Makings Others Responsible For Your Happiness

I've seen it a lot with my clients where couples get into heated arguments because they feel emotionally responsible for each other.  Interestingly this helped see it in my own relationship where I would make my fiancee responsible for my own emotional well-being.  When you make others responsible for your well-being you nit pick at everything they do, because everything they do carries the heavy weight of your emotional wellbeing.  I noticed that whenever my relationship was not doing well, I was felt terrible.  I couldn't enjoy my life because I would allow my relationship troubles to consume me.  And it consumed me because I made my relationship , among one of the many things outside of myself, responsible for my happiness.  True peace of mind was achieved when I made myself the primary source of my happiness, peace of mind, wisdom, you name it!

Listen to this week's podcast to help gain clarity on being your source of happiness and letting go of expecting others to give the thing you need to be giving to yourself.