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Fierce Marriage

Ryan and Selena Frederickfiercemarriage.com
Hosts Ryan and Selena Frederick discuss modern marriage issues with transparency, humor, and gospel-centeredness. Join in for honest conversations, light-hearted hilarity, and more than enough grace to go around.

Episodes

The Greatest Adultery Repellant Known to Man

We must never assume that we are beyond the grasp of adultery. "Affairs rarely happen out of the blue; they start small and progress subtly over time. Every affair begins in the imagination, takes root in the heart, and slowly turns to action." Tune in to hear how to guard your heart and honor your spouse well. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To le...

Sep 25, 202427 minSeason 6Ep. 377

20+ Creative Date Ideas to Stay Connected

Different seasons of life can leave you and your spouse feeling more like roommates rather than husband and wife. If you need creative date ideas to spark some fun and intentional engagement with your spouse, this episode is for you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This mini...

Sep 17, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 376

Why Even Stay Married? What's the Point?

Have you ever questioned the value of staying married, or do you know someone who could use some marital encouragement? Join us to be reminded of God's beautiful design for marriage! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner wit...

Sep 10, 202431 minSeason 6Ep. 275

Q & A: Rebuilding Trust After It's Been Lost (Trust and Betrayal, 5 of 5)

Today, we're wrapping up our series on trust and betrayal! To conclude, we are answering questions from you, our listeners. We pray that it's edifying to you and that it will help your marriage flourish in all areas of trust. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is ...

Sep 03, 202454 minSeason 6Ep. 274

Creating Healthy Boundaries Around Tech in Marriage (Part 2 of 2)

We could all benefit from an honest evaluation of whether our tech is serving us for good, or taking over in harmful ways. Our friends Nathan and Anna Sutherland are back for another episode to gently push back on our tech use and provide strategies to reorient our hearts and minds on the right things. We hope you'll join us! Check out Nathan and Anna's new books at GospelCenteredTech.com --- Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https:...

Aug 14, 202437 minSeason 6Ep. 373

Phones, Video Games, Tech, and How They Affect Your Marriage (w/ Guests Nathan and Anna Sutherland, Part 1 of 2)

Technology (phones, video games, shows) can cause marital strife if not handled with wisdom and clarity. Today we have our long-time friends, Nathan and Anna Sutherland as guests to discuss technology and how it impacts marriage. They've recently written books (releasing 8/13) all about the topic. Check out Nathan and Anna's new books at GospelCenteredTech.com --- Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for y...

Aug 07, 202442 minSeason 6Ep. 372

Maintaining Strong Trust in Marriage (Trust and Betrayal 4 of 5)

Our hope for this series is that you and your spouse can learn to mend areas of your marriage that have experienced broken trust. Once you have placed your complete and utter trust in the Lord, and in turn your spouse, we pray that you can KEEP consistent trust in your marriage. That's what this episode is all about. We hope you'll join us! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intentio...

Jul 30, 202433 minSeason 6Ep. 371

Repairing Trust After It's Broken (Trust and Betrayal 3 of 5)

Thankfully it is possible to repair trust in your marriage, but unfortunately, many couples struggle with where to even begin. We want to equip you with 5 tangible ways you can begin to reinstate assurance in your marriage. We hope it blesses you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood...

Jul 23, 202448 minSeason 6Ep. 370

Dealing with Betrayal of Trust (Trust and Betrayal 2 of 5)

So you've been betrayed by your spouse. Now what? Join us for part 2 of this vital discussion. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video ep...

Jul 16, 202442 minSeason 6Ep. 369

How They Rebuilt Trust After Betrayal

We promise you'll leave encouraged and inspired after hearing the miraculous way the Lord worked through this couple's marriage and spoiler alert... their divorce. Tune in to hear an incredible redemption story from our friends, the Teagues. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com T...

Jul 09, 202426 minSeason 6Ep. 368

The Foundation of Trust in Marriage (Building and Repairing Trust, 1 of 5)

Ruth Bell Graham said, "A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers", but what do you do when trust has been broken and it feels hard to forgive? Join us for this 5 part series of building and repairing trust in your marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This min...

Jun 25, 202430 minSeason 6Ep. 367

Don't Be Blindsided by Divorce, Do This Marriage Check Up

Sadly, we see it all too often... one spouse files for divorce and the other never sees it coming. You owe it to your marriage to do this one thing! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage...

Jun 18, 202436 minSeason 6Ep. 366

Crushing Comparison (Stop Comparing to Others!)

There's a reason "do not covet" made it as the tenth commandment. Coveting ultimately leads to death and it's no different when it comes to your own marriage. We hope this episode blesses you. Sign up for our Date Night in the PNW: www.fiercemarriage.com/datenight Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: http...

Jun 11, 202435 minSeason 6Ep. 365

10 (Simple) Ways to De-Escalate Arguments and Fights

We believe in reconciling and reconciling fast, but many times our earthly flesh gets in the way of that! Listen in for 10 practical tips on how to handle conflict within your marriage. Sign up for our Date Night in the PNW: www.fiercemarriage.com/datenight Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://the...

Jun 04, 202433 minSeason 6Ep. 364

What if We're Unequally Yoked?

Are you married to someone who is unequally yoked to you? Or are you considering marriage with someone who might not be a good match in this regard? This episode is for you! It's also a must-watch if you offer guidance to others facing these challenges. We hope this discussion blesses you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becomin...

May 28, 202427 minSeason 6Ep. 363

What's the Right Age to Get Married? Should I Marry Young?

Throughout the past few decades, we've seen couples getting married later and later. Why do you think that is? Join us as we unpack this idea and find out if there is a magic age you should get married. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-suppo...

May 21, 202436 minSeason 6Ep. 362

Rule Bender vs Rule Follower?? Honoring Each Others' Differences in Marriage

Differences make a marriage go round. Learn to lean into these differences and honor one another's unique perspectives. Join us for this week's conversation! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fierc...

May 14, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 361

Should Your Spouse Really Be Your Friend?

Hot take: Calling your spouse your best friend is a demotion compared to calling them your husband/wife. Tune into this episode to learn how to see friendship rightly in marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with u...

May 07, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 360

Ways to Warm Up a Cold Marriage

Everyone wants a vibrant, thriving marriage, but what happens when day-to-day life causes you to feel distant from your spouse? Spoiler alert: vacation is not the lasting solution. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with ...

Apr 23, 202434 minSeason 6Ep. 359

What if I want kids but my spouse doesn't?

As a Christian, what is your role when it comes to childbearing? Listen in as Ryan and Selena address a listener's question about this very topic. We hope it blesses you! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit ...

Apr 09, 202434 minSeason 6Ep. 358

Marriage & Money- Tithing, Joint Accounts, and More

Money has a tricky way of grabbing hold of our hearts and it certainly has a way of infiltrating our marriages in an unhealthy way. This episode is all about stewarding our money in a manner worthy of God. Join us! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely li...

Apr 02, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 357

The 8 Purposes of Sex

Sex is purposed for more than babies and pleasure. Listen to today's episode where Ryan and Selena explore the other six purposes of sex. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partne...

Mar 19, 202434 minSeason 6Ep. 356

Why Check-Ins Matter and How To Do Them Well

Have you ever asked the simple question, How can I be a better husband/wife? Tragically, few have. And, if that’s you (i.e. you haven’t asked), then there is no time like the present to start! Join Ryan and Selena for a discussion about why intentional marital check-ins are a must for a healthy, strong marriage. Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To l...

Mar 12, 202434 minSeason 6Ep. 355

Help! My Wife Wears Yoga Pants to the Gym and I Hate It

Today we responded to a question from a listener about his wife wearing yoga pants to the gym. Is he right in objecting to it? Listen in to find out! Master marital communication: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Take the 31-Day Pursuit Challenge: https://31daypursuit.com Pray for your spouse with intention: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriag...

Feb 27, 202431 minSeason 6Ep. 354

Follow-Up: Answering Questions About Husbands Initiating Intimacy

We've had several questions from viewers regarding our past two videos... which is good! We are open to dialogue and appreciate the opportunity to further this discussion. Join us as we address certain questions and concerns viewers had about husbands being the primary initiators of intimacy. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-su...

Feb 20, 202429 minSeason 6Ep. 351

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 2)

Above all, men are built to be leaders in the home, so why wouldn't this include initiating intimacy with his wife? Join us as we unpack part 2 of this topic. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our YouTube ch...

Feb 13, 202431 minSeason 6Ep. 350

Why Husbands Should Be the Primary Initiators of S-- (Part 1)

Who should be the one to initiate sex in marriage? The quick answer is, both of you! But, it is our conviction that the husband should be the primary initiator of intimacy in marriage. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video ...

Feb 06, 202426 minSeason 6Ep. 349

Learning to Trust Again After Trust Was Lost

What does moving forward in your marriage look like after trust has been lost? In this episode, we're addressing this very question from one of our listeners. Join us as we unpack this question and give you tangible tools to move forward. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarria...

Jan 23, 202432 minSeason 6Ep. 348

The Art of Asking Great Questions (and Why it Changes Everything in Marriage)

It seems like a simple task, but the impact of asking thoughtful questions can bring you closer to your spouse and create a good culture of communication in the home. New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-supported. To partner with us, visit https://fiercemarriage.com/partner Good news! You can now find FULL video episodes on our Yo...

Jan 16, 202434 minSeason 6Ep. 347

Faithful, Fruitful, and Fierce (Session 1 of the Fierce Families Conference)

If you were not able to attend our Fierce Families Conference, fear not, we will be posting each session to our YouTube channel! To start us off, tune in to hear Ryan's session on being faithful, fruitful, and fierce. Conference sessions: https://fiercefamilies.com/2023-conference-archive/ New communication books: https://speak.fiercemarriage.com Prayer books: https://40prayers.com To learn more about becoming a Christian, visit: https://thenewsisgood.com This ministry is entirely listener-suppo...

Jan 09, 202429 minSeason 6Ep. 347
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