What if you built a culture in which language ennobled, excited, and thrilled people? In this episode, Stephen shares the language he uses with his friends, wife, and children. Learn how ennobling language impacts relationships, destinies, and cultures. Then, start weaving these words and phrases into your own conversations. Your son’s basketball team is comprised of “heroes,” the young law student is “your honor,” and your wife is “my love.” Change your words and observe the effect of your new ...
Jul 09, 2019•14 min•Ep. 92
Posit this with us: If there is a God and if He created you, then He created you as a man. Of course, we all sustain wounds and deformities that pierce the soul and heart, keeping us from becoming the men we are meant to be. But, again, if there is a God and if He made you, then He desires for you to fulfill your destiny of becoming a great man. In this episode, Stephen offers encouragement and truth: God can restore you to what you were made to be before the grief, wounds, and hurt. Ask Him to ...
Jul 02, 2019•14 min•Ep. 91
Churches are often the only organizations that budget to impact men on a regular basis. But most churches miss the mark. In this episode, Stephen speaks directly to men’s ministries. (Though, as always, all are welcome here in the GreatMan Podcast.) Listen in to discover how a men’s ministry should function, who’s doing it well in the U.S., and why you can’t afford to miss out on bringing in the men. Note: This episode originally aired in July 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privac...
Jun 25, 2019•15 min•Ep. 90
There’s one thing that all successful people share. One thing that guides their lives. It’s this: they make sure that they have a place and time that functions as the control room of their lives. People who achieve are people who live the “examined life.” (The Ancients, after all, taught us that the unexamined life is not worth living.) Achievers set lofty goals and accomplish them because they take the time to ponder their life and map out a strategy. In this episode, learn why you need to get ...
Jun 18, 2019•16 min•Ep. 89
Chad asks, “If comfort’s your biggest enemy, what are you doing to make yourself uncomfortable?” Find out why men need hardship, what the Ancient Greeks had to say about “soft” living, and why Stephen always has firm performance goals set before him… even while spending many months of the year on the road. Finally, Stephen challenges men to develop hardship and opposition in their own lives. Push your boundaries. Onward and upward. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California P...
Jun 11, 2019•15 min•Ep. 88
We become what we behold. So, what are you putting in front of your eyes? Stephen shares four summer book recommendations for men, including two novels and two non-fiction books. Strengthen your vision of great manhood, tackle hard-hitting themes of honor and courage, and find your spirit ennobled through these works… Rise of the Servant Kings: What the Bible Says About Being a Man by Ken Harrison | Amazon Sacred Duty: A Soldier's Tour at Arlington National Cemetery by Tom Cotton | Amazon The Ki...
Jun 04, 2019•13 min•Ep. 87
As much as he’s sorry to see the word “toxic” put in front of the word “masculinity,” Stephen suggests that this word’s ancient Greek roots might provide us with a helpful framework for understanding the damage a man can do. The Greek word “toxikon" refers very specifically to the poison on the tip of an arrow. When a man is “toxic,” he sends out poisonous arrows into his own soul and the souls of others. Toxic men harm themselves and others by abusing the powers that God has given them to use f...
May 28, 2019•15 min•Ep. 86
Please note: This episode includes sexual content. Parents, consider listening alone first, then discussing with your sons. Pornography is at the root of many issues in our world, from domestic abuse to sex trafficking. In this hard-hitting episode, Stephen drills down on one specific problem: porn-induced erectile dysfunction. Younger men are now experiencing ED as a result of regular use of pornography. Learn about the problems, the studies, and the solutions connected to P.I.E.D. See Privacy ...
May 21, 2019•15 min•Ep. 85
Stephen takes a rapid-fire round to answer your questions on everything from divorce to grooming to sexual addiction and more. Like this episode? Check out 2018’s “Answers to Men’s Questions.” Have a question for Stephen? Email info@GreatMan.TV, and we’ll try to include an answer in the next Q&A episode. Links for new GreatMan content can be found here... Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men (Audiobook): https://amzn.to/2EhwpMB Two-Week Mansfield’s Book of Manly Men Devotional: http://bit.ly/Manly-...
May 14, 2019•21 min•Ep. 84
Ninety percent of the churches in America do not have any kind of men’s program or ministry. Even if you’re non-religious or of a different religion, you should find this disturbing. Why? Because in the US, at least, churches are the primary organization investing in the development of men. Listen to this episode to learn more about this crisis and what it means for our culture. Stick around to the end for a special challenge from Stephen! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and Cali...
May 07, 2019•10 min•Ep. 83
In aptitude tests, men pale in comparison to women in all categories except for two: abstract thought and aggression (or “vision/drive”). Men, your role is to be the vision keeper. Part of being a good husband, father, and leader is being able to develop and encourage a noble vision for all that is within your field. What if a son, for example, not only had a father, but had a father who held vision for the son’s life? A father who could identify the son’s gifts and encourage him to greatness? W...
Apr 30, 2019•11 min•Ep. 82
There’s something that divides those who are engaging, big-hearted, and generous… and those who are seemingly incapable of drawing out the best in others. It is the force of self. Those of us striving to be good men can be affected by this force, so it’s critically important that we are aware of it, that we might keep it at bay in our pursuit of noble manhood. | “Those who cling to worthless idols forfeit the grace that could be theirs.” – Jonah 2:8 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privac...
Apr 23, 2019•14 min•Ep. 81
Men are powerful when they speak. Their words are carriers of truth, comfort, and destiny. Forget the awesomeness of words, and you risk doing severe damage. This week, Stephen challenges listeners to think about their “verbal strategies.” What do the people in your life need to hear from you? Where do they need encouragement? How can you uplift your friends, family, and those around you? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#d...
Apr 16, 2019•11 min•Ep. 80
Please note: This episode includes sexual content. Parents, consider listening alone first, then discussing with your sons. (Specific content warnings are given throughout.) Growing up in Europe, Stephen was surrounded by porn. In Berlin, it was on the billboards, daytime soap operas, and in the locker rooms. Of course, Stephen is opposed to porn, but not just because he’s a Christian. Join us in this episode for a discussion of how porn is rewiring our souls, brains, and very culture. From P.I....
Apr 09, 2019•20 min•Ep. 79
Stephen wants to help you get ahead of the curve. Before summer gets here… before you’re busy with vacation, plans, kids’ activities… set your mind to completing these four challenges. From exercising the mind and body to building the spirit, these four specific challenges will help you in your pursuit of living a life of noble manhood. Don’t miss this opportunity to reset your habits and change your course in life for the better! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Pr...
Apr 02, 2019•14 min•Ep. 78
In order to be a great man – a righteous man – you have to be intentional. It will. Not. Happen. Naturally. Most men have been deposited into their adult years directly from whatever culture they were created in: sports, military, physical labor, etc. Many never move beyond these phases. They never gain a righteous vision of what it means to be a man. They don’t enlist the help of others to fulfill such a vision. In this episode, learn why being an intentional man is important, and how to get st...
Mar 26, 2019•16 min•Ep. 77
We have many listeners who have come to the idea of pursuing noble manhood fairly recently. If you’ve been building a vision for noble manhood and walking with a band of brothers, it’s time to do one more thing: go and address your wrongs. Knowing how to go back to the major moments in your life and make things right is one of the arts of great manhood. We all have people in our pasts whom we have wronged. Let’s live with integrity and make things right. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/p...
Mar 19, 2019•16 min•Ep. 76
Does great manhood ever feel like a big “project” to you? Does it feel like some massive undertaking like going to law school or building a house? It doesn’t always have to be like that. Today, let’s have some fun and talk about the small things that go into great manhood. Stephen shares some of his many micro-disciplines in areas such as health, learning, and romance, that have become a part of his regular routine. Men, we are habit-driven creatures. Let’s maximize the opportunity this presents...
Mar 12, 2019•16 min•Ep. 75
This is a difficult topic. Even if you’re very happily married (or not married at all), listen to this episode so that you’ll have resources and perspective that will allow you to support your band of brothers through a divorce. Having gone through a divorce, himself, Stephen shares keen insights with regards to walking through the process as peacefully as possible. Don’t walk alone. Be humble and big-hearted. Turn toward your kids. And keep asking yourself, “What kind of man do I want to be on ...
Mar 05, 2019•19 min•Ep. 74
“You become what you behold,” is a great truth of life. You get around a group of guys who cuss all the time… you’ll start doing the same. You’re in a group that drinks a lot… you’ll start drinking a lot, too. In this episode, Stephen shares the specific strategies and methods he uses for nurturing the spirit and setting sights high. How are you putting nobility, righteousness, and great manhood before your eyes? See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at ht...
Feb 26, 2019•15 min•Ep. 73
Men are often told they should be good or noble primarily in the context of their roles as husbands and fathers. While, yes, your wife and children deserve to have a good man, a noble man in their lives, they are not the main reason why you should be a good man. You’re called to be a great man simply because that is who you’re meant to be – regardless of culture, religion, place in time and history, or family structure. This week, Stephen’s challenging men to own themselves first. You are called...
Feb 19, 2019•15 min•Ep. 72
A recent survey asked men whether they liked strong women. On the whole, men said they admire strong women… from a distance. Guys, it’s important to recognize that we are not in a tug of war with women. We are not fighting over a limited pie. Let’s get two things straight: (1) men are in decline, and (2) women have not taken anything from men. Until a man is secure in who he is, he’s going to be resentful, bitter, and miserable to strong women (and men) alike. Let’s get whole, and let’s welcome ...
Feb 12, 2019•16 min•Ep. 71
“Memento Mori” has served men as a motivation throughout the centuries. Latin for “remember death,” this phrase has prompted ancients and moderns alike to contemplate their own mortality and the meaning of their lives. With advances in science, many of you may very well live into your nineties or beyond 100. Your opportunity for impact is greater than your forefathers. So, what higher values will you live for? What purposes are you meant to accomplish? Force the question of destiny to the fore, ...
Feb 05, 2019•15 min•Ep. 70
In addition to having a band of brothers, many men can benefit from one-on-one coaching. We all have certain deformities of the soul. We all sustain wounds from neglect or the wrong input. That doesn’t mean we have to live in a permanently misshapen state. In this episode, discover the value of one-on-one coaching and the reasons why it may be a good fit for you. For more information, email Coaching@GreatMan.TV. (Disclaimer: The Mansfield Group does not earn any profits from coaching services bo...
Jan 29, 2019•17 min•Ep. 69
Have you seen the Gillette commercial, “The Best Men Can Be?” (Find the link below.) The ad takes aim at “Toxic Masculinity” by drawing attention to the #MeToo movement, recent allegations of sexual assault, bullying, and the prevailing “boys will be boys” mindset. Some love it. Others see it as a harsh slap in the face of masculinity. In this episode, Stephen weighs in with his take regarding the film, the backlash, and what the conversation says about the current state of manhood. Watch Now: h...
Jan 22, 2019•14 min•Ep. 68
JT McCraw is one of Nashville’s premiere builders. He’s also a builder of men. In this episode, he describes the process and hard work that’s a part of every remodel – of both the home and the soul. Follow along as he discusses how we must rethink our spaces according to our needs, remove the filth, and suspend the disbelief that keeps us from pushing ahead into noble manhood. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-m...
Jan 15, 2019•18 min•Ep. 67
“The tragedy of life is what dies inside of a man while he lives,” said Albert Schweitzer. There is a spirt in a man that’s meant to be strong and bold. It’s intended to guide, empower, and ennoble. How you live either strengthens or weakens the manly spirit within you. In this episode, Stephen challenges men with the question, “Are you dying? Or are you gaining strength?” Note: This episode originally aired on January 2, 2018. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Priva...
Jan 08, 2019•15 min•Ep. 66
As we begin a new year, pause. Look around you. What can you do to make an impact in the lives of men at work, school, your place of worship, or sports team? How can you help men fight the battles they must fight to become the men they’re meant to be? In this episode, Stephen offers several practical suggestions. Whatever your status or role in the community, you can use the suggestions in this episode to have a real impact in restoring noble manhood. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/priv...
Jan 01, 2019•19 min•Ep. 65
Perhaps you watched the events of President George H.W. Bush’s funeral. It was beautiful, inspiring, and patriotic. One of the most reported moments occurred when President George W. Bush became choked up while eulogizing his father. The clip was sometimes aired as an oddity. Why? Our culture treats a man’s tears as strange, unmanly. This attitude sends a certain message about manhood: that men shouldn’t show tenderness – and certainly not tears in public. Emotion is perceived as a sign of weakn...
Dec 18, 2018•14 min•Ep. 64
Rabbi Daniel Lapin, known widely as America’s Rabbi, is a noted rabbinic scholar, best-selling author, and TV host. Today he’s challenging men to engage in the restoration of fatherhood. Rabbi Lapin is a fascinating speaker who brings new insights to the GreatMan Podcast. Don’t miss this episode! For more information, visit rabbidaniellapin.com. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Dec 11, 2018•23 min•Ep. 63
