Are you often doing things where you're influenced by the judgments and decisions of other people? We know what that's like - especially when it comes to everything you're going through and navigating when you're getting divorced. Everyone seems to have an opinion on what you should do. In this episode, T.H. and Jess talk about Mel Robbins' new book "The Let Them Theory," and ways to keep going on your own path, while letting everyone else stay in their own lane. Giving up control in your divorc...
Jan 31, 2025•19 min•Season 5Ep. 2
We're starting 2025 by giving ourselves - and you! - what we're calling permission to pivot. Things change, life, kids, relationships, jobs, what makes us happy...and it's important to always listen to yourself and be true to what your guts is saying. What once worked may change, and that's ok! In this episode, T.H. talks to one of our OG exEXPERT faves, Susan Guthrie, about permission to pivot and how we're making some changes and focusing on things that bring us joy (and money!) in a different...
Jan 02, 2025•37 min•Season 5Ep. 1
There is definitely a lot of change and transition when it comes to divorce, and it's never easy. but there are things you can do to make dealing with the transition days better for everyone, and in this episode we speak to an amazing guest who is a divorce coach, a mediator and a coparenting specialist! She goes through some amazing advice that we wish we had when we got divorced years ago! This one is for everyone who's divorced with kids! (Guest: Karen McNenny, Founder, The Good Divorce Coach...
Dec 23, 2024•30 min•Season 4Ep. 46
Saving yourself stress, time and money will make a big difference in your divorce process, and believe it or not, there are ways to simplify it all. In this episode, we hear all about the mission of the company Your Divorce made Simple, where they can guide you (and your ex) to a workable agreement in as little as six weeks! (Guest: Amy Colton, Founder Your Divorce made Simple and CFDA/Mediator/Wealth Advisor) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our ...
Dec 16, 2024•25 min•Season 4Ep. 45
There's a lot to consider when going through a divorce and the more prepared you are, the better. It's important to have a strategy so you can weigh all of your options with a clear head, and not get caught up in the emotional turmoil. In this episode, Amy Polacko explains how to build a divorce strategy so you can avoid mistakes and claim your independence to move forward. (Guest: Amy Polacko, Certified Coach and Divorce Specialist) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal note...
Dec 08, 2024•28 min•Season 4Ep. 44
How many women do you know that pay alimony to their husbands? Suffice it to say, it takes a strong, badass women to be in that situation, and this interview with Hello Mamas founder, Erika Hanafin, is beyond inspiring and uplifting. She is a successful entrepreneur who understands that building community and "girl-gang" support is life changing. Every woman needs to hear this episode! Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ...
Dec 03, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 43
Getting through the holidays whether you're going through or have gone through divorce is something that is always evolving. The first year is very different than years down the road, but there are ways to ensure you aren't lonely (even if you're alone) and steps you can take to keep yourself happy and healthy through it all. In this episode, we talk about the things we did personally to stay on track and manage the last 15 years of holidays with and without our kids. Get access to our private d...
Nov 25, 2024•21 min•Season 4Ep. 40
We parents are in a never-ending cycle of tackling "mom problems" and constantly trying to figure out new ways of solving them. But what better way to do it than including a little humor? Even when going through divorce, being able to lighten the mood is essential in your survival, and you'll hear the best ways to do that with a true expert. (Guest: Tara Clark, Modern Mom Probs ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at ...
Nov 17, 2024•40 min•Season 4Ep. 37
Knowing you are going to court to litigate your divorce is a very scary prospect, but there are ways you can prepare yourself to mitigate the fear and to have a better chance in getting the results you're hoping for, and this episode goes through it all. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, NJ Protective Moms ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram...
Nov 10, 2024•29 min•Season 4Ep. 40
It's not easy to get a good night sleep when you're going through divorce, despite all the info out there on sleep hacks, sleep medicine and even gummies. We know this challenge personally, so we brought in Dr. Shelby Harris, board certified in Behavioral Sleep Medicine and a Clinical Associate Professor at Albert Einstein College of Medicine, to offer up the best tips and advice on how to get your zzz's, even under a tremendous amount of stress. (Guest: Shelby Harris, Sleep Expert ) Get access ...
Nov 04, 2024•34 min
After being in a relationship where your spouse has put you down and made you feel "less than", it can be difficult to reclaim your self-worth. In this episode, we speak to the incomparable Amanda Hanson of Midlife Muse, who has amazing insight and advice on how to get back to you. (Guest: Amanda Hanson, Midlife Muse ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instag...
Oct 28, 2024•35 min•Season 4Ep. 38
Not having a partner, a plus one, a significant other to travel with makes planning trips challenging for many after divorce - especially when you have kids to wrangle. Not everyone is bold enough to do it alone, but small group travel with like-minded people who are in similar situations could be a great new choice. And now there's a way to plan trips that are catered to you, alongside other single parents. In this episode we talk all about Copilots for Coparents and their Single Parents Travel...
Oct 21, 2024•30 min•Season 4Ep. 37
Just because you separate or divorce an abuser, does not mean that the abuse stops. Whether it's emotional, mental, financial, physical or any other kind of toxic treatment, it doesn't always end when you physically separate. This can be extremely difficult and challenging to deal with, but this episode will help break down how you can navigate through it while still keeping your sanity. (Guest: Anne Wintemute, A Garden Grows ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by s...
Oct 14, 2024•28 min•Season 4Ep. 36
You may think you're going to fight for a specific amount of custody or money, but you really have to know the myths of divorce, because it can be hard to pick the right battles. In this interview you'll hear how to manage your expectations around the cost, how long it'll take, alimony, custody and more. (Guest: Kara Chroback, Family Law Attorney ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Follow @exEXPE...
Oct 06, 2024•27 min•Season 4Ep. 35
Divorce is a big change, and it can be a hard adjustment for everyone. But what if you could master how to deal with change by adopting 5 simple mindset hacks? In this episode, we talk to Divorce Coach Jenny Stevens and learn exactly how to accomplish this with tips you can apply right now. (Guest: Jenny Stevens, Divorce Coach ) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Inst...
Oct 01, 2024•30 min•Season 4Ep. 34
Everyone always asks what to do with their money to prepare for a divorce, as well as how to protect it when it's over. In this episode, you'll hear from a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst how to deal with those things, as well as how to leverage your resources to make your divorce less expensive and less hostile. (Guest: Nikki Tucker , CFDA) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on ...
Sep 22, 2024•30 min•Season 4Ep. 33
Red flags can be different for different people, but there are some universal red flags that we should all be wary of. How is it that we allow ourselves to overlook and ignore red flags, and even continue staying in a relationship when we're feeling unsettled? In this episode, Brianna McCabe spills it all about the red flags we all need to watch out for, how to determine what are red flags to you, and why she wrote all about it in The Red Flags I've (Repeatedly) Ignored. (Guest: Brianna McCabe, ...
Sep 15, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 32
Getting divorced means splitting up all your stuff, and then having to buy a lot of new things for your new household - kitchenware, bedding and more. All at a time when money is tight and you are probably trying to live on a budget. in this episode, hear why Olivia Howell created the Divorce Registry and how it works. (Guest: Olivia Howell, Founder, Divorce Registry) Get access to our private divorce life hacks and personal notes by signing up for our weekly newsletter at www.exexperts.com . Fo...
Sep 08, 2024•25 min•Season 4Ep. 31
Coercive control is not something we knew much about, but it turns out it occurs is many marriages - and does not stop after a divorce. It can be scary and mentally and emotionally draining, but there are ways to strategize and make sure that you are able to protect yourself and your children. This is an eye-opening episode. (Guest: Courtney Gilmartin, Founder, NJ Protective Moms) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' Divorce Rulebook ! www.exEXPERTS.co...
Sep 02, 2024•34 min•Season 4Ep. 30
We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more. Organizing Your Life for Divorce - S3, Ep. 12 wit...
Aug 28, 2024•13 min
We always want you to find the best information you need when you need it, and our mission is to help break it al down easily so that you can. Our website is even color-coded by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myFAMILY category - all about child custody, coparenting, visitation schedules and even pets and more. 1. Protecting Your Kids When Divorcing a Narcissi...
Aug 19, 2024•15 min
It doesn't have to be confusing to find the information you want and need when it comes to dealing with divorce, We know that making things simple helps, which is why color-coded our website by category, so that you know just where to find what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the mySELF category - all about career, dating, self care, support and more. 1. Narcissist vs. Asshole, There's a Difference with Ina Hanson...
Aug 12, 2024•15 min
We are here to help you through every step of your divorce - and beyond - and we want to make it easy for you to find the best information you need when you need it. We color coded our website so you can easily find what you're looking for, and this podcast episode is a cheat sheet of the Top 5 podcasts in the myWALLET category, which is all the money-related stuff - alimony, child support, paying for your divorce, handling your finances after your divorce and more. 1. How to Find Hidden Money i...
Aug 08, 2024•11 min
Our goal is to always break things down easily so that you can find the best information you need when you need it. We even have our website color-coded by category, to help you find exactly what you're looking for. This mini Divorce etc... podcast episodes is a cheat sheet on the Top 5 podcasts we've done in the myDIVORCE category - all about legal issues, finding a lawyer, what kind of divorce you want, negotiating, mediation, litigation, collaborative divorce and more. 1. Best Tips for Divorc...
Aug 02, 2024•12 min
Aren't you shocked sometimes at the crazy and stupid things people say to you after hearing you're getting divorced? It happens all the time, and it leaves us feeling defensive when it should be the other way around. This episode, with the amazing author of the book "Don't Fucking Say That" will give you the words you need to get around those situations, and help you think about it all in a way you never have before. (Guest: Mellissa Librach , Coach, Trainer & Author) Sign up for the exEXPER...
Jul 25, 2024•17 min•Season 4Ep. 29
We learn our best tips form hearing others that have gone through it, and Ilyssa Panitz has been writing and reporting on divorce for years, so she's picked up some great tips and advice from interviewing others. Here's what she learned! (Ilyssa Panitz, Divorce Journalist) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' Divorce Rulebook ! www.exEXPERTS.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram....
Jul 15, 2024•27 min•Season 4Ep. 28
If you feel like you aren't quite sure how to help your kids navigate the divorce, join the club! There isn't one surefire thing to say or way to navigate, but there are some key things to think about when it comes to helping your kids move forward. Hear what they are. (Guest: Christina McGhee, Divorce Parenting Expert) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' Divorce Rulebook ! www.exEXPERTS.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Insta...
Jul 08, 2024•40 min•Season 4Ep. 27
We know, you probably aren't thinking about your taxes right now, but did you know that June is the second estimated prepaid tax payment for 2025, which you have to do to avoid penalties? And you are entitled to half of your spouse's IRA or 401k, but are you calculating the taxes you'll pay on that in your divorce settlement? Taxes can get messy during divorce, and we want you to be up on everything you need to know and when. In this episode of Divorce etc..., you'll find out why you can't wait ...
Jun 23, 2024•29 min•Season 4Ep. 26
Mediation is a method that it used is so many divorces (even when you are litigating) but you can waste a LOT of money and time if you don't know how to prepare yourself. In this episode we go through five things you must do before starting mediation that will save you money. (Guest: Rebecca Stern, Pearl Mediation) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' Divorce Rulebook ! www.exEXPERTS.com . Follow @exEXPERTS on TikTok and Instagram....
Jun 19, 2024•35 min•Season 4Ep. 25
Even though we're always giving you two perspectives on everything, we're still both women. In this week's episode, T.H. sits down with one of our favorite good guys, Daren Douglas, to talk about his community Relationships Renewed, and what other good guys are going through as they get divorced. (Guest: Daren Douglas, Certified Divorce Specialist ) Sign up for the exEXPERTS' Divorce Rulebook ! www.exEXPERTS.com . Follow @exEXPER...
Jun 11, 2024•36 min•Season 4Ep. 24
