In this episode, the girls bring back Brandi from Episode 047: Fulfilling Fantasies: Exploring Kinks and BDSM, the DC Fetish Ball, Sex Therapy and Hiring a Pro Dominatrix . Together they play WHOREible Life by trying to guess whether or not each player has done the act mentioned on the card. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! Sex Positions While Pregnant: which positions create a boy and whi...
Aug 08, 2024•41 min•Season 2Ep. 83
There are plenty of podcasts that talk about do’s and dont’s at a sex parties. This episode goes deeper. The girls share their "aha" moments, discuss common mistakes made by veterans in the lifestyle, and storytell through it all with real-life examples. Joining Elle and Vee chat in this discussion is returning guest Jess from Episode 58: “Help! My Ass Swallowed my Butt Plug!”, Golden Shower Pee Play, Fisting, and Staying Focused in Group Play and Episode 37: Edging: The Advantages of Withholdin...
Aug 01, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 82
In this conversation, Elle and Vee chat with couple B and Lolo to discuss their long-distance relationship and how they practice non monogamy. They share how they navigate being apart and how they keep their relationship hot and exciting. The conversation touches on topics such as playing separately, sharing sexy content, phone and video sex, the importance of creating the right atmosphere for sexual experiences, and their successful approach to meeting new people and introducing 'vanillas' into...
Jul 25, 2024•1 hr 11 min•Season 2Ep. 81
In this episode, Elle catches up with Vee on everything she's been up to over the past few months while she's been gone on maternity leave. Vee shares her takeaways from various sex parties and the personal challenges she's been working through that have made getting sexual more challenging than usual. Overthinking and using labels as a crutch: demisexuality. (1:57) Trying to get sexy when you have a lot of stress in your life. (10:39) Sex party takeaways: Squirting in public. Balancing and comm...
Jul 11, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 79
Elle had her baby! In this episode, she shares all the intimate details about how she and her husband, M, used natural sexual tactics to induce labor, and how they got back to being sexual after six weeks of healing. How to induce labor with sex: nipple play, penetrative sex, nipple clamps, orgasms and Braxton Hicks. (3:07) What is labor pain like? Comparing contractions to DVP, speculum spreading, fisting, anal discomfort: breathing through discomfort, and thinking of words as spells. (11:04) P...
Jul 04, 2024•49 min•Season 2Ep. 78
In this episode, Vee and Elle chat with professional cuddler and dominatrix Bee, who is also the co-founder of Temple in Chicago, a shibari and aerial performer, and the partner of previous repeat guest Physics ( Episode 45: Yoni Massage vs Squirting , Episode 46: BDSM, DDLG and Shibari ). In this wide-ranging conversation, the four of them touch on everything from DDLG dynamics to overcoming vulva shame through yoni gazing. Temple: The feminine energy vs the masculine energy, creating a space f...
Jun 27, 2024•1 hr 1 min•Season 2Ep. 77
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest Slutlana (from Episode 31: Opening Your Marriage, Throuples, and Falling In Love With Someone Besides Your Husband ) and Alexa Andre (from Episode 71: Relaxing While Receiving Oral, One Penis Policy, and Biphobia ) to play the game Whoreible Life. This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! There are many many ways to play, so in this episode t...
Jun 20, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 76
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Lola Jean ( @lolajeandotcom ) about her work as a sex educator. She's known for holding the World Record for Highest Volume Squirted, but this conversation steers away from that (after first touching on why squirting can be annoying) and dives into her work as a fetish wrestler (aka "play fighting" using jiu jitsu moves). No frills sex education: what does that mean? Working the social media algorithm as a sex educator. All the courses Lola Jean has on her...
Jun 06, 2024•50 min•Season 2Ep. 74
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Kate Maxx, who is a "Jill of all trades": a former Naked News anchor, model, Young Swingers Week emcee (among other events), stripper, Only Fans content creator, and dominatrix specializing in humiliation. They go deep on all these topics. Additionally, they cover the importance of separating your work and personal life as a sex worker, and the shifts in perspective when you're a young widow. Website: www.katemaxx.com Instagram: kate_maxx_ Support the show...
May 30, 2024•56 min•Season 2Ep. 73
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back repeat guest M (from Episode 5: Compersion , Episode 12: DP , Episode 34: How to Squirt ) and Daniel D'Ottavio ( @dottavio77 ) from Episode 64: SNCTM to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 1 Done it — share the story! 2 Fantasy —...
May 23, 2024•44 min•Season 2Ep. 72
This week, Vee and Elle discuss a range of topics with sexologist Alexa Andre ( @sexwithalexa ), a sex therapist and host of the podcast In Bed with Alexa . They cover everything from new couples exploring ethical non-monogamy, to being able to relax into receiving oral (especially as a vulva owner), to navigating bisexuality, and so much more, including: What advice do you have for a couple in which one partner has more experience than the other in non-monogamy? How can you deal when you’re uns...
May 16, 2024•49 min•Season 2Ep. 71
This week, the girls continue their chat about all things ORAL. (Listen to 069: Part 1: Techniques, Uncircumcised Blow Jobs and Power Dynamics here.) What to stop doing in oral sex. (2:38) Tips for helping with gag reflex. (4:56) Imbalance of giving head vs eating pussy. (10:14) Challenges and hangups with oral. (12:45) Best oral positions in group sex. (17:03) Grooming and hygiene. (21:03) Cum: spit or swallow? (27:17) Cum: where to finish, and how to communicate about it. (29:42) Ask Dr. Elle:...
May 09, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 70
It's the oral extravaganza! Vee and Elle chat about all things oral: blow jobs, eating out and all the good and bad along with it. Why do you deep throat? (1:53) Enthusiasm - our number one tip! The importance of moaning to show enthusiasm when receiving. (6:37) Techniques for giving head: the corkscrew method; communication; ball sucking and licking. (9:49) Getting comfortable! The best positions to give head and go down on someone. (15:08) Techniques for licking pussy (cunnilingus, going down ...
May 02, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 69
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Sarah Eve about sensation play, including everything from the tools to use, to what questions to ask before a session, to safety considerations (especially when using electroplay), and so much more. Sarah Eve is an educator and facilitated a mini workshop on sensation play at Daytime Playtime: a Sober Play Party, which Vee recapped in Episode 063. What is sensation play? How can we stimulate different senses to heighten a sexual experience? It’s not just t...
Apr 25, 2024•54 min•Season 2Ep. 68
In this episode, Vee chats with two couples at Hedonism Swing Breakers about their tools and takeaways for making a vacation at an all-inclusive lifestyle resort a success. Superslut and The Turk chat about how therapy helped set them up for success, while Josie and Evan share how Evan cutting out alcohol changed their relationship for the better. Additionally, they cover: What are some communication techniques to mitigate the effects of the free-flowing alcohol? Why keep doing it if it's so muc...
Apr 18, 2024•47 min•Season 2Ep. 67
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two male guest for a GUYS GONE DEEP edition to play WHOREible Life the game. First up, Zachary Zane @zacharyzane_ : from Episode 057: Bisexuality with Boyslut Author Zachary Zane: Shameless Sexuality, The Importance of Visibility, and Living Your Best Slutty Life! Then, The Builder: from Episode 012: Guys Gone Deep: The Builder and M on Double Penetration, Short Men, and Friendships in the Lifestyle and mentioned in multiple other episodes! Fucking you...
Apr 11, 2024•1 hr 10 min•Season 2Ep. 66
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat before and after Vee goes to Hedonism Swing Breakers: an under-45 swinger event at Hedonism II in Negril, Jamaica. It's a weeklong takeover of the resort, full of nudity, orgies, theme parties and debauchery! Vee articulates her intentions, and later they recap the week and their experiences of it - both there and from afar - and what their takeaways were! This conversation includes: Lingerie vs rave costumes at lifestyle theme parties. PLUS packing tips! (:45)...
Apr 04, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 65
In this week's episode, Elle and Vee chat about all things SNCTM, the private members club that the girls have always wanted a peek inside. They cover the club, but also go super deep with their guest on the deeper meaning behind impact play, his love and adoration of his burlesque champion wife, and their artistic partnership. Daniel D’Ottavio: his role in SNCTM, and his origin story with his wife, Lou Lou D’vil, the creative director or SNCTM. (1:03) Monogamy and SNCTM: The choice to stay mono...
Mar 28, 2024•50 min•Season 2Ep. 64
Horny for Knowledge: Daytime Playtime Sober Play Party with Mini Workshops. (00:54) What is a daytime sober play party like? Analyzing the space and vibe: lighting, highlighting hit me up, attire, number of people. (4:54) What sobriety brings to a sex party. (7:21) Lola Jean: Spicing up the typical consent speech, including an interactive exercise. (9:31) Making eye contact at a sex party: it;s not necesssarily an invitation! (11:02) Embodiment, setting intentions, and setting boundaries worksho...
Mar 21, 2024•1 hr 5 min•Season 2Ep. 62
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back two sexy friends to play WHOREible Life the game! Leia ( @vibrantbyleia ) from Episode 41: Transformational Experiences in ENM and Episode 42: Sexual Somatic Healing and Sasha Silver ( @Sashasilverxo ) from Episode 54: From Cam Girl to Dominatrix . With Leia, the way we played the game was by answering “Done It, Fantasy, No Thank you” and with Sasha, we had to guess if the person who drew the card had done it or not. Plan B use in college and IUDs. (2:...
Mar 14, 2024•59 min
Listen in as Elle and Vee chat with Amy and Byron about Noetic, an exclusive elite VIP sex party which hosts unique, kinky, themed events in NYC, Miami, and Dubai. They cover everything from strap-ons to consent double standards and hot girls privilege. What does Noetic mean? (0:44) What is the orientation of the attendees of these events? (4:04) How does allowing women to have complimentary membership impact the dynamic and ambiance of the parties? (5:46) What can one expect at Noetic event? (1...
Mar 07, 2024•1 hr 4 min•Season 2Ep. 61
In this episode Vee and Elle had special guest Daniel Saynt on the show: founder and Chief Conspirator of NSFW, AKA New Society for Wellness, which is an NYC-based sex club and community. They get into what makes NSFW different from other sex spaces, how they host workshops around sex education and communication, how they create safe space for all genders and sexual orientations, including bisexual and gay men, to feel welcomed and safe to explore their sexy sides… and way more! Bisexuality: Dan...
Feb 29, 2024•1 hr 17 min•Season 2Ep. 60
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with sensuality mentor and sensual shibari practitioner Jaqueline Michelle about ways to heal trauma and connect with yourself. They touch on everything from solo kink to conscious sex work and strip clubs, the stigma around stripping and finding what makes you feel sexy, relearning to tune into your body when you disassociate to healing trauma through movement and self love practices, and surrendering to your inner domme or sub. Jaqueline Michelle's healing jo...
Feb 21, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 59
In today’s episode, Elle and Vee bring back guest Jess from Episode 37: Edging , to play the game WHOREible Life together! This conversation perfectly displays how WHOREible Life the game facilitates a little bit of the naughty chat with a little bit of the DEEP! When we pulled a card, each of us responded with Done it, Fantasy or No Thank you. 1 Done it —with story sharing 2 Fantasy —-with desire share 3 No thank you --and why not Ass swallowing butt plug experience. (1:00) Toy Review: Amovibe ...
Feb 15, 2024•50 min•Season 2Ep. 58
In this episode, Vee and Elle go deep with Zachary Zane on everything from coming out as bisexual to overcoming shame, the importance of community and the nerdiness of polyamorous people. Being “closeted” as a sex positive swinger. (3:42) Pansexual vs bisexual. (7:12) From sexually confused to "The Bisexual Mega Influencer." (13:13) Bisexual visibility/audibility. (18:46) Untangling anal stigmas - can you be seen as masculine AND enjoy anal play? (23:44) Common myths or misrepresentations of bis...
Feb 08, 2024•1 hr 6 min•Season 2Ep. 57
In this episode, Elle and Vee reflect on their sexual highlights from 2023, and look forward to what they want to focus on in 2024, sexually and personally. But first, they recap and share takeaways from their 16-person NYC weekend. Slutcracker weekend recap. (3:05) Takeaway: Finding quiet moments to recharge batteries. (6:27) Hot takes on the NSFW soft opening. (11:40) Hoes in Hoboken: Joy Edition. (17:26) Highlight: Vee gives head from start to finish! (21:50) Takeaway: The bonus of more intim...
Feb 01, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 56
In this episode, Elle and Vee catch up after their separate slutty adventures. Elle gives all the naughty details of her trip to Nicaragua with a group of ENM friends, and Vee shares her sexy stories and takeaways from the Naughty Snowball, an annual sexy party thrown by Brandi and the DJ. Through detailing their experiences, you get an inside look at all the ways in which Elle, Vee and their friends get intimate and playful one-on-one with their primary partners, and in group sex situations...s...
Jan 25, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 55
In this episode, Elle and Vee chat with Femdom Sasha Silver. The girls talk about her journey from webcamming to dominatrix to self discovery to the psychology behind many kinks and fetishes. This conversation has so many good nuggets! We're excited for you take a deep dive with us! Who is Sasha Silver and how she got into webcamming on Chaturbate, and online Sex Work. (1:38) What is a cam girl? (4:30) Sasha shares web cam tips that helped her success. (5:38) What was on Sasha’s cam girl menu? (...
Jan 18, 2024•1 hr 20 min•Season 2Ep. 54
In the episode you've all been waiting for ;), Elle and Vee dive deep into all things BUTT STUFF, including (drumroll please)... Vee's play by play of her first DP! New Years Eve: Vee does DP (double pentration)! (2:23) Butt plugs: tails and inflatable butt plugs - the pros and cons and what to watch out for! Douching, and butt plugs falling out. (12:45) Lubes: types of lube (silicone vs water based), coconut oil and lube shooters. What Elle learned from the Reddit thread Ask Gay Bros. (26:01) R...
Jan 11, 2024•1 hr 8 min•Season 2Ep. 53
Happy New Year! Elle and Vee usher in 2024 by reflecting on some of the never-before-released clips from some of the most popular episodes of 2023. Nipples through shirts: Free the nipple? What are the ethics of letting your nipples show through your shirt in public? What about wearing a shirt with fake nipples built in? (2:34) (Hear the full conversation in Episode 041) DVAAP: What's the best position to make triple penetration (DVP and anal) work? The importance of set and setting for DVP and ...
Jan 04, 2024•56 min•Season 2Ep. 52
