When is the right time to tell someone that you love them? Some people say it early on and it feels easy for them to say. Others, like Brandie and Steven, hold on to it for dear life because they don’t want to say it until they are really, really, really sure! Also, how do you respond when someone says it to you before you may be ready? Of all the bombs to drop on someone, saying “I love you” can be one of the biggest. Luckily Brandie, Eva, and Kimberly have all the answers. Beside listening to ...
Jan 31, 2022•35 min•Ep. 54
Not everyone likes walking up and directly approaching someone who they are interested in. Many of us prefer a more subtle and potentially safer “indirect” approach to flirting. One where we don’t come across as potentially pushy, but that feels more natural, comfortable, and flows easily. Indirect flirting methods can be easy to start and let you both find out if this is something you want to pursue further. Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating the sex and relationshi...
Jan 17, 2022•37 min•Ep. 53
Why do some people act super affectionate at first and then suddenly ghost on us? Why do we develop a crush on someone only to later find it evaporates overnight? Sexual and romantic desire is rather fickle and always changing, but we can learn to go with the flow in a way that both protects ourselves and is kind to others. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #romanticrejectionpsychology #signsofromanticrejection #onesidedcrush #ilikemycrushto...
Jan 03, 2022•34 min•Ep. 52
A listener writes in asking how to navigate situations where someone isn't really into them but likes to flirt nevertheless? Also asking why people behave this way? So we deep dive into flirting mixed signals, how they may be interpreted, what they may mean, and why someone may choose to do this. Plus we cover how to work through this with the other person so the intentions are clear and understood by all. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #...
Dec 20, 2021•30 min•Ep. 51
Nurse Jane teaches us a few simple bedroom rope bondage ideas to help heighten your partner's arousal. First she covers a few easy to learn ties and then demonstrates the more complex and creative ways you can bind and position your partner! Nurse Jane has something sexy for all you riggers and rope bunnies alike! Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to learn how to create the experiences you want - in and out of the bedroom! Follow Nurse Jane on Social Media: Fetlife: Nurse_Jane Instagram: _polyp...
Dec 10, 2021•58 min•Ep. 49
Ever had someone overstep your boundaries and felt the pressure because of it? Ever not taken care of yourself as well as you know you should? Eva gives us suggestions for establishing healthy boundaries to help keep us in the sweet, happy spot of life. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #boundaries #healthyboundaries #selfcare #healthyrelationshipboundaries #healthymarriageboundaries #healthysexualboundries #boundariesandselfcare...
Nov 26, 2021•38 min•Ep. 48
There is nothing wrong with being shy, however some people may find they hold themselves back because of it. It often takes a bit of risk to put yourself out there and ask for what you want. Today we offer some suggestions to help make it easier with getting what you want in a relationship, in the bedroom, and in life in general. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com References: LifeHack - Ten tips for shy people to meet friends. https://www.lif...
Nov 12, 2021•32 min•Ep. 47
In BDSM, what exactly is submission or “being submissive” and why do people like this? We explore all the positive, strong, and freeing aspects of submission and why it’s so rewarding for so many people. We dispel the myths about submission implying someone is weak and instead find out what’s going on at a deeper level. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com Referenced Links: “9 Different Types of Submission”, article link: https://lovingbdsm.net...
Oct 29, 2021•37 min•Ep. 46
This episode is intended to give listeners an update on some of the future things we want to focus on, such as potential class ideas in the area of dating, relationships, and sex education. But it's also to let people know that in order to do that we need to change to bi-weekly shows, at least for a little while.
Oct 22, 2021•3 min•Ep. 46
It can be normal to go through a period of time where your sex life is not where you want it to be. Today we are going to give you ideas for spicing things up, bringing back the sexy, AND for connecting or reconnecting with your partner! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #spicyupsex #sexlessrelationship #sexlessmarriage #revivingsex #resurrectingsex #sextoys #kink #intimacy
Oct 15, 2021•32 min•Ep. 45
There are some fun things you can do to arouse your partner, amp things up, and increase the orgasmic sensations! How you touch, when you touch, and fondling both the mind and body can have huge impacts on the intensity of an orgasm. Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #increasefemaleorgasm #orgasm #orgasmstrength #edging #teasedenial #multipleorgasms #sexfantasies #sexroleplay
Oct 08, 2021•36 min•Ep. 44
Talking with partners about your fantasies can be super rewarding! They get a new perspective of who you are and that can bring you both closer. But sometimes the other person just doesn't get that fantasy you are into and it’s just not their thing. So then what do you do?! Often, even when your partner is not into something that you find hot, talking about and understanding each other’s perspective helps strengthen the relationship! Plus it gives you the opportunity to possibly figure out a way...
Oct 01, 2021•28 min•Ep. 43
In this episode we help you understand how to spank or hit someone, where it’s okay to hit them, what areas to avoid, and what is going to make them want more. We cover everything you need to know to safely warm them up, build the intensity, and get them both squirming and wanting more! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #spanking #bdsmspanking #spankingbdsm #howtospank #impactplay #kink #bdsm...
Sep 24, 2021•34 min•Ep. 42
Podcast Episode #41 - Sexual Tension - Creating It, Using It, and Enjoying It! We discuss ideas for supercharging your bedroom experiences in ways many people never think of. Once you get this way of thinking, you will always hold your partner's attention sexually! And if someone does this for you, you will be happy, grateful, and wanting more of them! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #erotic #erotictension, #sexualtension #edging #chastity...
Sep 17, 2021•36 min•Ep. 41
Just because you or a partner may have an STD or STI does not mean that your sex life is over! In this show we destigmatize the myths and many of the concerns around STDs and STIs, plus we have some tips to help make it easy for you to have your sexual health conversations. Because protecting yourself and your partner is not just responsible, but also sexy and strengthens your attractiveness! #STD #STI #sexualsafety #stdtesting #difficultconversations #thesextalk #dating #flirting #seduction...
Sep 10, 2021•33 min•Ep. 40
EP #39 - How to Tell Someone to Fuck Off! (And what men should know.) This episode as two parts to it. (1) It’s about women standing up and stating what they want and (2) men learning to avoid placing accidental (or purposeful) pressure on someone. This is a really important episode for understanding better ways to connect with someone or get that date. #flirting #seduction #kink #bdsm #no #difficultconversations
Sep 03, 2021•32 min•Ep. 39
Here is what you should know about STDs and STIs to protect both yourself and any partners! Plus tips on how to have “the conversation” with them in a way that’s easy and helps strengthen trust between you.
Aug 27, 2021•1 hr 11 min•Ep. 38
Say the wrong thing when you try sexting and you could crash and burn! Saying the right thing at the right time takes skill. We cover getting started, how to recover if you mess up, how to amp up the sexual tension, and how to take it to that happy place! Learn more about creating the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #sexting #rulesofsexting #sextingparagraphs #sextingmessages #flirting #seduction #dating...
Aug 20, 2021•24 min•Ep. 37
In today’s episode, Eva and Brandie are back and turn up the heat! They share their favorite fantasies, what’s so sexy about them, and which ones they want to make a reality. #turnon #fantasy #fetish #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast #kink #bdsm
Aug 13, 2021•55 min•Ep. 36
Eva and Brandie share their kinkiest kinks, fetishes, turn ons, and what really gets their juices flowing! Get inspired and find your own things to try and explore! #turnon #kinky #fetish #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast #kink #bdsm
Aug 06, 2021•44 min•Ep. 35
In this sexy, perverted episode, we cover how to dirty talk your partner in a way that’s just right for them. So you can turn them on, press their buttons, and arouse their mind as well as their body. Learn how to create the sex and relationships you want at www.ethicalseduction.com #dirtytalk #howtodirtytalk #dirtytalkquotes #dirtytalkwords #roleplay #flirting #seduction #ethicalseduction #ethicalseductionpodcast #podcast
Jul 30, 2021•59 min•Ep. 34
Vulnerability + Courage = Attraction! Nothing is sexier than someone who takes a chance and successfully navigates the risks! When we share parts of ourselves with others, they not only appreciate knowing us, they often admire us for taking the risk AND suddenly feel comfortable enough to take a risk with us as well. This is a quick, powerful way to be authentic about who you are that also flips the other individuals' attraction switches! Learn how to create the sex and relationships you want at...
Jul 23, 2021•53 min•Ep. 33
This episode covers how you (any gender or orientation) can seduce the partner(s) you want, ethically and authentically, in a way that benefits everyone involved, AND out perform any pick-up artist. David Chambers of the Authentic Man podcast teams up with Steven from the Ethical Seduction podcast to discuss the differences between PUA (pickup artists) tricks and the stronger, easier, more powerful, authentic and ethical ways they each teach. Once you see the difference, you will be way more eff...
Jul 16, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 32
Do you find the dating process to be difficult or draining? Listen to Ethical Seduction #031 - Learning to Enjoy Dating. We will guide you through simple ways you can make dating easy, fun, and enjoyable - as it should be. Several weeks ago I learned a secret about Brandie, Eva, and Kimberly, which is that all three of them hate dating. Knowing them, I realized there was something deeper going on here. So today we explore why they claim they don’t like dating, what that really means, and how we ...
Jul 09, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 31
June was Pride Month however many people and possibly most people are not out to everyone they know. And this can be for a variety of reasons and it doesn’t have to be simply because of your sexual orientation or gender preferences. Coming out can be tricky and nuanced with how you do it, which is why today we wanted to share some of our one coming out experiences and we are joined by our favorite Pansexual Dominant Leatherman friend Corey (aka Starwind on Fetlife)! Listen now on all major podca...
Jul 02, 2021•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 30
I heard a statistic that there are 10x the number of submissive men as there are dominant women. The femdom’s inbox is flooded with emails while the submissive person’s may be empty. The secret to connecting with the partner you want is in understanding the other person’s perspective and experience. So today we talk with Sam and Chris about their femdom relationship, as well as what works, what is annoying, what things are accidentally demeaning, and how you can find your femdom partner! Listen ...
Jun 25, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 29
Ethical Seduction #028 - Get Over Divorce! We are joined by guest Julie Danielson who helps people not just get over their divorce but really helps them move on with their lives afterwards. Julie’s mission, much like our own, is to help people live the full lives they want and deserve - and she has a few tricks to help listeners do just that! Listen now on all major podcasting players and check out www.ethicalseduction.com to find additional resources for enhancing your sex and love life! Julie ...
Jun 18, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 28
Today we discuss your sexual empowerment. What has become apparent to all of us here on the show is that Ethical Seduction, at its core, is about empowering you, the listener, to be able to go out and do the fun sexy things you want with the people whom you choose. And so sexual empowerment is not just a buzzword, but it’s something all of us here on the show have gone through and felt and grown into. It’s made a big enough impact on our lives that we wanted to share this with listeners. After a...
Jun 11, 2021•1 hr 9 min•Ep. 27
Happiness is so sexy! In this episode we discuss ways you can enhance your overall happiness with relationship coach Claire Blossom! We explore different states of happiness, the meaning behind happiness, the dangers of outsourcing your happiness, and of course tips for finding that real and authentic happiness we all strive for. Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! If you would like, please leave us a voice mail with ques...
Jun 04, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 26
Jealousy can be crippling and cause us to act or feel at our worst! However it’s also totally normal to experience jealousy and yes there are ways you can ease the fear or insecurity that accompany it. Eva explains what jealousy is and things you can do to settle it down so it’s not so overwhelming. Check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! Leave us a voice mail with questions you would like potentially answered on the show. Just cl...
May 28, 2021•1 hr 17 min•Ep. 25
