Can you burn out at 21? Oh yes, yes you can. I’ll help a frazzled Shalloner who is feeling used by everyone in her life, another who can’t seem to get her mom off her back, and a business-minded boss babe dealing with snakes in the grass! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtu...
Feb 19, 2020•29 min•Ep. 40
In this special bonus Shallontine’s Day episode, I’ll break down some truly heinous Valentine’s horror stories you shared with me, from a love-bombing loser and a dollar-store romeo, to the many, MANY dudes who have many, MANY excuses for why they didn’t get you a gift! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new...
Feb 14, 2020•36 min•Ep. 39
Should you be “just friends” with a guy who isn’t ready to commit? UH NO. I’ll break down the trap of endless friendship, plus help a Shalloner dealing with a physical limitation and a follow up to a saga about a guy who won’t say “I love you!” 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www...
Feb 12, 2020•29 min•Ep. 38
Do you feel stuck in stagnant? I’ll tell you how to reverse-engineer your life to get out of a rut and back on track, talk to a girl dealing with an in-and-out ex fiancé, plus help a Shalloner who met a dude by… catfishing him? 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user...
Feb 05, 2020•35 min•Ep. 38
Life isn’t always sugar and pom-poms. This week we’re tackling some heavy topics from family obligations to family loss. Plus, I’ll help a confused Shallonee sort out the nuances of trauma bonding and you have another one a plan to get away from an abusive ex 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a w...
Jan 29, 2020•26 min•Ep. 36
This week, I’ll help a fan narrow down her career options, explain some hot and cold behavior from a guy who won’t put out, and we are the pros and cons of coming clean about kissing your friends fella. Plus, I’ll dismantle the idea that being an empath is a good thing… Because it is not. 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester �...
Jan 22, 2020•30 min•Ep. 35
Did you fall for a guy on a getaway? I’ll unravel a fiasco with a “vacationship” and help a girl who realized that SHE is the beta. Plus, we’ll tackle toxic family members, and feeling like the odd chick out in a trio of friends! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/us...
Jan 15, 2020•34 min•Ep. 24
This episode we’ll debate why some dudes won’t go downtown, and why others let their moms run their life. Plus, I’ll help a Shalloner who’s guy won’t drop the ILY, and why those who have nothing to hide, hide nothing... 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallon...
Jan 08, 2020•33 min•Ep. 33
This episode we’ll explore how to get revenge on an ex, a player, and a guy who had the AUDACITY to move on after a break up! Plus, I’ll remind you why we are bait, and not fish! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW 💜 Insta/Twitter @Shall...
Jan 01, 2020•28 min•Ep. 32
Can we turn a wishy-washy guy into marriage (or at least boyfriend) material? And what happens when you realize too late that you like a guy from a one-night stand? Can you turn that ho into a housewife? I'll tell you when to keep trying and when to keep it moving! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new vide...
Dec 20, 2019•34 min•Ep. 31
This week I'll talk to a teen who wants to unleash her inner maneater, plus several other chickadees who recognize that they’re entangled with awful a-holes...but can’t quite let go of them for some reason! Are they chasing neglect? I’ll break it all down.... 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a w...
Dec 11, 2019•38 min•Ep. 30
If a f**kboy grows up, should you give him another chance? I'll tell it like it is to one Shalloner pondering a player, plus help another make friends in a jealous environment, and explain whether or not it's normal to be occiasionally icked out by the guy you're dating! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 ne...
Dec 05, 2019•29 min•Ep. 29
'Tis the season to break up with friends who annoy you! I'll help two Shalloners untangle themselves from friendships that no longer serve them, plus help a 28-year-old virgin decide if she should tell her 20-year-old booty call that he's her first... 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.studio71us.com/collections/shallon-lester . 💜BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week http...
Nov 27, 2019•30 min•Ep. 28
This week I'll help two Shalloners who can't seem to craft the relationships they want. One is constantly striking out at the bars while another is fuming over a fumbled birthday celebration. I'll share some tips on attracting the right kind of guys and why sometimes a birthday blow up is about something much, much deeper... 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! https://shop.stud...
Nov 20, 2019•29 min•Ep. 27
This week I'll help two Shalloners who are more than a little suspicious that their oh-so-perfect boyfriends are anything but. Plus, I'll help a 20-year-old hottie shut down backhanded compliments from her older friends, break down the effects of growing up with a single parents and explain why "restful" is your new mantra! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜 SHOP 💜 My new collection of hoodies & more! 💜BINGE 💜 4 new ...
Nov 13, 2019•33 min•Ep. 27
Is "vanilla sex" a dealbreaker? We'll decode what a guy means when he dogs his own sexual performance, and what YOU mean when suddenly you can't stand a boy you used to have the hots for! Plus, we'll untangle family boundaries and shut down some office awfulness. . 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com for help and to shop my new merch line! 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad ...
Nov 06, 2019•28 min•Ep. 26
Is there anything more annoying than a guy who "can't" plan a date? No, and I'll give you a script to nip it in the bud. Plus, I'll break down a booty call brouhaha and help a girl raise her standard, and dispel the self-defeating myth of the shy guy! 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com for help and to shop my new merch line! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta / Twitter...
Oct 30, 2019•29 min•Ep. 25
This episode, two girls are dealing with depressive dudes...but when does love turn into enabling? I’ll straighten ‘em out like a piece of wire, plus break down the warning signs that a “nice guy” is actually a good guy f*ckboy in disguise! . 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com for help and to shop my new merch line! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta / Twitter @Shallon...
Oct 23, 2019•32 min•Ep. 24
This episode, we will tackle a tricky question from a girl who doesn’t want her sexual boundaries to destroy her social life, explore why romantic gestures creep us out, and help a girl who is not only dateless but friendless too! . 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com for help! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜 BINGE 💜 4 new videos a week . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta / Twitter Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Oct 17, 2019•30 min•Ep. 23
This week, I’ll give you scripts for shutting down friends who are flaky, catty or self destructive, plus semi-sorta-cheating boyfriends! Plus, I’ll shine a light on why we really want to confront a fuckboy...and when we shouldn’t!. . . 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head on over to shallonlester.com for help! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad ch...
Oct 08, 2019•30 min•Ep. 22
This week, we’ll explore the toxic patterns that hold you back, how self-worth and shame hinder your ability to make friends, what to do when a booty call gets clingy, and the #1 thing you need to remember about a love triangle! . 💜GOT A QUESTION ? 💜 Head to shallonlester.com . .. . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcas...
Sep 25, 2019•31 min•Ep. 21
This episode, I’ll tell you how to cut off toxic family, why an ex should stay an ex, what small talk texting really means, and how to cope with a constant need for attention! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Sep 17, 2019•31 min•Ep. 20
Being “friends with benefits” sounds great...until he’s the only one benefitting. I’ll break down the psychology behind booty calls, and how to avoid falling into one if you actually want more. Plus, I’ll help someone with three mangled marriage is under her belt, and tell you exactly how to play hard to get! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about ...
Sep 12, 2019•33 min
In this episode, I’ll tell you what to do about a toxic work environment, ease your mind if losing your virginity wasn’t exactly magic moment, muse a little on motherhood, and tell you some habits we need to be borrowing from boys on Tinder! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Aug 28, 2019•35 min
This week I’ll tell you how to fix anxiety without medication, tackle friends who are in trouble… and ones who are MAKING trouble, whether or not a guy is just “being nice,” and what to do when a first date conversation goes flat! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Aug 21, 2019•36 min
This week, I’ll tell you how to make peace with your past, calling out a ghoster, whether first date sex ruins everything, and how to know if you’re making healthy choices! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Aug 14, 2019•31 min
By now we know how to spot a douchebag… But what about a quality guy? I’ll tell you how to identify a keeper, explain why your f**kboy ex settled down, delve a little deeper into “too busy” guys, and of course, talk a little bit about porn and saving hoes. Maybe a lot? . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 4 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/a...
Aug 09, 2019•34 min
Picture this: you have an amazing date and then he ghosts for a few days...or forever. I’ll tell you what’s actually happening behind the scenes, plus dealing with parental pressure and why we need to get REAL when we say we “can’t” dump a douchebag! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Eac...
Jul 31, 2019•34 min
Is “I’m a bad texter” code for “ just not into you?” I’ll break down disastrous digital behavior, explain how to move on after cheating, tell you the pros and cons of an open relationship, dismantle the anxiety behind being single, and explain why Adolf Hitler can be seriously helpful when a not-always-toxic relationship! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn ...
Jul 24, 2019•32 min
Can you change a cheater? Or train an unchivalrous manchild? I’ll tell you when to walk away, plus how to deal with a guy friend who’s caught feelings AND, one of the most self destructive things we can tell ourselves!. . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...
Jul 15, 2019•34 min
