Gratitude – God’s Secret Weapon for Marriage What if gratitude could change the atmosphere in your marriage? In today’s episode, I’m unpacking how gratitude is more than a nice thought — it’s a spiritual weapon. We’ll connect practical skills with biblical truth to discover how thankfulness can literally transform your marriage from the inside out. Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode: How specific gratitude skills invite more of what you want from your husband. Why the Bible calls us to “gi...
Aug 19, 2025•29 min
Key Verse : “Let the redeemed of the Lord say so, whom He has redeemed from the hand of the enemy.” – Psalm 107:2 Have you ever had a powerful moment of healing or clarity… only to feel it slip away a few weeks later? You might have uncovered a truth about who you are, but without sealing it, the old lies start whispering again. In today’s episode, I’m pulling back the curtain on the journey from believing lies about your identity to walking in the truth God has spoken over you. You’ll learn: Ho...
Aug 12, 2025•8 min
In this raw, vulnerable episode, I open up and share unscripted about my summer and how the Lord has been inviting me deeper. He's inviting you deeper too. Each one of us was placed here specifically and chosen "For such a time as this." Esther 4:14 I do this not to my journey is so great, but to provide one specific example of how it can look. How uncomfortable, yet joyful and delicious. "You prepare a table before me, even when my enemies are all around; you anoint my head with oil and fill my...
Aug 05, 2025•18 min
Receiving is the essence of what it means to be soft and feminine. As women, we long for it - and our men long to meet us there. So what's stopping us? If receiving feels awkward, you are probably doing it right. Welcome back to the Easy Biblical Marriage Podcast , where licensed therapist and certified relationship coach Lucy Martin offers practical steps rooted in Scripture to help you feel cherished and adored in your marriage—no matter how things look right now. This week, Lucy unpacks the d...
Jul 29, 2025•13 min
What if self-care isn’t selfish… or optional? In this episode, Lucy shares how tending to your emotional and spiritual well-being is not only allowed—it’s assigned. You’ll learn why burnout isn’t biblical, what it means to walk in spiritual authority, and how your nervous system health affects your ability to respond to your husband, your children, and the Holy Spirit. This episode is your invitation to stop over-functioning and start overflowing. In this episode, you’ll hear: ✔ Why so many Chri...
Jul 22, 2025•6 min
What if your anger isn’t a sign that something’s wrong with you—but a signal that something deeply matters? In today’s episode, I’m sharing the live teaching I gave on anger, especially for wives who love God and want to honor Him and their emotions. We’ll explore what the Bible actually says about anger, why stuffing it doesn’t make it go away, and how to respond when your heart is burning with injustice, frustration, or pain in your marriage. If you've ever wondered: “Is it okay to be angry as...
Jul 15, 2025•29 min
If you've ever found yourself carrying the mental load in your marriage, trying to be the emotional thermostat for the whole household, or managing your husband’s moods so everyone can stay okay… this episode is for you. In this vulnerable and practical conversation, I'm sharing three powerful biblical mindset shifts that will help you step out of overwhelm and into peace — without needing your husband to change first. These are the same shifts that have helped the women in my Strength & Dig...
Jul 08, 2025•20 min
In today’s episode, we dive into the Parable of the Sower (Matthew 13) to explore how the condition of our heart determines the fruitfulness of God’s Word in our lives. If you've ever found yourself saying, "I thought I already dealt with this," you're not alone — healing often happens in layers, and God lovingly tends to our hearts according to our spiritual maturity. This episode features a powerful guided exercise called The Stones & The Great Exchange — designed to help you identify emot...
Jul 01, 2025•20 min
I heard you. You wanted a step by step process to cling onto when things get rough in your marriage. I listened. That's why on this episode, I am doing something I've never done before. I am teaching you about my new BAIT Into GOLD Process. It's a step by step process you can use to break through bickering and bring PEACE anytime you are tempted to respond disrespectfully, get defensive, or be controlling. If you apply it, it will absolutely change your life.Imagine it: peace instead of bickerin...
Jun 24, 2025•24 min
In this deeply inspiring episode, I'm joined by three incredible women who courageously share their personal journeys through the Strength and Dignity Group Coaching Program. This isn't just a coaching program. It's a spiritual transformation rooted in God's Word. Together, we explore what happens when women begin to apply biblical principles to their marriages in practical, heart-shifting ways. The common theme that emerged? A powerful sense of confidence and stability - not just as wives, but ...
Jun 17, 2025•38 min
If you’re not a student, you can sign up here . Any time between now and July 25, 2025, you can dive right into the live action. If you are listening to this episode when it first comes out on Tuesday, June 10, there is only one short replay to catch up on. We have just started our daily prompts and our next live call is on Friday. And if you do join Strength and Dignity after this is over, this BAIT into GOLD challenge will be available in the incredible library of resources that we call The Tr...
Jun 10, 2025•19 min
Have you joined the BAIT Into GOLD Challenge? Not only do you get access to the LIVE trainings, and the incredible community where I guide you step by step, but you also get to be a part of the 30 Day Bait Into Gold Challenge with my mentorship every step of the way. Many of my most successful clients are also in the room to encourage you and cheer you on. We are answering questions and giving coaching daily. You don’t want to miss out. It starts today and goes through July 25. Just click here t...
Jun 04, 2025•7 min
Did you know bait is actually a good sign? It means the dance is changing. Most husbands push back on healthy change. It's nothing personal! That's why it's so important to know how to respond respectfully to bait and keep pressing forward.
May 27, 2025•7 min
Most wives try to improve their marriage by doing things that actually move it backward. For example, they become the main initiator for time together, which then makes him feel like he's being nagged to do yet another chore. This used to be me. Then I found skills that have had him pursuing me on the daily for years. My friend Chandra had the same experience! Listen to her testimony on this episode. Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set up a free, ...
May 20, 2025•44 min
When your husband is always critical, leaves things undone, expects you to find/do/solve everything, it's BEYOND FRUSTRATING. My client explains how she made simple changes and these dynamics totally changed in her marriage in this episode. If you'd like a PDF with a thirty day bait challenge, reach out to me on social media or at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com. Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. The rea...
May 13, 2025•54 min
From a spiritual perspective, it’s important to recognize that to get married is to come under the authority of your husband in just as real a way as when you choose a church you come under the spiritual authority of the pastor. But what does that look like when your husband is not a believer or is involved in actively sinning? Find out SPECIFICALLY and PRACTICALLY on this episode! Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set up a free, one hour zoom consu...
May 06, 2025•43 min
So much of what wives try to solve interpersonally, is actually a spiritual issue. This week on Easy Biblical Marriage, I’m unpacking when to use interpersonal skills in marriage and when to go inward and do business with God. Women often ask me whether to deal with marriage issues interpersonally or spiritually. The answer is always both, but it is usually a lot less interpersonal than we think. For we are not fighting against flesh-and-blood enemies, but against evil rulers and authorities of ...
Apr 29, 2025•58 min
This episode continues the Five Keys to Transformation series, focusing on how to let go of bitterness and embrace forgiveness. You will learn about the negative impacts of holding onto grudges, the importance of repentance, and the process of spiritually cleansing oneself to re-establish a connection with God. Licensed therapist, Lucy Martin, shares personal experiences and provides actionable steps to help individuals move past emotional pain and improve their relationships through a heart pos...
Apr 22, 2025•39 min
Do you wonder what to do when someone who lives with you is opening doors to the enemy or acting out generational trauma patterns? This episode is a reminder of how powerful we really are. Our battle is not against flesh and blood. Often we sabotage ourselves by going to the interpersonal, opening further doors through offense, conflict and chaos. The great news? All of this is within our control and the battle has already been won by Jesus! We just need to step into who we are in Him more fully...
Apr 15, 2025•32 min
Are you praying like you actually believe God can restore your marriage to better than you can ask, think, or imagine? A good way to check yourself is whether your mind feels renewed by the way you are praying. Do you feel renewed and refreshed, like you have gained a heavenly perspective? Want support? Here are some ways to get it: Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. The reason to hop on a consult with me th...
Apr 08, 2025•33 min
So many women want a man's man, and yet our culture undermines the very qualities in us that will help us be successful in such a relationship. In this episode, my guest Nicole and I unpack a bit about how unlearning some of our societal upbringing helped us have more intimate and fun marriages. Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set up a free, one hour zoom consultation. The reason to hop on a consult with me this week is because you want change...
Apr 03, 2025•30 min
The enemy gives us false choices. If we think that the answer to be a good wife is just to "submit harder" then we give up on God's order easily, thinking it's impossible. An impossible standard just results in unhappy wives - and unhappy wives create unhappy marriages. God's word provides true freedom and a better way. Listen in as my guest Nicole and I share vulnerably about how we learned many of these lessons the hard way! Join the Facebook community here . Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarr...
Mar 25, 2025•35 min
When men feel disrespected, they withdraw. Whereas, when they feel respected, it’s like oxygen to them. Suddenly they become affectionate! You will have more influence. My husband just explained this on my teacher’s podcast, that before the respect was there, he didn’t respect me either. Since respect has been restored in my marriage: He is more loving. He is more motivated to provide and make my dreams come true. He reaches for me in his sleep. The bedroom is night and day better. I get the bes...
Mar 18, 2025•27 min
I used to get vulnerability wrong. I thought it was about letting him know how I REALLY FELT. Like, “tell me how you really feel!” type of thing. And guess what? He wouldn’t take it well at all. So it never got me what I wanted. No, that’s easy. Anyone can do that. Vulnerability is different. It takes courage. Vulnerability has completely changed my marriage and all my relationships. I feel so much more connected to people. I love my life more. Grow with me in my free Facebook community: https:/...
Mar 11, 2025•31 min
Gratitude gives us eyes of light. The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness! Matthew 6:22-23 I first connected this verse with gratitude when my client saw through working with me just how dark her view of her husband had become without her even realizing it. It can creep up on us. We must remain vigilant to ke...
Mar 04, 2025•32 min
The opposite of faith isn’t doubt, it’s control. I talk to a lot of wives and they want their husband to be a spiritual leader. So they make helpful suggestions of what that could look like. I know for me, I would wrangle everyone to read the Bible together even though I really wanted him to be the one to initiate that, and he would pull his phone out of his pocket during what was supposed to be our family worship time. Then, I would use I statements to let him know how I felt about him taking h...
Feb 25, 2025•32 min
Early in my marriage, things felt extremely out of balance. I felt like I was doing everything. I felt the heavy burden of making up for my husband’s shortcomings both financially and in the housework department. It was extremely stressful! Then I learned a skill that changed everything. Now I know that God built us women to receive and that when I interfere with receiving I actually interfere with my husband’s sense of purpose. He’s built to provide and he loves to. I’m so grateful that I learn...
Feb 18, 2025•23 min
Do you want to be more connected to your husband? Most women start by wanting their husband to change, but what if I told you he can't find you to connect with you unless you are lighting your light with delight? That's been my experience: when I make myself ridiculously happy, my husband finds me irresistable and piles on to make me even happier. On this episode, you will hear a life changing new perspective on what self care is and how it will completely transform your marriage. Reach out to m...
Feb 11, 2025•26 min
I didn't understand why we weren't happy anymore or what happened to us. All I knew was that it scared me that my second marriage was reminding me of my first. That meant that I could help create another divorce - when I still didn't even understand what created the first one. That's when I found the skills that changed everything. Listen to this episode to hear my story and learn the skills I needed to save my first marriage that I currently use to keep my marriage fun, easy and passionate ever...
Feb 04, 2025•21 min
Do you ever wish someone would just listen to what's happening in your marriage and offer an objective viewpoint? Kind of like when you go to the doctor and he tells you exactly what the problem is? That's what I offer in my free consultations. This episode explores just how life changing they are. Email me at hello@easybiblicalmarriage.com to set yours up!
Jan 28, 2025•25 min
