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Don't Blame Me! / But Am I Wrong?

Meghan Rienks and Melisa D. Montswww.dontblameme.show
Actor/Content Creator Meghan Rienks and Producer/Writer/Director Melisa D. Monts are like every other person with access to a microphone, they started a podcast. But to be fair they’ve been at it for a while. It all began with one show which led to another, but as they say, more is more.  On Mondays they release Don’t Blame Me!, which is an advice podcast where listeners call in and we share our thoughts on situations such as “What to do if you’re going to your boyfriend’s family function and you haven’t told him that you previously slept with both his twin brothers.” Then on Thursdays they release But Am I Wrong?, where they ethically gossip about pop culture, politics, their lives, and the listener's lives. Listeners write in and Meghan and Melisa tell them if they’re wrong or right in a situation.  On Tuesdays and Fridays they throw in a little something extra as well.  Meghan and Melisa strive to create community, grounded in activism, mental health, and inclusively. Think of them as your blunt, honest friends who give you the advice you need to hear, not what you want to hear, but are rooting for your success. What they lack in credentials, they make up in opinions. They’re professional unprofessionals. So if you’re looking for a new slate of podcasts to add to your routine, we’re here for you.
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Episodes

FF: Are We Going on Tour?

Meghan's got her hands dirty (literally!) this week, diving into the joys and challenges of gardening outside while Melisa has been doing hydro gardening inside. Meanwhile, Melisa is officially FREE! Freshly finished with her classes, she's promising Meghan (and you!) that those half-watched shows are finally going to get some love. But first, there's a crucial viewing assignment: Michelle Buteau's "Survival of the Thickest" has jumped to the top of the queue! Later in the episode, Meghan brings...

Apr 11, 202555 min

DBM: Nosy About Boyfriend's Trauma

Content Warning: Submission #3 - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: Better dating app matches Jumping into a serious relationship Keeping religious parents away from your boyfriend Afraid of triggering your partner Don't Blame Them: Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/me...

Apr 10, 20251 hr 16 min

SYNT: Dropping A Friend Because of Their Husband

Melisa shares her new life hack and then she and Meghan get into the results fro But Am I Wrong: Dropping A Friend Because of Their Husband. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.c...

Apr 08, 20251 hr 18 min

BAIW: Calling The Police

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: If TVs rot our brains, why did Scandall teach me more about a filibuster than my 8th-grade civics teacher Meghan: Ghostwriters are for memoires. They’re not for novels But Are You Wrong: Hypothetically not telling the guy they’re dating that there’s an open position at their job Being disturbed by loud music But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Police Chief Robert Farley Meghan: Kenneth Degiorgio Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram htt...

Apr 07, 20251 hr 10 min

FF: Kid Cuteness Overload

This week, prepare for a heartwarming and hilarious journey with Melisa and Meghan! Melisa gushes about her recent hangout with her friends' absolutely adorable baby, sharing all the sweet details. Meanwhile, Meghan recounts a magical day spent at Disneyland with her nephew, sparking a wave of nostalgia for Melisa as she reflects on her own Disney adventure with her niece... a whole 14 years ago! The Disney magic doesn't stop there, though. Meghan reveals her aspirations to fully embrace her inn...

Apr 04, 202559 min

DBM: Feeling Hopeless

Content Warning - Body image in submission #2 This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Scared to become an influencer Losing weight because of a medical condition Not being compensated for work Unsure of what to do in life Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanri...

Apr 03, 20251 hr 16 min

SYNT: Karaoke Drama

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong? Karaoke Drama. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Apr 01, 20251 hr 6 min

BAIW: Dropping A Friend Because of Their Husband

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Thin people shouldn't comment on plus-size people's platforms Melisa: Normalize talking shit about your workplace if you can But Are You Wrong: Ending a friendship due to their spouse's political beliefs Old white people commenting on Black hair But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Bachelor in Paradise Melisa: Dr. Gerhardt Konig Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://s...

Mar 31, 20251 hr 15 min

FF: Shondland's The Residence

After battling a bug, Melisa emerges from her sickbed with a newfound appreciation for entertainment! She dives headfirst into the world of variety and comedy shows, seeking laughter and lightheartedness. Meanwhile, her enthusiasm for "Running Point" sparks a hilarious anecdote from Meghan, recounting her 5-year-old nephew's shocking basketball allegiance. But the sports talk quickly shifts to the new Netflix show "The Residence," which both women are now obsessed with. This leads to a deep dive...

Mar 28, 202559 min

DBM: Better Dating App Matches

Content Warning: Update and Write In #3 - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Update: RA sharing experience dealing with SA in the dorms How to keep yourself fed as a college student Dating app advice Heinous bitch watch your bitches Romantically connecting with someone who's neurodivergent Don't Blame Them: Being with a delicate lover Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - meghanpodcast@gmail...

Mar 27, 20251 hr 10 min

SYNT: CrossFit Cheating Scandal

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: CrossFit Cheating Scandal. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotme...

Mar 25, 202555 min

BAIW: Karaoke Drama

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Office Sirens Meghan: Leave Millie Bobby Brown Alone But Are You Wrong: Expecting your parents to know you're depressed Stopping a rude drunk girl But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Aimee Bock and Salim Said of Feeding Our Future Meghan: Happiest Baby Company Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://w...

Mar 24, 20251 hr 18 min

FF: Weekend of Chaos

Melisa's weekend took a sharp left turn into chaos! Between witnessing a scary crime and a surprise encounter with a decidedly unconventional cousin, she's got stories to tell. Meanwhile, Meghan's weekend was a lot more calm. After a surprisingly pleasant shopping trip, she saw the new Captain America. But the real heat comes from the undeniable, collective thirst for Giancarlo Esposito. Meghan also dives into the Alex Cross tv series while Melisa kicks off her journey with the new show, "Runnin...

Mar 21, 20251 hr 20 min

DBM: When To Have The Talk

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Change in appearance after having surgery Getting over a friendship/situationship breakup Can't afford to attending your friend's bridal activities When to talk about making things official Update: Handling a bad friendship breakup when you work together Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmel...

Mar 20, 20251 hr 11 min

SYNT: Unlicensed Friend Borrowing Car

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Unlicensed Friend Borrowing Car. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 18, 202537 min

BAIW: CrossFit Cheating Scandal

But Am I Wrong: Meghan: Inappropriate race switching in movies and tv Melisa: More man should get AI girlfriends But Are You Wrong: Calling out lying sister-in-law Gossiping at the gym But Are They Wrong: Meghan: Corepower Thief Melisa: Jennifer Lee Wilson Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontb...

Mar 17, 20251 hr 25 min

FF: Bay Area Iconic (?) Songs

Join Meghan and Melisa for another dose of their signature blend of pop culture, personal updates, and unfiltered commentary! This week, Meghan dives deep into her musical roots, sharing a curated playlist of classic Bay Area tunes that are sure to get you grooving. Meanwhile, Melisa confesses she's been happily lost in the world of daytime drama, catching up on all the latest soap opera twists and turns. Meghan also revisits some of her past predictions, offering a candid update on how they're ...

Mar 14, 20251 hr 9 min

DBM: I Need to Get Railed w/ Jerah A. Milligan

This week Meghan and Melisa are joined by Jerah A. Milligan and are giving advice on: If I should continue a friendship Husband and her friend think the guy I'm dating is gay Feeling undatable Being with a delicate lover Jerah's Show: But Did You Die? Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://...

Mar 13, 20251 hr 33 min

SYNT: Work Threats

Meghan and Melisa share the result from But Am I Wrong: Work Threats. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa instagra...

Mar 11, 202553 min

BAIW: Unlicensed Friend Borrowing Car

But Am I Wrong: Melisa: Only journalists should be allowed on the red carpet Meghan: You should be allowed to win only one Oscar But Are You Wrong: A friend wants to use your car for their driver's test But Are They Wrong: Melisa: Deputy Marvin Morales Meghan: Zachary's Daiquiris Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https...

Mar 10, 202558 min

FF: Pee Fetish

This week, things get... interesting. Melisa's world bends as she experiences time blindness for the first time, leaving her questioning the very fabric of reality (and her to-do list). Meanwhile, Meghan's content creation takes an unexpected turn, resulting in accidental piss fetish content that's... well, let's say it's memorable. On the bright side, Meghan's diving headfirst into the drama of "Paradise," providing the perfect escape from her accidental fetish fame. Ever the organizer, Melisa ...

Mar 07, 202559 min

DBM: Turning Into Mr. Krabs

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Handling a bad friendship breakup when you work together Scared to let your partner pay for things Grad school or an apprenticeship Dumping a bridesmaid Update: 10/31/2024 Rekindling with an ex Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter....

Mar 06, 20251 hr 18 min

SYNT: Sexist Lab Mates

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong: Sexist Lab Mates. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.com/sheisnotmelissa ins...

Mar 04, 20251 hr 10 min

BAIW: Work Threats

Content Warning: Suicide in But Are You Wrong But Am I Wrong: Meghan - Insurance rant Melisa - Not everyone needs to hop on a duet But Are You Wrong: Shocking your boss But Are They Wrong: Meghan - Kelli Tedford Melisa - Amanda Hergenruder or Chris Hamilton Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dont...

Mar 03, 20251 hr 15 min

FF: It's Hot Topic For Sluts

This week, Meghan unveils some highly questionable slang terms coined by the one and only Mats. Then, buckle up as she recounts her chaotic trip to Spencer's with him. But that's not all! Join Meghan and Melisa as they dive into the delicious world of recipe swapping, sharing their culinary secrets and must-try dishes. Melisa then takes us back to her high school days with a truly gag-worthy food experience that'll leave you cringing (and maybe a little hungry?). Finally, Melisa spills the tea o...

Feb 28, 20251 hr 7 min

DBM: Diversify Your Dating Portfolio

Content Warning for Don't Blame Them - Sexual Assault This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Your friends hating my boyfriend for something I told them Bored at work Having a relationship with your dad Being in love with your friend Don't Blame Them: Having sex when blackout drunk Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanr...

Feb 27, 20251 hr 1 min

SYNT: Parents Comment On Our Toddler's Body

Meghan and Melisa share the results from But Am I Wrong? Parents Comment On Our Toddler's Body. Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In for DBM - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In for DBM - [email protected] (300 words or less) Write in for BAIW - [email protected] DBM Submission Form BAIW Submission Form Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa instagram.co...

Feb 25, 202555 min

BAIW: Sexist Lab Mates

But Am I Wrong: Melisa - Spas should only be for relaxation Meghan - Mama, let's research But Are You Wrong: Blasting music in the car Calling out your team members But Are They Wrong: Melisa - Hanceville, Alabama Police Department Meghan - Protector App Write In: [email protected] Weigh In: vote in the weekly poll on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/by.meghan.and.melisa/ Buy Our Merch: https://store.dftba.com/collections/don-t-blame-me Join Our Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/dontbla...

Feb 24, 20251 hr 35 min

FF: Melisa's B-Day Weekend

This week on the Fisting Friday, it's a birthday celebration recap! Melisa shares all the fun from her birthday weekend. She also loved Lauren "Keke" Palmer and SZA's new movie, "One of Them Days." Meghan's been on a movie trailer deep dive, including the intriguing "Freaky Tales." Speaking of movies, Meghan and Mats had a rom-com weekend, and it seems Mats has officially joined Meghan and Melisa's the pro-J.Lo camp! We delve into Meghan's experience at the star-studded SNL 50th anniversary cele...

Feb 21, 20251 hr 22 min

DBM: Boyfriend Is Too Vanilla

This week Meghan and Melisa are giving advice on: Audiobook recommendations Delayed engagement Craving something more out of your sexual relationship Dating the brother of the guy who you took their virginity Buy Our Merch https://crowdmade.com/collections/sister-sign Call In - 310-694-0976 (3 minutes or less) Write In - [email protected] (300 words or less) Follow Us! instagram.com/meghanandmelisa @meghanrienks instagram.com/meghanrienks https://twitter.com/meghanrienks @sheisnotmelissa i...

Feb 20, 20251 hr 13 min
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