The Power Of A Better Question

us in this moment. We say that because our confidence is in your unchanging nature and your steadfast character, and we want to be more like you are. God. We want to be rooted and grounded in what lasts. So today, Lord, I thank you for a sustaining blessing over these men and women, a sustaining blessing over these boys and girls. We thank you that you are a creator and a keeper. So Lord, right now, I thank you that I'm in the palm of your hand. Right now, I thank you

that your grip is stronger than my resistance. God, I thank you that you're stronger at holding me than I am at letting go. And I thank you that you've got me right where you want me. I'm not behind, I'm not off schedule. I'm right where I need to be. I'm who I need to be. You didn't want to make me any different than you made me. There wasn't a missing worker on the assembly line on the day that you created me. Before I was born, you knew me.

You set me apart in my mother's womb. Everything that I'm missing is just an opportunity for a miracle. Every space in me is just somewhere for you to show off in my life. In my weakness, you are strong. You are a mighty God, a wonderful counselor, an everlasting father, and the Prince of peace. We call on your great name, Jesus. Your name is above every other name. Who you are is what we trust it, and we place our hope in you. In Jesus' name. Everybody who believes that name

is the name that matters. Shot a mad, come on, shot a mad awesome awes Well, we were singing the names of God. But let me just take a minute, and what's your name? Tell three people around you, Hi, my name is. What's your name? Just get to know him all right? In the chat? How are you? Where are you? Let me open this YouTube lane. All right, in the chat, who are you? Let me know in the chat, who are you? Somebody? Shout your name right

here at me, real quick, shout your legal name. I don't know you enough to have a nickname relationship yet and from all over the world. It's just it would amaze you. I don't want you to do it because it would be distracting. But if you saw all the people in the chat that are joining us for church today, it really is true. I didn't know God was literal when he said I'm going to stretch your boundaries, but he did. That's even beyond what we could have thought.

We built buildings all these many years for the church, and the Lord was like, that's great. The buildings are great. Build them. But what God is doing now in the year twenty twenty one is so far beyond the building. Come on. And what I love about it is it's not only it's not only people who watch online, but they worship, they give, they build. It's our extended family. Let's welcome our Epham all around the world. I learned that the Lord's ways are higher than mine. Have you

learned that? Yet? Sooner you learn that Man you're gonna waste less money, less time, less prayers asking God for stuff that if He gave it to you, you'd want to return it back to send her. I'm just trying to save you some time. That God's ways are better, better, better, better better. Yeah, all right, we got Emma, Chris Jane Steven. What an anointed name that it is with a V. He spelled it right, Steven, God, bless your mother and

blessed be the fruit of your mother's woman. Samantha from Malaysia. You see what I'm saying. From Malaysia. I never thought I would put a campus in Malaysia, but God did that. God is gonna do so much more through your life then, you know to ask him for right now, so be encouraged. We're getting ready. We're preparing our year end offering. It's called the year end offering, is called better this year better. That's the word God spoke to me. I'm like, Lord,

I can't tell him it's gonna get better. He said, that's not the point of it. The point is if it doesn't get better, they will. So. God is gonna increase you, make you stronger and wiser. He's gonna do that. He's doing that sometimes when you don't feel it. I noticed when I'm working out physically, the moments where I feel the weakest, I'm growing the most. Wonder is that true in the spirit? Me too? She said, I hope so so you had a bad week. I barely made

it in. I hope you're telling that truth. It was amazing though. So many you never know what somebody's going through right next to you. That's why I hate when y'all leave when I'm closing my sermon in prayer, when you slip out so you can get the lunch. It bothers me because you don't know that person on that road, what they came in carrying, and what God is lifting. One of our longtime volunteers, This is just one example.

One of our longtime volunteers in the Raleigh Durham area had just made it back to church last week, and afterwards, one of our campus pastors said, I you man, where have you been? And he said, well, I fell out for a little while, you know, but this week my son took his own life. But while that while we were worshiping, God spoke to me, is going to get better? Only in God's presence can you receive a truth like that. I didn't tell him that because that's not my place

to tell him that. I can't imagine what that feels like. But God can say that, and he does every single time we get together. How many of you are are better in some way or your family is better because of the ministry right here at Elevation. I mean, even if it was just one time, if it was just one time, God spoke to you. So the best thing we can do is to always invest in what God is using to feed us. There's no better place to invest.

So on the December twelfth, we set the date. Really it's now through the whole end of the year, but we'll be receiving into offering. We use it for expansion and outreach and all the great ministries. I'm looking at a couple dozen people in here who I know are Tithers. They give God always the first ten percent of what God gives them, not the leftovers, uh huh, not that congealed cranberry sauce nobody wanted to eat on Thanksgiving Day. They don't throw God the scraps, but they come to

God first and say, I trust you, You're my God. Systematically, so thousands begin doing that. During this time, many give above and beyond. That's what Holly and I. I didn't tell her the number God gave me yet, but it's it's I don't like it. It's kind of bigger than I wanted it, but I'm always glad that I did it. So it's a chance for you to seek God. That's the thing is for you to ask God, God, what would you have me to give? And there's envelopes and details,

but that's not my depart today. My role is to take this Bible and I'm gonna try to knock that devil off your shoulder that's been talking to your role. Let's see, this is a pretty big Bible. By swing it hard enough, maybe that devil leave you alone for a couple of minutes. All right, So thank you worship team. What an awesome video about the worship ministry. Huh, everybody, everybody grateful for God's presens Give God a shout of praise. All right, be seated, classes in session. This is a

lesson today. I've been threatening to teach this for a year. I keep playing with it, and God confirmed in several different ways that this was the word for today. So I'm very confident about that. I'm going to teach you on the subject the power of a better question, The power of a better question. I've been flirting with it for some time now, but today because our word is better. The prophet hag I asked a series of questions, who of you is left? Who saw the former house in

its glory? And then he asked how does it look to you? Now? He's asking questions. Do any of you know the first question in the Bible? By the way, anybody I can call on just guess. I won't make you look dumb. I promise I'm not setting you up. I would never embarrass you. First question. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's the second question. I thought that was the first question in the Bible too, Adam, where are you? So when I was on the thing, going on the chat,

and I said who are you? Where are you? And I asked that question, you probably put a physical location geographical Malaysia, or you put a name, right. But the more specific we got with that question where are you, it just becomes endlessly deep. Right, say where are you? And you're like Topeka? Right? Cool? Now I know your address, but I don't know your attitude. So where are you? If we take it deeper, the depth of the question can go as deep as you want it to go.

If I say where are you? Well, I'm kind of offended because last week I was supposed to get invited to this thing and nobody invited me. And really I'm mad because I'm always the one doing the invited. So I'm really in a state of bitterness that seems to get darker as I hold on to it, and I'm deepeness. That could be the answer to the question where are you? Also, or you could just say Topeka, But it's just depending

on how deep you see the question. So that is the first question that God asked in the Bible, but it's not the first question that appears in the Bible. That's what God asked, Adam. I'm glad you said that one, because that is such a powerful question. Where are you? Like I can see that physically Fourth Road Gyra shirt looks like a good Christian. She's got a Gyra's shirt on her back and a blessed hoodie in her lap. She is double poors and praising God to take you.

I want all of it, God, but I don't know if I can see like because Adam, Adam was hiding from God, and so when God says where are you Adam, He's not asking him for information, He's asking him for location, not for God, for Adam. That's kind of deep question where are you? It's like Greenville? Nope, grief, that's where I am? Right? So how deep do we go? But we ask people surface questions? You know, what do you do for a living? You excited about Cam coming back?

Just surface stuff. That's fine. And I don't think you should ask people two deeper questions when you're getting the home as creepy you know what I mean? Oh? What any of your Graham number you? I don't want to talk to you about numbers yet you have not earned my number yet. Right. But the first question in the Bible that appears is in Genesis three, before Adam realizes he's naked, when the serpent asks Eve, do you remember?

Did God really say? The first question that appears in the Bible isn't the one God asks, it's the one Satan asks, which makes me wonder sometimes is the first question that comes to our mind about something not the best question available? You feel me because sometimes the questions that I ask about a situation are not the best questions, and that's why the Lord led me to the power of a better question. And Abby, my ten year old, gets this at a deep level. Apparently. I asked her

this week. She said I hadn't made my Christmas list yet. I said, well, you better get started. What do you want? And she said, what should I want? Living with Socrates in the house? Something like that, You know what I mean. I'm like, Wow, that's deep. I don't know if she was trying to provoke me to say, what's my ceiling? Is this a three hundred dollars Christmas? Is it a five? How much does the two fairy bring? I'm gonna get up,

you know, up, hiss eyes, I can go. I don't even know how deep she meant it, but I thought, wow, that's the first question Jesus asked in all of the Bible. The first time we see him talk. He doesn't give an answer. In John chapter one, Jesus is the answer, sure, but he's also the question he asked these two guys who were following. He said, what do you want? What a question? They said, we want to come see where

you're staying, Rabbi. But I think the rest of his ministry was dealing with that second question, the one Abby asked, what should I want? Is what I want? Is what I wish? Is what I think I want? Really what I want? Or will I get what I want and not want what I've got in the end. That's called a midlife crisis. But if we would ask better early life questions, we wouldn't have midlife crisis. The power of a better question. I feel anointed in leather today and

I don't know why. So in a minute, I'm going to give you a scripture from Numbers, chapter thirteen. Go ahead and start turning there. But in the meantime, let me give you a few examples what I mean before we get very deep textually. I told you the first question in the Bible came from Satan. Did God really say? And then he twisted what God actually said and added to it an exactayted it like the enemy always does. And we'll come back to that. But then the question

God asked was simple, not where should you be? Where are you? God starts where you are? When I start with the sermon, I don't start by preparing with what do I know? Because honestly, what you need goes far beyond what I know. I don't know how to answer the real questions you're asking. I don't know if you should marry him or whatever. I don't know if you should move out or move in. I don't know, but God does. So I learned to ask the question as

a preacher, not what do I know? So a lot of times we come to the Bible and we think we know it so good, Oh man, I know that story. Sometimes when I read this, I can see some of you. Your eyes glaze over. You're like, go, I know this story. You fit for Thios And people tell me something I don't know. Okay, well, maybe God is going to show you something that you don't know from something that you think you do. Right. But if I start with what

do I know? When I read the Bible, I'm gonna impose all of my influences instead of getting insight from God's word, I'm gonna bring all to it what I already think I know. So I don't know what my message is gonna be about when I start to prepare it. I don't start with that. If I start with what I know, I'm gonna it's gonna be a thirty second sermon. I'm not that smart. I'm not so how stupid would it be for you to come out here and take all this time out of your day? If the starting

place is what does Stephen Ferdick know? I can put that in a tweet. We don't need a sermon for that. It's a waste of time. But I start with this, God, what do they need? That's a better question, because God knows that in a way I don't. And he might sneak to me and say, you need to tell him stop crying. It's coming. I'm like, well, God, I didn't even know to tell him that. I didn't even know that there are trumpets and tears what I preach life week. I didn't come to the text looking for what I

already knew. I came looking for God, what do we need? Not just you but me? What do we need? And this amazing thing that your father knows what you need. He knows what you need. So you start with where you are, but you don't stop there. You start with a better question. When I first started preaching again, my question would always be I'd look at a message and I'd go, how will this preach? In other words, will it be exciting dynamic. Will people laugh at it? Will

they go ooh wow and write that down? Yeah, oh, come on with it for this reaction, But now I want to know will it produce repentance. Repentance is not feeling bad. I'm not saying I want you to feel bad when you leave. Let me just beat the crap out of them and come back next Sunday for more. That's not what I'm looking for, Not how to make you feel bad. You already do a pretty good job at that without any instruction. Do not. You do not need school in how bad you already suck. So this

puppit is not a how much you suck school. You know. Point number one, you suck. Point number two you used to suck even more. Point number three, No matter how much you work, you're still gonna suck. See you next Sunday. That is not have you been to that church before? But see but see, God knows what you need. That's not gonna help you. That that sin consciousness is not gonna bring you to repentance. That's not gonna change you.

You need to see Jesus when you come. You need to know that Christ in you is the hope of glory, So it's the better question. What should I want? Huh? I don't know. Maybe I woul't want the stuff. Maybe I'm focused on the wrong thing. So then Jesus said, we'll seek first the kingdom. You know, don't run around like the Pagans saying what shall we eat? Thanksgiving sermon?

What shall we wear? If you spent more time today figuring out what you were going to wear to church before you got here, then you do asking the question, what did God speak to me? When you leave here? Why are y'all looking at me like that wasn't the best thing that has ever been said from this pulpit? If you spend more time, I remember one time I was so into my what do I wear when I preach? And I was so into that because I wanted to

look good. You got to be presentable. You know, people are looking at you up here, A lot of people are looking at you. And the Lord said, I don't want you to focus more on your outfit than you do your outline. What is is God speaking? If it took you an hour to figure out what to where to get here, that's on me. I'm in bed right now watching online. Okay, if it took you an hour to figure out what to watch on YouTube, and you can't even take ten seconds. That's what the enemy does.

He is gonna snatch the seed before it ever hits the soil and goes deep enough to make a difference. And if all you hear what I'm preaching is what somebody else should do with what I've preached, Boy, I wish my husband would have come. He could have used that word. You are not God's mirror holder. Praise the Lord Numbers, Chapter thirteen. I'm just trying to think about the power of a better question. I used to ask, how will this preach? Now I want to know what

kind of person will this preaching produce? So if I preach something like your haters are elevators, you know rhymes, it's exciting all of your haters. Tell all your haters. Look. The reason that that kind of preaching gets people excited is because it absolves us from all relational responsibility. So if all I do is talk about your haters, your haters can't stand you because you're so blessed, you're so favored. No, your haters can't stand you because you are late to work.

Why whoa what kind of person. Is this preaching producing? That's a better question. If you are single and you are asking God for a man to pop the question to you. Okay, you need to ask two questions. Not only when you meet a man, is he single? And no? Hold on, not even is he saved? That's a good question. He should be saved, he should know the Lord. But is he sane? Because there are crazy Christians just a be he's too, but he's crazy. He can call Colosses,

but he's crazy. Is he sexy? Is he stable? Unstable? Is only sexy? So much? For so long numbers Chapter thirteen. It's a familiar passage of scripture. The Lord told Moses, I want you to send twelve men. Everybody shall twelve twelve men into the land I'm giving. The Israelite says there inheritance. The question isn't has God given it? The question is will you go forward? I want to speak that over every area of your life right now that

God has promised. The question isn't has God given it? Joy? Peace, all the fruit of the spirit, love, patience, It's kindness, goodness, fath than generes of control. That's the fruit of the spirit. That's what grows from knowing God in the spirit of a believer. It's called the fruit of the Spirit in Galatians life, and it's all yours. That's not the question about the fruit. It's the question will you go forward

into it? Now we're going to see what happens when God is bringing you into something and the devil is pulling you back to something at the same time the power of a better question. Let's go in verse seventeen when Moses sent them to explore Canaan. All the leaders of the tribes. Just remember the leaders. I won't list them all, just the leaders of the tribes, twelve of them, to explore Canaan. That's what God had promised Abraham. And now he's bringing them into it, and they are right

on the cusp of it. You don't know how close you are. Y'are looking at me and shocking disbelief. So tell the person next to you so they'll believe you. You You don't know how close you are. You'll know put in chat you'll not close you are. They're coming into Canaan. But you remember, they just got out of Egypt. So he told them go up through the Negev and on into the hill country. See what the land is like, and whether the people who live there are strong or weak,

few or many? Okay, it's an exploration. It's an exploration. What kind of land do they live in? Is it good or bad? What kind of towns do they live in? Are they unwalled or fourty five? How's the soil? Is it fertile or poor? Are there trees in it or not? It's like most slow down, one thing at a time, okay, and making my list good to bad? One wall, We're five trees, are no trees fertile or porcela? But then

he says, do your best. Yeah, yeah, I'll say it, do your best to bring back some of the fruit of the land. It was the season for the first ripe grapes. Say it is eating season. It's eating season. It's eating season. It's eating season. I cancel every carbohydrate you're gonna eat on Thursday. It's eating season. I hope you've brought your elastic pants to church at Elevation Church because it's eating season. I'm going to lead a little room to grow because it's eating season. I've been in

starving season long enough. I've been in scavenger scrap season long enough. I've been in Leftover living long enough. Now I'm coming to where the grapes are growing at it's time. So they went up verse twenty one and explored the land from the desert of zen As far as Reyhop to lie Bohammad. They went through the Negev came to Hebron, where a hymn she Sheeshai. I bluff y'all on these names half the time, and tell my the descendants of Anak the giants. You know this little Bible story. I

promise you know it. You were at one time they got grapes to promise they got giants the problem. Okay, but this is really powerful. Watch this. They reached verse twenty three, the valley of Eshkol. They cut off a branch bearing a single cluster of grapes. Two of them carried it on a pole between them, along with some pomegranates and figs. That place was called the Valley of Eshkol because of the cluster of grapes the Israelites cut

off there. Eshkah means cluster in Hebrew, so they're like, uh, it's a cluster of grapes. What do you want to call it? How about cluster? Cool? Let's go back at the end of forty At the end of forty days, Verse twenty five, they returned from exploring the land. They came back to Moses and Aaron and the whole Israelite community at kate Ash in the desert. They're still in the desert. So when you're in the desert, you ask

desert level questions. It's survival based. When you're in the desert, it's like, how am I going to get through this day? Let me back up a little bit, How am I gonna make it to ten am? Let me back it up a little bit. How am I gonna get out of the bed this morning? Let me back it up a little bit more than that. How am I gonna get to sleep tonight? With everything I got on my mind? Those are desert questions. They are focused on limitation. They

originate with Satan. Did God really say you must not eat of any tree? It's a limitation based question. But God wants me to teach you on the power of a better question, a loaded question. Do you know the phrase a loaded question? It contains more than appears on the surface. So when Jesus says what do you want, he's not saying that, like your kids just walked in your room and you're trying to have some married people time, Why you want to get out of here? He says,

what do you want? And let's start there, and let's move toward the deeper desire that I created you for. It's a better question. When you are in the desert, you let the devil do all the question asking who do you think you are dreaming like that? Who do you think you are putting yourself out there like that? What makes you think you can accomplish that? Well, if it was gonna work, wouldn't it have work? By now?

Those are desert questions. It's when you've been used to not having enough, or you've been used to somebody else oppressing you or something else oppressing you. And so let's say it's an addiction, and then an addiction has been calling the shots. The only question you've been asking, if you've been stuck in the throes of addiction is when can I get another hit of that? And by the way, it can be cocaine, or it can be shopping, it can be Amazon just as easily as it can be heroin.

We are not talking about one substance here. I'm coming for you today. God spoke to me. He said, those are desert questions. Desert questions, and when you ask desert questions, you get dead end answers. It doesn't open anything up. Even when you're asking somebody, uh, don't when you pick up your kids for school, don't say how is your day? Because it gives them the option for a one word answer good. Bad. You got to ask them something more open, right.

If you want to be creative, if you want to get your teenager to talk, you gotta have something different. And I don't even know what the question would beet because I still have figured out how to get Graham to talk to me on the way home from school. But I'm working on it, and I know what doesn't work is a is a yes or no good or bad answer? Okay, now, so let's journey on in the text? Can we journey on in the text? Are y'all with me today? Are you with me today? You see? Are

you with me today? Epham? Are you with me today? Valentine? Back right section? Are you with me today? Oh yeah, ah yeah, I'm with you? Preacher read the next verse. So they came back to Moses and Aaron those spies Holzerite community at Kadosh in the desert of Parin. There in the desert, they reported to them and the whole assembly and showed them the fruit of the land. They gave Moses this account. We went into the land what God promised, which you sent us, and it does flow

with milk and honey. Newsflash, God is right. Here's this fruit. You wanted some grapes. We brought you some grapes, not only the ones that Joshua and Caleb would carry, because the rest of them wouldn't carry any fruit, wouldn't carry any fruit. But Joshua and Caleb, the two splies they didn't name, they had a different spirit. They had different spirit. They asked better questions. Instead of looking at how hard it was in the land and say it, how in

the world are we possibly going to do this? They looked at the same situation. And this is what I want you to see. God can give you the ability to look at a situation that you were looking at as an impossibility and see it as an opportunity. Who's this for? And there's a cluster of fruit, you know, the pomegranates, the figs, and the grapes, there's a cluster from Eshkol. But there's also a cluster happening between what God has called his people to do and the conflict

that they feel about it inside of themselves. So it's a cluster. That's a negative word to me. I don't hear that usually about fruit. I usually heard about stuff that goes wrong. Man, it was a cluster. People say that it's a cluster at Kate Shpernie because you got these twelve spies, and you've got two of them that have faith to say, oh yeah, taste this, na I taste this fruit. All taste of this and at the same time watch this. At the same time, they are

getting a taste of tomorrow. They are being dragged back to a past that is beneath them. Watch watch, watch this verse twenty eight. But the fruit is just like God said it would be. But the people, the promise and the people, it's a cluster. The promise and the problems is a cluster God. God told me to preach to somebody today who is a cluster right now in your life, in your mind, in your marriage, in your family. It's a cluster of watch this, fear and faith. It's

a cluster of thoughts. You can't get it untangled. You can't really figure out if it's been a good year or a bad year. You don't really know what to think about it anymore. You don't know to think. Is this my friend? Is this my enemy? It's a cluster. That's what's happening at kate ash Varniah and the man of God, Moses sent these spies out, and he asked them three simple questions. But they came back with a butt.

They came back with a butt. But the people who live there are powerful, and the cities are fortified and very large. We even saw the descendants of Anak there. The Amalekites live in the Negev, the Hittites, Jebyuzites, Amorites live in the hill country, and the Canaanites live near the sea along to Jordan. Then Caleb silenced the people before Moses and said, we should go up take possession of the land, for we certainly can do it. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me. And

Philippians four thirteen hasn't even written yet. But the men, there's another butt. There's another butt. There's another But there's a promise. There's a problem. There's a butt in between, there's a promise, there's a problem. There's a butt in between. There's a problem. But God, But God, that's my favorite butt in the Bible. But God, you don't understand. But God, who is rich in mercy. But God demonstrates his own love for us in this that while we were yet

sinners Christ died for ophs. I don't know if this sounds right. But you need another butt. You need another But you need a new leader. You keep being led by your feelings, you keep being led by your frustrations, you keep being led by your limits. You need a new leader or you're gonna die in the desert, in the wilderness of what if. Wow, we can't attack those people. Is this good for you? I swear the church went Presbyterian on me overnight. I don't know what's happening in

here today. I'm preaching. I am preaching this passage of scripture. You know what, Maybe that's a bad question. Is this good to you? Maybe? Is it good for you? Maybe you need to hear this word today that you can't hide behind your butt. We can't attack those people. They are stronger than we are, and they spread among the Israelites a bad report about the land they had explored, and they said, the land we explored devours those living

in it. Something This is a reference to infertility in Canaan. It devours those living in it. Some scholars said that's because there was such a high infertility rate, and that's what it means. But regardless about it, they said, the land is fruitful, but the people are of great size. We saw the Nephilum there, the descendants of Ainmact come from the Nephilm. We seemed like grasshoppers in our own eyes, and we looked the same to them. Chapter fourteen, verse one.

That night, all the members of the community raised their voices and wept aloud, and all the Israelites grumbled against Moses and Aaron. And the whole assembly said to them, if only we had died in Egypt on the cusp of Canaan. You know how close you are to being free. And you taste tomorrow. Sometimes you taste the grape. Sometimes. Oh that's what a good day feels like. Oh that's what it feels like to not have to prove myself and just sit there and let them sound smart if

they want to. But I don't have to say anything back. Oh that's what it feels like. Three hours without Instagram and I feel like I have detoxed from the devil himself and you get a little taste of it, a little taste of tomorrow. I almost wanted to call this message tomorrow taste better. That's the only way you're gonna give up Egypt. We all have a secret Egypt. A secret Egypt, not a geographical place, an emotional place. It

emotionally grips your potential tightly. Egypt emotionally grips your potential tightly. Em Egypt. I'm spelling Egypt emotionally. I'm gonna stop working so hard on this stuff if y'all don't like that. Everybody has a secret Egypt. And so here, I mean, let's be nice to these people. You think you would have done better. You wouldn't almost even come to church because I'm back to parking. Look. Look, look, they're nervous

of warriors that are bigger than them. You're nervous about your mother in law on Thursday coming in town for Thanksgiving, and can you put up with her for four hours? So let's give some grace. They just came out of Egypt. It's not easy leave in Egypt. I'm preaching about this for two years now. If only we had died in Egypt or in this wilderness? Why why verse three is the Lord bringing us to this land only to let us fall by the sword. That's a really dumb question.

You know you could take that same question. Why did the Lord bring us through the Red Sea? Why did the Lord get me through my twenties? Why did the Lord get me through that horrible divorce? Why did the Lord get my kid through that horrible situation? But look how they finish it, only to let us fall by the sword. I think you could take that same question, why did God bring me this far to leave me? And if you flip that question a little bit, why would God bring me this far to leave me right now?

That is a better question. Do you really think he saved you with his son's blood but he's not gonna provide for your material needs? You really think that he came all the way from heaven at Christmas time like a baby, but he's gonna leave you now because you're struggling with this? Do you really think that God did all of that and saw you through all these dangers? And toenails and snares, and his grace is going away. Now, why would God bring you this far to leave you?

Why would he think it if he didn't mean it? Why would he do it if he wasn't permitted to him? He who began a good work in me is faithful to complete it. So the same question they're using to get discouraged, I want to turn it on the devil and say he didn't bring me out of Egypt to kill me in Canaan. He didn't bring me out of depression to let me die in this uncertainty. No, No, he didn't bring me through COVID to let me drop this Christmas whoo. It's a better question. Why would he

have done all that? If that was all that it was, why would he have put it in you? I had another better question. Why is the devil fighting you so hard? If you're not carrying anything? Why is he coming at you? I watched a little bit of football. They don't usually hit somebody if they're not carrying the ball or blocking somebody who is. I never saw a fan get hit. I never saw a water boy get hit, except on Adam Sandler and Bobby Bouchet. But that's not in the Bible.

Carrying something, I got something. I'm under something. I'm on the something. I got a better question. Why it's the devil standing at this stop. I'm calming out of the desert. Yahay, whoa, I'm on it now, Babies, I'm on it now. I don't know the answer, but I got a better question. It's God before me. Oh damn, gess it. Ah Ah. I'm carrying something. It's a cluster. I'm carrying some grapes, but I'm fighting some giants. It's a cluster. I'm carrying promise,

but I got some problems. It's a cluster. I got a heavenly calling. I got some human conflict, she said, cluster. I'm in the valley of Ashkhol right now. Be patient with me. It's heavy. I'm carrying something. I'm carrying them promise on a pole. I never carried graceful, for I only ate quail in Egypt. I never tasted tomorrow. Yet when you're nice to me, it scares me because the only people I ever knew who said they loved me were nasty to me. And I'm trying to start liking

when you're nice to me. But when I push you away like that. Be patient with me because it's a cluster, because I don't know how to trust. Because it's a cluster, because I don't really know how to show love. That's why sometimes I lash out because I don't know how to show love, so I lash out. But really I want to be close to you. But it's a cluster. It's a cluster. And then the craziest question text, the one that I wanted to preach, is verse four. They said,

wouldn't no, yeah, verse three? Sorry, verse four, we should choose a leader and go back to Egypt. Next part says there's a verse missing, y'all, y'all took a verse out. That's a pro problem. They've took a verse out, that's all. Yeah, that's that's there's a there's another verse in there, y'all. Y'all left out the best verse verse verse three, Verse three? Why is the Lord bringing us to this land less fall of us or our Why isn't the children be

taking us plunder? There? It is? Wouldn't it be better for us to go back? Hm? Hm? We should choose a leader and go back. Really, they are not being led by their potential at this moment. Or their wisdom. They're certainly not being led by God's promise. They're being led by their fear back to what is familiar. People preach coming out of Egypt like Egypt represents sin. It doesn't, it doesn't. It represents survival, survival. You notice the threat

of my teaching this past two years. I'm watching people stuck in survival mode. You get a little taste of tomorrow, a little glimpse of God's best. But the moment you taste the graves, you start thinking about the giants. The people who made the decision not to go into this canaan, this promise, this flowing place, this promised land. They didn't even see the giants for themselves. And you know what's even crazier. The spies that came back answered a question

that Moses didn't even ask. I read you every question Moses asked. He said, what are the people like? And that was his problem right there. He started the question with what are the people like? That's something you can't control. That's something you can't control. So when you start with other people, you need a better question. No no, no, no no no. This is going to have practical value. If you are going to entrust your time to me. I am going to help you in your Monday, your Tuesday,

your Wednesday. I'm not giving you some Sunday syrup pancake preacher sermon where we just feel good for a few minutes and everybody goes out in a little coma trenkoma for thirty minutes. This is the word of God. You can't start in the wrong place and end up at the right place. So when Moses said what are the people like? Are they big or small? The people who were under his leadership went in and looked for exactly

the lens that he gave them. And so when they came back, all they could talk about was the Amalekis, the hit Tights, the jug Desias, this holiday season, the cellu lights, and all of the battles. I couldn't resist it. And when you start with that, when you start with desert questions, you end up in dead end situations. Eleven days, you could have moved through this wilderness. What you got to study this? Sometimes? Promise me you'll look this up later, okay.

In joshua Io, one of the spies that carried the pole with Caleb to go into promis Land everybody else that was over twenty died in a wilderness. They get stuck because they asked questions that God didn't tell them to ask. They tried to answer questions that God wasn't even asking. How's it going to work out? That's above your pay, Gray Bubba, the Monk's corner coming out of me. Now,

that's above your pay, great Bubba. But I know that all things work together for the good, right, So my question about it can't be how is this going to work out? Because if I do that, I will limit my answer to my experience. How I've seen God work it out so far at this point in my life? What if he wants to do something? Huh huh. It's the power of a better question. God, what have I not even asked? Thought or imagine that you have the

power to do. And when Joshua led the people into the Promised Land forty years later, he sent two spies, not twelve, because he didn't want another cluster that represents focus, that represents focus. This word is thick. Y'all, pray for me. I can't, I can't. I can't even get it out. WHOA, You got the wrong focus group? You're asking the wrong people. You're asking jealous people. You're asking people sometimes they don't even know that they're insecure, and you are limiting your

potential to their insecurity. Well, i'd tell my wife off if I were you, I'd just go down there to the golf course. That's why your wife sleeps in another room. Dude. Okay, okay, Oh this is kind of rough now. I like the other stuff that he was preaching earlier. True, isn't it is that sometimes when we get the wrong focus group, it cost us our fruit. There are three questions that Moses told them to ask. When Joshua sent the people into the land, he didn't do any of that. He said,

just go check it out, come back. We're going in becus, God said it. So we're going to focus. And do you remember about Rahab? She was a questionable profession. She has a prostitute and Lord Euster. I don't know if the Lord can use a prostitute. He didn't ask you who he could use. You didn't think virgins could have babies either, But you know'll be seeing hat silent night in a few days. Nothing is impossible with God. Oh, but when Raya told Joshua, she said we're all scared

of y'all. The spies came back, saying they're huge. We look like grasshoppers to them. Well, first of all, what are you doing asking your enemies what you look like? Why are you answering the devil's question? When Eve put Genesis three, verse one up there, just so I can show you, the serpent said to Eve, did God really say you must not eat from any tree in the garden? That's the devil's question. Eve looked verse two, said back to the serpent, So what would be a better question?

The serpent slithers up to you in the garden, did God really say questioning God's intentions and motives and capacity and wisdom and all that stuff? Right, what would be a better question than did God really say? Here's I got one suggestion for Eve. Okay, why am I talking to a snake? Why? Ah? Why am I speaking to something that's beneath me? Why am I dealing with something? Why am I consulting with something that Jesus can crush? That's a better question, right? You like that? He Yo?

The other day I was driving to a parking lot and this lady whips out of her parking space, groom almost hissed me, and I had to put the brakes on. I put them on pretty hard. And then when like the airbag came out. But it was a close call. And my car does this thing. I don't know if your car has this feature when somebody does something stupid, the car honks and it grabs my hand and it honks the car. It's a feature on my car. Why

honked that? The lady, y'all? She I'm sure she saw my elevation sticker, but she she flipped me the bird. She flipped me the bird, sideways bird with the thumb, and she was eating a bagel and looking at she di'd't even look up at me to flip me off a bagel, driving with her knees, running out the parking lot, flipping the bird. Apparently my car also has a feature that it goes in reverse when someone flips me the bird. Because y'all, I wasn't thinking something took over. I put

the car. Oh, this wasn't eighteen years ago before I became a pastor. This was last week. I wish it was eighteen years ago. Under the blood. I'm not even sure I'm forgiving of this one yet, that I'm telling you, I hadn't even told my kids this yet. I put the car in reverse. I don't know what I'm gonna do when I get back, but I can't drive by somebody flipping me the It was the bagel that put me over the top. It was the bagel. If she hadn't been eating the bagel, I wouldn't have backed up.

But bagel and bird, I'm backing up. I put the car in reverse, boom, right into another lady's jeep. Boom. So now I'm like, I got out my car with my hands off, my dig not worship, just surrender, just stupidity. I said, I'm so sorry. Let's look at it. We'll do whatever you want to do. It's my fault. I'm an idiot. She had a bagel. She flipped me off. I said, babe, it was the bagel. It was the bagel. It was the bagel. It took it over the top. And then we looked. Her car was fine, it's a jeep.

God loves jeets. Mine was fine too, and I gave her all the cash I had. She didn't want to call the cops. There was nothing wrong with her car. But when I drove back off I looked at my car. It was a little scratch, just a little scratch, and it could have gone a whole different way. Right, she could have been crazy, she could have been mean, she could have been a church member. Thankfully, it was just a little scratch, and and I got a lesson from it,

very very simple lesson, but was powerful. The Lord said, I want you to be glad that you have that scratch to remind you what happens the next time you are tempted to back up to something that is beneath you. It's a little scratch. What a lesson, Because here's the real question. What were you going to do when you got back there? You want to go back to Egypt. You want to go back to that. So what are you going to do When you prove you're right, You're

going to be right and lonely. Every time you want to go back, remember you are going back to something that is beneath you. By the way, it's not always bad to go back. It's not always bad to go back. In Luke fifteen, there was this young man who decided to ask his father for his share of the inheritance. Early. I want it now, I want it now, and you know what's really scary. His father gave him what he

asked for, even though it wasn't best for him. Israel got soul as their king, and God didn't want to give him a king. He wanted to be their king. You can get what you wanted asking the wrong questions. And after this young man had spent all his money, father said, okay, I'll let you go, because he loved him enough to let him go. Now, this is one parable that Jesus told. It's just one. It's just one. But the Bible says that after he had spent all he had in a foreign land, there began to be

a famine in that country. And that's what connected me from numbers thirteen with the Israelites who went to Egypt for a famine. God is setting them free. But they have to go through the desert, and so do you and so do I. We have to learn new ways. It's not enough to taste tomorrow. We have to learn new patterns, new responses. Backing up to somebody who shoots you the bird, You are a preacher, bro, what are

you doing? And we all have these moments, these moments, But what you do in those moments can be critical because watch this. Their fear in the moment kept them stuck for an entire generation, all because they asked the wrong question. Moses didn't ask them all that. Moses didn't ask them all that. He said, find out about the land. Is it good or bad? That's a multiple choice. That's the first question. Is this worth it? Is this worth it? Isn't that a great question? Is this worth the energy?

Is this worth the fight? I had to learn that some things aren't. Moses said, Spy out the land and find out is it good or bad? Is this even worth fighting for? Is this worth fighting about? Is this worth all this back and forth? Or can we just hug? Do I really need you to like me? Look, do whatever you want to do. I quit trying to change people's opinions about me. I decided to focus on my character and my actions and not backing up into people's

jeeps and getting my own act together. And find out, Wow, if I will focus on my character, God will take care of my reputation. Amen. Amen, So Moses said, check out the land? Is it good or bad? Is this even worth fighting for? That's a good question. The second thing he said, is you know, check out the towns. Are they unwalled or fortified? What a great question, he said, How are we going to do this? Do we have to go around the guards? Are there big walls? What

are we gonna have to do? That's a great question, not can we do it? How are we going to do it? You have got to shift your spirit to be more like Caleb. You gotta start looking at stuff and saying, if there are walls, we'll blow trumpets. If there are walls, we'll scale them. If there are enemies, God will take their protection away. So how are we going to do this? Stop focusing so much of the question on like how high the wall is? I just want to know God, is there a way around it?

Or do you want me to go over it? Or do you want me to go under it? Because one thing's for sure, I will not die in the desert. I won't do it. I am not gonna let negative questions run the show of my life and contrare to God's promise. And then I love the last thing he said, how's the soil? Is it fertile or poor? Are there trees? Bring some grapes because it's the season. I learned that it's a really good question to ask what is already growing?

Because sometimes it's the soil, not the sea. There is nothing wrong with what I preach to you today. There's a lot right with it. This is the word of God. It can grow in your life. How's your soil? Because if your soil is too thorn two thornty, it won't matter how true the sermon was. And sometimes we're really focused on the seed that goes in, but not the soil. That's what I want you to look at today. The soil of your heart, the soil of your soul, the

soil of your mind. Is the power of a better question. It's the power of getting from a point of where they said, why would God leave bring us as far just to kill us? Shouldn't we go back to Egypt? And you remember what happened to the boy in Luke fifteen. He spent all of his money and he was filling his stomach with what the pigs were eating. A Jewish boy eating with pigs. That's about as far down as

you can go, right. But then he did something, he did something very significant, and I want you to do this today. I think it's verse seventeen. It says when he came to his senses. Yeah, so, up until now he's been in his feelings. This is what I want, this is what I deserve, this is where I'm going. Up till now, he's been in his feelings. But when he came to his senses, he asked a better question. How many of my father's hired servants have food to stare?

Have a fridge full, have doggie bags after every night's meal? How are the servants eating at a buffet and I'm rolling around with the pigs at the bottom. When he asked a better question, he made a better decision. When you ask a better question, Help me, Holy Spirit, help me get this message through. Help me push through all the stuff the enemy's been asking. Oh how small I am, how little I have? How much I've messed up? What I could have done different? That's the wrong question. Here's

a better question. Why am I starving when my father is good? Why am I dying when my father is good? Why am I hungry when my father has more than enough? Why am I living on this level? Why am I backing up to something that is beneath me? So watch his decision eighteen Get ready to feel chose? He said, I will set out and go back. It's not always bad to go back. I'm going back to my father. That's quite the opposite of how the children of Israel responded, Hunk,

it got hard. They said, we're going back to Pharaoh. This cat, he said, it's getting hard going back to my father. Please stand, stand, put down whatever you're holding in your hands, open your hands, plant your feet, take a deep breath. I want to ask you a better question, A better question numbers fourteen. Wouldn't it be better to go back, not to Egypt, to your father? Wouldn't it be better to go to the source rather than going to people? Wouldn't it be better to go back? That's crazy.

That's the same question that kept stuck in the wilderness, and it's the same question that brought the prodigal son back home. Wouldn't it be better to go back? I feel God calling somebody back today. Back Back, back back to your full self, back to your real life, back to the real reasons, back to the true motive, back to the Kingdom of God, back to what's within you, back to what you were when He made you in his image, back to what you were when He spoke

you into existence. Back to what you were when he created you and knit you together in your mother's womb before you knew your name. He knew you before you were born. He set you apart. Back to that, back to the real you, back to beneath all the layers of disappointment. Wouldn't it be better to go back to your father's already on the porch than to stay down here with these pigs. Wouldn't it be better to go back? It's the one who made you Father. Your word goes

forth like seed, and it needs good soil. I honor you today, God, because you gave us good seed. You spoke to us a better question. Is it worthy? What will it take? What's growing right now in my life? We thank you Lord for the power of a better question. We think we know what we need. We think we know what we want. What should we want? God? For as high as the heavens are above the earth, so are your ways above our ways, and your thoughts above

our thoughts. We're coming back God, coming back to the only one who knows. Yes, Lord, we repent. We're coming back to the top, repent, back to your way of thinking. I thank you now, Lord, and I want to pray for somebody who's been with the pigs. I want to speak to somebody who's halfway back to Egypt, and I want to ask that your love would draw them home. Maybe the best question is who will separate us from the love of God? I thank you Lord that nothing

can stand between us and our father. For how shall he who freely gave us all things not also give us this gift? Our Father, who are in heaven hollow would be your name, your kingdom? Come? Your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. What should I want? God? What should I want? Heads bowed, eyes close? I want to tell you one more thing, and it may be my whole message for you. When Jesus said that you don't have to run around asking what shall we eat? What shall we drink? What shall we wear?

He said, your father knows that you need them. Your father knows. And here's what I want you to know. If he dress li with you? Lease la what a question? How much more? That's a better question. What shall we eat? What shall we drink? What shall we wear? That's a better question. How much for does he love ify sizzle with you? How much for will he go? How much for will he go Iffy Watch, So every Still? How much for does he Love? How much for does he looks?

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