Girl On Top: ShallonXO

Shallon Lester & Studio71•www.youtube.com

What happens when you mix Carrie Bradshaw with Dr. Phil? You get me, Shallon Lester, an author, editor, NYC It Girl and YouTube dating coach with almost 1 billion views! On this podcast, I’ll answer YOUR burning questions about love, lust, life and lip gloss—and everything between. Are you ready to join the #Shallontourage and take over the world? Time to get on top, ladies... ♥️Got a love quandary? Submit a question at www.shallonlester.com ♥️Instagram & Twitter @ShallonXO ♥️YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester Subscribe to the ad-free version: https://girlontop.supercast.tech/ We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4 For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

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Episodes

The Curious Case of the “Cool Girl” Myth

Is trying to be the “cool girl” actually ruining your love life? I’ll explain what cool ACTUALLY looks like, and why anxiety is a symptom of an unheard intuition! Plus, a friend who keeps picking fights and what to do with an unmotivated man!. . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...

Jul 10, 2019•33 min

Happily Never After? When Life Is “Good On Paper,” with @KateTheWasp!

Boy meets girl. Boy marries girl. Girl’s problems magically evaporate...right? This week I sit down with @KateTheWasp, my real-life friend behind the hilariously satirical “basic entitled white girl” account to Find out what life is really like on the other side of happily ever after. Plus we talk about our own abysmal body images, and what we would tell our younger selves. And check out Kate’s podcast, Good On Paper, for my guest spot too! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podca...

Jul 03, 2019•40 min

Astrological Angst & Money Matters

Is astrology BS or are certain signs totally incompatible? I’ll spell it all out, and weigh the pros and cons of short guys, and dish on why you shouldn’t be jealous of his exes, but SHOULD beware of his female friends!. . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...

Jun 19, 2019•32 min

Flirtation Fixation & Hurtlocker Heartache

Should you tell your boyfriend when other guys hit on you? I’ll break down a dude’s motivation for wanting to know, plus give you a script for embarrassing moments, unpack why guys lurk your social, and help you identify the “Hurtlocker” in your life! . . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: ...

Jun 13, 2019•30 min

Broke Boys & Attitude Adjustments

Is is unrealistic to expect guys to take you on dates? I’ll break it down, and reveal the one CRUCIAL attitude you must have when dating...and the absolute worst mentality of all!. 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Jun 05, 2019•28 min

Raw-Dogging Douchebags & Catastrophic Confrontations

Is it a compliment when a guy doesn’t want to use a condom? I’ll break down what he’s ACTUALLY doing, and help two Shalloners dealing with a toxic frenemy and hair-trigger roommate who only get worse after confrontation! . 💜ENJOYING IT? 💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices...

May 29, 2019•28 min

Birth Control Quandaries & Confrontation Conundrums

How much say should your boyfriend have in the type of birth control you use? I’ll break it down, and sort out why an ex comes begging for forgiveness only to ghost again, plus what you should do if a guy‘s girlfriend tries to get up in your face! . 💜ENJOY?💜 please rate and review this podcast! . 💜BINGE💜 3 new videos a week https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester . 💜FOLLOW💜 Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week des...

May 22, 2019•30 min

WELCOME TO GIRL ON TOP

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May 15, 2019•1 min

Stripper Tips & Family Feuds

A Shalloner is pondering becoming a stripper while another is selling her skivvies for cash. Plus, why a guy is hesitant to let you meet the family, what happens when a FWB douchebag has a moment of self-awareness, and one of the trickiest questions I’ve ever been asked! --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week designer Rebecca Minkoff speaks with inspiring women from all walks of life about their success and failures while also sharing lessons and ti...

May 15, 2019•28 min

Exes & Ohs

Is there a way to get your ex back without groveling? I’ll tell you the best way to reignite a former flame, plus how to deal with a guy with drug issues, how to get your stuff back from someone who dumped you, what to do when the fireworks in a romance fizzles out, while were crush is hot and cold, and a date night strategy for a guy who (seems) out of your league! . . ♥️Follow me on Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO and subscribe on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester ♥️ --- This episode...

May 15, 2019•31 min

Tinder Terrors, Exes On Insta & Lurking Losers

Is there any reason your boyfriend should still have tinder on his phone? I’ll break it down, plus examine why a guy is all up in your social networks… But can’t seem to follow through on a date. And, what to do about an ex who is taking Insta-pettiness to a new level. --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week designer Rebecca Minkoff speaks with inspiring women from all walks of life about their success and failures while also sharing lessons and tips...

May 15, 2019•30 min

Classmate/Coworker Crushes & Busted Booty Calls

Dating someone from your school or office? I’ll tell you how to differentiate courtship from what I call “unintentional logistical contact.” Plus, when you should block an ex on social media, what to do when your FWB suddenly ghosts, and why your vacation fling evaporates as soon as his tan wears off! . ♥️Follow me on Insta/Twitter @ShallonXO and subscribe on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/user/shallonlester --- This episode is sponsored by · Superwomen with Rebecca Minkoff Podcast: Each week d...

May 15, 2019•31 min

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