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Handing the Shame Back

This channel is dedicated to all those brave fellow 'adult survivors of child sexual abuse'. You are not alone out there, you are believed and supported in finding your voice & handing the shame back to the abusers - where it belongs.


Handing the Shame Back is a New Zealand based charity, focused on preventing child sexual abuse through education and supporting adult survivors. Find out more about us and what we do: https://www.handingtheshameback.org


Each week, Handing the Shame Back will add a Survivor Interview, Tip for Survivors, or Blog to help support our community in finding their way to truth and freedom. Please feel free to reach out if you would also like to be a guest on the show.


Together, we can provide support and protect...

The children of yesterday, whose pain was silenced.
The children of today, who need our protection.
The children of tomorrow, who deserve a safer world.


From silence to action. From shame to strength.

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Episodes

Madeleine Black Interviews Me: Highlights

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jul 05, 202213 minSeason 2Ep. 13

Resilience

Blog on Resilience Resilience is something we all have to varying degrees. Did you know you can build on it and grow it even further? Have a listen to my blog and see if anything 'leaps out at you' Till next time With love Gloria We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@...

Jul 04, 20226 minSeason 2Ep. 13

Upcoming Release On The Channel

My blog on Dissociation My interview with Male Survivors, discussing the court system and process for survivors My interview with Neil Harding, leading the class action for dilworth ex pupils. Madeleine Black, Courage cultivator on YouTube, interviews me. This was quite a powerful interview. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.yo...

Jul 03, 20221 min

Panel Discussion on CSA issues

Have a listen to this episode, we cover off how to first share your story with others, and focus deeply on the court process and what happens within that system. We each have a story to share and some of what we experienced, may help inform you. Thinking of you all, and remember: One size does not fit all! We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube:...

Jun 30, 202259 minSeason 1Ep. 20

Interview with Neil Harding

Check out this survivor. He is leading the class action against Dilworth college, the wealthiest private school in NZ. 157 survivors and counting. He is dedicated, determined and a true warrior. Have a listen.. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback Li...

Jun 28, 202255 minSeason 1Ep. 19

Tips for supporting survivors #5

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 27, 20221 minSeason 3Ep. 3

Updates YouTube Channel: Handing the Shame Back

My blog on Flashbacks My interview with Kelly Wallace, discussing the court system and process for survivors Madeleine Black, Courage cultivator on YouTube, interviews me. This was quite a powerful interview. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback Link...

Jun 26, 202242 sec

Kindness

Some people use it often, some not at all. Why would you not? So powerful and so easy. Have a listen as to how you can grow this in your own life. Best wishes to all Gloria We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/compa...

Jun 23, 20225 minSeason 2Ep. 12

IN5D Interview me

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 22, 20221 hr 33 minSeason 2Ep. 12

Tips for Supporting Survivors #4

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 20, 20222 minSeason 3Ep. 2

Upcoming releases 2

On the show this week My interview with Perry Power, live Wednesday 7pm NZ time My blog on Endings (live on the channel now) Enjoy everyone We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #Handin...

Jun 20, 202256 secSeason 3Ep. 2

Flashbacks

Flashbacks come out of nowhere, are frightening and feel out of our control. In this blog I describe how to recognise them, and even better how to manage them. Happy listening team, hang in there. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https:...

Jun 17, 20225 minSeason 2Ep. 11

Upcoming releases

On the show this week: My interview with Rena Romano My media spotlight with IN5D, Gregg Prescott and Ali Janes My blog on Angels Enjoy everyone We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #H...

Jun 16, 20221 minSeason 3Ep. 1

Interview with Kelly Wallace

Meet Kelly Wallace: Advocate/survivor/speaker. She was also speaker of the month with RAIN in the United States recently.. She is in the middle of writing her own is in the final stages of her memoir. Kelly was always and instantly believed by mum. You can find her on www. Kellywallace.org We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.yout...

Jun 14, 202246 minSeason 1Ep. 18

Power

Power is interesting. It is powerful in that it shows itself in many different ways. Interestingly power does not necessarily mean the loudest voice in the room, sometimes the most silent among us, have the most power. Have a listen and see if this resonates with you. Till next time We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com...

Jun 10, 20225 minSeason 2Ep. 10

Tips for Supporting Survivors

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 10, 20221 minSeason 3Ep. 1

Interview with Perry Power

Meet Perry Power. Survivor, Campaigner and Activist for intra familial abuse. Perry runs two charitable trust organisations. He is an actor, writer and coach. Listen to his story and notice what he talks about when referring to owning our own stories. perrypower.org theandyproject.org.uk werescuekids.org instagram.com/iamperrypower facebook.com/perry.w.power We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingth...

Jun 07, 202252 minSeason 1Ep. 17

Tips for Supporting Survivors #3

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 07, 20221 min

Interview with Male Survivors

Welcome to my interview with Ken Clearwater and Todd Portsmouth. We discuss ways we can help male survivors cope with the trauma and impact of child sexual abuse. Issues discussed include: What is stopping male survivors from speaking out The complex issues male survivors face What we can do to help support them Have a listen, its powerful. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: htt...

Jun 05, 20221 hr 1 minSeason 1Ep. 16

Endings

Endings can be hard, ending highlight who we really are. How do we do 'endings' when we feel blindsided or lost? Have a listen and see if there is anything that 'speaks' to you. Till next time, fellow survivors We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback Li...

Jun 03, 20226 minSeason 2Ep. 9

Trigger Warning: Interview with Mark Attwood

Trigger Warning: Warrior, Poet and survivor. Listen to Mark Attwoods view on all things child abuse. https://tmas.tv/marksemaillist https://theMarkAttwoodShow.com https://www.youtube.com/c/GloriaMaste... “How to Monetize What’s Already in Your Head, Create a New Income Stream and become Sovereign Quickly” (5 star ratings): FREE WEBINAR: https://tmas.tv/tmashow https://tmas.tv/maximisethelight https://t.me/MarkAttwoodShow We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ha...

Jun 02, 202256 minSeason 1Ep. 15

Interview with Rena Romano

Meet Rena Romano Survivor of Sibling Sexual Abuse for decades. Author of His Puppet No More available on amazon Guest on Oprah show 2009 Ted Talk Speaker in 2017 She offers much wisdom in this interview and says this about Shame and perpetrators: 'They committed the crime, stop doing the time' Have a listen, incredible nuggets of wisdom. Rena Romano surTHRIVER® and Chief Positivity Officer www.RenaRomano.com 813-614-3720 We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Ha...

Jun 02, 202239 minSeason 1Ep. 14

Tips for supporting survivors #2

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 01, 20221 min

Media Interview

Full interview with Alizeey Yeezy We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

Jun 01, 20221 hr 17 minSeason 2Ep. 11

Tips for supporting survivors #1

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

May 30, 20222 min

Alizeey Yeezy Interviews Me

We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

May 27, 20221 hr 13 minSeason 2Ep. 10

The Four F's

Trauma Responses Revealed. Listen to how the Four F's have helped/continue to help you through trauma. Universally known as Flight or Flight, did you know there are others? I call them The Four F's: Fight, Flight, Freeze and Fawn. They are what emerge in us and help our minds to protect us from threatening trauma, like what we experience as #csa survivors. Love and light to all We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.ins...

May 27, 20226 minSeason 2Ep. 8

Maria J McMahon Interviews Me

Maria J McMahon Interviews me. We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://x.com/HandinShameBack YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@handingtheshameback TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@handingshameback LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/handing-the-shame-back #HandingTheShameBack #HandSign4Kids #LetsSaveSomeKids #GlobalHandSign...

May 27, 202256 minSeason 2Ep. 9

Trigger Warning: Interview with Maria Socolof

Meet Maria Socolof: survivor of Sibling Sexual Abuse (SSA). Author and founder of Healing from Chronic Pain. See below for her details: My website: www.healingfromchronicpain.com My memoir: The Invisible Key: Unlocking the Mystery of My Chronic Pain: https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Key-... Sibling Sexual Trauma (SST) / Sibling Sexual Abuse (SSA) website: Siblingsexualtrauma.com SSA/SST Worldwide Awareness Voice Education and Support: 5WAVES.org Jane Epstein's TEDx talk on SSA: Giving Voice to S...

May 25, 202245 minSeason 1Ep. 13

Trust

Sometimes letting go and Just Trusting can be a real challenge. Trust is really challenging for us #csa survivors. How do we trust when what has happened to us makes it almost impossible to feel safe in certain situations again? Have a listen to this and go into the depth of what inner trust looks like. It may surprise you! Love to all We are on all social media platforms: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/HandingtheShameBack Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/handingtheshameback/ X: https://...

May 20, 20226 minSeason 2Ep. 7
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