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GOODBYE HEARTBREAK, HELLO HEALING, Healing Broken Hearts, Empowering Women, Scriptural Healing, Find Your Love, Single Women, Christian Singles

Kandice A. Bateast, Heartbreak Coach, Author, Prayer Warriorkandiceabateast.podbean.com
Do you feel heartbroken over a recent breakup? Did you think he was “the one”, but it turned out to be another failed relationship? Are you feeling like you’ll never find “the one” for you? Do you wish God would just bring the right man along so you can be happy? In this podcast I will share my journey of looking for love in all the wrong places to finally finding the true love I needed and how that led to me getting into the right position to be married. I had a lot of work to do in my single season. When I finally put God first in my life and truly gave Him my heart, I became content as a single woman. Then, and only then was I ready for marriage. I will share all my tips and insight on healing and moving on after painful breakups, growing close to God during heartbreak, and how to get into position to have the deepest desires of your heart (i.e., marriage, children, etc.). If you’re ready to ditch that broken heart for healing and wholeness, you’re in the right place. Hey Sis! I’m Kandice–a faith-led wife and mother of 3. I’m carrying out the call God placed on my life by helping women heal and move forward after breakups. While I love my life now, this wasn’t always the case. I remember being single, thriving in my career as a school psychologist, and faking a smile everyday. People thought I had it all together on the outside, but inside I had a broken heart and was unfulfilled with my life. The cycle of failed relationships began to make me have thoughts like, “What’s wrong with me?” and “Why am I not enough?” I desperately wanted to find the right man for me and get married. So I went from relationship to relationship; but instead of finding my soulmate with whom I would spend the rest of my life, I found disappointment and more heartbreak. Then, in 2015, my heart was shattered, and I knew something had to change. I finally realized that if I was ever going to truly heal my heart and be fulfilled, I was going to have to partner with God in the healing process. Through healing and connection with God, I finally felt whole and complete. I learned the proper way to heal and grow my relationship with God, and I want to help you do the same. Plus I have tips to help you get ready for future relationships, so when the right one comes along, you’ll be complete and lacking nothing. If you are ready to finally heal your heart, stop going from failed relationship to failed relationship, and grow your relationship with God in the midst of it, all while becoming the woman you want to be who is ready when the right man comes along–this is definitely the podcast for you. Sis, kick off those cute shoes that’s been hurting your feet all day and turn me up in those earbuds, we’re about to get into it! Links Connect: contact@kandiceabateast.com IG: @goodbyeheartbreakhellopurpose Community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/427484885847810/ Book: https://www.kandiceabateast.com/shop Goodbye Heartbreak, Hello Purpose: A 365 Day Devotional to Journey through Emotional Healing, Spiritual Growth, and Purpose
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Episodes

082. I Messed Up A Good Thing, Part 1

Hey Sis! Instead of moving forward into the purpose piece of my book, I decided to bring it back one more time to Part 1 of my book, since Valentine’s Day is this month, and you may be having some struggles emotionally. Today’s devotion is about what happens when we are the one who messed up a good relationship. The scripture reference is Genesis 3:16 (AMP). Did you know that you can still have a broken heart, even if you were the one who was in the wrong? And man, that’s a tough pill to swallow...

Feb 06, 202310 min

081. Struggling In The New Year After A Breakup? 8 Tips To Change Your Life For The Better In 2023

Hey Sis! Does this breakup have you wondering how in the world will you have a good year this year? Does having a good year seem impossible for you right now? Awww sis! It’s totally possible. It’s the job of the enemy to make you think you’re too broken to do anything worthwhile this year or that it’s not even worth it to try after that breakup. Nothing can be further from the truth. In today’s episode, I’m going to help you elevate your thinking in this season with lots of tips that will help y...

Jan 31, 202323 min

080. Minisode: Wisdom With Time, Part 1

Hey Sis! Are you ready to hear more about gaining wisdom? Today’s devotion is about using our time wisely. The scripture reference is Psalms 90:12 (NIV). Do you ever really think about the fact that we won’t live on this earth forever? God has only given us a certain amount of time here to accomplish the things He called us to do. It’s sobering when you really think about it! We don’t have time to waste trying to figure things out with our limited understanding. The best way to make the best use...

Jan 30, 20237 min

079.One Word That Helped Me In The New Year After My Breakup and 4 Ways You Can Apply It To Your Life

Hey Sis! It’s a new year, and everywhere I turn, I hear people talking about their word for the year. It got me thinking about you and whether or not you had a word for the year. If you don’t, no worries. There’s no pressure to have it right now, but I do have a word that might help you, even if it’s not your “word for the year.” I remember the new year rolling around after my breakup in 2015. God was letting me know He was doing a new thing in me, and there was this one word that kept showing u...

Jan 24, 202314 min

078. Minisode: Who Makes Your Baby Leap

Hey Sis! Are you ready to hear more about gaining wisdom? Today’s devotion is about using wisdom in forming beneficial relationships. The scripture reference is Luke 1:41 (AMP). Yes, we are talking about forming relationships today, but not romantic relationships. We are talking about friendships, mentorships, business partnerships, etc. These relationships can be just as important as a romantic relationship, especially when it comes carrying out the calling God placed on your life. It’s importa...

Jan 23, 20237 min

077. New Year, New Me? 7 Steps to Preserve Your Self-Worth While Making Changes in 2023

Hey Sis! Do you feel pressure to completely change your life or set unrealistic goals just because it’s a new year? I’m all about a fresh start, dreaming, and goal setting for the new year, but I don’t subscribe to the notion that I have to change who I am. God created each of us very uniquely, so we have to be careful when we’re talking about making changes in our lives. Not to mention, the whole “New Year, New Me” saying makes me feel like something was wrong with the old me. Sometimes, it can...

Jan 17, 202323 min

076. Minisode: You Are A Wise Woman

Hey Sis! We have gone through so much of my book in 2022–4 parts to be exact. Now we will kick off part 5–Gaining Wisdom. Today’s devotion is about how to be a wise woman no matter what season you find yourself in. The scripture reference is Proverbs 14:1 (AMP). You are a daughter of the King, which means you are meant to be wise. Now, whether or not you access the wisdom that’s available to you is another story. You don’t have to wait until you are a certain age, achieve a certain goal, or have...

Jan 16, 20239 min

075. Partner With God to Walk In Your Identity, Purpose, and Calling with Stefanie Gass

Hey Sis! It’s a new year, and you may still be wondering, “who am I,” and “what was I created to do?” Today I have a special guest who will give you all the tips to help you figure these things out. Stefanie Gass is actually my mentor/business coach. She helped me to clarify the thing that God has called me to do, and that’s why I am able to show up week after week on this podcast to pour into you. Stefanie Gass is a CEO, wife, boy mom, coffee lover, and #pjsallday enthusiast! Stef helps women g...

Jan 10, 202343 min

074. Minisode--He’s Crafty: Don’t Dialogue

Hey Sis! We have gone through so much of my book in 2022–4 parts to be exact. Now we will kick off part 5–Gaining Wisdom. Today’s devotion is about how the devil makes us question the things God told us. The scripture reference is Genesis 3:1 (NIV). God gives us wisdom. The Holy Spirit speaks truth to us and guides us on our paths. There are times the enemy will come in and make us doubt what God told us by presenting a different and more enticing option. We have to be wise enough to make sure w...

Jan 09, 20237 min

073. 3 Simple Steps to Create An Action Plan To Heal Your Broken Heart In The New Year

Hey Sis! Is healing your broken heart a goal for 2023 but you’re not sure how to make this happen? Are you hearing “just pray about it” everywhere you turn? If so, this episode is definitely for you! We will absolutely be in prayer on your healing journey, but we are also taking action. Even Jesus told people to take action to receive their healing. So today, I’m going to help you get started to create a plan so you can actually make progress on your healing journey. I’m actually going to walk y...

Jan 03, 202324 min

072. Minisode: Becoming Wise, Part 1

Hey Sis! HAPPY NEW YEAR! I’m so excited that you’re joining me in 2023. I love that you’re committed to becoming the best version of yourself. I will continue reading devotions from my book in 2023. And in January, I will be reading from part 5–Gaining Wisdom. Today’s devotion is about laying the foundation for gaining wisdom. The scripture reference is Proverbs 9:10 (NLT). Truth be told, I almost skipped reading from part 5 of the book altogether. It’s the shortest part of the book. But as I wa...

Jan 02, 20237 min

071.Minisode: No Comparison

Hey Sis! The New Year is upon us, and I realized that I needed a little rest and relaxation. So I hope you don’t mind; but instead of a full episode this week, you are getting another devotion from my book. I decided to go out of order a little. We have been reading from part 4 of the book this month, but I thought it would be a good idea to go back to part 3 today. Today’s devotion has to do with identity and the danger of comparison. The scripture reference is Galatians 6:4 (AMP). Sis, do you ...

Dec 30, 20228 min

070. Minisode: Holy Ground

Hey Sis! December is almost over! Today is the last Monday of 2023, and oh boy do I have a good devotion for you about future relationships. Today’s devotion is about really knowing your worth as you prepare to start dating again. The scripture reference is Exodus 3:5 (NLT). Sis, let me tell you! This devotion is definitely among my top 5 from this book! I think it’s because I felt so much fire and passion as I wrote it. Even as I recorded it, it’s like I could feel the power of God. “Holy Groun...

Dec 26, 20228 min

069. 3 Benefits From Reflecting On This Year, Especially After a Breakup + My #1 Way to Reflect

Hey Sis! I know reflecting on 2022 may be the last thing you want to do right now, especially if you experienced a breakup or loss of any kind. But like it or not, the new year is coming and if you want 2023 to be better than 2022, it would be wise not to skip this step. When you are able to look at your life as a whole over this year, not just focusing on the breakup or your ex, you will truly learn a lot about yourself and your experiences. You can gain a grateful heart and maybe understand wh...

Dec 22, 202214 min

068. Disappointed By Your Breakup? 5 Ways to Shift Your Focus From Your Ex to Jesus This Christmas

Hey Sis! I know all you’re probably thinking about right now is your ex and everything you two had planned this year–shopping, seeing the lights, meeting his family, and spending Christmas Day together. And now, you probably can’t wait for Christmas to be over, but it doesn’t have to be a miserable time of year. It takes being intentional about shifting your perspective. A lot of people, especially single women dread Christmas time because they feel like this is the time of year that you should ...

Dec 20, 202215 min

067. Minisode: Can You See His Heart

Hey Sis! It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage. Today’s devotion is abou...

Dec 19, 20226 min

066. Struggling With a Breakup This Christmas? 6 Broken Heart Holiday Survival Tips

Hey Sis! Are you fresh out of a relationship this holiday season? Are you so over the Christmas decorations, sappy movies, and heartbreak holiday songs? Do you just want Christmas and New Years to be over already?! I know exactly how you feel. The holidays rolled around while I was going through my heart healing journey, and it was tough. I struggled through it, but I wish I could have a had a little more help or a better idea about how to get through it. That’s why I came up with these survival...

Dec 13, 202217 min

065. Minisode: Choose Wisely

Hey Sis! It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage. Today’s excerpt is about...

Dec 12, 20227 min

064. 6 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Got Married

Hey Sis! So, my husband and I just celebrated 6 years of marriage in November. Things aren’t perfect, but we’re in a much better place now than where we were at the beginning of our marriage. Partly because of the things I had to learn as a new wife. There was a point in my single season that I was so desperate to be married. I placed that desire above the desire for anything else. But can I say it was a selfish desire back then. The reasons I wanted to get married were not good enough to make a...

Dec 06, 202226 min

063.Minisode: Don’t Go Back To The Familiar

Hey Sis! It’s December already! I’ll still be treating you to a devotion from my book every Monday right here on the podcast. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. In November, I read from section 3, which was about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading from section 4 of the book which is about preparing for future relationships and marriage. Today’s excerpt is about...

Dec 05, 20227 min

062. I Am Grateful For The Lessons I Learned In This Season, GJC Week 5

Hey Sis! We are in week 5 of the Gratitude Journal Challenge. This is our final week, and this is the final episode for this year’s challenge. Just a reminder, I will give you a focus category. This week we are focusing on being grateful for the lessons we have learned in this season of our lives. Listen to my 3 things that I’m grateful for in this area. Then, choose your own. I don’t want you to rush through this. Take your time and do this sis. Soak in the moment and thank God for everything. ...

Nov 30, 202217 min

061. Resting In God With A Broken Heart From Psalms 46:10

Hey Sis! Peace is hard to come by after a breakup, especially when that relationship meant so much to you. I have been there, but can I share a revelation that I got during that time? There’s still rest for you in this season. That’s right, God gave me an invitation to rest in him in the midst of my heartbreak. And can I be honest and say I rejected the invitation at first. But when I finally accepted it, it changed everything for me. Today, we’re breaking down a somewhat familiar passage of scr...

Nov 29, 202221 min

060. Minsode Embracing Singleness: It’s A Necessity

Hey Sis! In the month of November, I will be reading a devotion from the book on the podcast every Monday. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. This month, I will be reading from section 3, which is about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading devotions about getting back the things the enemy stole from you like your peace, joy, strength, and identity. Today’s excerp...

Nov 28, 20227 min

059. I Am Grateful For The People In My Life, GJC Week 4

Hey Sis! We are in week 4 of the Gratitude Journal Challenge! Thanks to those who participated. Remember, every week I will give you a focus category. This week we are focusing on being grateful for the people in our lives. Listen to my 3 things that I’m grateful for in the area. Then, choose your own. I don’t want you to rush through this. Take your time and do this sis. Soak in the moment and thank God for everything. Also, give a shoutout to this week’s winner in the Facebook group. Join the ...

Nov 23, 20229 min

058. I Have A Broken Heart And Nothing To Be Thankful For: 5 Scriptures of Encouragement For This Thanksgiving

Hey Sis! If you’re listening to this episode the day it was released, then, Thanksgiving is in a couple of days. If you’re listening after Thanksgiving, this episode is still beneficial if you’re dealing with heartbreak. Thanksgiving is a season where people tend to focus more on gratitude than any other time of the year. However, you may not feel like you have a whole lot to be grateful for after that breakup. I get it! I’ve definitely been there! It took a lot to get me in the mood of being gr...

Nov 22, 202224 min

057. Minisode: Joy Will Return to You

In the month of November, I will be reading a devotion from the book on the podcast every Monday. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. This month, I will be reading from section 3, which is about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading devotions about getting back the things the enemy stole from you like your peace, joy, strength, and identity. Today’s excerpt is abou...

Nov 21, 20225 min

056. I’m Grateful For Who I Am, GJC Week 3

Hey Sis! We are in week 3 of the Gratitude Journal Challenge! We had slightly more participation this week. I see yall warming up! Remember, every week I will give you a focus category. This week we are focusing on being grateful for who we are. Listen to my 3 things that I’m grateful for in the area. Then, choose your own. I don’t want you to rush through this. Take your time and do this sis. Soak in the moment and thank God for everything. Also, give a shoutout to this week’s winner in the Fac...

Nov 16, 202212 min

055. A Toxic Relationship, Gaslighting, Foolish Behavior, Plus a Mother’s Love and God’s Grace, Pt. 2 with Rachel Stephens

Hey Sis! Today, I’m continuing the conversation with my Sis Rachel that we started last week. Today’s episode may be a little triggering for some of you if you were involved in this type of relationship, so read the show notes and decide if this episode is right for you. Walking away from a toxic relationship doesn’t mean everything is going to be great from that point. There is healing work to do. We have to realize that God is the only one who can truly fill our voids, so we can’t look for ano...

Nov 15, 202251 min

054. Minisode No Anxiety, Bring It In Prayer

Hey Sis! In the month of November, I will be reading a devotion from the book on the podcast every Monday. In September I read from section 1 of the book, which was about dealing with the hurt. In October, I read from section 2, which was about growing closer to God. This month, I will be reading from section 3, which is about finding yourself. This month, I’ll be reading devotions about getting back the things the enemy stole from you like your peace, joy, strength, and identity. Today’s excerp...

Nov 14, 20225 min

053. I’m Grateful For God’s Blessings, GJC Week 2

Hey Sis! We are in week 2 of the Gratitude Journal Challenge! The participation was low in the Facebook group for week 1, but I have faith that you guys will show up this week. Remember, every week I will give you a focus category. This week we are focusing on being grateful for God’s blessings. Listen to my 3 things that I’m grateful for. Then, choose your own. I don’t want you to rush through this. Take your time and do this sis. Soak in the moment and thank God for everything. Also, give a sh...

Nov 09, 202212 min
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