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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Montswww.dontblameme.show
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.  On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.  On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.  Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.

Episodes

SYNT: Sex Lessons

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong? Sex Lessons. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagra...

Feb 18, 202550 min

BAIW: Parents Comment On Our Toddler's Body

Content Warning: Writer #1 Body Shaming But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Stop eating eggs Melisa - If you’re going to be a penis surgery advocate, tell the truth But Are You Wrong: In-laws are making weird comments Being into someone your friend is into But Are They Wrong: Meghan - LG Ovens Melisa - Stephen A. Smith Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-bla...

Feb 17, 20251 hr 1 min

FF: Fly Eagles Fly

From the electric excitement of seeing Beyoncé live to Meghan's hilarious guessing game for Melisa, this episode is full of fun. They break down the Eagles' epic win and Kendrick Lamar's legendary l performance, while Melisa reignites her passionate dislike for Drake. Plus, they reminisce about their all-time favorite commercials and Meghan shares details about her exciting new show! Tune in for all the laughs and hot takes! Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for...

Feb 14, 20251 hr 5 min

DBM: Buying My Own Valentine's Day Gift

Content Warning: Rape (4th Call) This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Husband thinks it's too hard to get me a gift Ending a friendship Ex wants to be a cop Not remembering sex Update: Paying boyfriend’s dad’s mortgage Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanri...

Feb 13, 202557 min

SYNT: Fart Selfie

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Fart Selfie. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagra...

Feb 11, 202548 min

BAIW: Sex Lessons

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Stan Culture Meghan: Sexy Food But Are You Wrong: Ignoring a co-worker Husband bad at sex But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Krysta Fauria Meghan: The Daily Mail Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 3...

Feb 10, 20251 hr 21 min

FF: Cowboy Carter and The Game on Sunday

Meghan and Melisa discuss their favorite moments from Grammy Awards and are looking forward to seeing the The Eagles soar. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @s...

Feb 07, 20251 hr 14 min

DBM: Banged Everyone At My Future Company

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Comparing your crush to your boyfriend Approaching your partner about seeing a therapist The 2 co-workers I hooked up with know about each other My friend hooked up with 2 of my friends Update: That's your man Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks ...

Feb 06, 20251 hr 13 min

SYNT: Private Wedding

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Private Wedding. Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontblameme Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagr...

Feb 04, 202553 min

BAIW: Fart Selfie

Update: White Michael B. Jordan But Am I Wrong: Meghan: If you find yourself agreeing with Candace Owens, uh oh, my friend, I hate to break it to you, but you are sliding down the alt-right pipeline Melisa: Just because you talk a lot does not make you a great conversationalist But Are You Wrong: Roommate inviting their Hinge date over Annoying classmate But Are They Wrong Meghan: Rhiannon Evans Melisa: Ice Baiting Content Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on I...

Feb 03, 20251 hr 19 min

FF: J. Lo's Getting an Oscar!

Melisa spills some tea (lore if you will) that's just for Meghan's ears – sorry, everyone else! Meghan shares a surprising tidbit: they were mentioned on the Morning Toast Snark subreddit! We then move on to some truly bizarre news: the Louisville Zoo is letting you name a cockroach for Valentine's Day! From now on, we're honoring Keke and referring to her by her given and preferred name, Lauren Palmer. We take a moment to gush over the talented Leon Thomas and reminisce about working with him o...

Jan 31, 20251 hr 2 min

DBM: Boyfriend's Family Uses the N Word

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Annoying neighbor plays music too loud Boyfriend’s dad is financially abusive Can’t stand boyfriend’s racist family Don't Blame Them: Not knowing how to kiss And reading people's thoughts on the co-sucker call Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks ...

Jan 30, 20251 hr 6 min

SYNT: 2025 Predictions

Meghan is excited to share her belated 2025 predictions. Melisa isn't feeling like Raven. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone....

Jan 28, 202548 min

BAIW: Private Wedding

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Doesn't want to talk politics Meghan: If you don’t live in California, don’t comment on the fires But Are You Wrong: Keeping racists in-laws to be away from the wedding Refunding a gift But Are They Wrong Melisa: Snoop Dogg Meghan: Allie Rae Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon....

Jan 27, 20251 hr 17 min

FF: We Talked About Fried WHAT?

Meghan's buzzing about Jamie Foxx and Cameron Diaz's hot new action flick, "Back in Action," while Melisa's still deep in her old gal films, including "80 for Brady" and "Book Club." The ladies dive deep into their Letterboxd wish lists, revealing their cinematic dreams and nightmares. They also share their must-watch and rewatch obsessions, from classic comfort films to recent favorites. But hold onto your hats because they stumble upon a shocking revelation from a past episode that will leave ...

Jan 24, 202550 min

CLASSIC: We Grew Up In A Cult

Original Air Date: August 3, 2020 This week, we're sharing advice on: Telling dirty stories in bed Having trouble with penetrative sex Boyfriend needing to add a third person to the relationship Dealing with an unstable stepmom Don't Blame Them: boyfriend gaining weight Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/me...

Jan 23, 20251 hr 17 min

CLASSIC: I Want My Husband To Watch

Original Air Date: April 26, 2021 This week we're sharing advice on: Hiding your hobbies Dating as a liberal Feelings for a friend Don't Blame Them: he proposed but changed his mind Call Transcriptions Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagra...

Jan 21, 20251 hr 28 min

CLASSIC: He Cheated with a Witch

Original Air Date: November 11, 2020 This week, we're sharing advice on: Work woes Choosing between two guys Choosing a therapist Update: Boyfriend cheating in many ways Call Transcriptions Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisn...

Jan 20, 20251 hr 27 min

DBM: Learning to Kiss + Co-Sucker Update

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Not knowing how to kiss An unsupportive classmate Retrieving your nudes Don't Blame Them and an Update the Co-Sucking Co-Worker Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa in...

Jan 16, 20251 hr 4 min

CLASSIC: Good Wet Sex

Original Air Date: October 14, 2019 - We're taking a brief hiatus due to the LA Fires. Here’s your October dose of M&M. We’re sharing our advice on how to dump your boyfriend who followed you to college, confronting your Instagram Stalker, introducing an open relationship, dealing with your boyfriend hanging out with a co-worker he made out with, and if you should ask the guy that knocked you up to help pay for your medical bills. In Don’t Blame Them, a listener shares her advice on sex anxi...

Jan 14, 20251 hr 9 min

CLASSIC: My Boyfriend Is Ashamed That I’m a Sex Worker

Original Air Date: May 25, 2020 Due to the LA fires, we're taking a brief hiatus. This week we're sharing advice on: Not getting along with your quarantine roommate Hiding a green card marriage Telling your partner you don't want to have kids Boyfriend having pictures of your little sister Don't Blame Them: Boyfriend calling his friend his sister Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or...

Jan 13, 20251 hr 6 min

SYNT: Ho Ho Ho! + Golden Globes + TomDaya

Meghan and Melisa discuss The Golden Globes, Zendaya and Tom Holland's engagement, Meghan, Duchess of Sussex's new TV show, Martha Stewart inspiration plus share the results from But Am I Wrong Episode: Ho, Ho, Ho! Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Write In for BAIW - [email protected] (300 words or less) Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @megh...

Jan 07, 20251 hr 13 min

Catch Up: Beyoncé Bowl, Robbie Williams, Flights From Hell

Happy New Year! Join Meghan and Melisa as they ease back into life in Los Angeles, dragging their holiday colds and a collective trauma from their respective flights from hell. Forget "But Am I Wrong," this week's episode is a chaotic catch-up session featuring: Robbie Williams: Who? The nation grapples with a collective amnesia surrounding the British pop icon. The Balldo: Melisa introduces Meghan to this life-changing device. Beyoncé Bowl: The duo (and their niblings) were in awe of the icon. ...

Jan 06, 20251 hr 25 min

CLASSIC: Former Comatose Husband Thought He Killed His Girlfriend

Original Air Date: June 1, 2020 Being pressured to marry so you can financially take care of your boyfriend's family Big man (douche) on campus doesn't want people to know he's dating an underclassman Only fantasizing about exes when you're having sex with your boyfriend Don't Blame Them: Getting involved with your girlfriend's husband Update from the caller who was pregnant by her stepbrother Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 03, 20251 hr 25 min

CLASSIC: Boyfriend Has His “Sister’s” Nudes

Original Air Date: April 20, 2020 This week we're sharing advice on: Boyfriend complaining about different decorating tastes Having different styles of communication Partner not saying, “I Love You” Missing your ex that you're still cuddling with Update: Caller clarifies that her boyfriend isn't gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jan 02, 20251 hr 20 min

CLASSIC: Accidental Murder w/ Nikki Limo

Original Air Date: December 3, 2018 (He Murdered Someone on Accident?) Actress Nikki Limo is here to share her amazing advice. We’re answering your questions about being homesick, weed allergies, dating in college, being harassed by a guy with little man syndrome, and reaching out to an ex that murdered someone. We also have a listener sharing support for the caller that was sexually assaulted by her co-worker’s fiance. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-69...

Dec 30, 20241 hr 13 min

CLASSIC: 2024 Predictions and Cults

Original Air Date: January 1, 2024 Get ready as Meghan predicts 2024's wild trend. Then, hold onto your hats as Melisa shares how she almost got caught up in a cult. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 27, 202436 min

DBM: Christmas Anxiety

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Facing your disapproving parents during the holidays Having a low libido Not including your dad in vacation plans How to show up for a friend during a difficult time Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotme...

Dec 25, 20241 hr 20 min

SYNT: FWB Won't Pay For My Ubers + Arkansas Holiday Fun

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: FWB Won't Pay For My Ubers then Melisa shares her holiday adventures in Arkansas. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/diamondmprint.productions Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 24, 202437 min

BAIW: Ho Ho Ho!

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: We need more fake accents Melisa: Be a HoHo Ho For the holidays! But Are You Wrong: Seeing your man out with another girl Not getting your sibling a Christmas Gift But Are They Wrong Meghan: Matilda Djerf Melisa: Nicholas Wayne Hamlett Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/do...

Dec 23, 202458 min
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