you lonely and dateless. In dating, your looks are overrated, but your LOOK matters… a lot! Good style is essential. In today’s Dating Transformation podcast, host and dating coach C...
Jun 27, 2023•37 min
