Ethical Seduction will be taking a break for the next season. We want to step back and re-analyze our focus and so that the content we provide you really helps give you a direct path for finding the partners you want in your life - be that for casual sex, romantic interests, or simply to be around better matched people! This episode explains what you can expect when we return in the fall. --------------------------------------- Let’s develop your personalized Attraction Plan! It starts with a fr...
Mar 27, 2023•6 min•Ep. 84
Just about everyone has some experience about being misled or tricked because the other person they met wasn’t honest or upfront about who they were or what they wanted. People lie about their appearances, age, what they want, how they feel, and what their intentions actually are! At the very least this can waste your time and drain your emotional energy, but we all know it can get much worse than that! This episode will give you specific things to look for in order to spot when someone is lying...
Mar 13, 2023•49 min•Ep. 83
Everyone has wants and needs which is why this whole Ethical Seduction Podcast was created. Specifically, to help you meet and connect with the people you are attracted to! However once you know what it is that you want, how do you go about getting it? Well don’t worry because we walk you through our simple 2-step process for asking for what you want and getting it! ------------------------------------------------------------------- Let’s develop your personalized Attraction Plan ! It starts wit...
Feb 27, 2023•43 min•Ep. 82
Relationships need to change over time. But how can you do this successfully once that relationship is established? When you make changes, it is always risky, but there are some ways you can manage those risks and have better, more successful communication with your partners. Steve and Brandie started out romantically, then had to “pull it back” to a friendship, but then continued to develop the closeness and intimacy. This show has Brandie and Steven sharing how they made these changes together...
Feb 13, 2023•45 min•Ep. 81
While most people have heard the advice that being intriguing or a little mysterious is super attractive, most people don’t know how to playfully do this with their interactions. Or worse, they force it and it comes across as being disingenuous and actually turns people off. So this episode is a case study or analysis of how Steven and Brandie play and interact sexually. You will get to hear some examples of things that on the surface sound contradictory, but we will explain what’s going on and ...
Jan 30, 2023•39 min•Ep. 80
Intimacy is that feeling we get where we feel connected, validated, and safe. Learning how to be more intimate with partners can be difficult for many of us, however it is probably the most important thing we can learn in order to form deeper connections. In this episode intimacy coach Kim Holden teaches us: How we can safely open ourselves up to other partners. How we can encourage others to open and share themselves with us. How to handle any romantic or sexual “fear of intimacy” you may exper...
Jan 16, 2023•1 hr 18 min•Ep. 79
There are several specific ways to generate feelings of attraction in other people. If you flip these switches, they will be drawn to you! However if you approach and communicate poorly, such as bragging about how awesome you are, you will accidentally turn people off. This episode will give you the best technique for creating attraction and explain the difference between what works and what does not. By the end of the podcast you will know what to do and what to avoid when flirting and getting ...
Jan 02, 2023•31 min•Ep. 78
Nothing helps us understand how attraction works better than examining the bad boy / bad girl attraction styles. We examine what badass traits are attractive and turn us on, as well as noticing which aspect are negative turn-offs! By separating these out and only incorporating the positive ones, you can make yourself much more attractive to those around you. ------------ Get your free Guide to Connecting Conversations Let’s develop your customized Attraction Plan , so you can start attracting th...
Dec 19, 2022•30 min•Ep. 77
BDSM scene-negotiation has a general set of questions that you and your partner should discuss before choosing to play together. But did you know you can apply a lot of this process to regular conversations to help make them much more personal and connecting? This episode starts with an overview of BDSM scene-negotiation, but then gives you 5 tips you can apply to your flirtatious conversations to help generate excitement and enthusiasm in your partner. Your conversations will become deeper, mor...
Dec 05, 2022•36 min•Ep. 76
With dating and relationships, competition is real. However there is a healthy, positive way to approach competition that will easily help you stand out from the crowd, boost your attractiveness, and keep you in the forefront of the person’s mind. This episode will help: Reduce fears you may have dealing with competition. Teach you a method for growing and standing out in competitive environments. Allow you to focus, stay present, and enjoy the person you are with. Because while competition is r...
Nov 21, 2022•31 min•Ep. 75
We all have our own unique quirks about us, but we don’t usually think of our quirks as something we can use to attract other people! However the fact is, if we want to stand out from the crowd, it’s our quirks, uniqueness, and authenticity that will really amp up how attractive we are perceived as being. Here we teach you how to leverage your own quirks so you can press the other person’s attraction buttons! ------------ Download your FREE Guide to Connecting Conversations Want way better resul...
Nov 07, 2022•44 min•Ep. 74
People often give dating advice saying “just be confident”, but they never tell you HOW to do this! The secret is learning to take small risks, knowing that if you make a mistake, you can admit it and not be worried about it. So this episode teaches you: What confidence is and ways you can develop your own. How to recognize inaccurate beliefs and change or refine them. How to deal with mistakes and find the opportunities in them. And most importantly, how to be less worried about the opinions of...
Oct 24, 2022•50 min•Ep. 73
What can you learn from a kink/bdsm party? This episode is about breaking out of our routines, experiencing something new, and stealing ideas that will help us be more authentic and stand out from the crowd - the key things that press our attraction/desire buttons! Education is a HUGE focal point for the Kink Community and all of us who host the Ethical Seduction podcast feel like we have personally learned so much about social skills, flirting, attraction, and authenticity from the Kink Communi...
Oct 10, 2022•35 min•Ep. 72
When two people meet up or go out on a date, they are often searching to find common interests. But more importantly, they are usually looking for that special connecting thing they want to team up and explore together. This podcast episode helps walk you through ways to make this a fun, connected conversation, where you figure out what you are both interested in exploring together. Because once you have this figured out, you will both be excited to soon be meeting up for that next date. Convers...
Sep 26, 2022•28 min•Ep. 71
If you are ever going to have the sexual or romantic relationships that you want, you have to figure out how to express your desires. In this episode we cover several different ways to not only show that you are interested in someone, but to do so in ways that are attractive. ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting. For more ideas to improve your flirting skills, check out www.ethicalseduction.com...
Sep 12, 2022•39 min•Ep. 70
Most people complain about dating and how hard it is. Perhaps this is because what we often hope will happen is not representative of how flirting, dating, and connecting actually work. In this episode we have a round-table discussion to figure out realistic expectations to have around dating, in the hopes that this makes the process easier and more enjoyable for us all. You can download our free Guide to Connecting Conversations at www.ethicalseduction.com ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authe...
Aug 29, 2022•45 min•Ep. 69
Kimberly has hit the dating scene and been trying out, comparing, and using the latest dating apps. Here we will discuss the differences between the top dating apps, plus cover what approaches work best for each one. This way you can choose and focus on the one that best suits your dating style. Plus we share some tips for creating your dating app profile. Dating Apps we reviewed: #1 Feeld: https://feeld.co/ #2 Tinder: https://tinder.com/ #3 OkCupid: https://www.okcupid.com/ #4 Bumble: https://b...
Aug 15, 2022•43 min•Ep. 68
This is part 2 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 covered the validation portion and this episode, Part 2, focuses on the process called “Qualification”. Qualification is a term for determining if someone is worthy of you. The dangers are that poorly done qualification can lead to manipulation, while well done qualification can act as a filter to make sure you match up with people who share similar values, wants, desires, and goals. ...
Aug 01, 2022•48 min•Ep. 67
This is part 1 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 focuses specifically on the validation process. We all want others to value and appreciate us, but it’s got to be done for legitimate reasons or else it feels manipulative and creepy. This episode focuses on how you can use validation in a positive way to help strengthen trust and increase attraction, as well as how to avoid the pitfalls that could be pushing people away from you. ---...
Jul 18, 2022•39 min•Ep. 66
In this episode we will show you how mistakes, accidents, and problems that arise can turn out to be something positive, helping to establish trust and strengthen your relationship. We will give you tips for figuring out what to do in these critical moments, so you can correct the issue and demonstrate that you can be counted on! Knowing how to handle situations that come up can alleviate worry, build your confidence, and allow you to go for the things in life you really want! ------------ Ethic...
Jul 04, 2022•29 min•Ep. 65
This episode explores everything related to touch and physical contact for when you are on a date. What signs should you look for before you reach for their hand? When should you make the first move and what do different forms of touch imply? And how exactly does one escalate that physical contact into something more sexual? We cover all these aspects and more, using consent as our guide for making sure your first moments are positive and memorable for all the right reasons! ------------ Ethical...
Jun 20, 2022•42 min•Ep. 64
In this episode we cover multiple things you can do to help attract other people so they approach you, so you become more approachable! Before you start any conversations, we want those around you to notice who you are, to feel a sense of curiosity, and to want to get to know you better! This way you can have options, opportunities and choices for attracting the people you find interesting. Making yourself more approachable is not as hard as most people think and these flirting tips will help yo...
Jun 06, 2022•54 min•Ep. 63
Eva and Brandie take over this episode and lead us on a journey of sexy play ideas! They cover 26 easy and fun ways you can be a more interesting, playful lover in bed, AND be set up up for making real intimate connections. Because flirting and seduction are not just about getting into the bedroom, but also about being good, fun, and exploratory when your pants are off! ------------ Want to be able to flirt and connect easily? Check out www.ethicalseduction.com...
May 23, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 62
In this episode we cover three big flirting mistakes that everyone should avoid, yet somehow these are super common and tend to plague and cripple people constantly. Accidentally misrepresenting yourself, being perceived as creepy, or getting excited and trying to make things happen too quickly can all cause you to get shut down before you’ve even had a chance to present yourself. So we explain what’s going on with each of these, what to avoid, and the positive flip side that serves as your guid...
May 09, 2022•45 min•Ep. 61
This episode tackles the question of what should come first, Sex or Romance? Many people have opinions on how chemistry, or sexual attraction, should fit in with compatibility, but is there a real answer to how you should do this? We think so but it also depends on what exactly you are after and it’s going to differ from person to person. Eva leads our discussion to help you figure out what is best for your in your person situation: Chemistry (sexual attraction) or Compatibility (romantic attrac...
Apr 25, 2022•46 min•Ep. 60
Everyone wants to please their partners sexually and knowing how to give good head is a must! Blow jobs, cunnilingus, and rimming (yes rimming!) all have some things you need to learn if you are going to do these well to arouse your partner! Plus many people have questions about what is sanitary or what one may be expected to do when giving head. (“Do you spit or swallow?”) Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to create the sex and relationships you want! References: Article from The Advocate “24 ...
Apr 11, 2022•1 hr 2 min•Ep. 59
We review the book called “ The Five Flirting Styles: Use the Science of Flirting to Attract the Love You Really Want” by Author Jeffrey Hall. The author has created labels and a framework for better understanding flirting styles, which is bound to help listeners better understand themselves and those they interact with. However the podcasters also question the accuracy and hetronormitized assumptions presented in the book. While the five flirting styles presented are worth learning, so is the d...
Mar 28, 2022•43 min•Ep. 58
Those in the sex work business see and learn things about sex, seduction, human nature, and intimacy that many of us outside the adult business are not privy to see. So we asked our friend Ivy Minxxx, who is thriving in the adult industry and does wide variety of “sex work”, to share her thoughts and sexy experience to help us with our own flirting, seduction, relationships, and sex lives. Check out www.ethicalseduction.com to create the sex and relationships you want. Ivy Minxxx Links: Linktr.e...
Mar 14, 2022•1 hr 6 min•Ep. 57
Everyone has certain needs and so there is definitely a positive and healthy place for getting our needs met. The flip side can be when someone comes along and asks you to give more of yourself than you really want - which doesn’t feel good at all. So where is the balance and how can we get our own needs met without accidentally dumping too much on those around us? In this episode we will discuss neediness, what’s okay and what is not, but we will also take a deep dive into things you do right n...
Feb 28, 2022•43 min•Ep. 56
We explore some best practices for Masturbation and Self Love. We talk about the health benefits, ways to become more comfortable with masturbating, and we suggest new things for you to try! Set time aside, experiment with touch and sensation, practice new techniques and try one of the toys we suggest. Fantasize, edge, tease, and get yourself off! Masturbation is good for your body, your mind, your health, and it feels great too! Beside listening to the show, you can learn more about creating th...
Feb 14, 2022•47 min•Ep. 55
