In this quick but powerful episode, Lisa Shield shares four down-and-dirty tips every woman should know about what makes her unforgettable in the eyes of a man. With her signature warmth and insight, Lisa breaks down the essential traits that men are secretly craving in their dream woman. If you're ready to stop guessing and start attracting a high-quality man, this episode is your wake-up call. Key Highlights: Playfulness A light-hearted, spontaneous attitude is incredibly attractive. Playful t...
Aug 19, 2025•10 min•Ep. 212
Finding the Guardian of Your Soul with Lisa Shield Episode Title: “Is Your Success Intimidating Men… or Is It Something Else?” Welcome to Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ! I'm your host, Lisa Shield, and I’m thrilled to have you here. Please share this episode with your single girlfriends, guy friends, and anyone navigating the dating world. What we discuss here is something you won’t hear from other coaches—I bring a unique lens to the challenges smart, successful women face in modern dating....
Aug 12, 2025•26 min•Ep. 211
The SPECIFIC Dating Challenges Successful Women Face (and how to overcome them) In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield, a love coach for over two decades, discusses the unique dating challenges successful women face and provides practical solutions to overcome them. Lisa covers key topics, including time management, dealing with intimidating men, and emotional availability. She shares actionable steps to fit dating into a busy schedule, the importance of embracing fe...
Aug 05, 2025•39 min•Ep. 210
In this episode, Lisa and Benjamin Shields discuss the complex emotions and pitfalls surrounding the question, 'Can we still be friends?' after a romantic relationship ends. They delve into the reasons why people might hold on to these 'friendships,' the emotional distress and false hopes it creates, and offer advice on how to move forward in a healthy manner. Highlights: The Real Reasons Behind 'Can We Still Be Friends?' Consequences of Staying 'Friends' Personal Anecdotes and Observations The ...
Jul 29, 2025•22 min•Ep. 209
Lisa Shield delves into the crucial distinction between love bombing and real love. She shares her own experiences and insights on how to identify a love bomber, highlighting red flags such as over-the-top affection, constant communication, lavish gifts, and pressing for quick commitment. Lisa contrasts this with the slow, steady development of real love, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, consistency, and mutual respect. She offers practical advice on protecting your heart, setting and r...
Jul 22, 2025•38 min•Ep. 208
Unlock the Secret: How to Attract High-Quality Men In this episode, Lisa Shield delves into the intricacies of attracting high-quality men and the concept of Emotionally Naked Dating. She shares her personal journey, offers insights into shifting perspectives, and discusses the importance of genuine emotional vulnerability. Lisa provides practical advice on how women can embrace their femininity, build emotional connections, and approach dating with authenticity and confidence. Highlights The St...
Jul 15, 2025•36 min•Ep. 207
In this episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul," host Lisa Shield delves into the often overlooked and taxing endeavor of trying to fix or change men in relationships. Lisa, a relationship expert, shares her personal journey and the important lessons she’s learned along the way about recognizing and overcoming codependency in relationships. Highlights: 1. Personal Reflection on Past Relationships: Lisa discusses her first marriage and how persistent financial disagreements highlighted dee...
Jul 08, 2025•50 min•Ep. 206
Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2 In this episode of 'Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 2,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss the alarming rise of misogyny, its roots, and how it affects women and men today. They touch on historical and cultural factors contributing to misogyny, the impact on dating and relationships, and steps both genders can take to foster mutual respect and equality. Highlights: Impacts on Women's Rights Historical Con...
Jul 01, 2025•45 min•Ep. 205
Women Under Fire and Why Misogyny Is So Prevalent Today, Part 1 In this episode of 'Getting Inside the Right Male Mind,' hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield tackle the significant and distressing topic of misogyny and its rise in today's society. The discussion focuses on understanding the reasons behind this increase, the impact on women, and the urgent need for male allies to stand up for women's rights and freedoms. Highlights: Men's Fear of Change Double Standards in Politics and Society Subjugat...
Jun 24, 2025•32 min•Ep. 204
In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield discusses how strong, smart, successful women can make every date more meaningful. She emphasizes the importance of spiritual growth, intentionality, and emotional vulnerability in dating. Lisa shares personal insights and experiences, offering practical tips and thought-provoking questions to help listeners connect on a deeper level with their dates and themselves. Key Highlights: Spiritual Approach to Dating : Encourages viewi...
Jun 17, 2025•39 min•Ep. 204
In this episode, Lisa Shield, a pioneering love coach with over two decades of experience, delves into the true reasons why many individuals struggle to connect on dates. She shares her philosophy that finding the right connection is more crucial than merely finding the right man. Lisa encourages personal growth alongside dating and teaches listeners how to uncover and address their blind spots that might be holding them back. Lisa also introduces her emotionally naked dating approach, which pri...
Jun 10, 2025•33 min•Ep. 202
The World Is Changing Fast… You Don’t Have to Face It Alone In this poignant episode, Lisa Shield discusses the evolving landscape of our rapidly changing world and the importance of having a supportive partner by your side. Lisa reflects on the impact of the pandemic, the current state of global affairs, and emphasizes why now, more than ever, it is crucial for women to seek the 'Guardian of Your Soul.' She shares her insights on the emotional resilience offered by true partnership, recounting ...
Jun 03, 2025•30 min•Ep. 203
The Real Reason Men Pull Away & How to Handle It With Grace Lisa Shield, founder and CEO of Emotionally Naked dating, explains why men sometimes pull away and how women can handle this situation with dignity and grace. She discusses the importance of self-reflection, maintaining personal boundaries, and not giving away one's power. Lisa also provides strategies to avoid common mistakes, embrace personal growth, and navigate dating with confidence. Highlights: Common Reasons for Pulling Away ...
May 27, 2025•28 min•Ep. 199
Lisa and Benjamin Shield discuss what it means for a man to be spiritually mature, exploring various traits and principles that exemplify true spiritual depth in a man's everyday behavior. From kindness and honesty to the values rooted in strong moral foundations, the episode delves into recognizing genuine spirituality beyond superficial acts. Key Highlights from "How to Recognize a Spiritually Mature Man" Podcast: Understanding Male Spirituality: - Discover how spirituality manifests in men's ...
May 20, 2025•42 min•Ep. 200
In this episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa Shield explores the transformative power of ChatGPT and how it can revolutionize your dating life. Lisa explains how artificial intelligence can enhance personal growth and dating experiences by providing tailored responses and insights. She shares how she uses ChatGPT in her coaching to help women find soulful, meaningful connections. Listen in to discover the unique aspects that set Lisa's coaching approach apart from others. Here ar...
May 13, 2025•19 min•Ep. 198
In this enlightening episode, Lisa Shield, a seasoned love coach with over two decades of experience, helps you determine if your relationship or the person you're dating is right for you. Drawing from her extensive experience and personal anecdotes, Lisa offers her expert insights and reveals five essential questions that can save you time and heartache in the dating world. Here are just a few highlights you won’t want to miss: Five Key Questions to Assess Your Relationship - Lisa discusses the...
May 06, 2025•40 min•Ep. 197
Summary: In this episode, Lisa Shield addresses the fundamental fears that hold people back from finding true love. She emphasizes the importance of facing these fears head-on rather than running from them. Lisa draws from her own experiences and provides practical suggestions and tools, including her "emotionally naked dating" approach, to help listeners work through their fears and gain confidence in their dating lives. She also discusses how fear can manifest in various ways, such as fear of ...
Apr 29, 2025•29 min•Ep. 196
In this episode of 'Getting Inside the Right Male Mind,' hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield dive into the concept of checklists that both men and women have when looking for a partner. They explore why understanding a man's checklist is crucial for a successful relationship. Key topics include the importance of kindness, empathy, confidence, femininity, positivity, and respect in a woman. They also discuss how negative behaviors like drama, entitlement, and rudeness can be turn-offs. The Shields sha...
Apr 21, 2025•41 min•Ep. 195
Episode Notes: Title: Love Takes Flight: How Cindy, a Pilot, Soared to Happiness at 57 Hosted by: Lisa Shield Guest: Cindy Weichert (she/her) Synopsis: In this episode of Finding the Guardian of Your Soul, I’m thrilled to welcome the amazing Cindy Weichert, who has an incredibly inspiring love story to share. Imagine finding the love of your life in your mid-50s—well, Cindy did just that! After overcoming her own doubts and taking a fresh approach to dating, she met and married Tom at 57. Cindy’...
Nov 21, 2024•33 min•Ep. 194
Introduction: Welcome to another enlightening episode of Getting Inside the RIGHT Male Mind , hosted by Lisa Shield and Benjamin Shield. Today, we dive deep into the emotional quagmire of breadcrumbing in relationships—a toxic dynamic where one person gives minimal effort, keeping the other clinging to the hope of something more meaningful. In this episode titled "Why We Breadcrumb and How It’s Holding You Back from Real Love," Lisa and Benjamin explore the intricate power imbalances and emotion...
Nov 14, 2024•46 min•Ep. 193
🎙️ Exciting Episode Alert! 🌟 I had the pleasure of sitting down with Kristina Dedekian for the latest episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®" titled Dedekian . This episode is packed with insightful reflections and transformative experiences from Kristina's journey in the emotionally naked dating program. Discover how Kristina leveraged lessons from the program to overcome past relationship challenges and navigate towards a more fulfilling, supportive partnership with her current boyf...
Oct 07, 2024•38 min•Ep. 192
We'll discuss how personal development and emotional maturity play pivotal roles in creating fulfilling partnerships and why it's important to let go of past baggage to experience genuine, unconditional love. Lisa will also introduce her transformative program, Emotionally Naked Dating, designed to help you find a lasting, meaningful connection. Adding a twist to traditional views, we'll delve into the joy of keeping a relationship playful and fun, rather than seeing it as constant work. With an...
Aug 19, 2024•33 min•Ep. 191
Join us as Lisa shares transformative insights from her six-month emotionally naked dating course, and hear real-life stories, including a woman who found love by embodying these principles on her first date. Discover how playfulness, humor, and deep conversations without excessive seriousness can strengthen bonds, and learn why supporting each other's dreams is critical—even those that might seem unreachable. Benjamin opens up about the importance of giving men space to decompress and how women...
Aug 11, 2024•40 min•Ep. 190
Listen in as Benjamin defines ambivalence and explains how it leads to overthinking, resistance to new relationships, and dismissing well-suited matches based on a rigid checklist. Lisa opens up about the challenges faced by high-achieving women in their program, including fears related to personal imbalances and complex life circumstances, from medical conditions to navigating parental roles. Today on 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' Lisa and Benjamin Shield delve into the complex world of ...
Jun 11, 2024•40 min•Ep. 187
Welcome to another enlightening episode of *Finding the Guardian of Your Soul ®*! Join hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield as they dive into the heart of relationship dynamics in this episode, titled "Bridging the Communication Divide." Today, we’ll unravel the complexities of how men and women communicate differently. While women seek verbal validation and expressions of feelings, men often demonstrate love through actions rather than words. Lisa and Benjamin will discuss how societal expectations a...
May 20, 2024•37 min•Ep. 187
Welcome back to another enlightening episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul." I'm Lisa Shield, joined by my wonderful co-host, Benjamin Shield. Today, we tackle a critical issue that often plagues even the most successful and intelligent women: self-sabotage in relationships. We'll explore why smart women, despite being ready and eager to find their soulmates, often unintentionally put up walls and push away potential partners. We'll dive into the deep-seated fears, ambivalence, and past ...
May 14, 2024•21 min•Ep. 187
Welcome to another enlightening episode of "Finding the Guardian of Your Soul." Today, your hosts Lisa and Benjamin Shield dive into the topic of what a quality man looks for in a life partner. In this episode, we explore the essential ingredients of a relationship from the male perspective. Benjamin shares insightful details about the desires for kindness, playfulness, and a genuine connection. He stresses the importance of not just being nice, but being kind—highlighting how this creates a nur...
May 07, 2024•40 min•Ep. 187
In today's thought-provoking episode of 'Finding the Guardian of Your Soul,' we unravel the provocative wonders behind the age-old belief: Do men really crave the pursuit of love? Our host, Lisa Shield, embarks on a deeply introspective quest to dissect the "chase" and its place in modern romance. To spark this illuminating discussion, Lisa taps into her wisdom derived from guiding a mastermind group of 15 women steadfast in their mission to discover lasting love. Lisa dismantles common dating m...
Apr 23, 2024•49 min•Ep. 186
Lisa dives into the core principles of what makes a partner truly compatible, sharing her personal narrative of how aligning with someone who cherishes similar fundamental values can set the course for a profound and harmonious union. She intricately maps out the importance of respect, kindness, and commitment, inviting us to observe the subtle nuances of how a man treats those around him as a reflection of his character. In a world where actions speak louder than words, Lisa offers a passage th...
Apr 09, 2024•48 min•Ep. 185
Witness the poignant narrative of one couple navigating the delicate balance of support without words, where silent companionship speaks volumes. Learn about the weight of the phrase "we need to talk" and its wildly different receptions—where women see an opening for heartfelt dialogue, men may sense an impending storm. We wrap our hands around the concept of 'taking it slow'—a term laden with disparate hopes and fears for men and women alike. Whether it's fostering an emotional sanctuary or cau...
Apr 02, 2024•36 min•Ep. 184
