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Hot Mess Millionaire

Dr. Venus Opal Reesewww.venusopal.com
From the “mean” streets of Baltimore to Stanford Ph.D. to Black Woman Millionaire. Dr. Venus Opal Reese has some shit to say. Starting with an audio performance of The Raw Truth: A Pimp Daughter’s Diary, followed by a series of topics that cover real-life & money matters, this show is all about giving yourself permission. Permission to be wounded AND wealthy. Permission to flaunt your freak flag unafraid. Permission to be a bunch of contradictions that somehow, someway, make a perfect whole. Real talk: life, like money, is not neat. But that’s the good news! You don’t have to be perfect to be a millionaire. Or happy. Or to fulfill your destiny. But you DO have to be your “real and raw” authentic self. And Dr. Venus leads the way by example. Tune in weekly, to discover how to dive, head-first, into the sloppiness of what it takes to turn your “mess” into meaning AND millions! THIS is Hot Mess Millionaire. Join us.
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Episodes

Creating Inside Of Chaos

Believe it or not, there has never been a better time to step into your power and claim your space in the world as a Black Woman Millionaire, or even just as a creative human looking to turn their mess into millions. So many of us have been feeling like we have been living in a fight or flight mode, a reaction to all the chaos surrounding the George Floyd murder, the pandemic, and the election. Now, the tide is changing, the tone is elevating and it’s time to be present and take action. The new ...

Nov 25, 202034 minSeason 2Ep. 47

Dreaming Again Under A Biden/Harris Presidency

Real Talk: You aren’t alone if you feel like you are JUST getting out of an abusive relationship with President Trump. For Dr. Venus, she had mixed emotions. Relief, joy, and fear of Trump's retaliation moved through her with the declaration that Joe Biden and Kamala Harris were the President and Vice President-elect. She cried and prayed the whole day after the big announcement. If you had this reaction as well, it’s because the tension and quiet panic we’ve been feeling for the last four years...

Nov 18, 202039 minSeason 2Ep. 46

Post-Election Protest: Praying For The Best While Preparing For The Worse

As the world holds its breath to find out the outcome of this election, we are already seeing voter suppression and intimidation in its finest form. Whatever the outcome, how do we handle winning & being contested in the streets by Republican Militia or losing & protesting that will likely be characterized as rioting? This week, Dr. Venus explores how we can keep our peace and sanity in this post election process. She shares how we can trust the process, let go — knowing we did our part ...

Nov 11, 202040 minSeason 2Ep. 45

Trump Lies - Do You?

Trump lies. He lies by omission, by redirecting focus, by spreading misinformation, and by almost every other way there is out there to avoid the truth. However, Trump isn’t the only one that lies. We do it all the time to protect ourselves, make things seem bigger and better than they actually are, or even to avoid hurting someone’s feelings. This week, Dr. Venus breaks down what a lie is, why we lie so often, and how it kills our spiritual and financial flow when we turn away from the truth. S...

Nov 04, 202036 minSeason 2Ep. 44

Patriarchy & A Woman’s Right To Vote

Throughout history, women have been forgotten, taken for granted, and seen as objects to be used rather than humans with opinions to be heard. Now, with the election just a few days ahead, it is important to recognize that it will be the female vote that will evolve our country. Dr. Venus walks it back slowly this week to provide resources and a timeline on how Black Men got the chance to vote before White Women. She then discusses the importance of Democracy, and why Black Men supporting Trump ...

Oct 28, 202037 minSeason 2Ep. 43

How to Stay In Power When Weak, Petty, & Small People Try to Shut You Up and Tear You Down

Whenever a woman of power speaks up, weak people try to turn her down or refer to her as a witch, bitch, or nasty woman. We saw it first hand recently when Senator Harris was called a monster and unlikeable after claiming her time to talk in the Vice Presidential debates. This week, Dr. Venus discusses the historical context of why women get silenced and shamed when they speak their truth, and how we can keep our power when small-minded people try to tear us down. You have something to say, and ...

Oct 21, 202035 minSeason 2Ep. 42

Dictatorship or Democracy?

It seems like every day that goes by with the news that Donald Trump contracted COVID-19 brings us a new twist and turn, a new mixed message, and a new reason to question what’s really going on. Between this fanfare, the economy, and the current climate of our society, Dr. Venus explains that what is really at stake is our democracy. We are in a fight now between Dictatorship vs. Democracy, and we will not give up. It's time to finish what was started over 400 years ago. Key Takeaways: [4:12] Wi...

Oct 14, 202036 minSeason 2Ep. 41

Say HER Name: Notorious R.B.G

As a Supreme Court justice, Ruth Bader Ginsburg successfully and tenaciously fought against gender discrimination, and towards equality and justice for women. We tend to take for granted the kind of rights that she fought for us to have as women, including the ability to rent or own a home, drive a car, collect a paycheck, or even get an abortion. Ruth Bader Ginsburg fought for many of the rights we as Black Women consider ”our right,” but there was a time where you could not buy a car without y...

Sep 30, 202040 minSeason 2Ep. 40

How to LIVE When The World is Falling Apart

If you are feeling the weight of the world polluting your peace and sanity, you're not alone and you're not crazy. Many of us feel the fatigue in our eyes, our skin, and definitely our social media. We are living under a sky that looks like Armageddon, we have hurricanes and natural disasters in the weirdest places, and the police are on an unchecked killing spree. Is it even possible to go through this time with EASE and with our head held high? Yes, but we need to get some pieces in place. Thi...

Sep 23, 202037 minSeason 2Ep. 39

Trump-Proofing Your Peace

Dr. Venus doesn’t know about you, but Trump is certainly not her God. That means she refuses to let Trump’s cray-cray rob her of her faith and peace and hopes you do the same. Today, she focuses on God’s love and how to live in divine faith instead of fear. The more energy you give Trump, even the energy of hate, the more you make him your God, and Dr. Venus explains how this happens, and what we can do about it. She also shares the Top 5 spiritual practices to stay peaceful and strong in a time...

Sep 16, 202034 minSeason 2Ep. 38

White Supremacy in Blackface: How Some Black People Can Be Trump Supporters

How can sane, educated, successful, people of African Ancestry support Trump so vehemently, regardless of the slander and backlash? How do they get to the point where they are regurgitating White Supremacy rhetoric that has been passed down since slavery began. Better yet, how do we engage with Black Trump supporters in a way that doesn’t aggravate us? This week, Dr. Venus discusses why we still have White Supremacy in Blackface, and gives a historical context from the days of slavery up until o...

Sep 09, 202045 minSeason 2Ep. 37

Stop Calling Black Women Liars

This subject may make you feel a little tense, maybe even a little frustrated. And that’s okay. For Black Women, it’s a conversation we need to have to grow and heal the historical wounds that keep us from taking care of ourselves. This week, Dr. Venus starts a conversation on how White Supremacy set up a system that deprived Black Women of their femininity, where many Black girls and Women get called liars when they speak up for themselves. She gives historical context of how slavery created a ...

Sep 02, 202031 minSeason 2Ep. 36

Race Is NOT Skin or Your Momma

President Obama, Halle Berry, & Tiger Woods are mixed race, yet we have cheered them on and celebrated their wins at almost every turn. However, ever since Senator Kamala Harris agreed to be Joe Bidden’s running mate for the 2020 presidential election, BLACK PEOPLE, especially wounded Black Men, have been blowing smoke because her momma is not African American. This week, Dr. Venus breaks down why we can’t afford to let our feelings get in the way from voting in this election, and why we hav...

Aug 26, 202033 minSeason 2Ep. 35

Madame Vice President: Is America Ready For A Black Woman to Run The White House?

Now that the news is out and Joe Biden has announced Kamala Harris as his running mate, the feeling of pure possibility is higher than ever before, at a time where we need it most. This week it’s not about finding faults or promoting more hate, but instead celebrating a huge move for Black Women and the nation as a whole. Dr. Venus holds a conversation about the seven women that were potential running mates for Biden and the different reasons we can both celebrate them and hold each woman as a m...

Aug 19, 202036 minSeason 2Ep. 34

The Black Men Who Love Us

There has been so much negativity surrounding Black Men in the media lately, so Dr. Venus wanted to take this episode to celebrate and honor the Black Men that love us. When we commit to healing and uniting, we will be one step closer to slaying White Supremacy. Dr. Venus discusses the top three reasons Black Men rose to middle and upper class from 1960 to 2016, how we can set up personal boundaries to show up in power and not take the actions of others personally, and the real conversations we ...

Aug 12, 202054 minSeason 2Ep. 33

George or Breonna: Who’s Life “Mattered” More?

Why is it that we march, protest, even riot for George Floyd, Rodney King, Michael Brown — but not for ANY Black Woman killed by the police? Who speaks up for Breonna Taylor beyond the grave? Where are the champions of Sandra Bland, found hanging in her jail cell & called a suicide? This week, Dr. Venus discusses if Black Lives Matter is code for Black “Men’s” Lives Matter, and if this means going back to the historical positioning of Black Women as less valuable than Black Men in terms of s...

Aug 05, 202030 minSeason 2Ep. 32

White Supremacy, Black Masculinity & Domestic Violence

This week’s conversation is a very tender and real one, so Dr. Venus goes in with a safe, soft, and slow approach. To fully heal and move forward, we must understand that domestic violence, as it pertains to Black masculinity, is a re-enactment of White Supremacy. Dr. Venus provides resources to advocate for yourself and others who may be suffering from domestic violence and then discusses how respect, the safety net of forgiveness and obedience are all part of the cycle of abuse. She also discu...

Jul 29, 202048 minSeason 2Ep. 31

Black Men & White Supremacy

In this week’s episode, Dr. Venus goes in on what it means to love Black Men who wear the wounds of White Supremacy, Slavery, Bigotry, and Racism like emotional armor. She sets the historical and emotional context between White Supremacy and Black Masculinity, and why understanding the dance between these two can help Black Men and Women relate and care for one another. Dr. Venus then discusses how Black Women can hold space for Black Men in a way that is protective, supportive, and real. Key Ta...

Jul 22, 202039 minSeason 2Ep. 30

God - Where You At?

God meets us on our own terms, and however you honor that — be it traditional, spiritual, or Universal, there is a power bigger than you at work in life. But, in the midst of police brutality, publicly televised executions, and a virus that feels like a plague, it’s easy to feel energetically exhausted and question where God is, and how this could all be happening. This week, Dr. Venus focuses on how to activate faith when you are feeling attacked and oppressed. She talks about making sure you a...

Jul 15, 202043 minSeason 2Ep. 29

White Supremacy is a Cult

White Supremacy is more than an ideology. It's a cult. A disease. A sickness that is so ingrained in the sense of self of those who drink of its poison that it will go to extremes — including suicide, murder, genocide — you name it, in order to keep itself in existence. In this episode, Dr. Venus breaks down the logic of White Supremacy through the lens of “perceived violence” vs “proven violence.” She discusses why whites always seem to steal from cultures and take everything except for the pai...

Jul 07, 202037 minSeason 2Ep. 28

Lynchings Are For YOU

Lynchings are for you, not the person that died. This week, Dr. Venus explores the psychological warfare of lynching and how these performative acts are designed to use images, visuals, and rhetoric to keep us scared and quiet. She explains why you don’t have to share or engage with the image and the importance of protecting yourself emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Dr. Venus covers the historical context of lynching so that we can understand how it is still happening today, and how these...

Jul 01, 202034 minSeason 2Ep. 27

Trump Is Not a Racist. He’s a White Supremacist.

In this week’s episode, Dr. Venus breaks down the difference between a racist vs. a White Supremacist, which one Trump is, and why not knowing the difference could cost us the election in November. She breaks down the definitions of both racism and White Supremacy, and explains that Supremacy actually comes from fear and powerlessness. She provides a long list of resources on how to STOP letting White Supremacy rob you of your power, your voice, and your vote. White Supremacy has been integrated...

Jun 24, 202039 minSeason 2Ep. 26

Get Over Slavery? A Historical Timeline Of Legalized Murder

What do you do when someone tells you “just get over it” when you bring up slavery and equal rights? How do you feel, and even further - how do you respond to such statements? This week, Dr. Venus shares tangible facts and language around the history of slavery, protests, and looting that you can use to stay articulate and informed in the face of ignorance. She starts in 1619 and goes through significant yet under-reported events such as the Tulsa Race Riots and the Rosewood Florida Massacre. Dr...

Jun 17, 202039 minSeason 2Ep. 25

You Loot They Shoot

To fully understand where we are now, and where we are about to go in the future, we must become aware of the rhythm of social change, and the upheaval that comes with every breakthrough. Dr. Venus created this powerful episode to remind us that this is a time we need to let play out, and stay strong without getting distracted by hijackers and instigators. Dr. Venus also explains more historical context around looting, so that we can understand it and see it for what it really is, and the visibi...

Jun 10, 202032 minSeason 2Ep. 24

Knee On His Neck

In the face of terrorism and the auspice of civility, we need now more than ever to own our power and our voice, and notice what’s really going on around us. This week, Dr. Venus gives us context around the police killing Black people from the standpoint of being an identity theorist, a cultural critic, and a thought leader. She reads excerpts from a few of her favorite books and discusses why we are triggered as a collective consciousness when we see another Black death in the news. Every histo...

Jun 10, 202028 minSeason 2Ep. 23

Do You Trust God With Your Money?

Whatever you are into spiritually, religiously, scientifically, universally, etc., you most likely have a relationship between the higher powers and money. Usually, it takes the form of asking for any of it, more of it, or why it’s not flowing in the way you desire. This week, Dr. Venus talks about how we can expand our experience with God so it includes money in a way that aligns with your dreams and needs. She first breaks down the historical explanation of why religion can keep us from access...

Jun 03, 202035 minSeason 1Ep. 22

Create a Crisis Worthy Of Your Life

One gift that came with Dr. Venus living life on the streets was seeing that time and time again, she could create and provide for herself no matter the circumstance. She realized in this time of uncertainty that it is normal to feel a number of emotions, mastering the knowledge of this gift can help lift us out of the frustration and feelings of powerlessness. This week she takes a deep dive into how we can create a crisis bigger than our current limitations and rise up to meet an even bigger a...

May 27, 202034 minSeason 1Ep. 21

Heal Your Mother Wound/Multiply Your Money

May is the month we love our mothers, and there is no better time than now to heal old wounds and traumas from the mother dynamic and embrace the grace and space that comes with a fresh new perspective. This week, Dr. Venus shares how our money and how we relate to the world is heavily influenced by this relationship with our mothers and how we can free ourselves by changing the way we view generational patterns and behaviors. It’s not easy to take a good long look at the turbulence and complica...

May 20, 202033 minSeason 1Ep. 20

Who’s Leading Your Money & Your Life?

To manifest millions, or even just to have some cash, we have to start with leadership. Not leadership in terms of politics, or even just directing other people, but self-leadership. In this week’s episode, Dr. Venus lays out ways that we can set the container and create our own life instead of reacting to other people’s thoughts, opinions, or even actions against us. She explains how our money is tied into our own self-leadership, and shares ways that we can take a stand for ourselves, become o...

May 13, 202031 minSeason 1Ep. 19

Quarantine Cash: Monetize The RIGHT Way During This Pandemic

This week, Dr. Venus shares deeply important lessons on how we can win with our marketing messages and sales offerings using love, generosity, and faith instead of fear. She talks about the price of being tone-deaf in our marketing, and how we can shift to a message where people feel taken care of and committed. She reassures us that it is possible to be in quarantine and bring in clients, but we have to shift our focus on what we know and our experience, rather than what we do. Key Takeaways: [...

May 01, 202025 minSeason 1Ep. 18
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