Episode 37 - How I control my submissive Control is a very charged word that comes with a lot of fear, judgement, and resistance. It’s also something that has often been abused. But inside of a loving Dom/sub relationship, consensual control is a central theme. There’s turn on in taking control. Surrendering control. It’s what makes power exchange into power exchange! In this episode, we explore control. What it is for us. The role it plays in our dynamic. The differences between being in contro...
Jun 03, 2024•1 hr 2 min
Episode 36 - Keeping passion and desire alive over the long term - Dating, Novelty, and Sex Dom/sub relationships are often thought of in terms of control, obedience, and structure. But in a long term, loving relationship, things like romance, and continuing to date each other, are spoken about as valuable. So how do WE bring these two things together? This is what we discuss in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion. Recorded on a Friday, already dressed to head out on a date night together, we captu...
May 27, 2024•58 min
Episode 35: How we make decisions in our D/s marriage - Streamed Live on YouTube Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with stayingThis episode was streamed live! If you want to make sure you get notified of future livestreams, subscribe to our channel and to our email list by clicking here! https://www.infinitedevotion.com/podcastsubscribe We had dozens of our followers join us live to hear us discuss decision making in our D/s dynamic. How...
May 20, 2024•1 hr 9 min
Episode 34: How we stay consistent in our D/s dynamic Over 5 years in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, we’ve learned some lessons about keeping consistent, and with staying connected to our D/s relationship. In this episode, we discuss some of the ways we’ve managed to stay consistent in our D/s, even in the midst of challenges, children, illnesses, and busy lives. And we share some of the strategies that our listeners can learn from our approach to keep your own D/s dynamic strong over the long term, withou...
May 13, 2024•57 min
https://infinitedevotion.com/communion We are accepting enrollments for our premier program for women: Communion. This six month immersion begins on June 3rd, 2024. If you are a woman who is seeking a deeper connection to your own body, soul, and truth, this is what you've been looking for. Click the link below to learn more and join us! Episode 33: Overcoming Overthinking Overthinking is a challenge that comes into direct confrontation with any attempts to engage in deeper intimacy in relations...
May 06, 2024•1 hr
Episode 32: Finding ourselves through our Dom/sub marriage The seeking of authenticity has been an integral part of what has made our D/s marriage so special and unique. So often, D/s relationships value things like obedience and performance. But for us, this has always been about deeper intimacy with each other. And that has led us to look inward and become more of who we really are. But authenticity can bring us apart. Or certainly lead us to fear losing love or being abandoned, because it inv...
Apr 29, 2024•1 hr 11 min
Episode 31: Living in your feminine energy - Dawn's Experience I don’t think there’s anything that is more confusing, and more often confused, than what it really means to be “in your feminine” as a woman in today’s world. What the heck does that even mean? And how does a woman actually LIVE that way? This is what we explore together in this episode of Dom Sub Devotion. As Dawn reflects her experience of coming out of a very masculine expression into a feminine expression, she shares such deep l...
Apr 22, 2024•1 hr 14 min
Episode 30: Q&A with a 24/7 Dominant Last week, you got to hear from Dawn in “Ask Dawn Anything” And this week, it’s Andrew’s turn. We asked for questions that you wanted to hear Andrew’s reflections on, and we got some great ones. Here are just a few of the questions he answered during this hour long Q&A. How can I empower my man to be more Dominant? You talked about masculine energy for women, is there a healthy feminine energy for men? How do you share your emotions/feelings in a way ...
Apr 15, 2024•1 hr 5 min
Episode 29: Ask Dawn Anything - Q&A with a 24/7 submissive We dedicated this episode to a Q&A that’s just for Dawn to share her experience and answer our listeners’ and followers’ questions. Here are just a few of the questions that she was asked in this episode: Do you get a lot of questions about your collar? As a new sub, what would be your biggest piece of advice for me starting on this journey? How do I get my submissive to be more submissive and obedient? I want to be submissive SO...
Apr 08, 2024•1 hr 4 min
Episode 28: D/s is not always BDSM So many couples face real challenges when they try to take D/s out of the bedroom and bring it into the living room. In this episode, we discuss why it is that the same things that work to drive the energy of kink don’t work the same when we’re dealing with the energy of love. And how separating the concepts of D/s from BDSM is an important start to bringing the heart into our power exchange dynamics. ~~~~~~~~` Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educat...
Apr 01, 2024•1 hr 9 min
My good friend Eric is back on the Dom Sub Devotion podcast for another conversation with me in the exploration of conscious Dominance. And in this episode, we dive into the meaning of the word consent and how it opens the door to a deeper, more meaningful Dom/sub dynamic when it is seen as an opportunity for connection, rather than an agreement to avoid feeling and emotion. And you won't want to miss Eric's special gift of analogy, when he compares different types of D/s dynamics to different t...
Mar 28, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Episode 27: Trust and Trustworthiness in D/s dynamics How do we relate to the concept of trust inside of Dom/sub relationships? In this episode, Andrew & Dawn discuss trust. We dive into how trust is earned, how it's given, and what to do when it's broken. And, in a fascinating part of this conversation, we venture into an exploration of conscious relating through the lens of trust, as Dawn explores how her ego would bring up feelings of a lack of trust in Andrew, which were in reality proje...
Mar 25, 2024•1 hr 1 min
Episode 26: Handling a submissive woman's emotions https://infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man - In our new course for men, we teach you how you can build the inner strength that it takes to lead a submissive woman through a loving D/s dynamic...by first becoming Dominant over yourself. There is nothing quite so confounding to men as the emotions of their woman. In fact, many men seem to approach Dominance as a means to finally have some control over these emotions, or at least the abil...
Mar 18, 2024•1 hr 12 min
Our first ever guest on Dom Sub Devotion is Eric from the Elemental Arts Initiative. Eric is a coach and teacher with a diverse and fascinating history that he shares in this episode. He is also my personal friend and confidant. Having other Dominant men in your life isn't just important, it's essential. Eric and I talk every week about our own lives, our relationships, and the challenges we're facing and working to lead ourselves and our submissives through. Our conversations were so valuable t...
Mar 11, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Episode 25: Our nomadic lifestyle - and how it affects our Dom/sub marriage We live over half the year out of a fifth-wheel camper, traveling to new and different places. And in this episode we discuss some of how that has helped our D/s dynamic, and some of the challenges that come with it. One of those challenges is the fact that we run our business, Infinite Devotion, out of this very small space. And when a thunderstorm kicks off when you're recording a podcast, you can hear it! So enjoy thi...
Mar 04, 2024•1 hr 2 min
Episode 24: Becoming a Dominant Man - Developing a Dominant character This episode discusses what it truly takes for a man to embody Dominance as a way of being, not just something he does with, or to, women. Andrew's new course for men that guides you through your own process of becoming a Dominant man is available now. You can learn more and join at https://www.infinitedevotion.com/becoming-a-dominant-man-1 ~~~~~~~~~ Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support ind...
Feb 26, 2024•1 hr 4 min
Episode 23: 13th wedding anniversary episode - How D/s dynamics improved our marriage In this episode, we went live on Youtube to interact with our followers and share some of the ways that becoming a Dom/sub couple has made our marriage better. We live streamed this on the evening before our 13th anniversary, and a couple days before Dawn's birthday, and we ended with some very sweet birthday messages for her from our followers. Make sure to subscribe to us on youtube at https://youtube.com/@in...
Feb 25, 2024•1 hr 7 min
Episode 21: Our rules & rituals - A deeper look inside our 24/7 Dom/sub marriage This is the deepest we've ever let our viewers into our dynamic. Not only do we share more specifics about our D/s marriage than we ever have before in this episode...we get even deeper into WHY the rules are in place, and how Sir goes about setting this structure. If you want to set up a 24/7 D/s dynamic in a loving, healthy way, this episode will give you so much help! Not just in what to do, but in the import...
Feb 12, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Episode 20 - How we handle conflict in our 24/7 Dom/sub marriage Every relationship is going to have conflict and disagreement at times. In Episode 20, we talk about how our D/s dynamic has helped us use these moments as opportunities to go deeper into our intimacy and connection with each other. It's not that Dom/sub dynamics have cured our relationship from having disagreements. That's a fantasy that is usually based in trying to control and force each other into self suppression. But instead,...
Feb 05, 2024•59 min
Episode 19 - I can't be submissive to Sir if I Dom myself The more I kept myself under my own control, the less I could rely on Sir to lead me. I'll never forget when he told me that if I was ever going to let him fully lead me, I had to stop Domming myself. This episode tells the stories of how self control held me back and kept me small, and what I did to let go and experience my submission on a whole new level. - Dawn ~~~~~~~~~~~ Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working ...
Jan 29, 2024•1 hr 10 min
Episode 18: Q&A with a married Dom/sub couple It's time for another Q&A episode! Andrew & Dawn answer all sorts of our followers' questions. What's it like wearing a collar 24/7? Do you fear losing each other? Does Dawn ever feel guilty for the amount of responsibility Andrew takes on? Does 24/7 Dominance and leadership stress Andrew out, or feel like a burden? We answer these questions and more in this episode, and at the end, we share a bit more about ourselves, for our listeners a...
Jan 22, 2024•53 min
Episode 17: A 24/7 submissive interviews her Dominant I got to interview Andrew for this episode, and wow was it fun! He told me to ask him anything I wanted, and he really delivered on his answers. I hope that this episode helps you see more deeply into what being a Dominant is really like, and what it takes to be a leader in a loving 24/7 D/s dynamic. And why I feel so special to be his submissive. ~~~~~~~~~~ Andrew & Dawn are full time coaches and educators, working to support individuals...
Jan 15, 2024•1 hr 6 min
Episode 16 - My journey inward as a 24/7 submissive As a 24/7 married Dom/sub couple, we've gone deep into what makes love and D/s work together. In this episode, Andrew interviews his wife and submissive, Dawn, about her experience of submission. This deep, and vulnerable conversation exposes her experience in learning to let go, stop overthinking, and allow herself to truly trust and depend on Andrew as her husband and her Dominant. This is part one of a two part series as a lead up to Rapture...
Jan 08, 2024•1 hr 3 min
Episode 15 - When our dreams died, our love was born People ask us all the time...how did your D/s dynamic...and your relationship overall...become so powerful and deep? The answer...our dreams died. We tell one of the hardest stories from our marriage in this episode, and how it eventually led to everything we now experience together. The lessons we have learned from the hardest parts of our past are what we bring to our teachings, and none of these teachings are more powerful than Rapture. Enr...
Jan 01, 2024•1 hr 8 min
Episode 14 - Fear in Dom/sub dynamics Nothing is a more powerful motivator than fear. And when we try to explore D/s, or take our dynamics to new, deeper places, we can find fear coming up in all sorts of unexpected places. Andrew & Dawn discuss fear and how they overcome it in this episode of the Infinite Devotion Podcast. If you want to learn more about how love and D/s can coexist, we encourage you to look into the course we teach called Rapture. It is three months of going in depth about...
Dec 26, 2023•54 min
Episode 13: We don't want equality in our relationship This is the deepest conversation we’ve ever had here on the Dom Sub Devotion Podcast. We share this episode with you as a preview of what is available to you in Rapture, the 3 month live immersion course we teach starting in January. This one hour conversation is just touching the surface of how deep we go in Rapture. If you want to experience deep connection and love inside of intense and passionate power exchange dynamics, this podcast wil...
Dec 18, 2023•1 hr 4 min
Episode 12 - How love grows in a 24/7 Dom/sub marriage Can love and Dom/sub dynamics coexist? In this conversation, we share how power exchange dynamics have brought the connection of love and devotion out in our marriage, and transformed it into a loving, passionate connection that only continues to grow with time. This seems like such an oddity, when you look at D/s from the outside world. It all seems like it’s cold, casual, and disconnected. But bringing love into the equation makes the powe...
Dec 11, 2023•50 min
Episode 11 - Submission means slowing down This episode touches on the most impactful learning in over five years of our 24/7 D/s dynamic. Nothing changes until I change. Submission is about being...not doing. And I could never "do" my way to submission. I had to STOP doing so much, and just allow myself to BE. Adding more to my plate only kept me in the same energy that had caused me to be so deep in my hyper-masculine energy. But when I slowed down my pace and let go of everything that didn't ...
Dec 04, 2023•53 min
Episode 10 - Why would I choose to be a 24/7 submissive? In a world of equality, autonomy, and independence, why would a woman choose submission and surrender? In this episode of the Infinite Devotion Podcast, Dawn answers that very question, as husband and wife have a deep and meaningful discussion about her submission and it's meaning to their lives. ~~~~~~ Rapture 2024 Enrollment is open! This course is where Andrew & Dawn sit down once each year and teach through everything we’ve learned...
Nov 27, 2023•1 hr 1 min
Episode 9 - Ask us anything! Q&A with a 24/7 D/s Married Couple This episode was so fun! We asked our Instagram following to send us questions anonymously for this episode, and we spent an hour answering as many of them as we could get to! Some of these are lots of fun. Some are serious. All of them are great conversations about how to live a healthy D/s relationship. We hope you enjoy! ~~~~~~ Do you want to learn more about how to live healthy, loving D/s dynamics? Download our free guide, ...
Nov 20, 2023•1 hr 8 min
