Welcome back DT Fam :) Niki is back on the pod today to talk about what self pleasure looks like when you move in together! Does w*nking take the back seat to your intimacy together? That's been something in her relationship that she has been navigating, and she wants to know: how do you handle it? This episode is sponsored by MagicWave ! The audio mentioned on today's episode is: Dominant Boyfriend F*ngers and Breeds You by Feranvenn Their website can be found here :) Check out Iroha on our...
Mar 12, 2026•20 min
Welcome back DT Fam for this month's special :) Cami welcomes two dear friends of ours from the lifestyle scene: Vanessa and Traci. They are two great examples of people who are proudly and openly open, while educating and entertaining the masses with their channel, Monogamish.TV . Check out all of our sponsors and discount codes on our Linktree ! If you're a parent or caretaker looking to give "the talk," check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , and use code EMPOWER at checkout! If you'...
Feb 12, 2026•53 min
Welcome back DT Fam for a January Special episode featuring Niki :) she is recounting her engagement story and sharing another super exciting announcement of the next project she is working on! Tune in to find out. This episode is sponsored by MagicWave ! The two audios mentioned on today's episode are: Hate F*ck in Love - Voiced by Dolph What's the matter, mommy? - Voiced by NoWhere Eternity Order Niki's book, The Book of Lovers on Amazon/Kindle ! Prepare for "the talk" with your children using...
Jan 15, 2026•32 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This is our last episode of the Fantasy Series with Niki, based on The Book of Lovers , which is available on Amazon :) thank you all for joining me during this mini series, and stay tuned for new episodes in the New Year from Cami and I! We hope you all have a happy holiday season, stay safe and stay grateful. Sending you all hugs and love. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! & don't forget to check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , to help yo...
Dec 18, 2025•13 min
Welcome back DT Fam! 2nd to last episode of the Fantasy Series with Niki here :) This week we are covering the Story of Callahan, a situationship that gets a shot at more. But how do you know if you really like someone and want more than just a casual fling? There's one indicator that's sure to give you an immediate answer. Tune in and find out. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! Order The Book of Lovers on Amazon ! And for parents and caretakers, check out Cami's course, Empo...
Dec 04, 2025•14 min
Welcome back, DT Fam! For this episode, we are diving into one of the scenes I wrote largely inspired by the play parties hosted by two dear friends of mine, which often featured a bounce house. If you're curious about what it's like to have *fun* in a bounce house, I hope this captures that. The Book of Lovers is available on Amazon today ! Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! & check out Cami's course: Empowering Caretakers, to help you prepare for "the talk" with your chi...
Nov 20, 2025•11 min
Welcome back DT Fam! If you're here with me, I just want to say thank you and I appreciate your support. This episode is about the Story of Nial, largely based on my previous marriage/exhusband, and how I fantasized about a polyamorous happy-ever-after. Hope you enjoy this episode and don't forget to order The Book of Lovers on Amazon :) Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! & check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , to prepare yourself for "the talk" with your childr...
Nov 06, 2025•14 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Today's episode features a scene from the Story of Jett, where the two characters play a game of cat & mouse. For anyone that loves to dive into any form of primal play, this one's for you. Pre-order the Book of Lovers today :) Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! & if you're a parent looking for ways to have "the talk" with your child, check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , and use code EMPOWER for 10$ off....
Oct 23, 2025•8 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Cami decided to come out of retirement to record with Steff and Rose while she was in LA :) This episode dives into titty picks, period sex, bushes, Rose's lessons from her parents, and Steff's first play party! It felt so good to be back in the studio, and we hope you enjoy! Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! Preorder Niki's Book! Check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , to give you the tools to have "the talk" with your kids! Use code EMPOWER for...
Oct 16, 2025•50 min
Welcome back DT Fam! The story was inspired by someone that (piss)ed me off, so it is a bit of a betrayal trope & a revenge fantasy. Also! The book is now available for preorder , woooo! It'll release November 5th. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree!
Oct 09, 2025•14 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This is such a super niche fantasy, but SO FUN. In the full scene that can be found in the book, we have a slew of MMFs, FFMs, FFFs... all the acronyms. Can't wait for you all to read this one :) You can now pre-order The Book of Lovers on Amazon! Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree !
Sep 25, 2025•10 min
Welcome back to another episode of the Fantasy Series with Niki :) This week we dive into the Story of Alec, set in an AI dystopian world where a lot of keenky things happen. And of course, there's knife play. This one pushes the boundaries a bit too, tune in to find out how. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! You can now preorder The Book of Lovers on Amazon!...
Sep 11, 2025•10 min
Welcome back to FWSN (Fantasy Series With Niki)! Not to be confused with NSFW, although... it is not safe for work. This week, however, we are starting off slow with a bit of a warm up. Introducing the Story of Dominik, which is largely inspired by someone I never met in person, only on TikTok. Val and Dom end up at the same event and even in the same hotel... so what happens next? It's a fun, little twist on the one bed trope. You can now preorder The Book of Lovers on Amazon! Check out all of ...
Aug 28, 2025•8 min
Hello DT Fam and welcome to my Fantasy Series with Niki (FSWN), a play on the NSWF acronym if you will. Today, I am introducing the project I have been working on for close to two years now, titled the Book of Lovers. I plan to release this book as an e-book on Amazon, so stay tuned for the pre-sale link and more updates! Hope you all enjoy :) You can now preorder The Book of Lovers on Amazon! Check out all of our brand partners and Cami's course on our Linktree !...
Aug 14, 2025•12 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This episode is a bit of a walk down memory lane for the podcast. After celebrating four years of doing the pod in June, we discuss favorite guests, inspirational moments, things we wish we had done differently, and how our twin divorce is going. But most of all, we want to thank all of you for joining us on this journey. I know we've said it a million times, but it is true: your support and love for this podcast has been so fulfilling and this podcast is what it is because ...
Jul 31, 2025•25 min
Welcome back DT Fam for another Throwback Thursday! This week we are bringing back our episode with Laura Ramadei, co-host of the Girls On Porn Podcast, which was a huge inspiration for us back when we started the pod. I remember meeting her at a play party and being so excited for the opportunity to record an episode together. She was such a great guest, super knowledgable and easy to talk to. We dive into the evolution of porn, favorite categories and guilty pleasures, as well as the creation ...
Jul 24, 2025•57 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Cami is doing a solo episode from San Diego, giving us an update on living alone (apart from Niki), adjusting to a new city, and trying to find a new sense of security and routine. She also dives into co-sleeping with her boyfriend when they spend the night at each other's places. How do you feel about separate blankets? What about separate rooms altogether? Check out all of our brand partners, Cami's course, and Niki's book on our Linktree ! Enjoy a deep, restful night's ...
Jul 17, 2025•26 min
DT FAM for this week, let's throw it back to November 2023, when we recorded with Colette Pervette, a professional Domme and Educatrix. She had some *WILD* stories... one that even had our producer leaving the room to gather himself for 5 minutes. Listening back to this episode was so fun for me, and I hope you all enjoy it just as much all over again. We will be back with a new episode next week!
Jul 10, 2025•45 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Back in April, Niki asked our IG followers what they would do differently if they could restart their non-monogamous journey all over again. The responses definitely had a few themes, so we discuss those in today's episode: tune in to find out! If you're over 21, check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp ! Use code DTFAM for savings on your order :) Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree !...
Jul 03, 2025•35 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Today, we are diving into a topic we briefly covered on Steff's pod (Broke Girl Therapy): high and low libidos! Chances are one of you in the relationship has a higher or lower libido than the other, and there are ways to work through this issue. We discuss some of the mindsets and methods we employ, such as communication tactics, conversation starters, and more. We also briefly touch on using non-monogamy as a tool for couples looking to bridge the gap with the help of ot...
Jun 26, 2025•34 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Cami is here with a Vanilla Sunday all about her course, Empowering Caretakers : NAVIGATING SEX EDUCATION CONVERSATIONS WITH KIDS AND TEENS . She's discussed a bit of it on the podcast here and there, but this is a more in depth look, featuring some of the fascinating things she learned along the way and a look at her experience in creating this course. For current or future parents, this is a great listen and we hope you enjoy! Use code EMPOWER for 10$ off your course :) Ch...
Jun 15, 2025•19 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Just the two of us this week :) Given our long distance relationships, we dive into the topic of wanking together with your partner, especially over FaceTime. For LDR couples, this is a great episode going over some tips, finding the confidence, and using this as a way to continue building intimacy together. Enjoy! Enjoy a restful night's sleep with a new Birch mattress made of quality and luxurious materials from Birch Living! Go to birchliving.com/dtf for 27% off your new ...
Jun 12, 2025•21 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Today, we go over listener submissions of ways to surprise your partner. Niki asked our IG followers for some inspiration, and you guys delivered great recommendations :) From heartfelt gestures involving fire places to sexy stickers, tune in to find out! If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies and drops at VIIA Hemp ! Use code DTFAM at checkout for savings and free shipping. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree !...
Jun 05, 2025•36 min
Welcome back DT Fam! On today's episode, we've got a Vag Fact to share with you that had us both infuriated. We also talk about internalization and how not to take things personally if your partner is having a bad day (it's not your fault!). We also lay out the female cycle and how to best support your period having partner during each phase :) Get your vaginal microbiome tested with Evvy ! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout for savings on your test. Enjoy a great night's sleep with a Birch Mattress! ...
May 29, 2025•36 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Today we welcome back Brittany Brave , a comedian who we met thru the pod years ago! For anyone that has been here since day one, she was one of the first guests we had on the show. This conversation takes many turns, we dive into: how your 20s are for mistakes and your 30s are for maturity, learning to leave (a bad relationship) and trusting yourself to do so, updating your beneficiary on your life insurance policy, and how to support single friends. Trigger warning: we do ...
May 22, 2025•49 min
Welcome back DT Fam! If you remember Dr. Joli Hamilton from our last episode with her, she is back and we are talking about jealousy again. This time... all about retroactive jealousy and how our imagination shapes those jealous feelings. We also dive into a lot of the studies done around jealousy, including findings, what they measured, how they defined jealousy, and more. How do you define jealousy? What were you taught about jealousy as a child? If you struggle with jealousy, this episode is ...
May 15, 2025•1 hr 1 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Pete joins us yet again, and this time we are talking about girls night vs. guys night? Based on a viral Tiktok where the girl asks the group if her bf can come, we explore the question - is it okay to bring your significant other to girls/guys night? What if they're having a crappy day, do you stay home with them or continue on with your plans? Find new friends or lovers with FEELD ! Download on Google Play or the App Store today. If you're 21 and over, check out our favo...
May 08, 2025•46 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Molly Tullis joins us on the pod today, she is a romantic fiction author that we have been following for years. If you're into spicy books, this episode is for you. From the books that featured the first sex scenes we read about, to the ones that healed our parental wounds, it is pretty amazing what reading (and writing!) can do for us. Hope you enjoy :) Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree! Spring is here and it is time to get out and meet people! Check out F...
May 06, 2025•47 min
Welcome back DT Fam! We are moving from Los Angeles, and we take a walk down memory lane. This is the city where we became creators and started the pod! Also where we had so many firsts and explored every play party we could find, thanks to the people who welcomed us into the world of play parties. Join us as we dive into some fun memories and recommendations. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! Check out our favorite gummies from VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings :) Fin...
Apr 24, 2025•29 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Today, Frank Arthur Smith is back on the show - he is the creator of Open To It , a series about a polyamorous gay couple exploring the ins and outs of their non-monogamous relationship. Our first episode with him was all about season 1, and this episode is about season 2, where they explore themes of intentional ENM exploration, deepening meaningful connections, and reflecting on fulfillment and satisfaction in one's journey. This season also features bisexual representatio...
Apr 17, 2025•56 min
