This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men , on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extre...
Apr 02, 2015•1 hr 8 min
A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time! They also have a first time buyer bonus that lets you cho...
Feb 12, 2015•44 min
Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon , a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter Enter code "DARKAGE" at registration for 10 bucks off! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provi...
Jan 15, 2015•36 min
Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset , which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March. Click Below To Buy On Amazon Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most...
Jan 06, 2015•6 min
This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show. See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is...
Dec 21, 2014•44 min
Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT ...
Dec 09, 2014•36 min
This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset , as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expansion ...
Nov 26, 2014•1 hr 9 min
A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually. This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TO...
Nov 23, 2014•27 min
Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if you pre...
Nov 21, 2014•47 min
A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shara are ...
Jun 29, 2014•38 min
We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds. This episode is available as both episode 61 of our show and episode 161 of Life On The Swingset. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook -Please "LIKE" Life On The Swingset Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shippi...
Jun 11, 2014•1 hr 12 min
We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very soon. Overall this episode was just a light, fun way to get back to recording. It's great to be back! Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook -Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, t...
May 29, 2014•35 min
A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing the kink back. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook -Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: Se...
Jan 13, 2014•37 min
Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxers who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms because of them. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook -Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surp...
Dec 23, 2013•53 min
Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publ...
Nov 24, 2013•51 min
Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetish publ...
Nov 10, 2013•55 min
Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in. In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tuned f...
Nov 02, 2013•40 min
We discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The Sexual Dark Age Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com...
Dec 04, 2012•1 hr 9 min
Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being embarassed, thoughts for a girl whose younger brother asked for a pair of her panties to keep, and the possibliity of having vaginal orgasms for the first time by doing your kegel exercises so you can clamp down on your playmate. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The Sexual ...
Sep 24, 2012•41 min
Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :) All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Faceboo...
Sep 14, 2012•53 min
We begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appe...
Sep 05, 2012•44 min
We talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup. Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-ass ti...
Aug 26, 2012•44 min
We review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt. All the sex-positi...
Aug 18, 2012•1 hr
Topics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you. This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to be s...
Aug 08, 2012•33 min
Shara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success. Show Links: Peyronie's Disease Info from NIH Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDa...
Aug 02, 2012•40 min
Listener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a phone sex operator. In an effort to cut down on production time, we're releasing a virtually un-edited episode this time. Let us know what you think :) Show Links: How to Become A Phone Sex Operator Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any it...
Jul 24, 2012•52 min
Kink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies. Show Links: Printable BDSM Checklist Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above) Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fields Spons...
Mar 31, 2012•48 min
Listener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn't done anything wrong. Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, thre...
Mar 21, 2012•36 min
We talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com All images re-posted with permission from After Dinner Party. For the original post plus lots of educational material on t...
Feb 23, 2012•30 min
As we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission. We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows , J.V.'s band from back in the day. Show Links: Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life Tree of Shadows online Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com , enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three...
Jan 18, 2012•39 min
