Welcome to this week's episode where we're unpacking more than just school backpacks---we're diving into the invisible load our kids carry. Here's the scoop: What's the Deal with Mental Load? Ever wonder why your kid seems more like a mini CEO managing a startup rather than enjoying childhood? We'll break down what mental load really means for your little ones. Spotting the Signs: Is your child just moody, or are they weighed down by mental clutter? We'll chat about the signs that scream 'help!'...
May 08, 2024•42 min•Season 2Ep. 63
This week we explore one of our more complex topics, Parental Alienation, not from personal experience but with a commitment to raise awareness. Join us as we delve into what parental alienation involves, its effects, what to look for, and how to address it. Key Highlights: Definition and Impact: We begin by defining parental alienation and discussing its potential long-term effects on children and family dynamics. Our Motivation: Why this topic matters to us and should matter to you, even if yo...
May 01, 2024•47 min•Season 2Ep. 62
Join us for this week's episode as we navigate the tricky waters of severing ties with in-laws post-divorce. With a sprinkle of sass and a dash of humor, we discuss the emotional complexities and the practical steps to moving on after a split. In This Episode, You'll Discover: · Strategies for Disconnecting: Learn effective ways to handle relationships with former in-laws, ensuring you maintain peace and move forward with grace. · Personal Stories: Our hosts share their experiences and the nuanc...
Apr 24, 2024•48 min•Season 2Ep. 61
Welcome back, sun seekers and savvy co-parents, to another sizzling episode of our podcast, where we dive deep into the heat of summer vacation planning amidst the complexities of co-parenting. This episode isn't just about the logistics; it's about leaving our own shit at the door in favor of some serious summer vibes with our kiddos. Episode Highlights: · Navigating Co-Parenting: Summer is upon us, and with it comes the challenge of co-parenting through vacation plans. We discuss strategies fo...
Apr 17, 2024•48 min•Season 2Ep. 60
In this week's episode, Allison and Jennifer navigate the complex journey from apologies to forgiveness, examining the delicate balance between accepting apologies and the personal act of forgiving. They candidly share their experiences and insights into how apologies without behavior change impact relationships, the difference between forgiving and forgetting, and the intricate process of reconciliation. Through the conversation, they explore how accepting an apology serves the one who offers i...
Apr 11, 2024•43 min•Season 2Ep. 59
In this laugh-out-loud, soul-baring episode, we tackle the heavy yet universal topic of apologies, wrapped in our signature blend of humor and candor. From the hilarious beginning, where Jennifer becomes self-conscious about her "good good" response, to diving deep into the complexities of apologizing, particularly when behavior doesn't change, this episode is a rollercoaster of emotions, insights, and laughter. Highlights : This week the conversation is both relatable and enlightening, touching...
Apr 03, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 58
🍷 Episode Overview: Buckle up, buttercups, because we're diving into the chaotic, messy desktop that is life in this episode. Allison and Jennifer are back at it, spilling tea (and maybe some wine) on everything from cabin retreats to the existential dread of unappreciated household labor. If you've ever felt like you're juggling more tabs in your brain than your browser can handle, this one's for you. 🌟 Key Moments You Can't Miss: The Cabin Chronicles: Allison kicks things off with a tale of ...
Mar 27, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 57
This week, we delve into the deeply personal and transformative journey of rediscovering friendship after divorce. Divorce can feel like a solitary path, but it also opens the door to new relationships and the rekindling of old ones. Join us as we explore how to navigate the complexities of friendships post-divorce, the importance of community, and the steps to building a supportive network that resonates with the person you are becoming. Episode Highlights: The Impact of Divorce on Friendships:...
Mar 20, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 56
In this episode, we dive into the gloriously messy, beautifully blended (and blended and blended!) life of Amy Scruggs - recording artist, media coach, bestselling author, and supermom to a lively, eclectic mix of kids and stepkids. With a laugh and a shrug, Amy shares her journey through love's many adventures, including three husbands (one current, folks, keep up!), co-parenting shenanigans, and the art of keeping the peace in a family that could rival a sitcom cast. Whether she's navigating w...
Mar 13, 2024•49 min•Season 2Ep. 55
Hey there, Weekenders! 🌟 Get ready to dive into an episode that's as refreshing as an iced latte on a scorching day - "The Power in Peace: Choosing Not to Engage in the Heat of the Moment." 🕊️✨ In today's world, where everyone's ready to throw down over the tiniest things, we're here to sprinkle some chill vibes and wisdom your way. This week we’re unpacking why sometimes, the mightiest act of valor is to not engage. Ever been so riled up, you're ready to unleash the Kraken over a text or Face...
Mar 06, 2024•56 min•Season 2Ep. 54
In this special rerun episode, we dive deep into the importance of colorectal cancer awareness, sharing personal anecdotes, expert insights, and a candid discussion on the often-dreaded colonoscopy prep. March is Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month, and this episode aims to demystify the process, share stories of personal connection to the cause, and underscore the importance of early screening. What You'll Learn: The significance of Colorectal Cancer Awareness Month and its origins. Personal stor...
Feb 28, 2024•53 min•Season 2Ep. 53
In this week's rollercoaster of an episode, we saddle up with the ever-dazzling Hope with Holly for a deep dive into the exhilarating and sometimes tumultuous world of dating post-divorce. Yes, Weekenders, it's a wild ride through the romance rodeo, and you're all invited! Key Highlights: - Dating App Deep Dive: Holly spills the beans on the innovative dating app that's changing the game by ensuring your first interaction is face-to-face. - The Age of Authenticity: Holly shares her candid experi...
Feb 21, 2024•59 min•Season 2Ep. 52
Strap in, folks, for a rollercoaster of laughter, confessions, and unfiltered realness with your favorite coparents – Allison, Jen, and our amazing guest, the unforgettable Hope with Holly, a rising TikTok dating guru! In this Valentine's Day episode, we dive headfirst into the chaotic beauty of life's messiest moments, from dating disasters post-divorce to the art of embracing your inner sexy goddess. Holly shares her tumultuous journey from a constrained upbringing to becoming a beacon of hope...
Feb 14, 2024•1 hr•Season 2Ep. 51
Welcome back Weekenders! Today we're diving into the messy world of divorce and co-parenting. Our guest is family law superstar Rachel King, a self-proclaimed "family drama" specialist. We kick things off by reminiscing about Jen's ill-fated year of law school and her own divorce war stories. Rachel admits about 30% of her cases are fighting against outside "whispering." Sound familiar? Rachel schools us on the realities of court - like how "Disneyland dads" don't actually impact custody. We gas...
Feb 07, 2024•58 min•Season 2Ep. 50
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Jan 10, 2024•54 min•Season 2Ep. 49
We talked a real good game in the beginning of 2023. So how did we do?? In this episode, we review our 2023 intentions and discuss our progress. Some things we did great on, some we need some work. Jen figured out what went wrong with her vision board for 2023 and vows to improve it for 2024. Listen in to our honest assessment and some reframing for 2024. Maybe you'll be inspired to set some intentions, make a vision board, or come up with your own idea for making 2024 a great year! Support the ...
Jan 03, 2024•57 min•Season 2Ep. 48
Throwback to the Pizza Incident in which Jen and Allison look back over the last year and discuss the other "Pizza Incidents" that have cropped up and how we try to avoid triangulation in our co-parenting relationship. That time Allison played the role of a marriage counselor. When you redefine the relationship with your ex from spouse to friend, you can be and have a valuable resource when the dog gets out and you owe someone an apology. Support the show Follow us: Website: everyotherweekendpod...
Dec 27, 2023•42 min•Season 2Ep. 47
Throwback to when it all started (well, the podcast, at least). With a year of hindsight about this crazy idea we had, Jen and Allison talk about how the podcast's early beginnings have influenced their co-parenting over the last year. That time (all of the times) we get asked about how this crazy family works. Allison gets asked one question, Jennifer gets asked another ("So what does Scott think about that?"). Why? Is it the patriarchy? Are we crazy? And how does Scott really feel about all th...
Dec 20, 2023•1 hr 12 min•Season 2Ep. 46
It can be tough getting through a holiday when you feel like you have no family, especially your kids. It’s extra tough when it’s your first time doing it. In this week’s episode, Jen and Allison talk about ways to celebrate the holiday season when you don’t have your kids. We’ve learned that if you open your mind to some other traditions and plan with intentionality, you can actually enjoy the variety of celebrating, in the more traditional ways with our children and in new ways that work for Y...
Dec 13, 2023•54 min•Season 2Ep. 45
If ever there was a time for the old adage “It’s a blessing and a curse,” it’s when we’re talking about social media and the internet. It helps busy moms who don’t have time to go up and down every aisle of the grocery store, it can help us stay connected with friends and family who live far away, and we sure appreciate using social media to let you, our listeners, know what’s going on with us! But it can also tempt us with some unhealthy behaviors, especially in situations where relationships h...
Dec 06, 2023•53 min•Season 2Ep. 44
This week, YOU decide what's on our agenda! We do our first Q&A, discussing some questions we've gotten from our listeners. Tune in! It might be your email we talk about, or you might have the same questions or issues as these listeners. We don't hold back! Thank you for giving us this chance to engage with you! If you've been thinking about sending an email with a question or opinion, now is the time! You might be our content for our next fan mail Q&A! Support the show Follow us: Websit...
Nov 29, 2023•51 min•Season 2Ep. 43
Just in time for Thanksgiving, Jen and Allison watch WKRP in Cincinnati's "Turkeys Away" episode, AKA the turkey drop. We share some laughs, discuss some holiday TV traditions, and get a little nostalgic. Jen also fixates on Andy Travis' distracting bulge. (It was the 70s and pants were REALLY tight.) If you are driving to see friends or family or just need a little break from your hectic Thanksgiving prep, enjoy this lighthearted episode with us and have a Happy Thanksgiving! Support the show F...
Nov 22, 2023•47 min•Season 2Ep. 42
Jen and Allison talk with Rebecca Whitman, The Magnetic Abundance Mentor! She helps women focus on 7 Pillars of Abundance - spiritual, physical, emotional, romantic, mental, social and financial. Creating harmony in these areas helps you live a balanced, beautiful, and abundant life. We talk about how these pillars impact our romantic relationships (including romantic/dating relationships and relationships with our coparents, our exes, and the rest of our family). She shares tips on managing rel...
Nov 15, 2023•59 min•Season 2Ep. 41
We live in a culture where intellect and science are revered and feelings tend to be minimized and dismissed. But our emotions and gut instincts can provide valuable wisdom if we learn to trust them. Our intuition is inner wisdom that comes from accumulated life experiences, values, and innate knowledge. It's important to listen to your intuition when making big decisions. At the same time, we need to be aware that our traumas and our general avoidance of discomfort can shape our messaging. That...
Nov 08, 2023•53 min•Season 2Ep. 40
If you listened last season, then you know that nothing brought up more angst for Jen and Allison than cuffing season. It's hard for Allison to go through it and hard for Jen to figure out how to best support her during this treacherous time. But this year, Allison is taking a different approach. She is pulling a Constanza. Like our friend George, she's going to do the opposite! In this episode, Allison explains she has been quietly dating over the summer and continues to learn about herself. Sh...
Nov 01, 2023•50 min•Season 2Ep. 39
An incident with Thing 2 required consequences. So how do we manage that between our different households when there can be 3 different opinions about how to handle it? Whether coparenting after divorce or in a traditional family setting, consistency is an important part of parenting. It creates trust with your kids and your other coparents. Everyone knows what to expect and it can make transitions between households easier for the kids. But you don't want to confuse consistency with rigidity. W...
Oct 25, 2023•49 min•Season 2Ep. 38
Have you ever wondered how some couples manage to maintain a harmonious relationship for the sake of their children, even after their own bond has broken down? What if there was a way to prioritize the needs of children in such situations without compromising the personal space and happiness of each parent? This episode opens doors to an intriguing discussion with our guests Chris and Kathleen as they spill the beans on their unusual yet effective cohabitation solution, known as 'nesting.' The e...
Oct 18, 2023•59 min•Season 2Ep. 37
Navigating the intricate labyrinth of co-parenting can often feel like an uphill battle. What if there was a way to approach conflict mindfully, drawing from Buddhist principles, and using technology to our advantage? Brace yourselves as we delve into this crucial topic. Drawing from our personal experiences, we share anecdotes, from transitioning from a bustling house to a quiet one, to the amusing tale of how it takes a village to raise a child. The journey will remind you that parenting is co...
Oct 11, 2023•54 min•Season 2Ep. 36
Last season in our episode "Dolla Dolla Bills, Y'all," we discussed some of the financial challenges you face going through a divorce and integrating a blended family as well as the messaging we tell ourselves about money. This season, we're bringing in some professional help to guide us! On this week's episode, we welcome Patti Handy who is a certified financial coach and published author who helps divorced, widowed, and single women take control of their finances. Patti has walked this road an...
Oct 04, 2023•55 min•Season 2Ep. 35
Gwyneth and Chris brought us "conscious uncoupling." Jen and Allison are bringing you "conscious coparenting." We've realized that a lot of our conversations about parenting apply to ALL family situations, not just ones where there has been a divorce. And coparenting is definitely one of them! Regardless of relationship status, you set yourself up for parenting success when you stop making assumptions, quit expecting your coparent to read your mind, and have thoughtful, conscious discussions abo...
Sep 27, 2023•57 min
