Later this week Steven and Eva plan to play together and so they felt recording their actual negotiation conversation would be a fun way to demonstrate the process to others. While we have talked in past episodes about negotiating with partners, we hope that getting to hear two people actually do this makes it easier for listeners as well. (Warning: We get explicit at times.) Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! Leave us a...
May 21, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 24
We discuss one of the most important aspects of sex and relationships, maybe the key building block of it all - Intimacy! Sexual intimacy, physical intimacy, emotional intimacy… there is more than one type and we want to help you connect a little deeper with those special people in your life. This is what it’s all about - why we date, have sex, and bond with certain people. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out www.ethica...
May 14, 2021•1 hr 16 min•Ep. 23
Steven and Eva negotiate their own future sex scene to help demonstrate how fun that process can be! While most of us don’t realize it, the average person gets involved in about 10-15 negotiations a day. These are often simple little things but they also include bigger issues which are more important to take the time to address well. When done well, negotiating with a partner can increase trust in the relationship and should be something that benefits all parties - especially when creating your ...
May 07, 2021•1 hr 23 min•Ep. 22
Today we are speaking with certified love and relationship coach Navi Bliss! Navi is an inspirational speaker and the host of the “blissful love podcast”. Navi Bliss pulls from her own personal experience in order to help others overcome past heartbreaks and trauma, with an emphasis on “falling in love with yourself” and in order to help people live more authentically! Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or your podcast app of choice. Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will fin...
Apr 30, 2021•1 hr 7 min•Ep. 21
Curious about what the best sex toys are? Eva and Brandie share their favorite toys to give you ideas for what fits well with you! Vibrators, butt plugs, pleasure, pain and more! So dirty but true and awesome! Please visit for our blog page for more information on the products Eva and Brandie mention on this show. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for c...
Apr 23, 2021•58 min•Ep. 20
Flirting is similar to an artform where there are skills and techniques one can develop, but ultimately you must create your own style based on what works for you. In this podcast episode we explain what flirting is, how to flirt well, give examples of easy and fun flirting techniques, and help you develop a style that fits with who you are. Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Overcast, Pocket Casts, and Anchor. Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find addi...
Apr 16, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 19
It can be so hard knowing what to say to someone whom you just met. After all, you don’t know anything about them yet. And what happens if there is an awkward pause in the conversation or nobody has anything to say? It can be terrifying! So in this episode we are going to give you some tips and ideas for how to generate an interesting and engaging conversation. Something of substance that will help you connect with the people around you. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts ,...
Apr 09, 2021•1 hr 33 min•Ep. 18
In this episode we delve into the art of reading people! We cover what someone’s body language may mean, what their fashion and dress says about them, and how to read their flirting signals so you know when someone is interested in you! Learning to read people is a skill that you develop with practice. And the information you gather from reading them is going to allow you to start up a nice conversation, know when and how to flirt, how to help them feel safe and comfortable, and to know when and...
Apr 02, 2021•1 hr 22 min•Ep. 17
On today’s show we will continue to take a deep dive on the topics we present in our Free Guide to Flirting and Seduction, with the episode focused on building and developing trust in a relationship. Trust is the most important factor in a relationship and establishing it and building it can be a really fun and powerful experience. Plus Brandie and Steven share a dirty story (at Brandie’s expense) to illustrate how you too can create dates and experiences to form stronger trust and deeper connec...
Mar 26, 2021•1 hr 10 min•Ep. 16
Guest Susan Ruth helps us explore the good and bad duality within human nature. Relationships can be risky and people can end up hurt, either accidentally or on purpose, yet you have to take the risk if you want to share a connection. Susan Ruth shares her insights of what she has witnessed and learned from hosting her own Hey Human Podcast. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will fin...
Mar 19, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 15
In this episode we discuss ways to help create sexual attraction and build the sexual tension when you are meeting someone for the first time or dating. We also cover what flirting signs to look for in others when they express sexual interest in you. When you understand how sexual attraction works, you will be able to see it in others and know what types of things are most attractive about you. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also...
Mar 12, 2021•1 hr 20 min•Ep. 14
In this episode we cover the topic of feminism and seduction! What has feminism taught us and how does that help us related to dating, seduction, and flirting? Does feminism apply to men, women, or queer people differently when it comes to flirting? We will cover a brief history of how femist theory developed, what our roles are related to it, and lessons that we can apply in the real world. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also ch...
Mar 05, 2021•1 hr 5 min•Ep. 13
In this episode we cover the topic of Polyamory, Monogamy, and Open Relationships. Eva guides us through a summary of the various styles and how they work, including potential conflicts and solutions. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! Leave us a voice mail with questions you would like potentially answered on the show. Just...
Feb 26, 2021•1 hr 13 min•Ep. 12
In this episode we talk about Gary Chapman’s “5 Love Languages” book series, what it says, how you can use it, and is it actually helpful. (Steven is skeptical of course.) We want you to learn your partner's love language as well as your own, so you can fit them together. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! Leave us a voice m...
Feb 19, 2021•1 hr 12 min•Ep. 11
In this episode we get into an argument about Valentine's Day and if we love or hate it the holiday. Verbal punches fly but then we offer advice for those who may be alone, dislike the holiday, or who have partners that feel differently from you. Whatever your opinion is about Valentine’s Day and how to celebrate (or not), we’ve got you covered! Then we answer a listener email by suggesting ways to meet people, how to kindly start up conversations, and how to keep from accidentally offending the...
Feb 12, 2021•37 min•Ep. 10
Have you ever been in a relationship where one person tended to be the dominant, lead or control how the relationship worked? This can be done in a healthy way when all parties agree, such as with D/s (dominance and submission). But what happens when you find yourself in an imbalanced power dynamic that was non-consensual? Perhaps it happened accidentally, but how can you identify what’s going on, help manage it, and work to adjust things with your partner? Eva will be leading our discussion tod...
Feb 05, 2021•1 hr 15 min•Ep. 9
Opening up and asking for what you want and need in the bedroom can include the risk of being shamed or rejected. Should you take the risk and if you do, what happens if it goes over poorly? There can be a lot at stake as some of the hosts can personally attest to. So should you open up, what are the risks, how can you cope with rejection or shame, and are there other alternatives? Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and Anchor . Also check out ww...
Jan 29, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 8
There is a big difference between having an influence over someone versus working to manipulate them. Manipulation often backfires however “influence”, where it is based on consent and free will, can really help benefit someone. In this episode we will cover some techniques that you can use for influencing other people, that not only create win/win situations, but also help strengthen trust and connection. Listen now on Spotify , Apple Podcasts , Google Podcasts , Overcast , Pocket Casts , and A...
Jan 22, 2021•1 hr 4 min•Ep. 7
We can become way more sexually attractive when we arouse, stimulate, and fondle someone’s brain in just the right way! The mind is the most powerful erogenous zone in our body so learning how to play with it can really super charge your sex life and relationship. The same rules apply to flirting as well because after all, what is flirting? It’s playing with someone’s brain, turning it on, and pressing their buttons in the ways they love! Please check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will ...
Jan 15, 2021•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 6
Today’s show has two parts. First we look at different “kink” identities, roles, and labels people use to describe their personalities and what they are into. Nobody is any one thing but being able to know and describe yourself can help a lot. Then we jump into sex positions and tips that work with different body shapes. We want you to be able to do all the sexy feel-good things that work with your own body and your partners! Body-positivity never felt so good! Please check out www.ethicalseduct...
Jan 08, 2021•59 min•Ep. 5
There can be so much anxiety with decision making that it can be almost crippling to some people. How often have you wanted to do something or speak with someone or do some thing but then held yourself back? Anxiety can prevent us from getting what we want and so it’s important to learn how to cope and deal with these fears, concerns, and worry. Also, Happy New Year! Brandie has some tips to help you stick with your resolutions and create healthy habits that last! Please check out www.ethicalsed...
Jan 01, 2021•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 4
We explore alpha male traits and what aspects are truly attractive. There is so much macho baggage linked to being masculine and a “true” alpha male that it’s hard to tell what is legit and what may be toxic masculinity in disguise. We want to separate the misinformation from the real deal so you know what works best and what generates your strongest attraction. For additional information, please check out www.ethicalseduction.com Referenced Material and Links: What is an alpha male in a relatio...
Dec 25, 2020•50 min•Ep. 3
Today we discuss the best places to meet people, how to approach them, and fun dating ideas. While many people use online dating apps, there are some real benefits to meeting someone in person, however one should be tactful based on venue and place. Then we move on to ways for approaching people beyond just pick up lines. We will discuss conversational openers and ways to find common ground so your approach can start forming a connection. And that will lead us into dating ideas so you can choose...
Dec 19, 2020•1 hr 8 min•Ep. 2
This is our first podcast and so we wanted to introduce ourselves, talk about our experience as educators and volunteers, and share a bit about where we came from and how we met. Then we discuss what Ethical Seduction is and how it can benefit and empower people for finding partners and living the lifestyle you want. Because sex and relationship education is fun to explore together!
Dec 14, 2020•1 hr•Ep. 1
