Do you have a big, seemingly scary task ahead of you? Something beyond your ability to pull off? Is God calling you into unchartered territory with no guarantees? In this episode, hear Havilah teach on how to move forward in the face of fear. This teaching is so jam-packed full of wisdom and biblical teaching - so get your journals ready, God has a word for you in this season! Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com...
Nov 18, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Season 1Ep. 194
Remembrance is a sacred act. We wanted to throw it back and share with you one of Havilah’s first seasons’ episodes where she shares her journey from doing an online YouTube study with a max audience of 20 (counting her mother) and getting discouraging feedback. She shares the process of growing her audience in pace with the Lord’s leading and by making small but healthy steps forward. Wherever you are right now in the call and purpose on your life, do not diminish it! Sowing tiny seeds still ca...
Nov 10, 2021•20 min•Season 1Ep. 193
From the Mountain Mover Conference in Moses Lake, WA comes today’s episode where Havilah talks about how the storms we live through in our lives makes our message more impactful. We can preach about God when we are safely on the shore, but it’s in the storm that true trust and relationship is forged with God. This message was recorded in October and is a timely word spoken over people in this specific season of personal and global tumult. You’re not alone and Jesus lived life on earth to show us...
Nov 03, 2021•21 min•Season 1Ep. 192
This week in the final episode of the Marriage Is Series, Havilah chats with Clint Davis who talks about trauma within a marriage and what to do if there has been a betrayal or trauma within the marriage. What do you do if your marriage is ‘broken’? Covid has done a number on marriages. Pastors report seeing more divorces in the past year than they have in all of their cumulative years in ministry. Why? Clint explains that up until covid and the lockdowns we had maladaptive coping skills and wer...
Oct 27, 2021•55 min•Season 1Ep. 191
Ben and Havilah take this episode on together as they share their story of how they almost didn’t get married (whaaat??) how to navigate different callings, what to do if it seems your spouse is unsupportive of your calling and how to partner together. Marriage is contending and fighting together for what matters. Hear practical tools to go after the calling on your life without negating the call on your spouse's life and learn how to contend side by side for the things of the Kingdom! Learn mor...
Oct 20, 2021•46 min•Season 1Ep. 190
Certified Master Sex Coach Rebekah LaRobardiere has a degree in Psychology and is on the show talking with Havilah about why marriages are struggling sexually especially in the covid season. Listen in as they talk about what is ‘normal’ what is not, what part we as individuals play in our sexuality, how our perspective and beliefs about sexuality affects how we show up in our marriage, how to improve intimacy and your sex life in marriage and a few myths that you might not have known! As a bonus...
Oct 13, 2021•45 min•Season 1Ep. 189
Havilah has been getting so many messages and emails about marital struggles. She wants to get you resources and help in the best way she can! One of the things that has been so helpful for Havilah has been Connection Codes. Listen in as Havilah interviews Dr. Glenn and Phyllis Hill, creators of the Connection Codes Courses. It applies not just to marriages but to parent/child and family relationships, work relationships, roommates and friendships. We are hardwired for connection and identity. H...
Oct 07, 2021•49 min•Season 1Ep. 188
Enjoy this message Havilah preached earlier this year at the She Conference. The Church is usually in one of two camps when it comes to spiritual warfare: the devil is everywhere or we ignore the devil. The war is already won, but we still have to know how to fight in the battles that come our way in life. Enjoy this profound teaching as Havilah breaks down how to fight a very real enemy who is coming to steal, kill and destroy the purpose and call on your life! You are meant to live the abundan...
Sep 29, 2021•41 min•Season 1Ep. 187
Enjoy this message Havilah preached in San Jose earlier this month at the Unique Conference. Your call is too great and your purpose too essential to be deterred by offense. Shake the dust of offense off of you so you can go into your promised land free and clear! You don’t want to take the offense of the desert in with you to the next season and land God has sent you into. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com...
Sep 22, 2021•42 min•Season 1Ep. 186
Havilah has so many things she wants to catch you up on today! Remember when the Cunnington’s started asking God if they were in the right place back in June? Remember when they visited Nashville? Tune in to hear their new thoughts on this and where God is leading them. Havilah shares the importance of really leaning into what God has for them instead of doing it and then asking for blessing in it. Waiting sucks, we get it! But waiting on God is never a bad idea. Havilah shares encouragement if ...
Sep 01, 2021•22 min•Season 1Ep. 185
In today’s podcast with special guest Danny Silk, Havilah and Danny discuss how to set boundaries in a ministry setting. Listen in as they talk about common themes that are experienced in ministry like how no one has taught Christians to say no to one another or how to be unhappy with one another. It sounds funny, but it’s true. We have been taught that people pleasing is ‘Godly’ and having people upset with us means we did something wrong. But is that true? Find your answers to the questions of...
Aug 25, 2021•43 min•Season 1Ep. 184
How do you set Boundaries in your workspace and still work with integrity? Having boundaries in the workplace is the kindest thing you can do for your employers. When you figure out your YES’s - your core values - your NO’s will get really clear. Your boss doesn’t burn you out - YOU burn you out. You train your employers what access they have to you. That doesn’t make you a bad employee it makes you more reliable and trustworthy. Boundaries are FOR us, not AGAINST someone else. Showing up like a...
Aug 18, 2021•30 min•Season 1Ep. 183
Family of origins is tricky especially in the faith space There’s the verse: “Honor your father and mother in the Lord for this is right.” So how do we reconcile that and live with healthy boundaries and apply them to our family of origins? Isn’t it disrespectful to come up against your parent’s wishes and say ‘no’? This week licensed therapist Dr. Alison Cook @alisoncookphd is on the show and shares about how honoring our parents isn’t about how they feel, but rather, about becoming the person ...
Aug 11, 2021•56 min•Season 1Ep. 182
Boundaries in marriage might sound like it’s a contradictory statement. Anyone else have a hard time knowing how to be ‘one’ with someone while also maintaining boundaries? The biggest question I get when speaking is “How do I know I’m in unity and still say no when it’s healthy?” Following the example of the Trinity and God and creation we find some key markers for how boundaries in marriage work. There is no whole, pure love where there is no power of choice. Distinctly different entities and ...
Aug 04, 2021•39 min•Season 1Ep. 181
Join Havilah in the last of a relationship series for those who are in a season of waiting or singleness. This week, Havilah invited Courtney Cruz, a Truth To Table staff member to share her story of not waiting well and how that played out in her life. Married at 21, Courtney’s dream life of doing ministry and starting a family was turned upside down pretty quickly. What transpired after that was messy. Single parenthood, more than one marriage and divorce, the consequences of chasing her dream...
Jul 28, 2021•1 hr 1 min•Season 1Ep. 180
Havilah is back with another behind the scenes peak of what’s going on in the Cunnington world. Tune in to hear some vacation tips and how they make vacations cost effective, thoughts about their eldest going into high school this year, and are the Cunnington’s moving?! If you heard Havilah’s latest Cunnington Catch Up, you know they were on their way to Nashville. (If you haven’t heard it, stop and go listen to episode 172 first!) Have you ever asked God the question, “What’s next?” Hear how Ha...
Jul 23, 2021•31 min•Season 1Ep. 179
Always a bridesmaid and never a bride? Ever feel advertised as the token single girl who everyone is trying to marry off? Christa Smith knows how you feel. There is a constant message of: you need to be in a relationship. And that singleness is a curse. That is not Godly, and not Truth. Being single is not a bad thing. A journey of singleness is an invitation to truly trust God with your life. Do not settle for a relationship that is anything less than God’s best, which will always be first and ...
Jul 21, 2021•34 min•Season 1Ep. 178
You can’t run from the waiting! In this episode, Havilah interviews and chats with Christa Smith, Pastor, Preacher, Teacher and Author. Content while contending for what you want. If God isn’t enough for you now, in the absence of something, He won’t be enough when you get it. In order to get to a place of contentment, you have to grieve what you don’t have. Often times the depths of your desire will connect you with the true surrender needed to carry the dream that awaits you. Listen in as Chri...
Jul 14, 2021•46 min•Season 1Ep. 177
Are you content while contending for God’s future for you? Often times we think we are ready, but really, we aren’t. God is preparing our minds and our bodies to carry the responsibility that lies ahead. Anyone else been in love with love? Anyone have their future spouse ‘checklist’? That’s right, I see you. Laying our romantic lives down in front of God is not easy. Waiting on God to bring you the things that are the deepest desires of your heart is really hard. But spoiler alert: the waiting n...
Jul 07, 2021•35 min•Season 1Ep. 176
Going back to basics, we are going to talk about how to starve your fear and feed your faith. Fear can be good for us, it can protect us. But sometimes our fear gives us the problem but not the solution. That’s where FAITH comes in. Faith provides the solution. Havilah goes through many fears we all face and what the solution is! We don’t want you to dismiss facts. That’s delusional. God sees fact and truth differently. John chapter 11 - God does not need additional motivation to set you free, t...
Jun 30, 2021•29 min•Season 1Ep. 175
Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the second of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Don’t miss the wrap up of what special word Havilah has for you in this season! Take advantage of our special discount for ANYTHING on our site, for podcast listeners only: use SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + ...
Jun 24, 2021•24 min•Season 1Ep. 174
Is your future compelling? Or are you just living in an anxious present? In the first of a two-part episode Joelle and Havilah talk through finding your PURPOSE, living a compelling life and how the two are linked. Special discount for anything on our site, for podcast listeners only: SUMMER15 use at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com...
Jun 16, 2021•29 min•Season 1Ep. 173
If you follow Havilah on socials, you’re only getting half the story! In this episode hear Havilah give you the full story on what’s been going on behind the scenes for the Cunnington Crew. Hear the full story of Bear, and all of the other things that have been going on and that are upcoming! Attention podcast listeners! Save 15% on anything from our store all summer long. Use code SUMMER15 at checkout. shop.truthtotable.com Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtot...
Jun 08, 2021•26 min•Season 1Ep. 172
God’s voice speaks to us from our future. He wants to lead you to the future He knows He has created for you! What does it look like to live a life you want to wake up to? How is your grief affecting your ability to go after your dreams? It’s time to get up! Ask yourself: What is my future self trying to tell me? Let's talk about the power of Spirit-led living and get you to a place where you can answer: when I leave this earth, do I know that I fulfilled my God-given potential? Listen in as Hav...
Mar 18, 2021•36 min•Season 1Ep. 171
Welcome back after a little break to our I Do Boundaries Series, episode 4! We’re going to look at how boundaries are part of being a spiritual grownup! Part of being a spiritual grownup is understanding what is not only permissible for you, but what is actually helpful in your life. This week we will learn about how your beliefs, emotions, and decisions all belong to YOU and how that actually puts you in a position of power. Listen in as Havilah shares about how we can’t protect what matters mo...
Mar 03, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 170
In today’s episode we’re going to look at why boundaries aren’t just helpful but profoundly spiritual. Boundaries are a popular topic. But make no mistake, property lines have been an idea from the very beginning. He’s very passionate about boundaries. He knows that when we have ownership, love is protected. When we allow love to motivate us, we can live whole lives by clearly knowing where we end and others begin. His Kingdom works! God created boundaries for the sake of order, ownership and pr...
Feb 25, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 169
Loving ourselves and others well begins with healthy boundaries! Just in time for Valentine’s Day Havilah shares what the big deal is about boundaries. Our world consists of boundaries. It’s easy to see them all around us. We’ve built fences, signs, walls, and hedges. We’ve created cities, counties, states and countries. We use them to clarify ownership. These lines help us know who owns what and where. Once we know who the owner is, we know who is responsible. The owner of the property is legal...
Feb 10, 2021•12 min•Season 1Ep. 168
The first of our I Do Boundaries series, Havilah begins to walk us through finding our power, finding out how to protect what matters most to us and to stop feeling bad about it. Being nice out of fear doesn’t work and people-pleasing will keep us stuck in the cycles of powerlessness that we are trying to break away from. Learn how to do the right thing, when the right thing won’t make everyone happy. Being at war with the internal narratives you have about people’s opinions of you and the affec...
Feb 04, 2021•14 min•Season 1Ep. 167
In this episode Havilah has a conversation with Jason Vallotton about developing a healthy inner dialogue. Jason is a husband, dad, pastor, counselor and leads a Men's Ministry called Brave Co. Tune in to hear the keys Jason shares to overcome the obstacles of life, develop a healthy game plan for challenges and become an expert and finding the help you need. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com...
Nov 12, 2020•32 min•Season 1Ep. 166
In this episode, Havilah has a conversation with Lauren Vallotton about blended family. Lauren shares openly about the unique experience of stepping into a marriage as a step-parent. Tune in to hear the trials and success that have shaped the journey and what keys have been essential to stepping into such a unique role. Learn more and connect with Havilah: + havilahcunnington.com + truthtotable.com + theinfluencertable.com...
Nov 07, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 165
