Welcome back DT Fam! Niki read an article about how 41% of Gen Z is interested in exploring open relationships... which is a lot! SO, as two people who have had their fair share of non-monogamous exploration, here are six tips to help anyone who is interested in diving into the world of non-traditional relationship structures. The book Niki mentioned was, More: A Memoir of Open Marriage by Molly Roden Winter. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree ! If you're 21 and over, check out ...
Apr 10, 2025•35 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Madelyn Moon joins us today, she is a somatic facilitator and author of Artist of Love . She loves championing self expression through creative acting methods, and we dive into those. So if you're struggling to say something and you want to approach it in a different way so you can say what you want to say, give this episode a listen and see if maybe it helps you out. If you're 21+, check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp , and use code DTFAM for 15% off your order! Meet...
Apr 03, 2025•52 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Two friends of ours told us to listen to a podcast about a (married) woman who had a ChatGPT boyfriend. Niki listened to the podcast and recounts it all to Cami, bringing us to ask ourselves.. how do we feel about AI/ChatGPT relationship? If you'd like to listen to the original podcast episode, it is linked here . Curious to hear your thoughts!! DM us on Instagram or comment on YouTube, or write into our website. Check out our brand partners on our Linktree! If you're 21+, c...
Mar 27, 2025•39 min
Welcome back DT Fam! We brought back a favorite of y'alls: Tia :) Unfortunately, she is going through a break up in her non-monogamous relationship, and has run into the dilemma of having to attend play parties with her ex - they share a friend group! We talk about potential rules and boundaries, what the transition has been like, and what she's calling in for her next partnership. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree! If you're looking for open-minded singles on a dating app unli...
Mar 20, 2025•57 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Niki's been struggling with doomscrolling lately, especially in today's political climate, so this episode is all about helping you stay aware and proactive so you're not letting social media put you in a pit of despair. I hope you all enjoy, and see you again soon for another Vanilla Sunday!
Mar 16, 2025•15 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Our good friend Pete, a TikTok creator we met on the app, joins us today :) He recently moved from Colorado to California, so we talk about dating in a new city, romanticizing your life, finding new hobbies to meet people, and and joining run club (aka IRL Tinder). Check out Peteski on TikTok! If you're a parent or caretaker, head on over to Empowered Caretakers to learn all about how to give your child the best s*x talk to prepare them for their s*xual debut. Use code EMPOW...
Mar 13, 2025•57 min
Hey DT Fam! Here is our review of Babygirl, Nicole Kidman's latest movie. A lot of our friends in the kink community were not fans, and we totally get it... it wasn't a great representation of power exchange, but we argue: it wasn't a movie about kink! Tune in to find out more. We recommend it, and if you haven't watched it, go check it out, then come back to this episode (it does have spoilers!). If you are a parent or caretaker looking to prepare yourself for the sex talk with your children, c...
Mar 06, 2025•29 min
Welcome back, DTFAM! Steff from Broke Girl Therapy is back on the pod today. We dive into rich ex-boyfriends, who pays for what in a relationship or when dating, and also how it's going for her and her man now that they are working together after his recent layoff. Be sure to tune into Broke Girl Therapy now that she is making her return. If you are a parent or caretaker looking to have the sex talk with your child, check out Cami's course, Empowering Caretakers , and use code EMPOWER for 10$ of...
Feb 27, 2025•49 min
We are finally back with Vanilla Sundays! And for this one, Niki goes through her process for setting a boundary. Too many people use the term "boundary" without properly knowing what that actually means or what that entails, so hopefully, this is helpful.
Feb 23, 2025•16 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This week we dive into boundaries and considerations around friends of the opposite s*x when you are partnered, although honestly a lot of it can apply to friends of the opposite s*x when you are single too, because boundaries are definitely important. Find out why Cami absolutely loathes one of her man's female friends, the tea is served here for sure. In loving memory of Tiesto, this was our last episode recorded with him. Rest easy my little chunky. Be sure to check out C...
Feb 20, 2025•43 min
Welcome back DT Fam! Another episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast :) This time, we are diving into what women think about during sex, based on a Q&A Abby did on her Instagram. Do women think about other dicks? What's happening when we close our eyes? What if the guy comes too quick, is that an issue? Check out our brand partners on our Linktree! Click on Iroha at doubleteamfam.com and use code DTF10 for 10% off your order! Order Niki's favorite sex blanket from Sunny Situations ! Use ...
Feb 12, 2025•58 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This week we're talking about what to keep and what to delete when it comes to pics of past lovers and such. Is it okay to keep spicy pics? When do you delete them? Is it when you break up the relationship or when you're ready to let the pics go? What about pics you've sent to exes? Lots to discuss. This is our second to last episode recorded with Tiesto, our beloved kitty who has passed away. If you're a parent, or you want to give yourself a better s*x talk, check out Cami...
Feb 06, 2025•30 min
Hey DT Fam! This week, we are co-releasing this episode with Abigail from Rat Girls Podcast . We dive into some of the toxic things we've done in the name of jealousy, as well as our jealous triggers, jealous exes, and jealousy coping mechanisms. Hope you all enjoy this episode! & if you're a parent or caretaker, give your kids the s*x talk with the help of Empowered Caretakers , the course that gives you all the tools you need, created by Cami. Use code EMPOWER at checkout. Get 10% off our ...
Jan 29, 2025•1 hr 13 min
Welcome back DTFAM! We are so excited to be back here with you guys, we have definitely missed you all and the pod. OKAY SO, first things first - CAMI FINISHED HER ONLINE COURSE ON EMPOWERING PARENTS AND CARETAKERS! More to come on that, but please feel free to check out the link here and order your course today, even if you don't have children. Use code EMPOWER for $10 off. Secondly, we've got some stories regarding waterproof blankets (aka s*x blankets), which are now an absolute must during s...
Jan 23, 2025•37 min
Hey DT Fam! Here's a Vanilla Sunday all about reflecting on our work and home life as Mars retrogrades through the signs of Leo and Cancer (Dec 6th thru Feb 23rd!). I find this is a time I am usually questioning where I am putting my energy, reflecting on my relationships and my home life, but also a time when I am feeling more sensitive and emotional. I have a few tips for you as we finish out this transit, and I hope they inspire you to reflect in ways that bring good changes and updates to yo...
Jan 19, 2025•12 min
Happy Holidays DTFAM :) This is our last episode of 2024! Don't worry, we will be back mid-January 2025 for our next season. We hope you all have an amazing holiday break, and please stay safe out there. In this episode, we cover some Vag Facts by Evvy, how to rate your sex life, and Niki's current dilemma in missing exploring parts of her bisexuality. As always, thank you for your support in listening to our show, and can't wait to be back next year! Boost your stamina and drive with JoyMode! G...
Dec 19, 2024•40 min
Welcome back DT Fam! This Sunday, Cami's walking us through the recent check-in she did with her boyfriend and the framework/outline she used to make it successful for the both of them. From example questions to tips on how to soften the blow for the hard stuff, she's got some great advice if this is something you're looking to incorporate in your relationship. Enjoy! Test your v*ginal microbiome today with Evvy ! Use code DTFAM10 at checkout....
Dec 15, 2024•12 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Today is a short and sweet episode analyzing what to do if you feel crappy after a wanking sesh, something Niki has been struggling with. If you share this struggle, hope it helps! And if not, perhaps it might still give you some good questions to reflect on when it comes to self love. Head on over to soakingwet.com and use code DTFAM for 10% your order of Soaking Wet :) Give Joymode a try at tryjoymode.com and use code DOUBLETEAM for savings on your order! Try our favorit...
Dec 05, 2024•24 min
Welcome back to another Vanilla Sunday :) This week, let's look and see if you and your boo are a fated connection. If you feel that inexplicable tug, astrology can definitely tell you why. We're diving into north node synastry, south node synastry, why everyone says to avoid moon/south node synastry, and what it means when they touch the personal planets, Jupiter/Saturn, and the ascendant/midhaven. If you'd like to do some research of the nodes, check out Cafe Astrology or Chani Nichols ! &...
Dec 01, 2024•20 min
*** Apologies for the technical difficulties, the first 3 minutes of the episode are cut off by the platform. Full episode can be found YouTube .*** Hey DT Fam! A new guest is joining us today - Nikole Mitchell, known as the pastor turned str*pper that went viral on social media. She is now a life coach and adult content creator, and she is just absolutely full of wisdom - so inspirational! She doubled down on herself, and it paid off. We dive into her varied career, her key to success, and her ...
Nov 21, 2024•50 min
Happy Sunday, fam! In this episode, Cami walks us all through the practices we use to call in more abundance in our home. This includes: salt and cinnamon ritual, money corner plants, crystals around the home, and cleansing out any energy that gets in the way of your abundance. It's a little woo woo, but come with an open mind - these have really worked for us!
Nov 17, 2024•12 min
Hey DT Fam! A listener asked for some aftercare tips, so we decided to share our favorite forms of both pre and after-care, because it's all about the intention both going in and out of an intimate experience. From snack buckets to breathing exercises, we hope you find inspiration to add some new forms of precare and aftercare to your routines :) And if you're looking for a nice beverage to sip on as you lay out your toys, head on over to seggswater.com and use code DTFAM for a discount! If you’...
Nov 14, 2024•26 min
Hey DT Fam, Abby from Vibeslut & the Rat Girls Podcast is back on our show this week! We love her, she always has us laughing. We recap her wedding, which she made sure to stick to what was true to her! And we also dive into the healthy aspects of our respective relationships including: growing and learning from past mistakes, showing commitment to healing right off the bat, and recognizing your partner's healing as well. Also - TEAMA! Tune in to find out what that's all about, but Cami is a...
Nov 07, 2024•1 hr
Welcome back DT Fam! You all see the furballs in and out of the frame on many episodes, so we decided to do an episode giving you all formal introductions including their signs, their ages, and their quirks. Also, our favorite stories. Happy Sunday :)
Nov 03, 2024•33 min
Welcome back for part 2, so glad to have you here :) Also, Happy Halloween! In this episode, we cover the day of and post party - from tear down, to the conversation Cami had with her man afterwards. And if you're looking to recruit some hot, open-minded people for your next play party, might we recommend Feeld ? Thank you guys for tuning in, and we will be back next week! Get bigger, better tasting loads with Popstar ! Use code DTFAM at checkout :) Up your stamina with Joymode , use code DOUBLE...
Oct 31, 2024•40 min
Hello DT Fam! Before we found ourselves in monogamous relationships, we planned.... a birthday play party :) By the time we met our respective boyfriends, we of course could not cancel, so we proceeded with what is probably our last play party for quite some time (not sure what the future holds there!) This episode dives into the planning, the requirements we had for our guests, and the conversations we had with our partners beforehand. Come back next week to hear how it went! Download Feeld on ...
Oct 24, 2024•33 min
Hey DT Fam! Niki is here this week to talk through some practices she uses to overcome those pesky intrusive thoughts that bombard the mind when our fears start taking over. From scrunching your toes to visualizing kicking them to the curb, we hope these help you get back to a place where you aren't believing in the worst-case scenario. Also, RE: ChaptGPT affirmations, here are some good ones :) "I acknowledge my thoughts, but they do not define me." "I am in control of my mind and my reactions....
Oct 20, 2024•21 min
Hey DT Fam :) Just the two of us this week, and we recap Niki's trip to Italy and her long-distance relationship. What is it like maintaining a relationship when there's a nine-hour time difference and a fourteen-hour plane ride away? What does communication look like? How long is it sustainable? Cami also discusses aspects of her long-distance relationship, although they are only about a three-hour drive apart, luckily. Check out our favorite gummies at VIIA Hemp and use code DTFAM for savings!...
Oct 17, 2024•41 min
Welcome back DT Fam :) Mackie Swan, CEO of Woo More Play, joins us today on the pod! We met her at an event over the summer and really hit it off, she's absolutely hilarious. We talk about surging s*x drives after 30, maintaining a baseline libido, her contributions to the sexual wellness space, and more. Be sure to check out WooMorePlay.com and use code DTFAM for 20% off. Check out all of our brand partners on our Linktree! Increase your stamina in the bedroom with JoyMode! Go to Tryjoymode.com...
Oct 10, 2024•57 min
Hey DT Fam :) Cami missed her last Vanilla Sunday, because she was recovering from her most recent procedure - a nose job! She discusses the surgery, recovery, what the pain has been like, her boyfriend's opinion, and how she is liking the results. This is part two to her previous Vanilla Sunday, enjoy!
Oct 06, 2024•14 min
