There’s a big question that many people ask themselves: do I need help healing? Do I need therapy, a coach, a massage therapist, meds, or a support group? These are difficult questions to answer because of the word "need." In actuality, all we really need is air to breathe, water to hydrate, food, shelter, and some touch. A better question to ask is, am I surviving or thriving? This question has a completely different vibration that opens up the possibility of evaluating where we are on our jour...
Apr 16, 2023•36 min•Season 6Ep. 279
Today I reflect on why we use the term "rude awakening" and how it relates to self-development and mental health. As someone who teaches and practices self-development and spiritual betterment, I can attest that my own awakenings have felt rude. Awakenings are not just one singular moment of realization but rather a series of uncomfortable layers that we expand upon. We resist change, and our ego fights against the new knowledge that comes with an awakening. I share my personal experiences with ...
Apr 09, 2023•21 min•Season 6Ep. 278
As human beings, we are highly impressionable creatures, easily influenced by our environment and upbringing. Our childhood experiences and the messages we receive over time program us, shaping our self-talk and internal conversation. We often develop a critical internal voice that tends to highlight our flaws and mistakes, rather than offering us compassion and support. Today, let's do some positive reframing of our internal dialogue so we can attract a happier mindset. Are you tired of the con...
Mar 26, 2023•33 min•Season 6Ep. 276
On today's episode we will be discussing the impact of rageful parenting on our lives. While most parent strive to provide a safe and nurturing environment, some parents are emotionally abusive and react with anger, frustration, and rage at their children. This creates a hostile home environment that leaves a lasting impact on a childs emotional well-being. In this episode, we will explore the effects of rageful parenting, from low self-esteem to difficulty with relationships, and provide practi...
Mar 19, 2023•52 min•Season 6Ep. 275
Here are 9 simple tools and strategies to help unlock our focus and creativity. By utilizing these as often as we can allow focusing to become a habit, and make an ironic shift from our go-go culture to the realization that slow is the secret fast. Are the demands of modern life impacting your focus and mental health? Discover practical tips to navigate attention issues exacerbated by technology and parenting pressures. Learn how slowing down, practicing gratitude, and mindful meditation can hel...
Mar 12, 2023•43 min•Season 6Ep. 274
I learned about abortion through my experience of growing up in a Catholic society in New Orleans and listening to the conversations around me. Abortion is a complex issue that should be approached with an open mind and an open heart. People must be cautious of making assumptions and oversimplifying the issue, as well as falling into the "tribalism" of choosing one side or the other. It is important to explore all options without feeling pressure or shame and become your own authority figure. Ca...
Mar 05, 2023•1 hr 8 min•Season 6Ep. 273
Andrea Dunlop embarks on a journey to unravel the mystery of Munchausen by Proxy and help others affected by this emotionally-rewarding and deadly form of child abuse, which has significant mental health implications. What drives a caregiver to fabricate or induce illness in a child? Munchausen Syndrome by Proxy (MSBP) is a disturbing form of child abuse that often goes unnoticed, impacting the mental health of its victims in profound ways. In this episode, we uncover the signs, psychological im...
Feb 26, 2023•1 hr 2 min•Season 6Ep. 272
Love yourself to unlock your freedom, peace, light, and joy. Navigating relationships with narcissistic or low-empathy parents can be complex for highly sensitive individuals, often leaving them feeling anxious or self-doubting. Embracing the reality of one’s upbringing and committing to self-love and healing can foster resilience and improve mental health, setting the stage for inner peace and healthier connections in life. I have learned an important lesson from my clients about parenting and ...
Feb 19, 2023•33 min•Season 6Ep. 271
With 17 years of experience in the field of psychotherapy, I've witnessed my clients' strength and resilience while learning the power of connection, intuition and humor in overcoming trauma. What role does humor play in healing trauma and improving mental health? Uncover the transformative power of humor and human connections for trauma survivors and HSPs, with insights from Nikki Eisenhauer's extensive experience in mental health. Highly Sensitive People will find valuable lessons on how humor...
Feb 12, 2023•33 min•Season 6Ep. 270
Existentialism is a philosophical framework that emphasizes personal choice and the creation of meaning in life. This belief is centered around the idea of freedom of choice, that we have the power to make choices in life, regardless of our circumstances. It also involves rejecting the victim mentality, taking control of our lives and making choices that positively impact us. Victor Frankel, a renowned psychiatrist, explored the idea of finding meaning in life through his book, "Man's Search for...
Feb 05, 2023•26 min•Season 6Ep. 269
In this weeks show, we welcome new listeners and will explore various mental health terms used on the show, specifically focusing on Highly Sensitive People (HSP) and ways to understand, embrace, and love our highly sensitive selves. I will discuss topics such as sensory sensitivity, emotional and mental sensitivity, and theories about the cause of high sensitivity. I will also differentiate between introverts and extroverts, and how they recharge and get their energy. Additionally, I will expla...
Jan 29, 2023•39 min•Season 6Ep. 268
Have you ever felt like you were in a toxic relationship but couldn't escape? Do you feel like you're in a situation you can't see a way out of? How can understanding manipulation enhance your mental health? In this week's episode I share part 2 of my story of breaking free from an abusive marriage. This is a story of strength and resilience, and learning to trust myself and my intuition for my mental health. I teach through how to take back our power in the face of manipulative, abusive, and na...
Jan 22, 2023•26 min•Season 5Ep. 267
After experiencing years of manipulation and abuse, I learned how to begin decoding manipulation. As a highly-sensitive teenager I was on a desperate journey to break free and reclaim my life, learning the hard way that true freedom requires trusting my intuition and honoring my inner voice. Why is trusting your intuition critical for recovery? This episode dives into the role of intuition in healing, emphasizing how crucial it is for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) and survivors of abuse. Nikki...
Jan 14, 2023•47 min•Season 5Ep. 266
Here's what I cover with Casey McGuire Davidson in this episode: 1. How did Casey McGuire Davidson's journey to sobriety teach her to change her relationship with alcohol, life, and love? 2. What is the impact of alcohol on American culture and how can it be addressed? 3. What drove Casey McGuire Davidson to make the decision to become sober, and how can her story help others redefine their relationship to alcohol? Casey McGuire Davidson is a life coach and sobriety coach for busy women. She hos...
Jan 08, 2023•1 hr 33 min•Season 6Ep. 265
On today's episode, I'm discussing the concept of dry January and sobriety, and how it can help you conquer unhealthy habits. This is an actionable tip to get real and honest about the role that alcohol plays on your body, mind, and mental health. Dry January is an opportunity to take on a challenge and find your true self, free of alcohol's crutch, and break addiction and unhealth habits. It gives us a framework, a community, and a challenge. I'm passionate about this idea and I will outline, i...
Jan 01, 2023•28 min•Season 6Ep. 264
Do you often feel overwhelmed by your sensitivity and emotional triggers? As an HSP, recognizing and addressing your inner child can lead to profound healing. Learn self-soothing techniques and observe your bodily responses to gain better control over your mental health. We share insights on how to balance mindfulness with practical planning, helping you stay present and reduce anxiety about the future. Tune in to discover effective strategies for emotional regulation and personal growth. If you...
Dec 25, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 263
It's a common dilemma for empaths, HSPs, survivors, and seekers alike: how can intuition be used as an exercise for our healing and growth? We often feel stuck between head knowledge and the unknown, and it's difficult to decipher emotion and our response to it. Today, I'm offering you an invitation. I'm guiding you through an exercise that I like to call The Intuitive Mind-Body Exercise - an exercise that will help you strengthen your relationship with yourself and strengthen your confidence in...
Dec 18, 2022•35 min•Season 5Ep. 262
A meditation for sleep. This is a meditation series continuation from The Mermaid Meditation , and I know many of you really liked it--it was shared so much that many new listeners found me because of that meditation so, this is the next in the series. Dive into this sleep meditation designed for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) and their inner child. Our gentle guidance helps you create a tranquil space for deep relaxation. With mindful breathing techniques and soothing imagery, you'll find comf...
Dec 11, 2022•19 min•Season 5Ep. 261
This episode is a follow up and part 2 to last weeks episode . Today we further explore Drama and go over some practical tips that can help us identify drama and suicidal thought. Discover how to reframe your self-talk, build self-discipline, and prioritize intuition for better mental health. We provide essential advice for highly sensitive people (HSP) to transform their inner dialogue and reduce drama. Find out how to cultivate a supportive network and engage in hobbies that uplift your spirit...
Dec 04, 2022•38 min•Season 5Ep. 260
Today I'm going to define and differentiate trauma, drama, and theatrics-- and I hope sharing my process of self discovery when it comes to the difference between these helps you see, understand, and ultimately guide yourself away from unnecessary drama and toward easier healing by better respecting your most precious recourses of time and energy. Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) often struggle with distinguishing life's unavoidable drama from unnecessary, self-created drama. Understanding this d...
Nov 27, 2022•52 min•Season 5Ep. 259
Do you find it challenging to manage your emotions as an HSP? Understanding and guiding your vibes can make a significant difference. Highly Sensitive People (HSPs) often perceive and respond to emotional and environmental vibrations deeply. We, as life coaches and psychotherapists, discuss how HSPs can become more aware of their vibes and use mindfulness to manage them. Learn how embracing self-care practices can transform negative energy into positive vibes, leading to improved mental health a...
Nov 23, 2022•54 min•Season 5Ep. 258
Today I'm discussing 3 ways music can be used as a tool for self-care. People often struggle with family relationships, personal growth, and loneliness. Music can be a great way to help us process our feelings and get to a place of acceptance. I'll be sharing some song lyrics that helped me through my own process of grief and healing. I hope you'll find it helpful too. What does it mean to establish boundaries as a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP)? Boundaries are crucial for mental health, yet high...
Nov 20, 2022•24 min•Season 5Ep. 257
Why being honest with yourself and taking responsibility for your own happiness is important in relationships. I discuss compatibility, red flags, "bumper car mentality" in dysfunctional relationships, and how to break these patterns. You will learn why being honest with yourself and taking responsibility for your own happiness is important in relationships, and how chemistry can paint red flags white. Do you find yourself in repetitive, unhealthy relationship cycles? Recognizing and healing our...
Nov 13, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 256
How to silence your inner critic and live a more fulfilling life. In this episode you will learn: 1. How the inner critic or inner bully can touch nearly every waking and sleeping moment of our lives. 2. How suicide is often suggested by the inner critic, and how this can be prevented. 3. How authenticity is everything, and how it is available for everyone. We provide practical tips for Highly Sensitive Persons (HSPs) to shut down self-criticism and embrace their strengths. Learn how mindfulness...
Nov 06, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 255
Nikki explores codependency, people pleasing, fault and blame vs. responsibility, the incest wound and secret breaking, grief, acceptance, guilt vs. shame, appropriate touch and giving ourselves whatever we need, healthy risk and permission to ask me anything. Are you struggling with the lingering effects of childhood abuse and seeking ways to heal? Healing from childhood abuse requires recognizing and overcoming codependent patterns, finding supportive relationships, and embracing the challengi...
Nov 01, 2022•24 min•Season 5Ep. 254
On Todays show I'm sitting down with Eric Zimmer from The One You Feed Podcast, where we discuss addiction, growth, and recovery. How can spiritual growth help you overcome addiction and trauma? In this episode, Eric Zimmer shares his incredible journey from being a homeless heroin addict to hosting a successful podcast and coaching business. Discover the power of spiritual habits, Zen practices, and the importance of supportive communities in recovery. We and Eric delve into the challenges of h...
Oct 23, 2022•47 min•Season 5Ep. 253
In this week's episode, Nikki breaks down the effects of stranger sexual abuse and ongoing sexual abuse by a care taker and gives guidance on how and where to focus healing in recovery. Learn to care for your inner and outer environment, create sanctuary, and consider the continuum of hyper sexuality to asexuality, and what to do with our abuse dreams. What are the key steps to reclaiming self-worth after childhood sexual abuse? At Emotional Badass, we explain that survivors must recognize their...
Oct 16, 2022•28 min•Season 5Ep. 252
In this week's episode, Nikki breaks down and uses illness as a guru in the quest to grow ourselves, heal, and shed what no longer serves. Explore the trappings of critical self talk influenced by what is happening in our bodies before we know our bodies are fighting an illness. Ever wonder why illness feels more overwhelming for you as a highly sensitive person? It’s not just in your head. HSPs often face added frustration and self-criticism during sickness, but acceptance and self-kindness can...
Oct 09, 2022•36 min•Season 5Ep. 251
Nikki chats with Crystal to discuss the need for discernment in healing relationships, marketing, pressure sales, the importance of trusting and acting from intuition, healing after falling into the web, subtle gas lighting and values misalignment. This episode may be of particular interest to therapists and coaches who see, feel, and help others through the discombobulation of subtle manipulation. Resources: Download the free Morning Routine PDF to learn our techniques to help conquer your day!...
Oct 04, 2022•53 min•Season 5Ep. 250
This week's episode is a story highlighting finding my voice, speaking up, racial tensions in Louisiana in the 90s, workplace family systems, work ethic, transmuting fear through experience. Is it challenging to speak up and assert yourself as a Highly Sensitive Person? We discuss the transformative power of finding your voice and overcoming people-pleasing tendencies. We share how early job experiences and personal connections with diverse individuals can help break down fears and foster person...
Oct 01, 2022•27 min•Season 5Ep. 249
