What games are you playing in life? Depending on your context around the word "game" you might answer this question in many ways. My response is MANY, because I believe we're all playing many games in our lives.....and we're all WINNING at the games we're playing! In today's bonus episode I'm sharing with you a not-so-secret (yet still super effective) strategy that top performers in all fields use to win at the games they're playing Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Apr 23, 2019•27 min
Do you have toxic people in your life? How about in your inner circle? Are there folks in your life who are constantly bringing negativity and noise into your world? And what are the things you should be reviewing and thinking about when preparing for marriage? These are the questions I answer in today's episode of the podcast! The topics today were suggested by YOU and all have to do with OTHERS. Last week I focused on SELF, and today we're focusing on OTHERS (next week is LIFE). I get fiery in...
Apr 16, 2019•1 hr 5 min
What does it mean to be your authentic self? How do you tackle moving through your biggest fears? What does the phrase "having it all" mean to you personally? Today's episode is a cool one, because I'm answering your questions about authenticity, fear and having it all! Over the next few episodes I'll be addressing questions and topics inspired directly from you, covering the areas of Self, Others and Life. You can learn more about the Blueprint at http://matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more a...
Apr 09, 2019•56 min
Are you familiar with the mind-body connection? It's truly fascinating! Your mind and body are connected, and the former has a huge influence on the health and wellbeing of the latter. In today's episode I talk about the mind-body connection, particularly as it relates to the labels we wear on about ourselves. Chopra Center Article Link: https://chopra.com/articles/mind-body-connection-understanding-the-psycho-emotional-roots-of-disease Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoi...
Apr 02, 2019•35 min
When was the last time you were triggered by someone or something, and felt really uncomfortable? I had 2 conversations in the past few days that brought up some discomfort in me. One had to do with my money and the other had to do with my weight. It got me thinking - what has made you feel uncomfortable recently and are you willing to do something about it? Today I'm sharing the scenarios where I was triggered and I'm issuing a challenge if you're bold enough to do something about your discomfo...
Mar 26, 2019•36 min
What are you doing that's keeping you stuck, playing small, in your denial or fearful? Yes, every "mistake" can be seen as a lesson which can lead to learning and growth, however if you're unaware of things you're doing which are keeping you in denial or feeding your ego, then the ultimate growth or healing you say you're playing for will not arise. In this episode I'm sharing 7 mistakes that I've made and that I've seen others make as they work to heal, grow, and improve themselves. Learn more ...
Mar 19, 2019•53 min
How do you feel about your partner watching pornography? It's a topic that I wouldn't be surprised comes up in most relationships in some way. I know it certainly has in mine. On today's episode, Sarah joins me to answer a listener email about porn in relationships. This one gets real. It's also important I say that neither Sarah nor I are therapists, counselors or doctors, and that we're speaking on this subject purely from out own experiences. Listen for entertainment purposes only. Learn more...
Mar 12, 2019•1 hr 21 min
How big is your money game? That's the question at the heart of today's episode. You see, there are many beliefs out there around money and personal self worth that impact your financial reality. Money is a topic that can be so complex because of all of the emotions we wrap up in it. So today's episode is sure to create a bit of friction within you! Having It A.L.L. Blueprint Online Course -- www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Mar 06, 2019•37 min
Today's mini episode quotes are all about having personal standards in your life, and they come from Mastin Kipp, Joel Brown and Tony Robbins. Setting and holding personal standards are so important to me in fact, that they make up the final 3 sections of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 03, 2019•10 min
Today's quotes are all about the power of having a personal mission in your life, and come from Zig Ziglar and Victor Frankl. I'm a HUGE fan of personal mission statements (it's one of my most returned to topics on the podcast), and it's the subject of section 4 of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 03, 2019•11 min
"There is a lie that acts like a virus within the mind of humanity. And that lie is, ‘There’s not enough good to go around. There’s lack and there’s limitation and there’s just not enough.’ The truth is that .... there is enough for everyone." Today's quote is from Michael Beckwith and is about Abundance. Abundance Mentality & Environments are the subject of section 3 of the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your...
Mar 01, 2019•7 min
Today's mini episode is all about TALENTS. Each of us have them. They're the skills we've learned over time, developed through practice and intention. When we are proactive about using them in our lives, we feel more accomplished and fulfilled. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch I'll be bringing you mini quote episodes throughout the rest of this week. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about you...
Mar 01, 2019•8 min
"When your values are clear to you, making decisions becomes easier". That quote is from Roy E. Disney, and is the topic for today's special mini episode. My course, the Having It A.L.L. Blueprint, launched this week, and to celebrate the launch I'll be bringing you mini quote episodes throughout the rest of this week. To learn more about the course visit www.matthewbivens.com/blueprint Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Feb 27, 2019•8 min
Are you avoiding breakdowns in your life? You might be saying "Of course I do, why wouldn't I?" Well, buckle up because in today's episode I'm letting you know that if you're living a life of avoiding breakdowns (not being your authentic self, not speaking your truth, not sharing boldly, not asking for what you want, not stepping into the ring), then you cannot expect to experience massive breakthroughs that lead to transformations. They just won't happen. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit...
Feb 26, 2019•31 min
What is your personal mission in life? Why do you get out of bed and do what you do each day? I talk a lot about personal mission statements in this podcast. I believe in the power of a personal mission statement. I've seen how having one for the past 6 years has shaped my life, and I've witnessed the power they unlock within my clients. On today's episode I'm rebroadcasting an awesome conversation I had with Sarah all about the power of personal mission statements to create your best life. Lear...
Feb 20, 2019•1 hr 2 min
What are the beliefs, stories, experiences that you've pushed down so deep into your soul, that the thought of bringing them into the light is terrifying? That's what we're talking about in today's episode! If you're listening to this show it's because you desire to have it all and you're hoping to get some ideas, motivation, tools, belief systems to help you achieve that. My message today is simple: You will not have it all because you're unwilling to do this one simple thing. Learn more about ...
Feb 12, 2019•42 min
How intentional are you with sex? Sex is a thing that requires zero maturity or acquired knowledge to participate in, yet can be extraordinary risk from both a physical and emotional standpoint. So today I'm talking about the practice of setting intention for your sexual intimacy, and how it can transform not only your experience of the sex you're about to engage in, but also what happens after the sex is complete. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Feb 06, 2019•51 min
What beliefs are you currently holding that is robbing you of your health, happiness, and power? Today I'm talking about the power (and consequences) of your beliefs. Your internal conversations and the beliefs associated with them are something you rep more than any workout. So what beliefs have you been strengthening? Links: http://www.matthewbivens.com/trust/ https://www.instagram.com/p/BsnwZP0l1ng/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Feb 03, 2019•29 min
How do you define purpose, vision and passion? I've had a love hate relationship to the ideas of purpose, vision and passion. At times I've been fired up to connect with my purpose, create my vision, and feel my passion. And at other times I've compared myself to others I thought had them, and judged myself for not. In today's episode I'm talking about the difference between purpose, vision and passion, how they interact with one another, and why they're key ingredients to having it all. Learn m...
Jan 30, 2019•40 min
Are you pursuing money believing that when you get it your life will finally be better? Today I'm going to shatter a few cases of denial, by letting you know that if you're chasing profits without purpose then you will NEVER have it all. Why? Because having it all is so much bigger than the next $10,000 in income, or the next business deal (or the next romantic relationship). Yet, it's very easy to convince ourselves that "I'll be happy when ___". So tune in because it's about to get real! Learn...
Jan 22, 2019•38 min
How attached are you to the way you feel your life should look like? If you're frustrated with the way things are right now... If you're annoyed because something in your life is not going according to your plan... If you're experiencing anxiety because the goals you set are not being met in the timeframe you wanted them to... Then we are in the same place, and this episode is for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Jan 15, 2019•30 min
Do you know where your money is going? Knowing where your money is going each month (aka budgeting) is one of those habits that is incredibly challenging for a lot of us to build and maintain. But part of having it all means that we have a handle on our finances, and so in this episode I'm taking you through some basics of budgeting and sharing with you a few tools and methods I use in my household to stay on top of my money. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Jan 09, 2019•46 min
What is your word for this year? You may be used to creating new years resolutions or setting yearly goals. But I have something even more simple and effective - coming up with a single word that embodies the life you wish to live, the person you wish to become and the results you wish to create in the coming year. In this episode I share with you a simple process for coming up with your word for the year. Download the free "Word For The Year" tool -- http://matthewbivens.com/tools Learn more ab...
Jan 01, 2019•40 min
Have you started planning your goals and resolutions for 2019? There's one thing you want to make sure you do before you write your goals in stone, and that's take a deep look at how you showed up in 2018. In today's episode I'm walking you through a self assessment process (the same one I use with all of my coaching clients) that will help you chart the course for where you want to be in 2019. Get your free self assessment tool here: http://www.matthewbivens.com/tools/ Learn more about your ad ...
Dec 30, 2018•49 min
Did you know that magic and gratitude were major factors in "having it all" to me? That's sort of a trick question, because if you've listened to the show before you know that they are DEFINITELY ingredients to the having it all formula. In today's episode I'm using this Christmas holiday to share magic and express gratitude to the seldomly celebrated people who make the holidays possible and magical. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...
Dec 26, 2018•15 min
Are you feeling stuck in life right now? Feeling stuck is something that we all can relate to, because at one point or another we've been there. It's not a fun feeling, and normally it turns into self criticism and judgements that we're not doing/being enough (smart enough, hard working enough, creative enough, opportunistic enough). For today's episode I was inspired by a message I heard from Mel Robbins where she changes the context around feeling stuck in life. Learn more about your ad choice...
Dec 23, 2018•34 min
What regrets do you have in life? In today's episode I'm sharing an essay written by Bronnie Ware - a nurse who took care of patients in their final days of life. Over the years of her work, she asked her patients if they had any regrets from their life as they faced their death. The patterns she saw emerge with deep and powerful. I share with you the 5 regrets of the dying in this episode, so you can take a moment to evaluate whether you're on the path to experience any of them in your life. Le...
Dec 18, 2018•50 min
How do you stop the process of self sabotaging? That's a million dollar question if I've ever heard one! I think most, if not all, of us can relate to self sabotage. We know what it feels like to see the potential for our greatness, and to do things to undermine our success. In today's episode I'm answering a great question from a listener that starts with self sabotage, and ends up going into some really awesome directions addressing goals, visualization and mission statements. Learn more about...
Dec 12, 2018•38 min
Have you ever felt like your life was not working? That in one (or many) areas of your life, things are just off and not where you want them to be? Maybe you're in that place right now. I recently had a very powerful and humbling experience that showed me why a few areas in my life were off, and today I'm sharing that insight with you. In today's episode you'll hear about the one area where, if you're not showing up here then your life WILL be off, guaranteed! Learn more about your ad choices. V...
Dec 09, 2018•43 min
When was the last time you were truly inspired by someones act of kindness and love? For me, it was just a few minutes ago, and this gesture is the reason for today's episode. I'm rebroadcasting an episode from a few months ago called Paying Forward Positivity, and it's because of what I just saw on my Instagram account -- an example of one of you, a listener of Having It A.L.L., taking me up on a call to action to support fathers dating their daughters. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit m...
Dec 05, 2018•18 min
