In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how the natural dance between the masculine and feminine can transform your intimacy, trust, and erotic connection. Whether you’re new to polarity or deep in your practice, this conversation offers insight, lived experience, and tangible steps to bring more presence and passion into your relationship. What you’ll hear in this episode: Why the feminine opens most when she feels safe, seen, and fully held How to lean into your...
Aug 13, 2025•36 min•Ep. 285
What if sacred sexuality started with eye contact, breath, and truth-telling? This is what Tantra really looks like, and for couples who are ready to feel more. In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we debunk the biggest myths surrounding Tantra and explore how it can become a living, embodied practice that fosters presence, trust, and sacred connection. 💫 What you’ll hear in this episode: • Why Tantra isn’t just about sex and what it actually is • How to drop performan...
Aug 06, 2025•43 min•Ep. 284
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we guide you through the experience of a private couples retreat, revealing what happens behind the scenes — from intention-setting to integration. If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to do this work in a sacred, supported container… this one’s for you. What you’ll hear in this episode: What makes a private retreat different from group work How to set powerful intentions and boundaries before your retreat begins How sacred ...
Jul 30, 2025•42 min•Ep. 283
In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack the dynamics of sacred polarity and share how presence, safety, and honest communication create the foundation for deep, lasting intimacy. 💫 What you’ll hear in this episode: Why emotional safety is the foundation for feminine surrender What grounded masculine leadership looks and feels like How to lead with presence instead of pressure and why it changes everything How to stop micromanaging and start trusting polarity How...
Jul 23, 2025•30 min•Ep. 282
From the sacred fire of Phoenix Rising Retreats… comes the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast. In this week’s episode, we open up about one of the most tender edges in a relationship: how to invite your partner into deeper intimacy, without nagging, pushing, or trying to fix him. We unpack real examples from our journey and offer grounded, heart-led tools you can start using today. ✨ Here’s what we cover: The shift from “I wish he would…” to “Here’s what I desire.” Why men often shut down in the face of...
Jul 16, 2025•30 min•Ep. 281
Even after years of tantra, pleasure work, and healing, you can still find yourself having disconnected sex, obligation sex, or even “Let’s just get it over with” sex. And you’re not broken for that. In this episode, Pleasure Is a Practice: Why Good Sex Doesn’t Just Happen, we pull back the curtain on our own sexual evolution, what we used to believe was “good sex” (think: drunk, performative, porn-scripted), and how it’s now become something radically different. Some other things we tackled are...
Jul 09, 2025•31 min•Ep. 280
Real talk… Most couples wait until they’re hanging on by a thread before they even think about going to a retreat. We get it—we’ve been there. But what if we told you that waiting until things hit rock bottom is one of the biggest mistakes you can make for your relationship? In this episode, we dive into a raw and honest conversation about.. Why do most couples wait too long before going on a retreat How can you shift from crisis mode to a proactive, pleasure-focused connection How important is ...
Jul 02, 2025•42 min•Ep. 279
Let’s talk about blowjobs. Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice. In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us. And it’s not just about blowjobs. It’s about what happens when y...
Jun 25, 2025•41 min•Ep. 278
Desire isn’t something you chase. It’s something you create together. We used to think desire was about how we looked, the outfit, the hair, and the moment. But now, after everything we’ve navigated together, we know it’s so much deeper than that. In this episode, we share… What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodying How our ideas of desire have changed over the years What are the little things or practices that we do that make the other fee...
Jun 18, 2025•32 min•Ep. 277
And we are back with another episode! This time, let’s talk about something that holds the key to deeper intimacy — communication. Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship. In this week’s episode, we explored… How many of us (yes, both women and men) have been conditioned to hold back our truth in relationships? Why it feels so scary to be truly ...
Jun 11, 2025•47 min•Ep. 276
We’re Kim and Roberto, and we’re thrilled to be co-hosting this journey together, both on podcasts and in life ❤️We're excited to bring a fresh perspective on certain topics and offer a unique view on various aspects as a couple. In this episode, we will share about… How our relationship evolved from early “can’t-believe-this-is-happening” moments to launching Phoenix Rising Retreats up on our lakeside sanctuary Transitioning from city life to being immersed in nature How Tantra, communication t...
Jun 04, 2025•38 min•Ep. 275
There’s a sacred shift that happens when a woman stops trying to do it all and starts asking, “What would it look like to actually live in balance?” Bliss isn’t a destination—it’s a frequency you can embody daily. In this episode, Danite and I go deep about... What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’ve become? Could bliss be something you tune into, not chase after? Are you leading with your mind... or your body’s deep wisdom? Is your hustle really a trauma response? An...
May 28, 2025•56 min•Ep. 274
Feeling more like roommates than lovers lately? Wondering how to reignite that spark without overhauling your whole life? You might be asking yourself as well, what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships—especially when life feels chaotic. In this heart-to-heart conversation I have with sensual embodiment coach Jannine MacKinnon, we go deep about... What if the spark never left—what if you just stopped feeling it Is it possible to transform your relationship without you...
May 21, 2025•51 min•Ep. 273
What if the missing piece in your journey to wholeness wasn’t more hustle, more proving, or more striving—but a deeper connection to your own sensuality? Feminine embodiment doesn't begin in your mind—it starts in your body, in the soft, sacred remembering of your own desire. In this episode, Willeke and I converse about... What if your sensuality isn’t a luxury, but a lifeline? How have you been performing instead of embodying? What stories did you inherit about love, s*x, and self-trust? What ...
May 07, 2025•40 min•Ep. 272
For this week’s episode, it will be slightly different as I will be doing it solo. It has been a while since I did a solo podcast, but I am very much excited to share with you a couple of things that have been going on in my life. Now, in this episode, I will be sharing some updates on the following: The Get Your Sexy Back podcast The launch of the Phoenix Rising Retreats Packages and other practices that I have for you all For customized or personalized coaching and retreats, you can book an ex...
Apr 23, 2025•18 min•Ep. 271
What if being deeply loved didn’t require you to do it all? What if the magic starts when you pause, soften, and let yourself be held? Many of us—especially women—were raised to override our needs, abandon our bodies, and prioritize others in exchange for love. But what if real partnership doesn’t require overgiving? What if true intimacy begins the moment we come home to ourselves? In this week’s episode, Lindsay and I talk about... How women are conditioned to over function in love—and how tha...
Apr 16, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 270
Let’s talk about the deep, juicy transformation that happens in midlife—the kind of shift that turns everything you thought you knew about yourself upside down. This conversation is all about reclaiming your body, your sensuality, and your inner wisdom as you transition through midlife and beyond. This stage of life isn’t about fading into the background—it’s about unlocking a whole new level of passion, wisdom, and sensuality. In this week’s episode, Luce and I, talk about... Is midlife the beg...
Apr 09, 2025•54 min•Ep. 269
Have you ever looked at your life and thought, “Why does it seem perfect on the outside, but something still feels… off?” You tell yourself you should be happy—you have the relationship, the family, the life you worked so hard to build. But deep down, there’s this nagging feeling, a quiet knowing that something isn’t right. So, you push it down, stay busy, and keep going. Until one day, you can’t ignore it anymore. In this week’s episode, Alicia and I, talk about... Recognizing the disconnect Th...
Apr 02, 2025•1 hr•Ep. 268
Your body has been speaking to you—whispering, nudging, sometimes even screaming. But have you been listening? When we disconnect, whether due to trauma, societal pressures, or daily stress, we override the signals that guide us toward pleasure, safety, and alignment. This disconnection often manifests as chronic pain, anxiety, digestive issues, or even numbness. Healing doesn’t come from pushing harder—it comes from allowing space, feeling into the moment, and recognizing that slowing down is a...
Mar 26, 2025•35 min•Ep. 267
Grief has a way of reshaping relationships, making intimacy and communication feel like uphill battles. When loss enters a partnership, it can create a disconnect—one person may need to talk while the other withdraws, leaving both feeling more alone than ever. So, how do you bridge that gap without pushing each other further away? In this week’s episode, Kate and I, talk about... Why traditional advice on communication doesn’t always work in the face of grief and how to find a new way forward Ca...
Mar 19, 2025•50 min•Ep. 266
Let go of the nice Girl & step into your power. Do you ever feel like you’re always giving but not receiving the same in return? Many women get stuck in the cycle of saying “yes” to avoid conflict, but standing in your truth doesn’t mean being unkind—it means being true to yourself. If you’re constantly running on empty, it might be time to take a closer look at where your energy is going. In this week’s episode, Alexa and I, talk about... Can you still be kind without letting people walk al...
Mar 12, 2025•47 min•Ep. 265
Ever feel like some parts of your body are more sensitive than others? You’re not alone! Many people go through life disconnected from certain sensations, but with healing and awareness, you can heighten pleasure and truly feel every touch in a deeper, more fulfilling way. The Erotic Blueprints reveal how you naturally experience desire—whether you crave teasing and anticipation (Energetic), love deep, sensual touch (Sensual), enjoy classic, goal-driven intimacy (Sexual), get turned on by taboo ...
Mar 05, 2025•1 hr 3 min•Ep. 264
There’s a massive shift happening, and as women, we’re feeling it in every part of our lives. The frustration is real, especially when it comes to our rights, our voices, and the systems that were never built for us in the first place. But here’s the thing—it’s not about blaming men; it’s about recognizing that the old structures are crumbling, and we get to lead the way forward. That starts in our relationships. When we step fully into our feminine, owning our strengths, our desires, and our po...
Feb 26, 2025•51 min•Ep. 263
Sex magic isn’t some mystical spell—it’s the powerful practice of using pleasure as fuel for manifestation. Think of it as aligning your deepest desires with the universe's energy, using your own pleasure to amplify and send that energy out. In this week’s episode, Lona and I, talk about... What if pleasure could help you manifest your biggest desires? How does pleasure connect to energy and manifestation? Why do some things feel just out of reach? Should you ever felt guilty for wanting more? I...
Feb 19, 2025•35 min•Ep. 262
Let’s reframe this idea of “dysfunction,” because it’s not a dysfunction at all—it’s your body talking to you. The world has brainwashed men (and women) into thinking their performance is just mechanical—either it works, or it doesn’t—and if it doesn’t, then something must be wrong. In this week’s episode, Emma and I, discuss... How can we reframe the idea of “dysfunction” into a healthier and non-degrading idea How what you say to yourself and your partner can impact your intimate life How stre...
Feb 12, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 261
Relationships require effort, balance, and intentional communication. Passion and attraction thrive when both partners show up authentically, create healthy friction, and balance masculine and feminine energies. By doing the inner work and speaking from the heart, you can cultivate a deeper, more magnetic connection. In this week’s episode, Nicola and I talked about... What is the difference between effort vs. ease? How powerful is the power of polarity? What is a style of heart-led communicatio...
Feb 05, 2025•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 260
We weren’t really taught how to connect with our bodies or have healthy, pleasurable sex—most of what we learn comes from unrealistic movies or porn. Add in stress or trauma, and our bodies, especially the pelvis, hold so much tension. But here’s the thing: learning to relax, reconnect, and trust your body through gentle touch and self-bodywork can be a total game-changer. It’s about feeling safe, present, and in tune with your body’s wisdom. In this week’s episode, Elisabeth and I go in-depth a...
Jan 29, 2025•39 min•Ep. 259
Menopause doesn’t mark the end of your sexual vitality or pleasure—it’s an incredible opportunity to reconnect with yourself on a deeper level. This phase, often misunderstood and feared, is what Taoists call the "Second Spring"—a time to reclaim the life force energy that was once directed outward and channel it back into yourself. While menopause can bring changes, it doesn’t mean the end of great sex. In this week’s episode, Rosa and I talk about... How menopause can be a fresh start What myt...
Jan 22, 2025•59 min•Ep. 258
Healing is like building a house: we start by repairing the cracks and cleaning up the clutter, laying a strong foundation of self-awareness and inner work. At first, it’s all about holding space for your inner child, mending old wounds, and facing the uncomfortable parts of yourself. But once that foundation is solid, you step into the fun, transformative stage—awakening your sensuality, deepening your relationships, and harnessing your feminine power. In this week’s episode, Kelby and I discus...
Jan 15, 2025•55 min•Ep. 257
Dating isn’t just about crafting the perfect profile; it’s about doing the inner work to uncover your beliefs, build your self-worth, and own your power. If you believe there are no good men out there, or that you have to prove yourself to be “good enough,” that energy will reflect in the connections you attract. In this week’s episode, Xine and I talk about How your mindset will set the tone of the kind of connections that you will attract How being your authentic self is a magnet in attracting...
Jan 08, 2025•52 min•Ep. 256
