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Dom Sub Devotion

Andrew & Dawn - Infinite Devotionwww.infinitedevotion.com
Deep, authentic discussions and conversations about love, polarity, and Dom/sub dynamics inside of loving healthy relationships. Hosted by Andrew & Dawn - A 24/7 D/s married couple, passionate about each other, and sharing our authentic experience with those hoping to find their own way in loving D/s dynamics. https://infinitedevotion.com
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Live Replay - Q&A, 2024 Highlights, and what's to come in 2025!

Enrollments are open for Rapture 2025! This five month program begins on January 16th this year, and will take you through a deep instruction and integration of everything you need to know to make D/s work in a long term relationship, whether you're a couple who is already working on this, or solo and wanting these dynamics in your next relationship. Click https://infinitedevotion.com/rapture to learn more and save your seat before we fill up! We are ending 2024 with a look back at an incredible...

Dec 30, 20241 hr 37 min

Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2

**Please forgive the audio quality issues we had in this episode...we've made upgrades to prevent this from happening on any of our future episodes! Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 66: Polarity and Masculine/Femin acine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 2 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this second part of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “pola...

Dec 23, 20241 hr 2 min

Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1

Get the free Polarity ebook we reference in this episode here: https://infinitedevotion.com/polarity-ebook Episode 65: Polarity and Masculine/Feminine Energy in Dom/sub relationships - Part 1 Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this first of a two part episode, we dive DEEP into the truth of what it actually means to live a relationship in “polarity”. And what most people get wrong when they talk about these concepts in relationships. These two episodes, and the free ebook above, will teach you every...

Dec 16, 202453 min

Embracing the Unknown: Leaning in to our Dom/sub dynamic when life gets challenging

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me ! Episode 64:Embracing the Unknown: Nomadic life and our Dom/sub dynamic Welcome back, Devoted ones! We recorded this episode about three weeks after leaving home to become full time nomads, living on the road in our RV and traveling the country. This nomadic life is something we’v...

Dec 09, 20241 hr 10 min

Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth

We created a pop up store with some really fun coffee mugs and kneeling pillows for the holidays. This will only be available until the end of December, but you can check it out at https://infinitedevotion.printful.me ! Episode 63: Finding Freedom and Presence in Submission: A Journey of Personal Growth Welcome back, Devoted ones! In this episode, we focus a lot on how Andrew has helped lead Dawn towards more freedom in her life. One of the highest callings we have, when someone submits to us, i...

Dec 02, 20241 hr 1 min

Detaching With Love: Breaking free from codependency in Dom/sub dynamics

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips ~~~~~~~ Welcome back, Devoted Ones! In this episode, Dawn and I dive into codependency and how it can infect, and ultimately cause harm to our relationship. We share stories of how we’ve shown up in codependent patterns in the past and what it’s taken to overcome them, and why we have to detach in order to experience the fullness of love and intensity in our Dom/sub relationship. We also discuss t...

Nov 25, 202456 min

Mindless Obedience: Surrendering Control and Consciousness for Deeper Connection

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the topic of 'mindless obedience' within the context of a loving 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic. Inside this episode, we explore the intricacies and challenges Dawn has faces in letting go of control and embracing submission, and how doing so has helped to enhance intimacy and connection. And she shares her personal experiences and challenge...

Nov 18, 20241 hr 7 min

Embracing Change - Preparing to leave home and become full time nomads

Free gift: 7 Tips for a Rock Solid Dom/sub dynamic. Click here: https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Welcome to the Dom Sub Devotion podcast! In this episode, we share the intimate and transformative journey of moving from a permanent home to a full-time nomadic lifestyle. We explore the emotional challenges, particularly the deep-rooted feelings and familial ties, and the intense preparation leading up to this life-changing decision. You'll see our reflections on personal growth, dealing with co...

Nov 11, 20241 hr 2 min

Finding a Dominant, Helping your man be more Dominant, and dealing with abusive Doms

To find the courses, workshops, and resources we reference in this episode, visit https://infinitedevotion.com/submissives A few weeks back, we did two “Ask A Dom Anything” episodes, and in those episodes, we promised to record a follow up episode answering the three “Big Questions” that were asked by lots and lots of submissives when we solicited those questions. This episode is here to deliver on that promise. What are those three questions? How do I encourage my boyfriend/husband/partner to b...

Nov 04, 202456 min

Embracing Feminine Beauty: Self-Care, Perfectionism, and Abundance in DS Dynamics

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the intricate relationship between feminine beauty, self-care, and the dominant-submissive dynamic within our 24/7 DS marriage. Inspired by an email Dawn received from a list that she’s on, we tackle modern beauty standards, the pressure of perfectionism exacerbated by social media, and the 'crunchy' community's approach to self-care. This convers...

Oct 28, 202458 min

Beyond Sacrifice: Dominance, self care, and giving from fullness

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, the we delve into the critical importance of self-care for dominant men within 24/7 DS marriages and relationships. An especially important topic in this discussion is the pitfall of self sacrifice for men, and an alternative approach to giving of ourselves while also taking care of ourselves. It’s no secret to anyone who explores a deep 24/7 dynamic that th...

Oct 21, 20241 hr 2 min

Does the submissive have all the power in a D/s relationship?

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we explore the often repeated statement that “The submissive ACTUALLY holds all the power”. We dissect this concept, emphasizing the critical role of consent and safe words in power exchange dynamics, but also the nuances of how those things play out when we start delving into these deeply trusting dynamics. Speaking of nuance…the discussion explores the nua...

Oct 14, 202457 min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 2: Andrew answers MORE questions from submissive women

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips Dom-Sub Dynamics and Healthy Communication: A Deep Dive In this Q&A episode, Andrew addresses a myriad of questions from submissives exploring the intricacies of dominance and submission (DS) dynamics. Important topics include the significance of real-time communication in a DS relationship, managing accountability as a dominant, and the boundaries of consent. The discussion touches on how to approach ...

Oct 07, 20241 hr 8 min

Ask A Dom Anything Part 1: Andrew answers questions from submissive women

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, Andrew answers questions submitted by our submissive followers. We get into so much in this episode that we had to make two parts! We discuss the responsibilities of being a dominant, managing resistance, and the intricacies of balancing DS dynamics with other aspects of life. Other questions I answer include advice on the importance of consent, whether it’s possible to...

Sep 30, 20241 hr 2 min

Setting up your D/s Dynamic for Success: Creating rules, rituals, & contracts that work in your life

Free gift: 7 Tips for a rock-solid D/s Dynamic - visit https://infinitedevotion.com/7-tips This episode coincides with the release of our newest self-study course: Structuring Your D/s Dynamic. In Structuring your D/s Dynamic, we walk you through the same step-by-step process that we use to write our contract, rules, rituals, and create the structure that has allowed our Dom/sub relationship to become such a powerful and intimate connection. In this episode we delve into strategies for setting u...

Sep 23, 202448 min

One Year Anniversary Livestream Podcast!

In this live stream special, we celebrate the one-year anniversary of Dom Sub Devotion. We reflect on the journey of Infinite Devotion and share stories about how we got to where we are today in our business, starting from our original name, freeandfit.life. We share about the evolution of our lives and how they’ve changed through this business and how we came to start our podcast one year ago, and how the podcast has changed not only our business, but how we have grown and changed through recor...

Sep 16, 20241 hr 10 min

Topping From The Bottom: Understanding and Addressing the Control Mechanisms of submissives

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of 'topping from the bottom' in a 24/7 DS marriage. We explore how this concept, where the submissive tries to control the Dominant using her submission as the means of control, aligns with the submissive’s use of voice and expression of feelings within a power exchange relationship. We discuss the challenges of balancing submission and the need to speak up, the importance of emotional safety, and the inner...

Sep 09, 20241 hr 4 min

A Collared Submissive: Why the collar is such a meaningful symbol in our D/s marriage

For Episode 50 of Dom Sub Devotion, we poured a cocktail, sat down on a Friday afternoon, and had a fun happy hour discussion about collars and their significance in our D/s dynamic. Enjoy this one, we had fun with it! We get asked so often about where I got Dawn's everyday collar, and we’re happy to be partners with Eternity Collars. You can shop Eternity at this link, and use our code DEVOTION for a discount of $20 off of $150 as well! https://www.eternitycollars.com?bg_ref=0iRJJDqHMs (This is...

Sep 02, 20241 hr

Living Fully: Enjoying our lives and D/s while “Doing The Work” together

In this episode, we dive into how to balance enjoying life's moments while navigating through the deep challenges that come with doing the work to overcome our past programming and conditioning. This deep emotional work is important, but it can take over our lives if we let it. It can become another version of the same thing we’re trying to escape. We share personal experiences on maintaining fun, discussing how emotional chaos and personal growth have affected our relationship dynamics. Listen ...

Aug 26, 20241 hr

A Masterpiece and a Work In Progress: Listen in on a married 24/7 D/s couple's deep conversation

In Episode 48 of Dom Sub Devotion, we sit down together to have a conversation about a few different topics that have been on our minds in a bit more casual way than normal. We discuss integrating the D/s dynamic into our normal lives, explore the nature of trust, patience, and self acceptance, and look at the fine line between leadership and not having unrealistic expectations. And as always, this episode is filled with heartfelt moments as we share the experience of our love and our D/s dynami...

Aug 19, 20241 hr 10 min

The Art of Calm: Cultivating a Dominant Presence Through Slow Intentional Living

In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we take a look at the significance of slowness and presence in the Dominant role. Dominant men can profoundly impact their relationships by slowing down. Slowing down their speech, their reactions, their movements..everything, both internally and externally. There is a deeply transformative power in grounded, intentional actions and presence. And through this conversation, we provide insightful tips for men to improve their everyday interactions with not only...

Aug 12, 20241 hr 4 min

The realities of living in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage - Q&A with Andrew & Dawn

It’s time for another Q&A episode! In this one, we go into some of the realities, challenges, and rewards of living in a 24/7 D/s marriage with our answers to lots of our listeners’ questions. We had some of the most fascinating and thought provoking questions with this episode, like: How does committing to each other not become self abandonment? What does physical appearance have to do with Dom/sub dynamics? Does Andrew allow Dawn to drive? Is it the Dominant’s fault if the submissive cheat...

Aug 05, 20241 hr 17 min

Infinite Devotion - Why we have chosen a permanent commitment to each other

Episode 45: Infinite Devotion - Why we have chosen a permanent commitment to each other In this episode of Dom Sub Devotion, we discuss the profound impact of the permanent, lifelong commitment we have made to each other. We explore how this “all in” approach has fostered safety, freedom, and a deeper connection…all while making it possible for each of us to be on our individual journey of self discovery. We share personal reflections from each of our first failed marriages, and what we learned ...

Jul 29, 202454 min

Navigating Needs and Wants in a Dom/Sub Relationship

Episode 44: Navigating Needs and Wants in a Dom/Sub Relationship Join us in this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast as we explore the intimate and important topic of how we handle responding to each other's needs and wants within a 24/7 DS marriage. We discuss the hierarchy of needs that places the submissive's needs first, the dominant's needs second (and why it MUST be this way), the dominant's wants third, and the submissive's wants last, and why this hierarchy helped at the beginning of...

Jul 22, 20241 hr

Living In Truth: Integrity, Authenticity, and the Journey to Self-Discovery

Episode 43: Deep Dive into Truth: Integrity, Authenticity, and the Journey to Self-Discovery In this episode, we explore the profound concept of truth in the context of our dynamic dominant-submissive relationship, inspired by questions we've received. We dive deep into the meaning of truth, its role in personal integrity, and its resonating impact on our power exchange dynamic. The conversation covers our personal journeys of self-discovery, grappling with external expectations, the necessity o...

Jul 15, 20241 hr 6 min

Dawn's freedom in submission: Why it's worth it to "do your work"

In this deeply intimate and fun episode, we spend the hour talking about what Dawn's life is like as Andrew's submissive now, after 5+ years being collared, and 4+ years of deep emotional healing work. We talk quite often about this emotional work, but in this conversation we talk about why it's worth it to confront all of these inner battles and work to release attachments, surrender, and let go of the ego's grip. The reality is that there is a profound sense of freedom and aliveness that Dawn ...

Jul 08, 202459 min

From Avoidance to Aliveness: The Journey to Authentic Freedom and Passion

In this episode of the Dom Sub Devotion podcast, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of a 24/7 D/s marriage, exploring the vital importance of both emotional and physical connections. Highlighting the necessity for dominant men to embrace discomfort and seek truth, we discuss how true freedom and intimate, passionate relationships can be attained. This episode offers insights for men aspiring to find freedom in their dominance and the women who wish to understand them better. Join us as we ...

Jul 01, 20241 hr

Ask A Sub Anything Part 2

Episode 40 - Ask A Sub Anything Part 2 Get Dawn's Manifesto: The Self Respecting Submissive Woman. Click here to download it now! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/self-respecting-submissive-woman Welcome back for Part 2 of "Ask A Sub Anything"! We had so many great questions for the last Ask A Sub episode that we recorded two full episodes. In this second part, Dawn answers more questions including: Do you have close friends that you can go to who understands your lifestyle and dynamic? And if s...

Jun 24, 20241 hr 7 min

Ask A Sub Anything Part 1

Episode 39 - Ask A Sub Anything Part 1 The reason that we started the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast was simple. Social media started to feel extremely limiting, especially in our ability to answer the real life questions people have for us. We're passionate about helping people live loving, healthy Dom/sub dynamics, and this podcast gives us the opportunity to go deeper on the real life of what it takes to live this way! And so many of the questions we get are for Dawn...in fact, we had accumulated s...

Jun 17, 20241 hr 3 min

We always try to get better, not be "good enough"

Episode 38 - We always try to get better, not be "good enough" In any relationship where we are growing and evolving, we have to expect that our needs and desires are going to change as we change. But in relationships, it can be challenging to hear that our partner wants or needs more from us. On one hand we might say we want to grow together. But then, when our partner grows and has new needs and desires, can we step forward to meet them? There is perhaps nothing that has changed more for us as...

Jun 10, 20241 hr 1 min
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