What You'll Hear In This Episode: Challenging Beauty Standards: Lisa shares her experiences and observations in the fashion industry and how beauty can be both a blessing and a curse. The Importance of Personality: Benjamin and Lisa empahsize the significance of developing one's personality and engaging with others in a healthy way, rather than relying solely on physical appearance. Beyond Superficiality: The episode delves into the belief that true beauty and meaningful relationships go beyond ...
Aug 22, 2023•55 min•Ep. 156
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How men are not mind readers, and communication is key. Why women should express their needs and desires to their partners, despite conflicting messages The importance of expressing appreciation and guiding each other to be a partners in each others’ life How to let a partner know their importance and suggest ways they can contribute Personal experiences and the importance of expressing needs for a fulfilling partnership The importance of balancing positive and ...
Aug 15, 2023•57 min•Ep. 157
What You'll Hear In This Episode: AI technology is revolutionizing online dating by enhancing user safety and security, detecting fraudulent profiles, and improving overall user experience. The rise of AI-generated fake profiles and content highlights the importance of AI technology in helping users identify and avoid scams online. Advancements in AI technology on dating sites, such as chatbots and voice assistants, will facilitate seamless communication and language translation, catering to div...
Aug 08, 2023•41 min•Ep. 155
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What does it really mean to be “emotionally naked”? In the same way we get physically naked, we don’t get emotionally naked at all once. It should come off slowly, and piece by piece. Being fearlessly authentic doesn’t mean dumping on the person, nor does it mean too much too soon. Fearlessly authentic means being fearless and not oversharing. There’s a sense of responsibility and emotional maturity that goes along with being fearlessly authentic. Why it’s impor...
Aug 01, 2023•35 min•Ep. 154
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Men are just as sensitive as women and have needs like women. The more we can understand each other, the better our relationships will be. Would a man rather feel alone and unloved or respected? The answer may surprise you. Most men equate respect with love, so when they feel disrespected, they feel unloved. Respect is the single most important thing a woman can give a man. Are you creating a safe, loving, and respectful space for a man to open up to you? A man ...
Jul 25, 2023•39 min•Ep. 153
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Building a lasting relationship requires establishing an authentic and emotional connection with a man. What happens when you rush in and push the love part without first establishing a deep friendship? Great sex alone will not deepen the emotional connection with a man; it is the emotional bond that leads to better intimacy. Rushing into a physical relationship without a solid foundation of friendship leaves no basis for a lasting connection. How Lisa and Benja...
Jul 18, 2023•37 min•Ep. 152
What You'll Hear In This Episode: The importance of being present and genuine on a date, especially the first one. Men love when a woman can foster a lighthearted and playful atmosphere to create a comfortable space for both individuals. How to build trust and establish a sense of safety through humor and playfulness. Men look for the green flag of a woman who enhances and enriches a man's life. Men that are looking for a deep emotional connection find it a green flag when they can freely share ...
Jul 11, 2023•54 min•Ep. 151
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Both men and women struggle to understand each other in the dating world, but integrating knowledge about male-female differences can hep you bring more compassion to your dates and make deeper emotional connections. Double Standards in breakups, appearance, and expectations regarding who pays for what. Understanding why men are the way they are can be a game changer. The different reactions to setting boundaries. What can empower women can often come across as ...
Jul 04, 2023•43 min•Ep. 150
What You'll Hear In This Episode: At 63, Meranda reminds us that age should never hinder a rewarding relationship. If a busy woman like Meranda can attend the discovery call on her birthday. You can find time too! Meranda's advice for making the most significant investment in yourself and finally committing yourself without wavering back and forth. What changed in dating once she began to work with Lisa? How Meranda met her current partner, Eric, and the natural progression of them dating exclus...
Jun 27, 2023•39 min•Ep. 149
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What are the two main reasons that we tend to self-sabotage? Rejection is sometimes painful and scary, so how do we move forward and put ourselves out there? What about if you're scared to get what you want and that you'll mess it up? What to do if the men you desire aren't attracted back to you, and that is a consistent pattern. The importance of who you surround yourself with and not partaking in validating the nightmare dating stories out there. Would you be ...
Jun 20, 2023•49 min•Ep. 148
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Avoid a checklist-like approach when observing a man's emotional availability. Consider these questions as a loose guideline, rather than a mission to interview or interrogate the man. Men sometimes need a little longer to think and process, so allow time for reflection when asking deeper questions. You can also tell by the quality of the answer if he's processing or deflecting. When you share something vulnerable on your end, does he show empathy, and is he lis...
Jun 13, 2023•43 min•Ep. 147
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Remember, there's no right or wrong. There's just what feels good to you. One big issue for men is the value they place on their independence and freedom. If a woman pays for everything and brags about her big, rich life, he may think he will be living her life. Setting a precedent early on that you are willing to pay for everything will set the tone for the relationship moving forward. Women feel more aligned and comfortable in their own skin when they come fro...
Jun 06, 2023•37 min•Ep. 146
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Nice guys are the opposite of love bombers, but they still may not be great - why is that? Why are nice guys constantly walking on eggshells? How nice guys are different from other guys. The ways nice guys can be calculating and manipulative. How do you know if a man is truly compassionate and kind, or if it's an act? Spending time with secure and grounded men can often feel boring because there isn't that surge of hormones that you feel with love bombers and me...
May 30, 2023•57 min•Ep. 145
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What motivates people to stay in relationships? One thing is that the fear of being alone can cause some people to remain in a relationship, even if it's not fulfilling. Others may not realize their negative or critical behavior hurts the relationship and may think they're offering constructive criticism. Discover how to communicate with men in a way that promotes a safe and open dialogue. Lisa and Benjamin model positive feedback in their own communication with...
May 23, 2023•33 min•Ep. 144
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Lisa used the one phrase that caught Patricia's attention like nothing else. Patricia had done a ton of inner work, but she was feeling frustrated that despite how hard she worked on herself, none of that "work" translated to luck in dating, a familiar feeling for many successful and intelligent women Lisa coaches. Patricia gives insight into the significant breakthrough she had where she fully understood that she could get exactly what her heart desired. What m...
May 16, 2023•58 min•Ep. 143
What You'll Hear In This Episode: There's a reason why the men consistently that you're into aren't interested in pursuing something with you. Many of the successful women Lisa coaches are incredibly confident and should be. They sometimes need to be more intelligent about men. We need to be able to attract the men we want to attract, engage those men, and have the skills to engage those men so that we can have fun and get up close and personal. Lisa shares a story of a woman where it wasn't the...
May 09, 2023•24 min•Ep. 142
What You'll Hear In This Episode: The world of difference between how Stella felt before joining Lisa’s coaching program vs. how she is now. Ways Stella is becoming more curious in her dating life, and how that helps her connect with men on an even deeper level. For many of Lisa’s clients, who they end up with is even better than they could have imagined. How the Final Five exercise affected Stella on a profound level. Stella talks about letting go of desperate and anxious energy and letting thi...
May 02, 2023•32 min•Ep. 141
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How Lisa went from being uncomfortable and awkward around men to being a space for the guardian of her soul to open up and tell her everything. Why do women default to masculine energy, now more than ever? You don’t have to be the youngest, fittest, or most beautiful woman in the world to find a man who is going to appreciate you. How to have high standards without coming across as entitled. What makes the wind go out of a man’s sails on a date? Being open doesn...
Apr 25, 2023•33 min•Ep. 140
What You'll Hear In This Episode: The art of William’s transformation from anxious to secure attachment. How William has learned to set boundaries for what he needs in relationships. What dating was like for William as a shy guy in his 20s and beyond. How is William dating two women at once. Do they know about each other? With so much toxic masculinity out there, how did William learn to date with communication and honesty at the forefront instead of playing games? The relationship that got Will...
Apr 18, 2023•55 min•Ep. 139
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What are core values, and why is it so important to share them? A man who values you will treat you with respect and kindness. Sometimes it's not the huge gestures but the little ways he follows through on his promises and commitments to you that matter most. You need to learn to ask for what you want and then sit back and see if he will honor your requests. Does he make room for you? How to know if he's genuinely carving out time in a way that shows he's right ...
Apr 11, 2023•47 min•Ep. 138
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What does it mean to “seal the deal” in a relationship? How to focus less on the outcome and more on all the beautiful nuances in getting to know someone and letting that someone get to know you. When we talk about men loving the chase, it doesn’t mean they want a woman who plays hard to get or who manipulates him. Why is it so crucial for a man to make his own decisions? How women might miss the man who is sitting in front of them when they are hell-bent on che...
Apr 04, 2023•58 min•Ep. 137
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How do women compete with men in a way that may make them think she’s great, but not a fit for them to move forward? Two of the biggest qualities that good men are looking for, and aren’t money or career status. Don’t men want a woman they can rescue? What happens when women push away love and the most beautiful part of life? What does a man mean when he says “I don’t want any drama”? Lisa shares the transformation of a young woman in their mastermind course. Wh...
Mar 28, 2023•49 min•Ep. 136
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How women can inadvertently make a man feel as though there's not enough space for him in her life, or that he's just going to be the plus one. How Benjamin's profile made it clear to Lisa from the beginning that he was willing to integrate a woman into his life. What are some of the reasons that men tend to compartmentalize their relationships? When it's the guardian of your soul, you'll work together to lift each other up and help your partner's dreams come tr...
Mar 21, 2023•55 min•Ep. 135
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What is an insatiable curiosity and why is it critical to creating a connection? What if you can’t think of anything to ask? A listener question: What if the man isn’t asking any questions at all? Curiosity should seem like a natural flow rather than a detailed investigation. Being curious brings passion to the conversation, and that’s what people are looking for. How we can bring our questions around to create a shared connection and fun future date ideas. Rese...
Mar 14, 2023•49 min•Ep. 134
What You'll Hear In This Episode: What led Natalie to sign up for the breakthrough call? Natalie's dating struggles before meeting Alex. Alex also was in a spot in life where he was skeptical that he would meet the guardian of his soul. The importance of giving a man the same curiosity and respect you would expect from him. How Natalie learned to feel the difference between secure and avoidant men. Natalie and Alex walked us through their charming first date, where neither of them wanted to say ...
Mar 07, 2023•58 min•Ep. 133
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How the "Must Have" list when it comes to dating often isn't what we end up with - and that's a good thing! Lisa shares her example of things she had on her list, such as spirituality and business savvy, and how Benjamin possesses those things in a way she couldn't have imagined. Why does having a rigid "must have" list lock you out of potentially great opportunities in the dating world? Working with Lisa and Benjamin can help you create the right list to find t...
Feb 28, 2023•31 min•Ep. 132
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Lisa and Benjamin discuss core values and how they are similar and different to preferences. When you find the Guardian Of Your Soul, it will be a relationship where you help each other grow and become the best version of yourself. Lisa and Benjamin talk about how the Emotionally Naked Dating Program helps many women clarify what they want and narrow it down in the Final Five. A listener questions how we can talk to our partners about their appearance lovingly a...
Feb 21, 2023•57 min•Ep. 131
What You’ll Hear In This Episode: How you can fit in a meditative exercise to the future Guardian of Your Soul even if you have other plans this V-Day or have no dates at all. For two people to find each other, their worlds must align. How Lisa went from feeling lonely and sad many Valentine’s Days ago to grateful for the thoughtful and very romantic Benjamin. Other holidays like birthdays, Thanksgiving, and Christmas can also feel very lonely. How can you write a powerful love letter to the fut...
Feb 13, 2023•30 min•Ep. 130
What You'll Hear In This Episode: How Vanessa found Lisa through another friend who had taken the course and why she decided to invest in herself. How is her new relationship different from all the others? What were some of Vanessa's favorite parts about the 12 Week program? Fine isn't good enough when you want to find love, even as a successful and busy woman! Vanessa is busy and a Type A, and she poured that energy into Lisa's coaching. Vanessa opened up about her dating requirements yet also ...
Feb 07, 2023•46 min•Ep. 129
What You'll Hear In This Episode: Lisa shares how she learned to open up and truly get emotionally naked. When we open up and share something, we wait to see how it's responded to and how it's received. How working with Lisa and Benjamin can help you share your emotions in a vulnerable way that doesn't make the man want to back out the door and run away. Being emotionally naked can be light and playful, but it doesn't have to mean you are fake or acting like everything is fine and dandy when it ...
Jan 31, 2023•42 min•Ep. 128
