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Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederickfiercemarriage.com
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.

Episodes

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 2 of 2)

Think you know your partner? These final questions just might surprise you. Whether you're dating, engaged, or married for years, these questions will reignite connection, reveal new stories, and keep the conversation flowing. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is...

Jun 24, 202533 minSeason 6Ep. 406

Will These "Magic Questions" Help Your Marriage? (Part 1 of 2)

Feeling the need to reconnect with your spouse? Or get to know a potential spouse better? Tune into this episode where we dive into 28 thoughtful questions designed to spark deeper conversations, strengthen your bond, and bring a few good laughs along the way. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://...

Jun 17, 202540 minSeason 6Ep. 405

3 Sure Signs of a Healthy Couple

We identified three telltale signs that indicate your marriage is thriving. Do you and your spouse hit all three? Whether your relationship is strong or struggling, we’d be honored to have you join us. There’s hope, encouragement, and truth waiting for you here. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https:...

Jun 03, 202536 minSeason 6Ep. 404

True Friends will Advocate for Your Marriage and Not Just for You

Every marriage faces highs and lows—but who’s in your corner during those tough times matters. True friends won’t just take your side; they’ll fight for your marriage. They’ll speak life over both you and your spouse, helping you build bridges—not burn them. Choose friends who point you back to unity, not division. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com T...

May 28, 202529 minSeason 6Ep. 403

What if My Husband Has a Low Sex Drive?

It’s a tough question—and sex can be a hard topic to talk about. But we’re here to approach it with honesty, grace, and a godly perspective. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/par...

May 20, 202538 minSeason 6Ep. 402

Women, Wives, and Friendship

Today, Selena’s in the hot seat, and we’re diving deep into friendship! We’re unpacking what God’s Word says about sisterhood, connection, and the beauty of women doing life together. Our hope? That you feel encouraged to pursue meaningful, Christ-centered friendships that glorify God and bring you joy. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more...

May 13, 202534 minSeason 6Ep. 401

Preparing for Marriage and Not Just the Wedding

You’re getting married—the colors are chosen, the venue is booked, and the cake has been taste-tested. But what about the marriage after the wedding day is over? Let’s talk about it. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner wit...

May 07, 202533 minSeason 6Ep. 400

Seven MYTHS About Marriage You Shouldn't Believe

The world is full of false beliefs about marriage—and if we’re not careful, they can quietly shape how we see our own. Are you falling for any of these myths? Watch to find out. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us,...

Apr 22, 202543 minSeason 6Ep. 399

7 Things to Say to Each Other DAILY

A strong marriage is built on strong communication—and we believe there are 7 key phrases every couple should say daily. How many do you and your spouse already use—and which ones are you missing? Tune in to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely...

Apr 15, 202532 minSeason 6Ep. 398

FACTS vs. FEELINGS in Marital Arguments

"Facts don't care about your feelings." Or do they? In this episode we'll discuss why facts, feelings, AND trust all matter for productive dialogue (and arguments) in marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, ...

Apr 08, 202531 minSeason 6Ep. 397

BOUNDARIES: Dealing with Toxic In-Laws

Boundaries are meant to establish healthy order in relationships, not create isolation. But what does it look like when you need to set boundaries between your marriage and your in-laws? What justifies them, and what’s the ultimate goal in having these boundaries? We pray this episode is helpful for you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn mor...

Apr 01, 202535 minSeason 6Ep. 396

Advice for Improving a Difficult Marriage

Has your marriage ever been in a rut? Or maybe you're currently in one and have no idea how you'll make it through. We hope to shine some light on wherever you're at today and remind you to never give up—it’s worth the effort to make it to the other side. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thene...

Mar 25, 202533 minSeason 6Ep. 395

The Power of an Admiring Wife

There's no way around it—a wife has power over her husband's heart. She decides whether to use that power for good or evil. We pray she chooses the former and watches her husband flourish. Tune in to discover all the ways an admiring wife can uplift her husband. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https:...

Mar 18, 202538 minSeason 6Ep. 394

Responding to the Gottman's 4 Horsemen of the Relationship Apocalypse

The Gottman Institute identified "The 4 Horseman of the Apocolypse", which can supposedly predict the end of a relationship. We shed some biblical light on these ideas as well as some helpful antidotes. We pray it blesses you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is...

Mar 11, 202539 minSeason 6Ep. 393

Fighting Well and Learning Resiliency

We all have moments of disagreement within our marriage, but what happens when you can feel the bitterness linger even after the argument has been said and done? We want to share some tips on how to fight better, faster, and build resiliency along the way. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://then...

Mar 04, 202541 minSeason 6Ep. 392

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

In Part 1, we explored the subtle yet powerful ways the enemy works against marriages in today's culture. In this final part, we dive deeper into the remaining tactics and, more importantly, how to guard against them. Join us for this insightful discussion on strengthening your marriage and family. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more abou...

Feb 18, 202546 minSeason 6Ep. 391

12 Tactics of the Devil to Destroy Your Marriage (Part 1 of 2)

Ryan posed a question to ChatGPT and said, "Imagine you were the devil, how would you strategically go about destroying the family unit?" The response was eerily similar to what we’re witnessing in today’s culture. Don’t miss this eye-opening discussion—stay tuned to equip yourself in the good fight for your marriage and family. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://4...

Feb 11, 202533 minSeason 6Ep. 390

3 Ways to Keep a Clean House

In this episode, we're not talking about doing dishes (although that may fit in somewhere), we're walking you through 3 ways to keep a healthy, thriving marriage. You won't want to miss this! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To pa...

Jan 28, 202522 minSeason 6Ep. 389

Are You in a Truly Christian Marriage?

Are you living out a gospel-centered marriage? In this video, we explore a common theme we've noticed in some marriages that proclaim to be Christian. Do they truly reflect Christ's life, death, and resurrection? Join us to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This mini...

Jan 21, 202528 minSeason 6Ep. 388

How to Pray Together in Marriage (even when it's awkward)

As believers, we’re called to cultivate an active prayer life, but what about a marital prayer life? While private prayer is essential, praying together as a couple can strengthen your relationship in profound ways. In this video, we share the benefits we've experienced in our own marriage and practical ways you can incorporate prayer into your relationship. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your sp...

Jan 14, 202528 minSeason 6Ep. 387

Big Announcement!

Join our January Online Marriage Cohort! Launches January 6th. Learn more and sign up for Gospel-Centered Marriage: https://fiercemarriage.com/gcm Gospel-Centered Marriage is our most comprehensive marriage curriculum, experienced by thousands of couples worldwide. The January Cohort includes: • Access to launch and debrief Zoom calls with Ryan and Selena (2 calls) • Two (2) copies of our Gospel-Centered Marriage Participant's Workbook (ships immediately) • Instant access to the online course ma...

Jan 03, 20253 min

What if I'm in a Sexless Marriage?

We're talking about the elephant in the bedroom... What kind of frequency should you have with your spouse in the bedroom?? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! Y...

Dec 17, 202431 minSeason 6Ep. 386

Why You NEED to Join a Good Church for the Good of Your Marriage

It's rare to hear about a couple in perpetual dysfunction who also regularly attends a faithful, solid church. What do we mean by this statement? Tune in to find out. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit http...

Dec 03, 202425 minSeason 6Ep. 385

GRATITUDE Changes Everything About Marriage

It's prescribed to us this time of year to remember all the things in life that we're thankful for, but if we're not careful, it will just become a checked box on our to-do list. During this episode, we reflect on the true depth of how gratitude affects our hearts. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: htt...

Nov 26, 202439 minSeason 6Ep. 384

Learning to Love IN-LAWS Better

There's never a bad time to have discussions about handling in-laws, but it feels especially timely heading into the holiday season. Listen in as we give practical steps to loving our in-laws better. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supporte...

Nov 20, 202431 minSeason 6Ep. 383

5 Lessons Learned to Stop Arguing About MONEY

If you know our story, you've heard about how we started our marriage out in college living hand to mouth with our finances. Since then, the Lord has had lots to teach us, and we would love to share it with you! Join us. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entir...

Nov 12, 202430 minSeason 6Ep. 382

5 Ways to FINALLY Get Unity Around Time and Priorities

As Christians, we are called to prioritize what God prioritizes. How should that statement manifest itself in our daily priorities? It's brought us clarity in our life's big and small decisions, so we hope this episode is helpful for you too! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com ...

Oct 29, 202425 minSeason 6Ep. 381

Lessons Learned about S X in 20ish Years of Marriage

God made s*x for our good and His glory, BUT a thriving intimate life with your spouse doesn't happen by accident. It takes good communication, intentionality, effort, and several other lessons we've learned throughout our marriage. Listen in! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com...

Oct 22, 202429 minSeason 6Ep. 380

7 Ways to Have Better Conflict In Your Marriage

There’s no avoiding it; we all encounter conflict in our marriages. The real question is: how well do you handle it? Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can ...

Oct 15, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 379

4 Massive Lessons Learned on Communication

By God's grace, we just celebrated our 21st wedding anniversary, and it got us thinking about the many lessons we have learned together over the years. This week, we're starting off strong with communication and discussing how essential it is to a thriving marriage. P.S. This is the start of a new series, so stay tuned each week as we go through different aspects of marriage and the lessons we've learned. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Chal...

Oct 08, 202430 minSeason 6Ep. 378
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