We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! Today we’re talking about the win of fun! You may be wondering why fun? Well for many of you, you are overachievers, you love to work and hustle. If fun doesn’t even make it to your list or it just seems hard to make it a goal then this is for you! Thanks so much for tuning in today! Don’t forget to enter our giveaway for a $25 Starbucks gift card! All you have to do is screenshot this episode and tag us in your socials! Good luc...
Aug 10, 2022•14 min•Season 1Ep. 224
We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! Today we’re talking about how we can win in our environment! We will be chatting through 5 things that I do that help me win in my everyday life when it comes to my environment. From setting up my day for success the night before to decluttering your space, we’re covering it all! If you need some practical ways to set your environment up for success, this is for you! Thanks so much for tuning in today! Make sure to share this pod...
Jul 13, 2022•17 min•Season 1Ep. 223
We’re back with another Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins episode! I chat with Alice Sanders, a Communications Specialist. Alice and her husband do Marriage Preparation Courses, she’s a speaker and enjoys speaking at various events about relationships. She also hosts The Stay Connected Experience, which is a marriage event/workshop. Today, I talk to Alice all about relationships. We dive into healthy relationships, intimacy, and marriage. She shares how you can actually apply things we’ve been t...
Jul 06, 2022•38 min•Season 1Ep. 222
Starting this week, we’re jumping into our Summer Series - 10 Every Day Wins! Havilah has been sitting with this idea for several years and she's ready to bring it to you now! She's covering 10 wins that she wants to win and wants YOU to win in, too. So much of life is about winning in the everyday moments, not just one big moment. Today, we’re jumping into our spiritual win. I share how to keep it simple and keep it spiritual. I'm diving into the importance of getting back up again instead of g...
Jun 30, 2022•25 min•Season 1Ep. 221
This week on the podcast, we’re chatting all about rejection, abandonment, and building confidence. My dad’s story was one of abandonment, self-rejection, and a lack of confidence but once he found Christ, he was able to go after those things and find healing. I was raised in a home of love, connection, and safety but that generational thread that followed my dad through his life wanted nothing more than to knock on my door. I had the realization that the spirit of rejection and abandonment want...
Jun 22, 2022•38 min•Season 1Ep. 220
For the month of June, we wanted to share our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! In today’s episode, we’re chatting all about Havilah’s book Leap Into Love! Sometimes we’re so busy doing life and dream chasing that we forget what God thinks of us. He just wants you to know how amazing you are! There was a part in Havilah’s journey where it wasn’t until she was able to accept herself in a profound way that she was able to become a vital voice. This is why she wrote her book, Leap into Love. This...
Jun 16, 2022•20 min•Season 1Ep. 219
For the month of June, we wanted to share our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! Tune in to hear part 1 of a live teaching at Havilah’s local church from the study Leap into Love. In this episode, we explore the power of making a conscious, and intentional choice to embrace ourselves as God’s most significant work. We are going to learn where our confidence is at and if we have evidence of self rejection showing up in our lives. Having radical love and self acceptance, allows us to show up full...
Jun 08, 2022•21 min•Season 1Ep. 218
For the month of June, we wanted to reshare our top 4 all-time downloaded podcasts! Tune in to hear part 3 of a live teaching from the study Leap into Love. In this episode, we are talking all about self-abandonment and self-rejection, and how those things show up in our everyday life. What if God wanted your physical frame to be the perfect representation to carry the purpose of God in it? God didn’t want us to all look the same, he created us to look differently on purpose! His plan in creatin...
Jun 01, 2022•29 min•Season 1Ep. 217
Enjoy this rerun of one of our most popular podcasts where Havilah interviews her mom Suzie Anfuso! We wanted to take some time to encourage all of the mothers out there, whether you are a working mom, a stay-at-home mom or you are a mom that just has a lot to navigate. Give yourself the grace to learn and be open during those busy seasons of life. This podcast will hopefully help you keep your focus on what’s important! Our kids can’t take a backseat during our busy lives. We want to raise kids...
May 25, 2022•26 min•Season 1Ep. 216
Listen in as Havilah chats with Lisa Bevere in an episode from the Moms of Men course! Havilah and Lisa share how to position your kids to be children of God. They share some practical tips and tools on how to speak the Word of God over your children and how to position them for greatness! God doesn’t just want to speak through you to your kids, he wants to speak directly to them! Connect with your weaknesses and challenges and lead with your strengths! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + hav...
May 18, 2022•16 min•Season 1Ep. 215
Tune in to hear a session from the Moms of Men course with Lisa Bevere. Havilah and Lisa talk about creating environments of nurture and imparting destiny in their kids lives. Mothers can frame a world by speaking to their children’s God-given destiny. Learn what it looks like to speak to your kid's identity, how to encourage them, and find their strengths instead of pointing out weaknesses. It’s so important to have intentional conversations letting them know that you are for them and not again...
May 11, 2022•16 min•Season 1Ep. 214
It’s Mother’s Day this Sunday so we just wanted to take a moment to encourage and empower all of the Mothers! Tune in to hear one of the sessions from the Moms of Men Course with Lisa Bevere! Havilah and Lisa chat about how to create boundaries and structure in your home with children. Boundaries and structure help children feel safe and create a healthy experience for them. You are given authority for the protection, the provision, and the direction of the discipline of your kids! Family is all...
May 04, 2022•19 min•Season 1Ep. 213
Enjoy this message Havilah preached last year at the Pink Conference. In this episode, Havilah empowers us as believers and helps us identify what God really holds us responsible for. Have you ever asked yourself, what’s in my daily toil? What are the things that you carry around day in and day out? We’re going to start to get clear on what you own in your personal yard and identify what God has asked you to carry in your own backpack. Listen in as Havilah empowers you with a now message for you...
Apr 27, 2022•47 min•Season 1Ep. 212
In today’s part 2 episode of the “What I would have told my younger self” series, we’re talking all about investing in yourself! Tune in to hear about how Havilah learned to navigate her inner world and invest in becoming whole. Learning to invest in yourself will be the secret to your success because you will have someone in your corner that is fighting for you for the sole purpose of fighting for you! You need someone in your life whom you can be open and honest to without any fear, shame, or ...
Apr 22, 2022•12 min•Season 1Ep. 211
This week on the podcast, we’re introducing a brand new series called: “What I would have told my younger self”. If I were to go back in time, these are the secrets to success that I would want to share with my younger self. These things were critical to my becoming a leader. If you want to be great in God’s kingdom, you are going to have to learn how to serve. Serve, serve, serve! We have to learn how to recklessly and sacrificially serve those around us. Jesus is the ultimate example of what i...
Apr 14, 2022•16 min•Season 1Ep. 210
In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Jenn Johnson about hospitality and creating environments! Jenn is a worship leader, wife, mom, the ultimate hostess, and author of “All Things Lovely”. Tune in to hear Jenn share about the power of breaking bread together around a table, navigating community with littles, creating a beautiful environment for people to come into, and so much more around the topic of gathering. We don’t have to have a perfect home, we just have to invite people in! ...
Feb 16, 2022•31 min•Season 1Ep. 209
Join Havilah as she chats with her core group about how to find your tribe! We know that the only way to do hard things is through community, you have to find people that are in your corner! In Today’s episode, we are going to empower you to find your group of people! Pull up a chair, get your comfy clothes on, and tune into this episode to learn: Practical steps on what worked and didn’t work for Havilah’s core group How to figure out who to invite What it looks like to commit to consistency an...
Feb 09, 2022•38 min•Season 1Ep. 208
This month we’re talking all about female friendships! We don’t know about you, but friendships can be complicated, especially as an adult! In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Andi Andrew, author of “Friendship - It’s Complicated”! Andi and Havilah dive into what it looks like to heal the wounds we may have within ourselves and what it looks like to walk into a relationship fully YOU! Tune into the restoration journey Andi had with her own mother wounds and what it looks like to hav...
Feb 04, 2022•32 min•Season 1Ep. 207
Join us today for week 3 of our FOCUS series! There’s a lot coming at us in the world and the idea that we can take one small part of our life and focus our full attention on it can change our lives! We’re here to give you bite-sized pieces to change your story! Today we’re focusing on the topic of finances! Hear from guest speaker Samia Pedalino, author of “Money Handbook”. With her experience in the finance and banking industry as well as being a successful small business owner, she shares wit...
Jan 26, 2022•44 min•Season 1Ep. 206
This week on the podcast, we are going to hear a play-by-play from Havilah of the craziest 48 hours! In this episode, we are going to hear the full story of how her Instagram account was hacked, where she is at with it today, and how they got it back! From losing complete access to her account to being interrogated by the hacker, and the account held for ransom, we are going to hear ALL the details! Havilah wants to thank YOU for rallying and getting the word out! Be encouraged knowing that no m...
Jan 19, 2022•33 min•Season 1Ep. 205
In today’s podcast, we are continuing on with our FOCUS SERIES with special guest Daniel Giles. Hear Daniel’s story where he moved from England to America without a plan but was willing to jump into anything! Daniel learned how to follow the favor on his life which led him to the marketplace. From running multiple Starbucks stores to climbing to the top at Apple, and now running an extremely successful business with his wife Deborah, Daniel has experienced many different corporate cultures in hi...
Jan 14, 2022•37 min•Season 1Ep. 204
Welcome to the FIRST Cunnington Catch Up of 2022 and it is a BIG one! I share about our new house and property (you heard that right!) and a special experience I had there just a few days ago. You know the ones - the touchstone experiences that you have no documentation of but the snapshots in your mind that you’ll carry with you because it marks such a significant moment in time. The end of 2021 and the beginning of 2022 have been so humbling as I look at what God has done - all of the ‘almosts...
Jan 07, 2022•17 min•Season 1Ep. 203
This is the first of our FOCUS SERIES going the entire month of January to get us on solid footing in 2022. I hear from so many of you and the challenges, roadblocks and distractions that keep you from stepping fully into your purpose all boils down to FOCUS. To kick off the series you’ll meet Shawn Blanc, long time friend of Ben and Havilah’s and focus+productivity coach with 20 years under his belt helping tens of thousands of people get clear and meet goals that previously eluded them. In thi...
Jan 05, 2022•39 min•Season 1Ep. 202
THIS WEEK IS THE PINNACLE OF OUR SPIRITUAL GIFTS SERIES and the perfect way to close out 2021 and step into 2022 destined for greater things than you imagined. If you’ve found this podcast, you are meant to hear this. This is a divine appointment. You haven’t found this podcast by accident. This week’s guest is Deborah Giles, a profound prophetic voice to many world leaders. Havilah and Deborah discuss spiritual gifts, living a spirit-led life and a prophetic gifting through the avenue of dreams...
Dec 29, 2021•50 min•Season 1Ep. 201
Surprise! It’s audiobook time! This week Havilah reads you the first chapter of her new bible study book: Discovering and Activating My Spiritual Gifts. Listen in as you get a sneak peek ‘listen’ into the foundation for the entire study and book! Setting the groundwork for what Spiritual Gifts are, what they aren’t and how God uses them in and through you, you will walk into this Christmas with new eyes for what Jesus’ birth, life and gifts to believers are this season! Order my new book HERE Jo...
Dec 23, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 200
This week Havilah interviews Kris Vallotton about the Gift of Discernment. Listen in as Kris breaks it down as the gift of discerning the spirits and how you might already be operating in that gift without realizing it! Havilah and Kris share their personal experiences of how this gift shows up in daily life - how it might be that you are ultra perceptive of the atmosphere that someone else is bringing into a room. Hear them discuss how to discern what belongs to you and what does not, how to op...
Dec 15, 2021•40 min•Season 1Ep. 199
It’s been TOO long since Havilah has been able to catch you all up on what’s going on in their world. Well today, she’s back and she’s sharing all the details about what’s going on in their world. They’ve had to ask themselves hard questions in this last season and lean on the Lord for those answers. Hear about where they are headed and about some amazing testimonies that have happened in the past few months. Havilah is dishing out all the details about her new position, their new home, and new ...
Dec 10, 2021•15 min•Season 1Ep. 198
Francis Anfuso was an atheist before he had a radical encounter with the Lord during his conversion. When he started to consider ministering to others, he didn’t want to be disingenuous or inauthentic. He looked at the evangelists, preachers and church leaders at the time and he didn’t want to look like them or sound like them. He never loved labels, but rather, functions. How do you function? He wanted to function like Jesus. How did Jesus function while He was on the earth? Answer: A continuou...
Dec 08, 2021•50 min•Season 1Ep. 197
This week we are kicking off the first episode of our Spiritual Gifts Series where Havilah will be discussing the 9 spiritual gifts, what they are and how God uses them and us to reach the world in tangible ways! But let’s be honest: depending on your upbringing and experiences around spiritual gifts or moves of the Holy Spirit, you might have a preconceived notion of what is or is not biblical. People tend to fall into one of two camps: either really comfortable with gifts of the Spirit or real...
Dec 02, 2021•39 min•Season 1Ep. 196
In the Cunnington household this year, we are going to do the Holidays differently. We are contemplating what matters most in life and we know that our podcast community is doing the exact same thing. Feel like the world is a dark place? Today you’ll get to meet mom and substitute teacher Norah - who tells her life story as the youngest of 6 children growing up in Uganda. Norah’s story will bring you joy! Everything that the holidays are supposed to be about - good gifts, joy, peace, love and th...
Nov 24, 2021•44 min•Season 1Ep. 195
