What to do if you have nothing saved for retirement. Welcome to the Frugal Friends podcast, where you'll learn to save money, embrace simplicity, and live your life. Here your hosts Jen and Jill. Welcome to the Frugal Friends podcast. My name is Jen, my name is Jill, and today we are airing an episode that we originally recorded in March of twenty twenty three, but it was a top
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anything saved for retirement. And I think before we go into this episode, I just want to reiterate the main message of it is that it's never too late to start, and nothing is too small to start, because time in the market beats timing the market and putting more greater sums for less time in the market. So don't wait. Use this as inspiration and motivation to get started today
with whatever you have. So I want to make that clear right off the bat, and you'll hear that reiterated through the episode.
All Right, let's get into it.
Let us get into this first article on what happens when you don't save for retirement from one of my favorite websites, Investipedia.
A cautionary tale. There were a lot of options that we could have gone with on the internet when you look up what's gonna happen to me if I don't say for retirement were search We went with the not as harsh of an article with Investopedia and some helpful cautionary tales for us of what we could be looking at, not being too doom and gloom either. I mean, there is just a reality to this and even the best laid plans could lead to some shifts that need to
happen in retirement. So I kind of walk with this with some level of encouragement of like, Okay, it can get figured out even if you start later in life, even if you don't have any savings right now. But to be able to look at the reality of, Okay, this is what my life, my financial situation might look like if I don't save for retirement, and is this the reality that I want for myself or are there shifts I can be making? So it's it I think
is worth going through. What they're listing out in this article is what happens for people who don't save for retirement, just to have an understanding to kind of put some motivation or fire under us to say, yeah, let's make some shifts, let's do some things right now, because I think many of us need to hear that. I think for many of us, what do they say, Almost half of Americans don't have a retirement saving So chances are
that's a lot of us listening in. Or if we do have retirement savings or investment accounts, maybe we're not doing the most that we could be with them. So the first thing that they list of what can happen is that we might solely live on social Security if we don't have any savings or investment accounts for retirement. A lot of times that means people's plans are to live on social Security. What it means is they need to find a way to live off of social Security.
But the thing about social security is that it's usually about forty percent of you like the income that you typically were used to making, it's like forty percent, And there's definitely ways to maximize how much you take out of social Security. Those who are close to this stage of life know what that is. You know, the age
that you start pulling from Social Security. But essentially social security is best as an additional income, like an additional piece of money that comes in, not what you could solely live off of. It usually represents not enough to pay for your mortgage if you still have it bills, even if you want to do some fun things in your retirement age. It's not a great plan, but that is what most people will then try to lean on and fall back on.
Yeah, you're going to have to plan to start withdrawing as late as possible, So when you are seventy, I think it is you're going to want to plan to do it then. But again we've talked about this before, is that the average age Americans say they want to retire is sixty seven, and the average retirement age is sixty three. But you're going to have to plan to work till seventy. But you don't know if you're going to make it there, so you still need to do
other things to supplement that. So they recommend you might need to downsize your lifestyle, which is one hundred percent most people do this anyway, even if they have saved, So this, I feel is maybe a redundant recommendation, but downsizing your home into something smaller, which can be just fantastic anyway if you don't have a bunch of children running around, and then maybe going down to a smaller car that takes less gas, that is more reliable, and
then just kind of downsizing all of the subscriptions and all of that things. So if you haven't thought about all of those, because everyone kind of thinks about downsizing their home, but there's a lot of other things to downsize, definitely go get our spending Makeover Trugle friendspodcast dot com slash makeover because we're going to give you space and guidance on how to take an inventory of all those things and then from this figure out what you can downsize.
Which, yeah, again that could be possible for anyone in retirement, but it's not so great when that's not what you wanted to do, or you need to downsize as a result of not having saved, or you need to cut things that you wouldn't have otherwise wanted to cut just to make it work. So while there's kind of two sides, I think to look at that downsizing piece of yeah,
plan for it. That can be great. It's a great kind of frugal solution, but it is also a reason to be investing for retirement because if you're forced to downsize as a result of not having prepared, that can be a really, really tough reality for many.
And we hope if you're listening to this you still have a little bit of time to save. But chances are if this is the episode you chose to listen to, like you just searched it, then then these are realities for you already. Like this first out article, these tips are already realities for you're going to have to pursue them. If you're a regular Frugal Friends listener and you're just tuning in, we hope that you've already kind of taken some steps and you're hearing this early enough to know
that these are the stakes you're working with. So these are the things that are going to be at stake if you don't ramp up to the amount of investing that you need.
They also list that it might be necessary to take on a roommate if you still own a home. Many seniors, those in retirement age will turn to their homes as a source of income. That could mean running out a portion of their space as a separate apartment. It could mean just an actual other roommate in the home. I would even add that I've seen many times older adults needing to move in with their adult children, and that's another version of having a roommate. If you don't have
enough saved or invested for retirement. Housing is one of our biggest expenses that doesn't stop and we enter into retirement and so be living with somebody else is often a way that those who don't have enough money saved will turn to to be able to pay the other bills that they have. So again, if this is not something that you want to be looking at in retirement age, then okay, cautionary tale. Otherwise then yeah, you could use it as a tip move in with your adult kids
or take on a roommate. But if that's not something you want, that could be a bitter pill to swallow of. Okay, I have to share my space now, after all my decades of living life, I now have to learn how to have a roommate to be able to afford life.
And if you listen to episode two eighty five where we talked about how your parents' finances affect you. And you're listening to this and you're like, oh, my goodness, my parents don't have anything save for retirement and this is what they're dealing with. This is a good moment to prepare yourself that this may happen to you, even though you have time to save for retirement. That's another reason people retire earlier than they want to is because
they become caregivers for their parents. So it's definitely a stake, not just in your saving for your retirement. And if you don't want to do this to your children, if you don't want to be forced to move in with your children, this is a stake that you have to be really aware of. Is to save enough so that you don't have to force them to retire before they're ready.
I don't know I say that's the reason to have kids. I mean, it.
Absolutely is a reason to have kids.
They owe you.
You provided for them in their time of need, and they owe you provision in your time of needs.
Why am identifying one to two of my nieces and nephews to really invest in their lives so that later on they'll take care of me. Yeah, you don't have any kids on my own, so one or two of my nieces or nephew's better pan out for us.
I hope you're not thinking Jack's gonna do it.
Yeah, Jack, it's not a four year old who growls at people. He's not going to care for me.
Who literally growled at my son yesterday And I thought he was just making monster truck noises.
No, that would be what you would think as like the mom of a very sweet boy, like they're making monster truck noises. But Jack was not. He was growling. He was being a monster.
He was very He was a very nice monster, though I totally understood a very.
Big difference between a monster and a monster trup.
Yes, all right, So the next one is, uh, you might have to continue working part time, which is actually something a lot of people in retirement do just for fun, but you're going to have to plan to do it for implementation of the Social Security income So I think it is wise at this point to start thinking about what kind of part time work you'd like to do after retirement, whether it's consulting in your industry or taking on a part time role at the same company or
or a different field. Maybe you hone your skills in a you know, some kind of parallel field so that you can work part time. It is never too early to start thinking about this so that when you do have to work part time in retirement, it's something that you at least can semi enjoy. So we don't want to like be miserable. We don't want you to be miserable, and we're not going to tell you to be miserable in retirement just because you have to do some things differently.
And the final reality that they mentioned in this article is that for some retirement might not even be on
the table. Many people who have not say or invested enough for retirement, or maybe aren't willing to completely overhaul their lifestyle, then it's it just might not be an option to really scale back in working, and they might need to continue to work full time or end as long as possible if there's not enough saved, which is that that can be fine, and many people choose to continue working just because they prefer that lifestyle and want
to set their hands to something. The pinch can come when your life circumstances demand something different, like needing to care for anyone in the family, an elderly parent, a spouse, an adult child who knows there could be things that require caregiving of us or our own medical concerns that would keep us from working full time. So there are
those other additional pieces that need to be considered. And I think just the bottom line that they are driving home here is that we'reirement without a plan, without some financial nest egg will require a lot of sacrifices, a lot of overhauling, revamping, problem solving, and potentially just not being able to have the lifestyle that you may have hoped for in your later years, your golden.
Years, yes, and they can still be golden. So we've talked about what the majority of retirement would look like if you are just starting very late, have nothing saved. And when we say very late, we're talking about like fifties.
If you want to, you know, retire in your sixties and you have nothing saved in your fifties, that's kind of what we're saying it might if you're in your forties, you might feel like you're starting late, but you actually have like a really good time horizon, So starting now can still get you to a really good place. Obviously, not any of those sexy projections. People talk about when people start in their twenties, but I mean, how many
people really start investing in their twenties. There are some, so we yeah, we did start investing in our twenties, but like most of the time, it's an accidental like you're automatically signed up for your four oh one K. So, so our next article is from the Balance and it's seven tips for saving for retirement if you started late in life. And so when we're looking at investing, if you're starting, say in your fifties, and you want to retire in your sixties or seventy, we're going to look
at it different. We're not going to look at this money as a way to carry you through your full retirement. The first article, those tips are going to kind of really carry you through retirement, but you are not absolved from saving and investing for retirement because probably in the last five years of your life, all of that is going to change. You're not going to be able to have a roommate or live with your kids. You'll probably
need some really assisted, heavy assisted living care. You're gonna have more medical bills, You're not gonna be able to work even part time. And this is. So it sounds very sad, but this is kind of how to prepare it. Like you're investing and your savings later in life can be put towards those last five ish years. That's kind
of how you want to look at it. And if you're starting at fifty and you're maybe investing from fifty to fifty five, then and you invest nothing else for the rest of your life and you don't use that money until you're gosh, worst case scenario seventy five, probably eighty, that money still has twenty or twenty five years to grow and compound interest, and that your money usually doubles around every ten years, so it can still make a lot of growth. If this is the way we're looking at.
That is encouraging. Yeah. Yeah, first case scenario isn't that bad. Yeah.
So if you are, you know, closer to retirement and you're like, it's just too late to start investing, it's not. And it's really a necessity that you should be doing so that you have the quality of life that you want and it's less of a burden to any of your familial caretakers later on. So that's really what this I think we want to have that mindset going into this article.
Yeah, so this one comes from the balance and it goes through different things that can be done if we feel like we're starting later in life. They are identifying forty as that later in life age. A lot of the examples that they give are forty, but a lot of these tips apply even if you're older. So the first one is to play catch up. So you are legally allowed to save nineteen thousand, five hundred and a four oh one K retirement plan. This was in twenty
twenty one, so not too much different. Now after you turn fifty, you can contribute additional amounts sixty five hundred and catch up contributions. That's not a ton, but we might as well be taking advantage of those things if that is the age bracket that we find ourselves in.
Yeah, anything that has a limit has a limit for a reason because it's really good for consumers and not really good for the irs or the government. And so we want to take full advantage of anything that has a limit, and that includes a four oh one K, or if you are not currently offered a four to one K, then an IRA or both if you have the funds too. The next is to identify how much savings you need. So this one probably should be first.
But here we are. So again you might tell yourself you don't need a million dollars and that you want a simple life, which I think is what most of us do tell ourselves. And if you're starting later in life, you probably won't get to a million dollars. So there you go. But in twenty five years you're going to
see a lot of inflation. I think if you think back twenty five years, gosh, if you think about back two years ago and how much inflation that we've seen, like in the eighties, with that inflation and just over time, a million dollars is this like arbitrary number that we think of as a lot, but is becoming like less and less. So if you're thinking about it with that mindset, don't think more money means like you know, is for
more like bougie people. I think we all need to be investing in saving as much as we can, as much as our incomes and expenses allow. And if you get to a million, cool you'll probably need it. If you don't, cool, we'll figure other stuff out. But you do need to identify how much that is. And most experts agree that you should withdraw no more than three to four percent of your retirement portfolio each year. I think most people will say about four percent of your
retirement portfolio. Again, if you're starting later in life, you're probably going to be saving and then just kind of taking it out in big swoops near the end of your life. I probably would not plan to take out four percent every year unless you've been saving for a long time and you have that nest egg, so that that's kind of But so if you have a nest egg, if you're starting in time to build that, then plan
to do about four percent of it. So if you do the math, three percent of one million is thirty thousand, and four percent of a million is forty thousand. So if you're planning on living on forty thousand dollars a year in retirement, then you do need a million dollars, and they do reference that's that's assuming it's not accounting for a pension, rental properties, or potentially other sources of income during retirement social Security.
So that could be enough if you are living modestly and you have some of these other additional sources of income. But it really is eye opening like, this is the amount of money that needs to be saved even to live modestly into retirement. And of course that depends on how long you're living. That depends on the value of a dollar at that point in life. And so if we're decades away from retirement, then for us it probably is more than even that one million that we want to be aiming at.
Yeah, but definitely at least like take into considerations the tips from the article and how much that will net you, and then think of an ideal gap and whatever that is. Just try to shoot for that gap at least, whether it's a couple hundred thousand dollars, you know, seven hundred and fifty thousand, whatever, you can do, shoot for it.
The next tip in here for those of us who might be starting a little bit later is to not take on more risk than what you are able to. And really that's dictated by our age. People in their twenties can accept greater losses, so their investments can be a little riskier versus people in their forties can accept less risk, and still less for people in their fifties. So being aware of the level of risk that's in your investment portfolios, they give a couple of different asset
allocation formulas that could be implemented and utilized. A few of them include one being invest a percentage of one twenty minus your age and stock funds, with the rest going into bond funds. This represents a higher but acceptable level of risk. Even more moderate risk would be investing a percentage of one hundred and ten minus your agent
stock funds with the rest and bond funds. And then finally, a more much more conservative level of risk would be investing a percentage equivalent to your agent bond funds with the rest going into stock funds. So that can be a helpful formula. Obviously, do what's going to make sense for you. Just know that less risk the older you get is the ultimate formula.
But honestly, if that confused you, a target date fund is going to self allocate. It's going to do it for you in the percentages and grow in conservativism the closer you get to retirement. So typically they say, if you are going to choose the date where you're going to retire, So if I'm going to retire at sometime between the age of sixty five and seventy, because the
target dates there's not one for every year. They go every five years, So just whatever year is sometime between when you turn sixty five and seventy, choose that one. That's if you're if you're using it long term. If you're not, if you're going to wait to pull any money out until later in retirement, then choose the one that is within the year the five years that you're going to start, you think you'll start pulling it out.
So if you want to wait until eighty to start pulling it out, then whatever date is between whatever five year period is when you turn eighty, choose the I choose the later one because they do tend to run more conservative the later you get to them. So that's how if you like, if you turn eighty in twenty fifty three and you want to, you know, just do a target date fund, then the target date fund for twenty fifty or twenty fifty five is going to be
for you. I would I am in twenty fifty five, that's not when I turn eighty, but so so yeah, target date fund, it will it will allocate in a really standard way and it will self rebalance and you don't have to worry about it and it's got you know, if you go with a Vanguard or a Fidelity or a Schwab really low fees so you don't need to worry about it.
Simplicity and maintaining It's not about timing the market and keeping a pulse on it and checking what's happening every day. It's just making a decision one day, setting up automatic payments to that, and maintaining it. Yes, that's it, and then thanking yourself later.
And then remember like my husband was in a target date fund and beat my you know, quote unquote optimized fund still, I mean just by one percent.
Yeah, but so well done.
Still, and neither of us lost money overall, and even in the worst five years of investing in our lives. Uh so, yeah, and that's just been five years. And if we let it, if we let that money sit twenty years, then it will grow more. I believe you can't predict the stock market, but I mean, over its history, it goes up into the right and that's what we hope will continue to happen, at least in the next twenty thirty years. Who who knows after that, but hopefully
that's all you're gonna need to know. So the next one is to open a roth ira to save more. So it says once you're finished maxing out your four oh one k to open an IRA max that. I would say everyone needs to have a raw ira, or at least some IRA, because a lot of us don't have four oh one k's or four or three b's, et cetera, et cetera available. About forty percent of people don't have them available, and even some of the ones that do have horrible options and don't need the tax
benefits like immediately. So while four o one k's are fantastic, they're way better than a brokerage for most people. Even if you don't need the immediate tax benefits, still having a raw IRA if you're eligible is great because that's got tax benefits down the road. So most people aren't going to be able to max out both, especially when you get to the age where you can do catch up contributions on both. If you can, that's great. I would ask you, why haven't you been doing that the
whole time? But I digress. Do what you can head your bets, even if you want to do part you know, half in a pretax and half in a post tax, which is which would be half in a four A one k half in a roth ira. Do that. It's really up to you. There's I mean for us in for what the purpose of this episode is, like, we don't we don't have a recommendation on that. That's really up to you how you do it. But I mean, if you if you're maxing out a four A one k, okay open a roth Ira. But if you're not maxing
out a four one K, open a roth urray. Anyway, you do it. If you're eligible, just do it.
The next on here is telling us to buy adequate insurance, stating that most personal bankruptcies are caused by unexpected calamity. And isn't that just the case? We don't know what's going to happen in retirement.
If you could expect calamity, would it be calamity? Right?
I think that that's so much. I mean, that's that's an emergency fund. That is what savings is for. We don't know what's going to happen in retirement. I think it's good to plan for the worst while not dwelling on the possibilities of the worst. But we won't be so shocked by things if we have a contingency plan. If we've thought about it and we've put some things into action, it really reduces the feeling of something be
being a calamity. Yeah, so we can do this by buying adequate health insurance, disability insurance, I mean car insurance. I think you have to have car insurance to be driving on the road most places. Okay, And these things are really going to help, especially if we've got dependence, being able to have life insurance set up, so these things can help us and be prepared for those calamities.
Insurance is another one. We're not going to be able to tell you how much or what to do because it is so per person. This is where the five years before you retire or you want to before you want to start with drawing and retiring whatever feels good to you. It is really useful to get a financial planner, a certified financial planner that has the CFP designation, because when you find a CFP, they're going to have a fiduciary duty, which is a legal ethical responsibility to you,
not to the company they work for. Because you'll find a lot of financial planners and financial advisors from insurance agencies and their best interest is to sell you insurance policies, as retirement policy, as retirement accounts. You're going to find a lot of money managers working for investments that are their best interests to sell you on a particular fund of investments. You know, So you want somebody, especially in the five years before you retire, who's really going to
be working in your best interest. You will pay them for that. If you're getting advice for free, know that you're paying for it in other ways. But you want to pay for advice. And they're going to tell you this is the type of insurance you need, because if you're starting later in life with saving for retirement, you'll probably need more insurance than somebody who is not. And so that CFP is going to tell you kind of how to hedge your bets in pre and post tax investing.
They're going to guide you on insurance. These are the things where like wet emails about this and we're like, we can't answer this for you. And even if I, even if I had more information about you, I would not answer this for you because I'm I don't hold the CFP, I don't hold any you know, licenses to do that. So take some savings, take some money, pay for a certified financial planner to tell you what these
things are for you. The next one we can tell you, we can give you all the advice on this one is to pay down debt. And we're talking about high interest debt, high interest car loans, high interest non mortgage debt. These are the things you're going to want to focus on. You may want to pay off your mortgage before retirement, but if you have nothing invested, a paid off house isn't going to buy you food and retirement. That's gonna
be money. So you're gonna need to really be careful with how much debt you pay off, even though yeah, you'd like to I'm sure be debt free in retirement that would be a huge weightlifted. But if you have nothing invest that may not be a wise dream. So but paying down high interest at pretty much anything, I would say definitely above ten percent, ideally above five if you can do it, those are the things to focus.
On, yesh. And lastly, I love this one. You and your spouse come first, So this is a really helpful thing because emotional emotions come away with spending, and especially I think, yeah, so you have kids and grandkids. But reality is, we don't want to ruin our retirement savings and investing plan if that like, by sending kids to college. I know this sounds like a really tough truth here, but it would be better if you have to choose between one or the other. Right Obviously, if you can
do both, fans fantastic. Keep contributing to your savings accounts and send your kids to college. But at the end of the day, it's going to be better for you and your children if you continue to contribute to and focus on your retirement savings plan then to send your kids to college, because ultimately, if you trash your retirement savings by not try, I mean, that's what the article says.
It's the word for their places. But if you kind of interrupt, intersect that retirement savings plan, and maybe even pull money out of it to give to your children, that's then setting yourself up to not be in a great place come retirement. It may put extra financial burden onto the children to be paying for you in retirement
or somehow financially responsible for you. When your children have more time to be able to say for themselves in retirement, they've got the opportunity in their twenties and thirties to be saving for that retirement. They've got the rest of their lives ahead of them versus you, who might be starting later in life, really need to be focusing on that retirement versus giving all the money to the children.
Yeah, here's a really easy way to make this decision. Ask your teenager, or if your kids are older, just ask them now if they, in their adult lives, would rather you pay for their college now or if they would rather take care of you part time to full time in their home in yeah, in your later years, ask them which one they would rather do, and you're going to get the most honest answer from a teenager.
But I mean, that's really what it is. You're either paying for their college now or they're going to spend their time or money taking care of you later in life. And so ask them what they want to do. Maybe they do want to take care of you in your older years, and in which case, cool factor that in. But I think most the time they're going to say I'll take out a student loan.
The best gift you can give your children is your own fine nancial or tie or men security.
That's a line in the article that she just sang, yeah like a jingle.
Yeah, it's a jingle. Now it's the best gift you can give to your children.
And I agree, Yeah, in their forties and fifties.
Freedom As an adult child. I couldn't agree more absolutely.
As an adult child who knows I will be a caregiver in my forties fifties. Hi, we'll just leave that out there.
Wish you had received the best gift.
I wish somebody had asked me focus.
Teenager, giving that gift to your children. You know what the best gift is that we can give to our listeners.
Yeah, and I'm going to ask you as a teenager or as a full grown adult, But I'm only going to take your answer right now.
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Thanks, it's great. Lowering the interest rates eighteen is very very high an eight. It's definitely more manageable. So that's amazing and I hope everybody checks out. We have an episode with doctor Vergie on negotiating medical bills. I will find that episode tell you what it is.
You are moving and shaken over there, which is awesome. Congratulations on the birth of your child that is so exciting, and the fact that you have a health savings account
you're able to utilize that. I think just what stands out to me in your multiple bills is just kind of knowing the resources that are available to you, implementing utilizing them, and making some really wise decisions with your finances to get rid of some of this debt, lowering these interest rates really really awesome, and hoping with you that all of these payments get paid off quickly. That'll
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Medical debt Episode two thirty. Check it out. That's a great one. And now it's time for lightning round.
Pew. All Right, so today, what is your biggest worry about retirement? Jill.
I've thought about this quite a bit, and I think it comes from seeing what many people face in retirement, and that is just unforeseen medical issues and concerns. I guess I'm anticipating it, so maybe I'm kind of seeing it but not knowing exactly what it would be or look like. Some of that's unavoidable, but I think it's leading to a lot of different potential decisions for me, like the reality that retirement could mean caregiving. It could mean me being chronically ill or facing some sort of
difficulty physically medically. That has a financial impact, but I think also an emotional, mental, relational impact that holds concern for me. I mean, I don't want to spend a ton of time thinking about that or considering that, but definitely preparing for it. I think in some ways it makes me consider what are the things I want to
do in life now. I have seen a lot of people hope for big travel, lots of excitement in their retirement years, only to experience a different reality oftentimes that, you know, no fault of their own, just life interrupts and that's not possible anymore. So it definitely leads me to think, how can I live life to the fullest now while I maintain a level of health, but then prepare for what that might look like in the future
as well, kind of holding the tension of both. I don't want to you know, you only live once and blow all my money now because I'm anticipating, you know, not a great lifestyle in retirement, but kind of both, how do I make sure that I am making the most of the right now while preparing for what might be to come, but yet optimistic about maybe having some
really beautiful golden years ahead of me. So, but I would say that's that's a concern, you know, facing medical issues I think is a concern and potentially a very real reality. Yeah, what about for you?
I mean, yeah, I mean I kind of you just summed up our whole ethos is to like live for today while being able to live in our golden years. To hold the tension between both. And I think my biggest worry, okay, vulnerability time. Yeah, here we are.
Yeah, so the door is open.
Yeah, I think we're saving, we're saving well, we're having children that can drive us around when we're old. I think just my greatest fear might be just, I don't know, maybe doing it alone. Yeah, because all of my grandfather died before I was born. My dad died when I was in high school. So I think that seeing what that did to my mom and my grandmother, I think that's really my only like fear.
Yeah.
Otherwise I feel like we've prepared really well.
Right, And those are the things money can't buy.
There enjoy the years that we have while hoping that we get good years in the future. But we don't know.
There's only so much we can do with finances. We can face additional difficulties and stressors if we've not prepared financially. But there are things that are going to happen in life that have nothing to do with money. They can be compounded and exaggerated by a lack of money. But yeah, medical concerns, money can't solve that, Yeah, the medical debt, money money solves. Yeah. Being doing retirement alone, it's not something yeah, Yeah, I mean that's why you build community
and friends. If you're alone, Jenna, I'll still be here I've got longevity on my side, and might will be the old women, Yeah, will be the old women who are roommates, just like living life together. Yeah, I'm down for that. Okay, you won't be I will call you.
The quote that Goldie pulled for this episode is every little action counts, And it is so so true when we are talking about investing long term, especially when we're we're talking to regular people with regular incomes and not affluent people with super high incomes. We need to be
focusing more on little, more frequent actions. So if maybe you're just doing a little bit every paycheck and you get paid every week or every two weeks, and you're just putting a little bit from every paycheck in before you spend for the rest of the month or week, that is what that is. The most power that you have is investing off the top. So, and we actually have a financial Reset course. It's like a personal finance one oh one course that we released earlier this year,
and the whole last section is on investing. So if you feel clueless about investing, particularly for retirement, yeah, that's oh the only thing we talked about investing for you can have to frugal friends, podcast dot com, slash reset and get that and you can also our favorite book is I would say either Rich af by Vivian two or I Will Teach You to Be Rich byramit SETI. Both of those are really good for learning.
So nice.
But if you like videos Frugal Friends podcast dot com, slash reset.
Yeah, it doesn't have to be complicated. You just need to start. Not let our lack of confidence get keep us from fielding this for the entire moment.
You can learn to invest. I think that's the first thing we reiterate in our course is that you are smart enough to do this and you don't need to be that educated on investing to invest for retirement. That's the beautiful thing that technology has progressed investing to make it so accessible, so you don't need to know a lot. It's helpful to know a little start today. Yes, yeah, and that's all I have to say about that, besides
thank you so much for listening. We also have a book where we mentioned investing, but we don't dive deep into it. It's called Buy what you Love Without Going Broke. It's about spending. So if your problem with investing is that you never seem to have enough money left at the end of your paycheck to invest. Buy what you Love without going Broke is the book for you, and you can get Buy what you Love book dot com. We even have instructions there on how to request it
at your library. And Rachel read it and here's what she had to say. Gave it five stars. I truly loved reading this book. I got an Advanced reader copy back in December and spent a few days reading it over Christmas while taking lots of notes. From the opening introduction, which on a personal note I loved as a teacher myself, to the additional research notes at the end, I was a very happy reader all throughout the book. The book was divided into three major parts, so I'll just touch
on some highlights from each one. Part one I liked the exploration of impulse spending. Part two I loved the breakout of different levels of replacements for shopping and an explanation of how habits form. However, my true favorite was Part three. The call to simplify your Environment has me thinking of how I could structure decluttering challenges in my own life. The messages to learn about contentment and what generational biases about money might be lurking. Was truly enlightening.
I love this book and I'll be buying another one to share it with one of my friends because I'm not letting go of my copy.
This is amazing and it's so fun to hear because actually our favorite chapters, both Jen and myself, are different, but they're both in Part three. And that's funny because statistically speaking, they say that most people don't make it past like the first couple of chapters of a book. And while those are good chapters, still our best chapters are in part three. We needed to build upon it in order to get there. They couldn't have been in the beginning of the book.
But a lot of books are good the first half and pointless the second half, and I think ours flip flops like it really does build it to a crescendo.
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You got Fourth of July plans?
No, not at current because it is still June.
I mean you know the classic fourth of July plans, right, fireworks? Well?
Oh, okay, you typically do at Josh's parents. Yeah, yeah, I think probably we'll do that. That is what we've done every year. And I always forget my bathing suit.
Oh somehow every year.
I'd always know it's the same thing. And sometimes I put I don't like to wear my bathing suit places. I like to just wear my clothes and then change when I'm ready, and I'll put it out and then just shuffling everybody together, it gets left behind. Maybe this is the year I just wear it.
I think that's what you should do. They so our friends of ours parents live on a waterway connected to Tampa Bay, and every Fourth of July they let us come crash their house and then there's always fireworks that you can see from their home over the water, and we all swim in the water up until after the sun goes down, which is not safe. There are sharks in this water right Like.
I'm thinking about it too, Like I wouldn't be able to get in the water even if I did bring my bathing suit because I have two young kids that I'm not gonna let go in that water.
All of the other parents do have their children in that kids are older, though not that much older than Kai.
They're a little older than Kai, so they're like minimum, like.
The four year old was in the water last year.
Well, I can't comment on that, but.
We always bring tubes and we're kind of like on top of the tubes, right. Sharks don't attack you when you're on a tube.
No.
I think we all kind of feel comforted by our numbers and who knows, just a full day in the sun that we don't we just starn't thinking.
But I don't think that they believe it's a feeding frenzy, Like they just haven't come over there, and then they see all your butts right in tubes and they're like, oh, yeah, that's a lot of butts. I'm gonna get one of them.
I'll go on dumb butts. This is the Maybe maybe it will be my butt. Who knows, stay not your butt.
Probably be my butt. You know what I get in that water with my bathing suit. This is the first year, and they don't get my butt.
You don't have to be the fastest swimmer. You just have to outswim the person behind you. However that saying goes, it's usually about bears, but I'm gonna make it about sharks. Yeah, I guess so that's what we'll do. We're gonna maybe tempt the Sharks with our bums this fourth of July.
Hope you have a fantastic fourth of July.
Oh you're gonna be there in a swim our listeners. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah yeah yeah, they're still here. That's right, Okay,