Feeling different is well known to survivors of child sexual abuse (CSA) What happened to us felt wrong, thereby ensuring we stood apart from others. In that reality, how on earth could we feel normal, or the same as. Have a listen, some of the blog has some sound reasoning behind it. Love to all of you Gloria We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouT...
Aug 30, 2022•5 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Sometimes as Survivors we 'apologise' too much. Why do we do that? Have a listen as to how you can support your loved survivor into changing this. #csa #survivor We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-...
Aug 29, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Welcome to Jane Epstein: She is a survivor of Sibling Sexual Abuse, and shares some real insights with us about this. Did you know that over 40% of child sexual abuse is committed by juveniles? Here are her details: Website: www.complicatedcourage.com TEDxTALK: "Giving Voice to Sibling Sexual Abuse." INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/jane_compli... FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/jane.opieeps... https://www.facebook.com/Complicatedc... LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-epst... TWI...
Aug 28, 2022•49 min•Ep. 29
Tips for Supporting Survivors is on forgiveness this week. Is forgiveness something Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) survivors should do? Are we better people if we do forgive? Or worse if we dont? #csa #survivors #standbeside #icu #urbelieved We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok...
Aug 23, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 11
Updates On Handing the Shame Back Youtube channel this week: My Blog on Anxiety. A Survivor interview with Jane Epstein - one of the founders of 5Waves advocating for families impacted by Sibling Sexual Abuse and Stephan Neff interviews me. #csa #ssa #standbeside #icu #believed We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@han...
Aug 22, 2022•43 sec
Kim Spencer is a survivor of incest who experienced a tumultuous childhood. She has now found a way to turn what happened to her into helping others. She is now the founder of Crown Yourself and works with aspiring adults to support them in living their vision. She is a TedEx speaker and high performance coach. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack You...
Aug 19, 2022•53 min•Season 1Ep. 24
Did you know there are 8 types of boundaries, and that each one has its own specific characteristics? As Survivors we tend to find boundaries difficult, either we don't have them or we let them be crossed. Have a listen as to how to protect yours. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https:...
Aug 16, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 10
On YouTube Handing the Shame Back this week, we have my blog on Rejection, which survivors can relate to only all too well. The Survivor interview is with Kimberley Spencer, and the Media Spotlight interview is with actor and director Sean Stone. #csa #survivors #standbeside #icu #believed #gratefultoall We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: h...
Aug 15, 2022•52 sec
Diane and I discuss CSA and impacts globally. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...
Aug 15, 2022•39 min•Season 2Ep. 17
Meet Dr. Jackie Parsons. She has a PHD in counselling, education and supervision. She is a passionate advocate for people. and talks about both: Anxiety in motion (keeping busy) & finding agency over self Her website: www.drjparsons.com Twitter: @drparsons We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback T...
Aug 09, 2022•46 min•Season 1Ep. 23
This week on the YouTube Channel 'Handing the Shame Back': Dr Jackie Parsons discusses anxiety in motion and what that is! My Blog on Resilience is released, and Diane Forster interview me. #csa #survivors #icu #standwith #believe #webelong2 #thanksall We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: h...
Aug 07, 2022•56 sec
Tips for Supporting Survivors #11. The focus is on sensory soothing, Listen to how we as child sexual abuse (CSA) survivors find many ways to self soothe. You may even recognise the survivor in your life! #csa #survivors #standbesideus #believeus #supportus #upto1in3 #thanku We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handin...
Aug 07, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 9
SEVERE trigger warning: Anneke Lucas - child trafficking survivor, from Belguim. Her book called: Quest for Love - Memoir of a Child Sex Slave is also out now. Amazing story, she has quite the story to tell, and is both humble and gracious. Links to her site: https://annekelucas.com/ Links to her book: https://annekelucas.com/book HELP Sexual Harm Helpline, 0800 044 334 or text 4334, support@safetotalk.nz. Help Auckland 0800 623 1700 https://betterblokes.org.nz - Free peer support for male sexua...
Aug 07, 2022•1 hr 7 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Discussion on CSA landscape in NZ, what is happening and who is doing what. Focus given to Flightpath to Healing - A Guide for CSA Survivors, released 15 August We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-t...
Aug 04, 2022•49 min•Season 1Ep. 22
Tips for Supporting Survivors #9. Did you know there are 8 different types of triggers Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) Survivors experience? How can you help with us with those? Click on the video to find out more. #csa #survivors #icu #standbeside #urbelieved #grateful #supportthanku We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@han...
Aug 01, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 8
Shaun Attwood QnA session on issues helpful to CSA Survivors. We discuss how to respond to a child disclosing abuse among other things. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingThe...
Aug 01, 2022•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 16
Anxiety is well known to us CSA Survivors. It steals our piece of mind, and can have us unable to enjoy the moment. Have a listen as to how you it may be affecting you, and how to recognise it. Till next time I see you I stand beside you And I believe you We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok...
Jul 29, 2022•6 min•Season 2Ep. 18
CSA Survivors experience invalidation a lot. comments like: You'll get over it Everything happens for a reason Why are you making a bit deal out of it, are all comments we hear, and more. Have a watch to see how you can swap these out. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok...
Jul 25, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 7
On my YouTube Channel: Handing the Shame Back this week: My blog on The Four F's (Fight, flight, freeze and fawn) Survivor Interview with Dr. Kat Rosenblatt Shaun Attwood interviews me. For More details: GloriaMasters.Com #csa #survivors #iCu #standbeside #believeu #thanksall #angels We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.co...
Jul 24, 2022•56 sec
Dr Kat Rosenblatt is an: Author, Public Speaker International Survivor Leader of human trafficking and abuse She has written several books, the first one called Stolen which is available on Amazon You can find her on: www.ThereIsHopeForMe.org We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www...
Jul 24, 2022•53 min•Season 1Ep. 21
Exciting news all - My book called Flightpath to Healing - A Guide for Child Sexual Abuse (CSA) Survivors is available for pre-order from Monday 25 July at GloriaMasters.Com . Published Monday 15 August We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: ...
Jul 20, 2022•34 sec
DARVO technique described. Useful for all Survivors to understand. Deny Attack Reverse Victim Offender Strategy is used against us constantly to derail and shut us down. Have a listen. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linked...
Jul 18, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 6
On my YouTube channel this week: My Blog on Power, the type we all have, that is not always used. Dani Henderson - spiritual therapist from Costa Rica interviews me. Survivor spotlight is on Anneke Lucas. Her new book is out!! For full viewing, go to YouTube HandingtheshameBack https://www.youtube.com/c/GloriaMastersHandingtheShameBack We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://...
Jul 18, 2022•55 sec
Meet Kalpa Gupta Survivor extraordinaire, she used to be a financial services director working with public traded companies, she is currently the CEO of Knekxt, which helps people form better relationships with themselves. She has confronted her abusers, and believes that forgiveness and service to others are fundamental in the healing journey. Follow Kalpa (Kalpashree Gupta) on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kalpashreegupta/ Knekxt Group, LLC Website (coming soon): https://knekxt.com Ema...
Jul 12, 2022•46 min•Season 1Ep. 20
We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...
Jul 11, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 5
On the show this week: Blog on Kindness Media Spotlight: Theresa Carpenter hosts Stories of Survivors, interviews me. We discuss why there is such low appetite for people to hear about this, on platforms like Linkedin. Survivor interview: Kalpa Gupta We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: htt...
Jul 10, 2022•1 min
Ever feel like you are being rejected? Or that you are not included in situations you would like to be? Have a listen and see how rejection features in your life, and see if you sometimes reject others - wether deliberately or not. Go well Gloria We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https:/...
Jul 08, 2022•6 min•Season 2Ep. 14
We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...
Jul 08, 2022•49 min•Season 2Ep. 15
We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...
Jul 07, 2022•1 hr 21 min•Season 2Ep. 14
We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...
Jul 05, 2022•2 min•Season 3Ep. 4
