This episode explores Stoicism, an ancient philosophy that offers powerful tools for mental health and emotional resilience, especially for highly sensitive people (HSP). Key concepts like the Dichotomy of Control and the cardinal virtues of wisdom, courage, justice, and temperance help us focus on what we can control and let go of what we can’t. Through practices like negative visualization, voluntary discomfort, and mindful responses, Stoicism teaches us to face mental health challenges with s...
Nov 12, 2023•47 min•Season 6Ep. 309
Are control issues impacting your mental health? For Highly Sensitive People, recognizing the illusion of control and focusing on self-change is transformative. By examining personality disorders philosophically, we uncover reflections of our own tendencies and behaviors. Setting boundaries and letting go of control are essential steps toward healthier relationships and personal empowerment. In this episode, explore vital concepts and strategies for enhancing mental health and personal growth. T...
Nov 05, 2023•27 min•Season 6Ep. 308
A special collaboration episode with Gill Tietz of Sober Powered Media and Michael Unbroken of Think Unbroken Podcast to delve deep into the topic of resilience. Michael, a survivor, entrepreneur, and coach, shares his incredible story of transformation, emphasizing the necessity of resilience in navigating through adversity and achieving personal growth. Jill brings her background as a former biochemist and part-time chemistry professor, adding depth to the discussion with her insights on addic...
Oct 29, 2023•1 hr 19 min•Season 6Ep. 307
What if every setback you face could lead to incredible personal growth? Our lives are filled with challenges, but these can be opportunities for transformation. Learn how experiences like divorce, road rage, and even bad haircuts can teach resilience, patience, and acceptance. This discussion highlights the importance of turning adversities into growth opportunities, tailored for HSPs and those on a mental health journey, with expert insights into harnessing life's struggles for personal develo...
Oct 23, 2023•24 min•Season 6Ep. 306
In this episode, we discuss navigating life's most challenging moments. Many feel unprepared for adulthood and its complexities, but it's vital to realize that we all have the capacity to grow and learn. Today's focus is not on basic life skills but on confronting life's adversities with emotional intelligence and coping strategies, emphasizing the importance of boundaries, perspective, integrity, and discernment. The grieving process and its stages are explored, highlighting the necessity of se...
Oct 15, 2023•41 min•Season 6Ep. 305
In this episode, we delve deep into the shifting paradigms of resilience and modern parenting. As societal ideals evolve, many grapple with irrational beliefs, often rooted in an "idealized should" that rebels against the harsh realities of life. But is this shielding mentality beneficial, especially when raising our future generation? We juxtapose the permissive parenting styles of today with the pressing need for mental fortitude. Are we unknowingly depriving our youth of learning to face life...
Oct 08, 2023•47 min•Season 6Ep. 304
Are you aware of how your family history impacts your mental health? Exploring generational trauma through compassionate understanding of family histories can lead to profound personal growth and resilience. Uncovering hidden traumas and embracing ancestral healing not only enhances mental health but also fosters a deeper connection to your roots. Join us as we delve into these themes with expert insights, offering strategies to break cycles of pain and embrace your intuitive self. Resources: Do...
Oct 01, 2023•35 min•Season 6Ep. 303
In this insightful conversation, we dive deep into the world of painting, healing, and the enduring influence of Bob Ross with Bram Bevins. Bram shares his journey from experiencing childhood trauma to discovering solace and self-expression through painting, illustrating the profound impact that the medium has had on his mental well-being. We explore the legacy of Bob Ross and how his unique approach to teaching art has been a catalyst for healing for many, like Bram's friends and students , who...
Sep 24, 2023•29 min•Season 6Ep. 302
Today we explore the complex and insidious world of gaslighting, a form of psychological manipulation that distorts your perception of reality and undermines self-trust and eroded it's victims mental health. We dive deep into the mechanics of how gaslighting operates, as well as how this emotional abuse can make you doubt your senses, experiences, and even your sanity. Drawing from both psychological theories and real-life stories, we discuss the importance of reality testing and why it's crucia...
Sep 17, 2023•31 min•Season 6Ep. 301
In today's episode, we delve into the 8 Pillars of Healthy Relationship Boundaries you should swear by for better mental health! We begin with the power of saying 'No' when you mean it, maintaining your individuality in relationships, not sweeping issues under the rug, and the art of respectful self-removal. We also dive into embracing differences, owning your side of the street, making wise—not destructive—sacrifices, and the importance of insisting on resolution. Tune in to discover how these ...
Sep 10, 2023•31 min•Season 6Ep. 300
You ever feel like you're a human battery whose juice is always going into everyone else's devices, but no one ever recharges you? You're not alone! This episode explores why we often find ourselves drained, obsessing over others at the expense of our well-being. Inspired by Melody Beattie's take on codependency, from her book; The Language of Letting Go, we’ll dive into the significance of owning our energy and practical ways to stop leaking it indiscriminately. Learn how establishing healthy b...
Sep 03, 2023•22 min•Season 6Ep. 299
Today we delve into the transformative concept of "mattering" as an essential component for personal well-being and a safeguard against destructive emotional states. It's essential to understand your inherent worth and the importance of setting emotional boundaries for mental health. Drawing on two decades of psychotherapy experience, I offer a holistic approach to healing for HSPs. From understanding the relativity of pain and setting emotional boundaries, to mastering what is termed as 'soul c...
Aug 27, 2023•56 min•Season 6Ep. 298
Dive into an intimate conversation with Amber Sears as she shares her transformative journey from breast augmentation to breast implant illness, to explant surgery and finally, self-reclamation. Explore the emotional depths of societal pressures, self-worth, and the power of how we perceive ourselves. Discover why real confidence isn't skin deep, and the profound lessons Amber learned about relationships, identity, and inner strength. Join us for this heart-rending episode that touches on self-l...
Aug 20, 2023•48 min•Season 6Ep. 297
Download the FREE Morning Routine PDF here: https://www.emotionalbadass.com/morning Mental Health Starts the moment you wake up. From the importance of setting a positive tone, avoiding the usual phone scroll, embracing genuine connections, to simple steps like smiling and reciting affirmations, we highlight the significance of starting the day right. We'll also explore the crucial aspects of hydration after waking up and the ongoing debate about breakfast, emphasizing the importance of listenin...
Aug 13, 2023•28 min•Season 6Ep. 296
In this episode, we introduce an existential exercise called "Moving Through the Ages," a deep, reflective journey through one's life stages, aimed at enhancing self-understanding and mental health awareness. Starting from birth, this exercise guides participants through childhood, adolescence, and adulthood, projecting even into the future ages they have yet to experience. Don’t overthink the exercise; instead, focus on the exploration, experiencing each stage of life through memory or imaginat...
Aug 06, 2023•24 min•Season 6Ep. 295
Join me on this emotional journey as I pay tribute to the late Sinead O'Connor and her soul-stirring song, 'Nothing Compares to You.' In this episode, I delve into my personal experiences of grief and abandonment, reflecting on how O'Connor's poignant ballad has been a beacon during the absence of my father. As an HSP, I found a deep connection to the lyrics, which guided me through intricate emotions and led to profound mental health insights. Tune in to explore the transformative power of musi...
Jul 30, 2023•32 min•Season 6Ep. 294
Do you view your sensitivity as a burden? Learn how recognizing the beauty and strength of being a Highly Sensitive Person can revolutionize your mental health and healing journey. This conversation delves into the shortcomings of conventional therapy and the necessity of passionate, intuitive support for trauma recovery. Gabby's story showcases the importance of self-direction and finding the right mental health resources. Insights guide HSPs towards understanding their unique strengths and fos...
Jul 23, 2023•42 min•Season 6Ep. 293
Do you find yourself constantly drained by misplaced hope? In this episode, we explore the concept of Hope, delving into the transformative power in overcoming life's challenges. We discuss the importance of conscious hope management, directing it towards self-growth and healing, rather than letting it drain into life's black holes. We highlight how lessons learned from hard times fuel mental health and personal growth, and how leveraging technology can help connect like-minded individuals acros...
Jul 16, 2023•29 min•Season 6Ep. 292
In this episode I share my deeply personal experiences of domestic abuse, aiming to shed light on the complexities and red flags of such relationships within a mental health context. Drawing from both my own journey and the collective experiences of my clients, I highlight the nuanced indicators of abuse, ranging from intense early relationship progression to controlling behaviors and isolation tactics. Throughout the narrative, I emphasize the inherent dangers of manipulation and the importance...
Jul 09, 2023•46 min•Season 6Ep. 291
In this episode, we journey through the winding landscape of dating, love, and relationships. How can you transform your dating patterns for better mental health? Unraveling myths, reframing misconceptions, and highlighting the importance of self-love. Tune in as we discuss the power of positive thinking and the law of attraction, explore how to redefine rejection, and learn to approach dating with boldness and authenticity. Discover a pragmatic perspective on love that balances emotions and pra...
Jul 02, 2023•52 min•Season 6Ep. 290
Today, we explore the importance of critical thinking and decision-making in everyday life, essential components of maintaining mental health. We discuss the former college experience, which fostered resilience and a strong anti-victim mentality, crucial for mental health development. There is evidence that the current emphasis on comfort and feelings in colleges has swung the pendulum too far, hindering personal growth and emotional maturation in the realm of mental health. I share a powerful s...
Jun 25, 2023•35 min•Season 6Ep. 289
In this episode, we delve into the often misunderstood world of highly sensitive men within the mental health spectrum. Inspired by my mentor, Dr. Barbara Herlihy, a pioneer of feminist theory in psychology, we explore how this theory benefits not only women but also men, particularly those who are highly sensitive. Amidst the current climate of women's empowerment, I express concerns about the marginalization of men in discussions of mental health, drawing from personal experiences and highligh...
Jun 18, 2023•15 min•Season 6Ep. 288
In the spirit of 'The Don't List,' today we delve into 19 straightforward methods to attract misery into your mental health, from giving in to fear and overanalyzing everything, to letting politics consume your mental well-being. Rather than fostering positivity and fulfillment, this episode dives deep into practices that breed misery in your mental health journey, such as self-sabotage and a penchant for low-vibrational emotions. The episode concludes with a crucial reminder that life is a seri...
Jun 11, 2023•23 min•Season 6Ep. 287
Today we dive into the concept of 'heart-centered' living and its role in healing, especially for those with traumatic histories. Do you struggle with feeling disconnected from your body and emotions as a Highly Sensitive Person? Gain insights that can help HSPs reconnect with their bodies and foster better mental health. Learn how trauma and tension from childhood can lead to disembodiment and discover mindfulness techniques to heal and cultivate peace. Embrace heart-centeredness and unlock a c...
Jun 04, 2023•30 min•Season 6Ep. 286
Today we focus on 'detaching with love' a strategy for self-improvement and better relationships. It emphasizes mindfulness to break unhelpful patterns, self-reflection for emotional understanding, questioning attachments for emotional clarity, and setting boundaries to avoid self-sabotage. Although challenging, mastering this practice leads to personal growth, healthier relationships, and improved emotional intelligence. Are you an HSP struggling with unhealthy attachments? Learn the power of "...
May 28, 2023•27 min•Season 6Ep. 285
Are you struggling with detachment and personal growth? Today we navigate through the intricacies of personal transformation, self-discovery, and the human identity. I discuss my personal journey through changing my name and the profound impact it had on my self-perception, opening a gateway to numerous life lessons. From coping with the ridicule and judgement of others, dealing with repressed memories, and experiencing relentless internal battles, to the repeated process of taking on new names ...
May 21, 2023•29 min•Season 6Ep. 284
Are you grappling with Mother's Day emotions? We navigate the complexities of relationships, particularly the mother-child dynamic. We delve into personal experiences and professional insights, spotlighting the emotional minefield of Mother's Day and discussing healing our mental health through the lens of Maya Angelou's 'Letter to My Daughter.' Whether you've had to sever ties with a parent or are grappling with your own decision not to become a parent, we provide a space to explore the pain, h...
May 14, 2023•21 min•Season 6Ep. 283
In today's episode, we delve into a powerful song that promotes healing and self-discovery, particularly for deeply emotional individuals, trauma survivors, and highly sensitive people; 'Heavy' by Bird Talkers We discuss the importance of moving beyond the mental realm and embracing experience as a means to heal, addressing the roots of loneliness, and the necessity of becoming our own best friends. The episode also covers the significance of acknowledging our dark sides, understanding the human...
May 09, 2023•43 min•Season 6Ep. 282
Today I'm discussing the importance of play in our lives and its role in mental health. Despite living in an information age, the healing we seek is often found in doing rather than thinking. Embracing playfulness and silliness is not only a way to heal a fried nervous system, but it also helps us transition from a survival mindset to a thriving one. So let's dive into why play matters and how it can be a vital part of your mental health journey. Are you struggling with anxiety and depression? D...
Apr 30, 2023•27 min•Season 6Ep. 281
This week we explore the dangers of victim mentality in today's society. As a mental health advocate, I've seen the impact of the philosophy of victimhood and how it can leave us feeling powerless and stuck. Through this episode, we will dive into the role of mindfulness in retraining our brains to offer a different perspective, cultivating resilience, and empowering ourselves to overcome obstacles and challenges. I'll also discus the widely debated topic of trigger warnings and how good intenti...
Apr 23, 2023•44 min•Season 6Ep. 280
