This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women’s spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully se...
Oct 23, 2025•53 min•Season 3Ep. 143
This week, Vee and Elle unpack everything couples should talk about before stepping into a shared play space—from emotional boundaries to desires, jealousy, and how to reconnect afterward, using a conversation framework they learned on an ISTA retreat. From collars and rituals to new relationship energy (NRE), aka limerence, and the messy middle between fantasy and reality—Vee goes deep on her experience. Whether you're new to the lifestyle, playing with a new partner, or redefining your relatio...
Oct 16, 2025•1 hr•Season 3Ep. 142
This week, Vee and Elle sit down with journalist and sexual freedom philosopher Nicolle Double L to explore the intersection of BDSM, psychedelics, and sexuality as tools for self-discovery and healing. The conversation dives into cervical orgasms, DMT release, altered states, and how sex can mirror a psychedelic journey, especially when paired with presence and aftercare. The discussion delves into the neurochemistry of orgasms, the therapeutic aspects of BDSM, and the significance of set and s...
Oct 09, 2025•1 hr 15 min•Season 3Ep. 141
In this episode, Vee and Elle play only the NSFW cards from Esther Perel’s card game Where Should We Begin. Where Should We Begin: Esther Perel’s card game. “A text message you fantasize about recieving…”: domming your husband from afar, cock cages, and naughty sexts. (6:06) “A sexual experience I’d pay for…” From sex workers in Amsterdam to strippers to dominatrixes. (10:30) Somatica visualization/fantasy: Vee guides Elle to figure out what she would want in a fantasy situation. (14:56) “When I...
Oct 02, 2025•47 min•Season 3Ep. 140
In this episode, Vee shares her transformational ISTA experience— what is ISTA like (International School of Temple Arts)? What can you expect going to an ISTA retreat? The ladies dive into how Vee FINALLY found the tools to get out of her head and into her body, how to communicate boundaries lovingly, and awakening eros AKA life force. Get ready to hear about emotional release, using tantric exercises to let go of an ex, and the conversation to have before hooking up with a new person. What is ...
Sep 25, 2025•57 min•Season 3Ep. 139
In this meandering conversation, Elle and Vee blend kink, parenting, and intimacy into one candid, sex-positive chat. They dive into everything from pregnancy porn and the risks of recording intimate videos to the awkwardness of moms finding sexy photos. They explore sex-positive parenting, New Relationship Energy (NRE), and the intensity of Dominant/submissive dynamics—discussing what makes a good Dom, what subs and tops truly get out of play, and why negotiation is key. Seasons of life: Have V...
Sep 18, 2025•49 min•Season 3Ep. 138
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Sep 04, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 137
This week, the girls catch up on whats been going on for them, from threesomes to new partners. Vee reveals something big going on in her life: a change in her relationship dynamic, and how it seems to be affecting her ability to orgasm. Elle shares updates on how her pregnancy is affecting her dreams. “Cumming and running”: Elle sets boundaries during play weekends. (00:47) The orgasm happens in the brain: not being able to cum when you’re going through something stressful. Vee makes an announc...
Aug 28, 2025•47 min•Season 3Ep. 136
This week, Elle, Vee and repeat guest Athena spill all the messy, hilarious, and downright disastrous sex stories you never hear about. From sneezing out cum and fishing out lost condoms to broken furniture, tampon mishaps, and anal surprises, nothing is off-limits. We share our own awkward moments along with wild tales from the community that prove sex fails are equal parts mortifying and funny. Because at the end of the day, sex is messy, bodies are human, and sometimes the best aftercare is j...
Aug 25, 2025•58 min•Season 3Ep. 135
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with Briana Cribeyer, a sacred sexuality facilitator, guide, and founder of Sacred Sexuality Rising. They explore various relationship dynamics and the challenges that can arise while navigating an ENM (ethically non-monogamous) journey. Briana answers listener questions and shares tips and tools for handling difficult situations, balancing masculine and feminine energies, doing inner child work, and using thoughtful questions to open communication around how t...
Aug 14, 2025•1 hr 19 min•Season 3Ep. 134
This week, Elle and Vee chat with JJ of The Sexie Show podcast, and play Girls Gone Shallow, a sex-themed game testing how well they know each other. Play along with your partner, and we invite you to make the stakes interesting ;) Battlestrip: what is it? (1:57) What is the role of games in a sexy environment? Pushing our growth edges, getting silly and reducing anxiety. How can we carry the energy over from the icebreaker games to sexual scenes? (8:01) Exxotica: porn convention. (17:10) Most s...
Aug 07, 2025•55 min•Season 3Ep. 133
This week, Elle and Vee catch up on all their latest play, from Elle’s long weekend with lifestyle friends to the reason underlying Vee’s horniness, kinky date night takeaways and why some fantasies you don’t want to role play. Ass play/vegetable play, caving, and Elle learns what a bussy is. Fears, Desires, Boundaries with old friends; ebbing and flowing playing with others in your ENM partnership. Craving touch: asking for what you want (spanking) but being ok if your dom isnt in the right hea...
Jul 31, 2025•52 min•Season 3Ep. 132
In this episode, Britton and Carolee Beckham crack open the raw truth of what it really takes to heal after infidelity. From betrayal to breakthrough, they share the messy, brave journey of rebuilding trust, rediscovering themselves, and confronting the emotional landmines of marriage, family, and faith. With vulnerability at the center, they unpack the weight of growing up Mormon, why they chose to leave, and how that choice became part of their transformation. This isn’t just about cheating—it...
Jul 24, 2025•1 hr 18 min
This week, Elle and Vee catch up with Athena talking all things NSFW and soul-deep: blowjob glory, gift kink, doctor role play, surrender vs submission, orgasmic visuals and more. Unexpected First-Time Hookup Sex And Taking Sexy Selfies (00:00) Cock Worship Blowjob That Earned a Reward Fuck, Spit or Swallow & Taste of Cum (05:17) 10:05 Orgasming from Oral and Typical 11:26 Visuals and Sensations During Orgasms 18:33 Getting off from buying gifts for others 20:51 “This feels so good” why do w...
Jul 17, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Season 3Ep. 130
This week, Elle and Vee chat with OG sexual wellness icon Pamela Madsen on all things erotic. From extended orgasmic states to the joy of adult play, and how cultivating your erotic persona can transform your sex life. Plus, hear about the Oprah-featured Lotus Lift Meditation and what men can do to truly empower the women in their lives. Pulling from so much experience, Pamela had some serious wisdom to share! Climax isn’t the point: orgasmic states and elongated pleasure. (3:20) Back to the Bod...
Jul 10, 2025•37 min•Season 3Ep. 129
How can ropes and shibari be used in different ways? At play parties to understand a new partner quickly, as a mode for a transformational or transcendental experience, as a method for submission or dominance... In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Rina Trevi about her journey from dominatrix to tantrika and vulnerability coach, the spiritual side of shibari, and how rope play at parties can be a path to pleasure, presence, and a whole lot of surrender. From dominatrix to tantrika: What pulle...
Jul 03, 2025•1 hr 5 min
Elle and Vee recap their weekend at a mansion airbnb with 45 of their friends, celebrating several birthdays and a bachelor bachelorette! Gemini Bach Bash (00:00) Theme nights (04:54) Seal team slut olympics (06:32) Intentions and elle’s announcement! (19:12) Thursday Night Highlights (28:01) Before Kiss Someone New, Do You Get Consent From Their Partner? (32:37) Sensual Loving and Sweaty Sex (35:02) Cumming at Play Parties: Priority or not? (39:22) Homemade Porn Compilation Videos (41:19) MFM (...
Jun 19, 2025•1 hr 13 min•Season 3Ep. 127
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Olivia Dydyna about her journey from being inorgasmic to fully awakened through sound, breath, and deep self-connection. The girls explore Soulgasm, light language, sounding for pleasure, and how to unlock turn-on even when trauma lives in the body. If you've ever wondered what it means to center yourself, speak your truth, and experience desire beyond outcome—this one’s for you. Olivia’s Story: From inorgasmic to orgasmic. (2:10) How do we achieve ultimat...
Jun 12, 2025•55 min•Season 3Ep. 126
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into their recent experiences in ENM, sharing naughty stories, recent personal growths and lesson learned. Jewelry Mishaps and Lingerie Inconveniences During Sex. (00:00) Top Floor Play Party Intentions: New Play Partner, New Location, Plus Pushing Exhibitionist Boundaries. (5:48) The Art of the Stacking: Creative Sexual Positions with 4 people (Porn Star Wolf Hudson Inspired). (18:49) Soft Cock: Thank you! (21:41) Advantages of Smaller Dicks: Listener Question...
Jun 05, 2025•53 min•Season 3Ep. 125
For all our sapiosexuals out there, get ready for this panty-dropper! Elle and Vee chat with comedian and podcast host Kaytlin Bailey and "erotic initiatrix" Priestess Francesca about the history of International Whores Day, sex workers' rights, and our internalized prejudices. What is International Whores Day? (3:58) Decriminalizing vs Legalizing. (9:12) Spirituality and Religion intersecting with sex work. (12:13) Controlling sex workers is a feminist issue. (17:41) Internalized whorephobia in...
May 29, 2025•1 hr 2 min•Season 3Ep. 124
This week, Elle and Vee dive deep into all things masturbation—from silent solo play to sex toy confessions, and the rituals we don’t talk about (but definitely should). What comes to mind when you think of masturbation? (04:42) Masturbating rather than playing in a couple. (06:10) Sexual empowerment through masturbation and sexting. (10:40) Cock stroking. (14:15) Does solo play take away from partner play? (14:58) Shame and a link to Kellogg's cereal. (17:32) How often do you masturbate, what d...
May 22, 2025•57 min•Season 3Ep. 123
This week, Vee and Elle delve into their experiences with vulnerability, impact play, and the emotional complexities that arise during kinky encounters. From flogging techniques, to primal play, to collecting cum, squirt juice, a spit chalice, and even scat play, the girls don’t hold back, in their signature style. Crygasm, Vulnerability and Emotional Releases in Spanking Session (00:00) Flogging, Whipping, and Spanking Techniques (6:16 Tantric Intimacy Social and Trance-like Spanking (15:41) Mi...
May 15, 2025•1 hr 1 min
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Priestess Francesca about kink, piss, and the juicy world of dark desires. Bring your curiosity and leave your shame at the door. What is Dark Erotiscm? (3:04) Shadow Work: “fill the hole where shame used to be with love and acceptance.” (10:09) Taboo Kinks: Why are we afraid of our kinks and how can we approach them? (13:57) How can you start exploring your dark erotic desires? What to check for before you begin on your kink journey. (17:58) Where do turn...
May 08, 2025•59 min•Season 3Ep. 121
This week, Elle and Vee chat with Athena, Vee's metamour and wingwoman in NYC. In this candid chat, the girls hear the details of Athena's first gang bang, chat about how to make your fantasies a reality, being a single woman in the lifestyle, and so much more! Exploring the Abyss of Porn Together (00:00) Introducing Athena: From Fainting to Best Friends (2:19) Embracing Your Inner Slut: Athena's Story (5:23) Visual Vs. Spontaneous Fantasy & Planning a Fantasy Hangups (10:45) Planning the Un...
May 01, 2025•1 hr 7 min•Season 3Ep. 120
In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy . Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotional...
Apr 24, 2025•1 hr 4 min•Season 3Ep. 119
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Liv Love: sex writer, sex educator and swinger, and new friend from Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025! They focus on bisexuality, labels, performance anxiety, shame, strap on sex ... and a play-by-play of how to go from zero to orgasm. This is a no-holds-barred conversation about questioning your bisexuality, pussy insecurities, and so much more! Lack of confidence eating going down on women. (00:49) Liv’s story. (5:35) Bisexuality: when do you know you’re b...
Apr 17, 2025•1 hr 14 min•Season 3Ep. 118
In this episode, Vee and Elle dive into Elle's Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 experience, sharing spicy stories, communication hiccups, and the evolution of their desires in the lifestyle. They explore boundaries, consent, group play dynamics, and the rediscovery of feminine energy — all while navigating connection, frustration, and the value of both solo and shared intimacy. Introduction to Hedonism Swing Breakers 2025 (00:00) Fear Desires Boundaries & Intentions for the Trip (04:24) New Conn...
Apr 10, 2025•1 hr 12 min
This week the girls go deep with Leola Watkins, Pleasure Priestess and the best-selling author of Sacred Sex Ed. Answering listeners' questions, they dig into a number of concepts under the tantric umbrella from shadow work and Golden Shadows, to sex magic and creating through orgasm, to yoni and lingum gazing. They also cover how all of this applies to men, when often tantric conversations can feel very feminine-energy-focused, AND how we can apply living tantrically to everyday life! This is a...
Apr 03, 2025•1 hr 11 min•Season 3Ep. 116
This week, the girls go deep on an often (in their experience) overlooked and underused play option: fingering! Pulling from listener polls, friends, research and their own experience, Elle and Vee share all the juicy details of every aspect of fingering that they could come up with. Did they miss anything? Fingering: yay or nay? Foreplay: Stimulating around the hole before insertion. How many fingers at first? Self-pleasure: Do you use fingers during masturbation? The Technique: in and out vs i...
Mar 27, 2025•59 min•Season 3Ep. 115
What Is ISTA SSSex Level 1 Retreat? (00:00) The Intensity of Emotional Processing. (07:25) The Importance of Slowing Down. (13:38) Elle’s Reasons for Going to ISTA. (21:07) Masculine and Feminine. (27:00) No Expectation of Tantra and Sexuality as a Sacred Experience. (28:55) People Pleasing vs Listening to Your Body's Signals. (33:44) Shadow Work: Elle’s Revelations Around Social Anxiety. (37:00) Triggers as Gifts: Feminine Connection. (40:08) How Elle will take her takeaways into her relationsh...
Mar 21, 2025•1 hr 21 min•Season 3Ep. 114
