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Having It A.L.L.

Matthew Bivenswww.matthewbivens.com
Welcome to Having It A.L.L., the podcast that flips the script on what it means to “have it all” in life. I’m Matthew Bivens, your host and friend, and I’m inviting you to join me in conversations designed to help you radically shift your confidence, self worth, and clarity. In order to create new results in your life - whether that’s in your relationships, your health, your money, your family or your life’s purpose - you must make new decisions and build new habits. This podcast will not only deliver the lessons and action items that will help you move the needle in your life, but also share the vulnerable and honest truth about the challenges of working to improve and ultimately master yourself. Each breakdown can lead to breakthrough, and we cover it all on this podcast. Personal development is not an easy road, but you can create meaningful change that lasts. Let’s do it together one choice at a time. Tune in each week and see that it’s not only possible to have it all, but that you were meant to all along!
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Episodes

Building Greater Trust And Honesty In Your Relationships: Part 1

If you were to rate from 1-10 the level of trust, honesty and authenticity in your current most important relationships, where would you rate them? You already know that trust is a crucial element for a powerful relationship, and it's probably something that's come up in your past or current relationships. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 06, 201845 min

My Experience, Struggles and Lessons Of Being Biracial

Can you relate with feeling uncomfortable in your own skin? I can. In this episode, I'm diving deep into my own experience of growing up biracial, and the disempowering (and sometimes empowering) stories, perceptions and beliefs that I carried around with me. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 27, 201846 min

How To Jumpstart Your Life When You’re Feeling Lost, Confused and Lacking Motivation

How many of us can relate to feeling like we don’t know where we’re going in life? Or the feeling of being lost and confused, even when you’re “supposed” to have it all together? Maybe you’ve always felt that way, or perhaps you’ve just slipped into that state and are looking for a way out. In today’s episode I’m doing something I haven’t done yet on the Having It A.L.L. podcast, I’m answering an email from a listener. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 25, 201842 min

How To Deal With A Confidence and Self Worth Breakdown

When was the last time you had a major breakdown in confidence and self worth? In today's episode I'm sharing the story of attending my wife's high school reunion. I went through the gamut of emotions, limiting beliefs, and self deprecating stories, leading up to and during this reunion. I questioned my abilities as an entrepreneur, husband and provide. It was fascinating!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 20, 201850 min

Exploring Sexual Energy: What Our Relationship With Sex Reveals About Ourselves with Kyla Sokoll-Ward

What is sexual energy? Before a few years ago, I wouldn’t have a clear answer for you. Today I can shed a little more light on the topic, from my experiences and conversations, but I’m still a baby in that area (and that keeps me humbled and excited!) One thing I know is that sexual energy is life energy, and it’s a vital part of who we are as humans. That’s what I choose to believe anyway. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 17, 201858 min

How Are Your Fears Preventing The Greatness Of Others?

How are the decisions you're making and the person you're being, giving those around you permission to play small and stay in their fears? In this episode I'm exploring why we look to others to help us stay in our fears, and am giving you things to think about next time you are on the fence yourself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 13, 201835 min

What's The Point Of Going After Anything That's Reasonable?

What's the point of going after anything that's reasonable in life? I absolutely love this question because I believe answering it gets to the core of what we are all playing for in life. HAVING IT ALL and experiencing an unreasonable amount of abundance and love in every area of life. That's worth going after! I'm psyched for this episode because it marks the kickoff of the new Having It A.L.L. season. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Feb 06, 201839 min

Your Relationships Are Killing You (Rebroadcast)

How aware are you of the impact your relationships are having on your health? In today's episode (which is a rebroadcast of the show from July 11 2016), I'm diving into relationships (and I'm not talking about relationships in the way you might be thinking). This episode will get you thinking. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 24, 201837 min

A Sneak Peak At The Balance and Motherhood Podcast

When it comes to podcasting, I'm not just a guy behind the mic. I'm also a guy behind the people behind the mics, meaning that I also produce shows for folks! You can learn about that at www.Done4UPodcasting.com One of the shows I produce is for my badass wife, Sarah Bivens. Her new podcast is called "The Balance and Motherhood Podcast", and on today's episode I'm giving you all a sneak peak into her new show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Jan 09, 201829 min

The 3 Mindsets That Have Transformed My Confidence, Relationships and Wealth (Rebroadcast)

In today's episode I'm sharing with you three mindsets that have been the biggest catalysts for my personal transformation over the past 4 years. From my self confidence, to the quality of my relationships, to my ability to attract money and create wealth, these 3 things have been the spark for them all. This episode was inspired by a question I was asked last week, "What would you attribute to the huge transformation you've made in your life over the past 4 years?". Learn more about your ad cho...

Dec 27, 201726 min

The Truth About My Marriage - How We've Created An Abundant Loving Relationship

Have you ever wanted to get a look behind the curtain at someones relationship? My wife Sarah and I host a podcast together called Doing It At Home. On that show listeners hear us being ourselves - a fun, goofy, dynamic couple that enjoys a bit of banter, a few mild jokes at the others expense, tons of love and support for each others greatness. All of that comes through on that show. And listeners of the show reach out to show us appreciation for how we appear on the podcast. Learn more about y...

Dec 19, 201755 min

How Removing Accountability From My Life Has Impacted My Health, Business and Personal Growth

Who is holding you accountable to stepping into your greatness, healing your traumas and living your best life? We hear a lot in personal growth circles the “importance of accountability”. In my opinion it’s the biggest factor to moving through blockages and achieving your goals. Not just corporate, career or business goals, but personal growth, healing and happiness goals! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Dec 12, 201736 min

You Are Who You’ve Been Looking For: A Powerful Conversation With Poet, Coach, Speaker and Lover, Adam Roa

In today’s episode I’m bringing you a great conversation I had with Adam Roa. Sometimes I feel like I have the coolest gig in the world, because I get to spend time hanging out with people like Adam. He is a coach, poet, speaker, podcaster and lover. I through that last descriptor in there because one of the ways in interpreted Adam’s mission is to help people remember that they are love, and to move them closer to a state of being love - towards themselves, others and life itself. Learn more ab...

Dec 06, 20171 hr 9 min

Building Your Net Worth By Giving To Others - The Power Of The Emotional Deposit

In today's episode I'm sharing with you a concept called "The Hour Of Giving". What would happen if you spent the first hour of every day making deposits into the emotional bank accounts of others? What shifts do you think you'd see in your relationships? In your job? In your business? In your health? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 22, 201717 min

Gratitude Is Everything

Today's episode is a about gratitude. I've talked about gratitude twice in the past week because of how important it is to experience an Abundant Loving Life. I recommend creating a moment each day to express gratitude in some sort of way. Doesn't need to be fancy, although that's fine as well. I'm grateful to you and your support. Join me and express your gratitude for something in your life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Nov 20, 20175 min

The 8 Habits Of A Humble Badass (Rebroadcast)

On this episode I'm joined by my wife Sarah as she breaks down the 8 habits of a Humble Badass. What is a Humble Badass you ask? Well you'll have to tune in to find out! The premise of this show is looking at how we can create more ABUNDANCE and LOVE in our LIVES so that we can have the experience of life we truly desire. Sarah's message aligns perfectly with that because her approach to wellness (Sarah is a Balance Lifestyle Coach and Personal Trainer) is one that emphasizes the values of the s...

Nov 19, 201745 min

4 Simple Ways You Can Practice Mindfulness Everyday Without Meditating

In today's episode I'm sharing with you 4 everyday activities that you can use to practice mindfulness. Mindfulness is about bringing your attention to the present moment. Meditation is one way you can practice mindfulness. But there are other ways. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 18, 201723 min

How Gratitude Improves Your Productivity - Practical Benefits To Creating A Gratitude Habit In Your Life

In today's episode I'm talking about how gratitude can improve your productivity. There are very practical benefits to creating a gratitude practice, that honestly, until recently I was unaware of. But after reading an article by my good friend, Garland Vance (www.GarlandVance.com), I now have greater awareness around the role gratitude can play in our lives. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 17, 201722 min

A Powerful Method For Changing Your Relationship Towards Stress - How To Learn To Love Stress Through Exercise

In today's episode I'm sharing a way for you to learn how to change your relationship towards stress. If you're used to feeling stressed out with ish hits the fan, and you have been unable to shift that feeling, then tune in! I'm going to share with you how you can use exercise to learn how to deal with stress more effectively. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 16, 201721 min

Does Your Walk Match Your Talk?

Today's episode is examining our expectations and our effort, and seeing if our walk truly matches up with our talk. As we go on our separate personal development journeys towards greater peace, health, wealth, clarity, relationships....whatever it is....it's important to check in with ourselves and be truly honest as to whether we hold expectations and intentions about the results we'd like to see in our lives, that don't end up matching with the effort we're putting in. Learn more about your a...

Nov 15, 201718 min

The Only Time Your Self Help Practice Matters Is When You're Asked To Prove It

Today's episode is all about the rubber meeting the road. I'm talking about the only time when your self help, personal development, self empowerment....whatever you want to call it....practices matter, is when you have to prove it. We know that talk is cheap. But so too is practice. Practice means nothing if we choke come game day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 14, 201722 min

How To Become A Great Leader Through Committing To Yourself: Part 2 With Chris Perez

In today’s episode I’m bringing you part 2 of my inspiring conversation with Chris Perez. This time around, we kick things off by tackling perhaps the underlying theme to this entire podcast: stepping into your fears. Chris shares a story of a recent military deployment and how it impacted his mental and emotional wellbeing, and what he did to find joy and peace despite the circumstances. We end our conversation by talking about leadership. You don’t want to miss it! Learn more about your ad cho...

Nov 09, 201736 min

A Simple Method For Feeling More Courageous In The Face Of Anxiety

In this episode I'm sharing a very simple and effective practice for not only building your courage in the face of anxiety and current challenges, but building your overall sense of belief in yourself that you can overcome any challenge or obstacle that you're presented with. This episode was inspired by The O Project - a powerful photography project that aims to "[break] down the barriers of female sexual well-being", created by Marcos Alberti. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone....

Oct 30, 201721 min

7 Must Haves For Stellar Relationships (They Are Not What You Might Think)

In today’s episode I’m sharing with you 7 must haves for healthy, sexy, thriving relationships. This list is not what you may be expecting. I’m not listing off things like “Be an effective communicator”, or “Spend more time looking into each other’s eyes”. Nope, I’m giving you ingredients that get to the core of who YOU are, so that you are as powerful as you can be before you enter into a new relationship (or while you’re in them). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Oct 25, 201730 min

Getting More Out Of Life By Working Smarter, Not Harder (Rebroadcast)

In today's episode I'm sharing with you my tried and tested process for being more productive and feeling more fulfilled, by working smarter and not harder. I have been somewhat obsessed with productivity and work efficiency ever since graduating college. Once I jumped into the working world and realized that I could easily eat up 12 hours of my day on menial tasks and still not feel like I had really done anything, I got to work developing a better system for myself. Learn more about your ad ch...

Oct 09, 201746 min

Health, Success, Relationships & Fear: My Greatest Lessons From 100 Episodes of Having It A.L.L.

In today's episode I celebrate reaching the 100 episode milestone and share the four greatest lessons I've learned throughout the run of the show. The 4 areas which spoke to me on this episode were health, success, relationships and fear. Each of these topics represents an area of profound transformation for me, an area where I've experienced breakdowns and breakthroughs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices...

Sep 27, 201747 min
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