Dr. Judy WT"Freud"

Happy Valentine's Day - Let's Talk About Love

Why Children (and Adults) Think “It’s All My Fault"

Effects of Fragile Parents On Their Children

Fragile parents create pressure on a child to hold them up and compensate for their weakness. Whether the fragility steams from mental or physical health issues; the child is often time parentified and expected to over function in the family. This kind of pressure leaves the child feeling isolated, anxies, and social rejected. They may not even be aware that their parental dysfunction is the cause of the distress because they might just think this is normal for the family. When parents lean to h...

Building A Sense Of Self After Narcissistic Abuse

Building a sense of self after narcissistic abuse requires that you identify your childhood wounds, dismantlement their effects on you and re-code into health. The messages your parents left you with diminish your sense of self, leaving you at the effect of life. What ideally should have happened, is proper attainment and mirroring and support of yourself. What happens in narcissistic abusive families, is that the emerging self is hijacked in order to serve the needs of the parents robbing you o...

Narcissistic Parenting: Stealing Your Sense Of Self

Setting Your Consciousness - Mind Mapping 2020

20/20 For *2020*: Clearing Your Cracked Lens of Perception

Parentified Children: Another WTF System Gone Wrong!

When a child comes from a family where the parents are not able to take on the parental role, the burden falls on the child's' shoulders. The saddest aspect of a child gone wrong is their childhood is lost. This kind of stress can wreak emotional havoc and also create mood disorders such as: depression, anxiety, and abusive compulsive disorder or OCD. It is important to catch these patterns so you do not repeat them in your choice of relationships and you do not continue to bleed out. Today we s...

Damsel in Distress: The Narcissist, Dream

It might be tempting to rescue another person, but what happens to that person who gets strong and is no longer needy. Are you still going to be supportive of him or her, or will you be threatened that you are losing control and being taken off the pedestal. Knights in shining in armor are attractive to damsel in distress and vice versa. At first the story is off to a good start but later the story unravels and the knight in shinning armor gets kicked off the horse, and the damsel in distress mi...

Converting the Narcissist: The "Key" to Our "Cure"

Why Do We Chase After People Who Don't Seem To Care About Our Well Being. When we have been raised by apathetic parents, we have more of a tendency to chase after people who are also apathetic in order to convert them to empathetic people who will reverse the damages of our childhood. Rarely if ever does this horrible system work. One we do our inner work and heal our own hole in the soul we don't need to engage with our herders by setting boundaries and calling out the truth of their game of de...

Ponzi Schemes and Parental Poisoning

Boundaries: Law of Attraction VS Law of Allowances

Changing Narcissistic Parents: A Lost Cause

Grieving the Narcissistic Parents You Never Had

A Mind Map Journey to Grief Recovery with Certified Grief Recovery Specialist Zalman Raksin

Borderline Personality Disorder - A Case of Emotional Dis-regulation

The W.T.F. Generation

Defense Mechanisms - Protection Against Childhood Wounds

Toxic relationships - How and when to go no contact

Dating, Narcissism, and Sex before Commitment

The Makings of a Narcissist: Is Narcissism a Choice?

Contact Vs. No Contact - Siblings and Family

Self Abuse - WTFing Yourself

Our parents psychological messages infiltrate into the fiber of our being and are recorded and replayed WTFing ourselves with negative core beliefs. It is not enough to simple identify these negative core beliefs. Its is important to source them and dismantle the psychological toxins. Dealing with symptoms and conditions don't get to the cause and are not enough to dismantle these negative thoughts that ingrain deeply into our psyci. Be using the mind map to healing you can complete these psycho...

Couple's Conflicts/Emotional Triggers with Yitz Epstein, Life Coach

Dependent Personalities

Trauma Bond And The WTF: Why We Go Back To The Abuser

Scapegoating and Bullying in the Workplace and Other Institutions

Scapegoating: The Moving Target

The Narcissist's Matrix of Consciousness - "You Live In My World" with Yitz Epstein, Life Coach

Happy Narcissistic Mother's Day! Contact vs. No Contact Part 2 with Yitz