“I’d love for you to ask yourself: how am I applying old logic to an entirely new set of circumstances?” – Lola Wright There is a Jewish ritual called Yahrzeit, which is the day one year following the death of a loved one. It is a time to mourn and honor a loss through ceremony. As a people we are approaching a kind of collective Yahrzeit, a time to both recognize grief and honor everything that has come over the past year. While the future is still as uncertain as it ever has been, we cannot de...
Feb 09, 2021•31 min•Season 1Ep. 16
“We know how to heal ourselves. Even in the midst of trauma, and drama, and excitement, we know what to do if we just follow the instincts of our nurtured and nature self.” - Carlton Pearson There are so many mistruths and half-truths in this world about what faith and love actually mean, and what the history of faith actually teaches us about those concepts. Bishop Carlton Pearson reaches beyond these obfuscations and sees us turning to recognize and fight for our shared humanity. Listen in to ...
Feb 02, 2021•43 min•Season 1Ep. 15
"Love is not simply a quiet acceptance and cherishing of one another. Love is strength." - Xavier Ramey We all have the desire to make a difference, whether that’s in ourselves, our communities, or in the world. However, the path to making that impact can seem insurmountable. How do we turn this want into an understanding and a willingness to do the required work, without hurting ourselves in the process? On this week’s episode of Find Your Fierce & Loving, we take a dive into what a fierce ...
Jan 26, 2021•39 min•Season 1Ep. 14
"The results of our lives are some level of reflection in consciousness to what we’re committed to.” – Lola Wright Most human beings are living their lives dictated by their unconscious commitments. I want to help you recognize what your commitments are and realize if they are truly where you desire your energy to be spent. On this episode of Find Your Fierce & Loving, I ask you to shed your obligations and instead embrace your truest, most vital life. This audio is from the recent Set On Fi...
Jan 21, 2021•21 min
“What is your holy intention? This is an emergent, dynamic idea. You are literally speaking your life into existence in every single flipping moment—let this holy intention serve you, and you serve it.” – Lola Wright We are in a pivotal time in human consciousness. While many of us feel trapped in the cycle of survival, taking the next step of growth requires us to welcome joy. By releasing what no longer serves us, we can finally grasp the love and peace that allows us to serve ourselves and ot...
Jan 19, 2021•29 min•Season 1Ep. 13
“ Slay the stories that no longer serve your highest and holiest expression. Connect with the radical truth of who and what you are. ” – Lola Wright I have spent a lifetime seeking affirmation from other people, places, and things. And as I have untangled that pattern, I have learned how to source the truth. When you and I develop the capacity to source our own sense of truth, we become immovable in the best ways. The invitation this week on Find Your Fierce & Loving is to uncover the radica...
Jan 12, 2021•28 min•Season 1Ep. 12
“ There is so much investment made in your brokenness and your woundedness. There is so much investment made in the drama of the human condition. How will you disrupt that in 2021? ” – Lola Wright 2020 was a year of tipping points - from a global pandemic to toxic politics to an awakening around the hundreds of years of racial injustice in the United States. The unworkability that has existed in human consciousness is beginning to surface. This is good news. While awakening is upon us, human bei...
Jan 05, 2021•32 min•Season 1Ep. 11
“ Recognize there is an order to this vast universe that transcends our ability to comprehend. There is something that goes far beyond the circumstances and conditions of our lives. There is something that transcends the devastation and despair of our human reality. I invite you to surrender into this unknown, unseen realm. ” – Lola Wright This year we have navigated great loss, great transition, and great trauma. In this mediation, I invite you to scan your memory and bring forward anything tha...
Dec 29, 2020•23 min•Season 1Ep. 10
“The world says there are good people and bad people. But we have to surrender the limitations of duality and begin to entertain that there is just one power, it's neutral and it goes where we direct it to flow.” - Mark Anthony Lord We grow up with the world screaming that there are two powers. Dualistic thinking of right and wrong, good and bad leads us to humanity’s suffering loop. Mark Anthony Lord, author and minister, believes that as we fiercely accept ourselves, extend grace to those we m...
Dec 22, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 9
“Dreams worth pursuing will scare you. This thing we call struggle, when understood as growth, is a great gift.” — Lola Wright What is pushing your buttons? We have an opportunity to learn to develop comfort with our discomfort. It involves familiarizing yourself with your inner growth edge. I'm talking about your inner state. What rattles you? What throws you off? One one of my early teachers, Denise Schubert, would say, “I may have pushed your buttons, but I did not install them.” On this epis...
Dec 15, 2020•28 min•Season 1Ep. 8
“ Beautiful things can be born out of crises if we move in the energy of gratitude and possibility. ” - Latham Thomas What makes Latham Thomas so extraordinary and her work so critical is the lens of liberation that she brings to birth work in this country. All of her training is with Black maternal health in mind and serves as a demand to bring attention to the crises that we tolerate, that we endorse, that we remain asleep to around Black women and the birthing process in this country. Listen ...
Dec 08, 2020•43 min•Season 1Ep. 7
“This is the great paradox - as you cultivate intimate relationship with your struggle, as you bring it forward into the light, into your awareness, it becomes a neutralizing experience. And you will find stillness on the other side of that.” - Lola Wright It's such an important time of the calendar year to get honest about what is nudging you, weighing you down, and holding you back. It really is true that what we resist persists. When you fight against that which burdens you, what you’re reall...
Dec 01, 2020•22 min•Season 1Ep. 6
“So often we move throughout our lives, throughout our days, focusing on the needs of others, focusing on satisfying others. But as you move towards finding your fierce and loving, and reconnecting with your purpose, you bring your awareness to an appreciation for all that you are and all that you have.” – Lola Wright Personal transformation happens when we move our bodies and awaken our souls. To get clear on your purpose, meditation is an excellent resource you can use to access that place wit...
Nov 24, 2020•24 min•Season 1Ep. 5
“Be graceful with yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. You are here for a right and holy purpose. You have had all of the experiences in this lifetime that have prepared you to move beyond your neurotic navel gazing tendencies - which is not the truth of who you are - into a contribution. You're here to be a gift. You're here to take an inventory of the blessings that you have and then imagine how you can offer them up to those you're in relationship with.” – Lola Wright When you do the wor...
Nov 17, 2020•35 min•Season 1Ep. 4
“Your purpose is whatever it is that brings you alive. You get to design your life in a way that works for you.” – Lola Wright What is it that brought you alive as a child? Buried in the dreams you left behind in the name of practicality are the clues, the breadcrumbs that will lead you out of the status quo and into the big idea of your life. It is time to untangle the toxic idea that your purpose is a job title and to find the things that light you up. On this episode of Find Your Fierce &...
Nov 10, 2020•34 min•Season 1Ep. 3
“If we realized that we have the power as the people, to decide to take back our own decisions and abilities and our own power; to make good and right decisions for the good of the whole, we will leave room and space. There are many different flowers in the Garden of God. And there are many different ways in which those flowers cross pollinate. There's room and space for all of us to grow and be healthy and we can make room.” - Bishop Yvette Flunder When society does not accept you for who you a...
Nov 03, 2020•47 min•Season 1Ep. 2
“Set the world on fire with you. Because this world is calling for a kind of aliveness that only you know.” – Lola Wright Welcome to the inaugural episode of Find Your Fierce & Loving! If we haven’t met yet, I’m Lola Wright and I want to guide you in finding your purpose so you can live a joyous, wildly alive life. On today’s episode, I make the case for why it is so important for you to move your body. Movement and breath are each cornerstones to getting out of your head and into your life....
Oct 27, 2020•28 min•Season 1Ep. 1
Something is stirring. Maybe you’ve felt it. We are reckoning with the reality of injustice and binary thinking that feeds the political machine. New conversations are happening around race, class, gender, and sexual orientation. Humanity is in the midst of a heartbreaking and painful paradigm shift. That is a good thing. What I have learned is that the most radical thing I can do is support people in freeing their minds. This podcast is intended to help you disrupt, untangle, and free your mind...
Oct 19, 2020•5 min