Infidelity is one of the most challenging issues that can arise in a relationship. It can leave the betrayed partner feeling hurt, angry, and confused. The emotional struggle after your partner commits infidelity can be overwhelming, and it is important to know how to handle it in a healthy way. I get it, you're probably thinking I am absolutely crazy for telling you this because the pain you are currently experiencing or experienced is very raw and real. I get it, I'm a 3rd party person telling...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 38
Meeting your partner's parents can be a nerve-wracking experience, I get it! It doesn’t matter if you are queer or straight, there is always a level of pressure involved because you want to impress. For queer men, it can be particularly challenging. Here are some general rules of thumb ! 1. Communicate with Your Partner Before meeting your partner's parents, it's important to have a conversation with your partner about their relationship with their parents and any concerns they may have. This wi...
Jun 11, 2024•15 min•Season 1Ep. 33
So, how do you get over the fear of commitment? Grieve Your Former Self: Taking the time to truly process your coming out experience is crucial in your ability to let go of limiting beliefs. Often, we leave that person behind and move on, but just like you left your former self behind, you also leave your partners behind and move on. We lived in a state of discomfort for so long that when we finally let that lifestyle go, we consciously or subconsciously vow to never be uncomfortable again. Ther...
Jun 11, 2024•20 min•Season 1Ep. 28
Here are some tips and suggestions to fixing YOUR broken heart: Step 1: Allow Yourself to Feel Your Emotions The first step in healing from a broken heart is to allow yourself to feel your emotions. It's natural to feel sad, angry, hurt, or confused after a breakup, and suppressing these emotions can actually prolong the healing process. Instead, give yourself permission to feel whatever emotions come up, and allow yourself to express them in a healthy way. This can be crying, journaling, talkin...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 26
If you feel that you are in a toxic relationship, here are the 3 primary signs I have come to find in my years of coaching and the countless case studies, articles, and research I have read pertaining to toxicity within a relationship: 1. Lack of Trust and Respect One of the first signs of a toxic relationship is a lack of trust and respect. If your partner is constantly questioning your motives or accusing you of things you didn't do, it is highly likely that they don't trust you. Trust and res...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 25
Dating apps have become the most popular and convenient way to meet people, especially for us in the queer community. Being that we are a group that has experienced discrimination, marginalization, harassment, and violence, many of us have been forced to live our lives in the shadows. Granted, there are places in the Unites States that have passed progressive bills in favor of our basic rights as Queer individuals, but that does not account for a majority of the US. There are only 15 states that...
Jun 11, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 24
If you are wanting to ensure the relationship stays healthy so you are interested in some tips and tricks, I commend you! You are taking active steps towards maintaining a healthy and sustainable relationship. Here are my top 5 romantic gestures you can do today: Surprise Date Night: Spending quality time with your partner is essential for maintaining a healthy and fulfilling relationship. However, it can be challenging to find the time and energy to plan a date night. Surprise your partner by p...
Jun 11, 2024•18 min•Season 1Ep. 23
If you are in a relationship or have ever been in a relationship and you've heard the following phrases, you might be codependent: "Why are you being so needy!?" "I can't do everything for you!" "Can’t you figure it out on your own!?" Now, let me be clear… codependency, although not recognized as an official diagnosis in the DSM-5, it is a pattern of behaviors that can be linked to a mental health diagnosis such as depression, anxiety, personality disorders, dependent personality disorder, avoid...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 22
What are the TOP 3 topics I recommend you avoid as a dating coach2? Here they are: Previous Relationships: I speak from experience on this one. Yes, even as a relationship coach I have made several mistakes while dating which is why I can speak to them. Do NOT talk about your previous relationships. When you do that, it is possible the person you are on a date with will feel like you haven't moved past your last relationship. That also can be interpreted as, "you don’t get over things easily." A...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 21
So, why does heart break hurt so bad? Well, there is actually a physiological reason. Have you ever heard of something called "broken heart syndrome?" Well, it’s a real thing! In medical terms, it is called Takotsubo cardiomyopathy (coined by Japanese researchers in 1990 because the shape of the heart represented a fishing pot). The condition is characterized by temporary weakening of the heart muscle that can cause symptoms similar to a heart attack. There are several medical studies that analy...
Jun 11, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 20
Over the years, I have spoken with countless men and discussed this topic and the 4 points I brought up above tend to be the most common reasons. Let's break them down: Masculinity: For many of us, being effeminate was frowned upon by the masculine influences in our life (dad, grandpa, teacher, pastor, friends, etc.) Culturally speaking, many of were classically conditioned to place masculinity on a pedestal and to view feminine energy as negative. Allow me to clarify, I don’t mean feminine ener...
Jun 11, 2024•22 min•Season 1Ep. 19
To understand where a persons expectations come from, you have to understand their story. I often times find that a lot of people have unrealistic expectations: I want him to make me happy. I want someone who’s always there for me. I want a best friend, lover, therapist, bank, mentor, partner, etc. I want to always feel desired. I don’t ever want to be bored in my relationship. Although these things are great and to some degree, necessary to make a relationship work… to expect someone to fulfill...
Jun 11, 2024•17 min•Season 1Ep. 18
Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | [email protected] Episode Description: Welcome to the "Deep Penetration Podcast," join me for a candid conversation about internalized homophobia, its impact, and the path to self-acc...
Jun 07, 2024•21 min•Season 1Ep. 66
Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | [email protected] Episode Description: Are you tired of the dating game feeling like a chore? Join me as I share insights and strategies to navigate the world of dating and relationsh...
May 31, 2024•22 min•Season 1Ep. 65
Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | [email protected] Episode Description: Are you wondering why you're still single? Join me as I share insights and tips on navigating the world of dating and relationships, specificall...
May 24, 2024•18 min•Season 1Ep. 64
Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | [email protected] Episode Description: Are you facing the daunting question of whether to pursue an open relationship? It's a complex decision that can rock the foundation of any part...
May 17, 2024•24 min•Season 1Ep. 63
Resources: 🎁 FREE GIFT | https://stan.store/MensLoveCoach 🎙️Spotify | https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/deep-penetration 📱TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@coachdannymorales ❤️Insta | https://www.instagram.com/coach_dannymorales/ 💻Website | https://www.thecoachdanny.com 📧 Email | [email protected] Episode Description: Welcome to the "Deep Penetration Podcast!" I'm Danny, a love and self-esteem coach specializing in supporting Gay & Bisexual men with dating...
May 10, 2024•16 min•Season 1Ep. 62
Why is it that men who have been sexually abused don't feel like they have a voice? If you are a victim of sexual abuse, did the same of the experience cause you to avoid it all together? Did you feel weak or ashamed because men are not supposed to be sexually abused? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about ASA (Adult Sexual Abuse) amongst Gay & Bisexual men in the LGBTQ community. For many of you that have experienced this, the experience itself likely fueled avoidance, self-...
Apr 15, 2024•29 min•Season 1Ep. 61
How come it seems SO difficult to find healthy and long-lasting love in the LGBTQ+ community? Have you ever wondered what the steps are to finding that "dream" relationship? What it would feel like to have an incredible date that never ends? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about dating in the LGBTQ community. For many of you, the experience itself has been a negative one due to a multitude of different reasons (lack of commitment, self-esteem issues, casual mindset, hookup cultu...
Apr 08, 2024•22 min•Season 1Ep. 60
How come it seems SO difficult to find men that are interested in commitment or monogamy? Have you ever wondered what it would feel like to connect with a man that wanted all the same things that you do? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about commitment in the LGBTQ+ community, specifically with Gay & Bisexual men. It is often said that finding commitment in the Gay community is a rarity, but that is not necessarily the whole truth. There are several men who are looking for c...
Apr 01, 2024•17 min•Season 1Ep. 59
How come rejection amongst Gay and Bisexual men in the world of dating is SO common? Why do most men feel the need to reject someone without explanation? Have you ever been rejected and wondered why? Was it something you did wrong? Did it impact your experience with dating or did it cause you to lose trust in men? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about rejection and how you can take advantage of it. For many of you, the experience itself has been a negative one due to a multitude...
Mar 25, 2024•16 min•Season 1Ep. 58
Why is it so difficult for the LGBTQ+ community to be open and accepting of Bisexuality when the community was formed for the purposes of inclusivity? Have you ever heard the phrase, "everyone is a little Bi?" If you haven't, that is what Danny is discussing in the episode so stick around if you want to learn a little more about Bisexuality! Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about Bisexuality. For anyone that identifies as Bisexual, you have likely experienced criticism from those...
Mar 18, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 57
Why is it that many of us struggle to accept who we are and live unapologetically a life that is true to ourselves? Have you ever struggled with your sexuality? If so, did you ever dream of living a life free of fear, judgement, criticism, or rejection? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about embracing your sexuality and living a life that is authentic without the need to apologize for it! For many of you, the experience of coming out, self-acceptance, and navigating the LGBTQ+ co...
Mar 11, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 56
Why is it that most people understand how important communication is, but don't prioritize it? Have you ever wondered what it would be like to have a healthy relationship without toxic or destructive arguments? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about communication and the importance of healthy communication in your relationships. It has often been said that people who struggle to communicate do not feel confident within themselves. Most men struggle to communicate due to a variety...
Mar 04, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 55
How come it seems SO difficult to find healthy and long-lasting love in the LGBTQ+ community? Have you ever wondered what the steps are to finding that "dream" relationship? Today, Danny welcomes you to have a conversation about dating in the LGBTQ community. For many of you, the experience itself has been a negative one due to a multitude of different reasons (lack of commitment, self-esteem issues, casual mindset, hookup culture etc.) In this episode, you will learn about intentional dating, t...
Feb 26, 2024•23 min•Season 1Ep. 54
The Queer community, as much as I love it and my passion is in supporting the community, has its issues that need to be fixed. At the end of the day, no community is perfect but we have allowed our personal insecurities to impact how we treat each other within the community. I can speak for myself when I say, I have DEFINITELY curved my personality in certain social settings to try and fit in. The need for acceptance, love, and validation was so strong that in my desire to be accepted, I lost my...
Jan 19, 2024•15 min•Season 1Ep. 53
Are you emotionally bankrupt? To find out, let's explore what emotional currency actually means and how it is applicable to you! 1. Understanding Emotional Currency: Emotional currency refers to the resources we invest in our relationships, like time, affection, trust, and support. It involves both giving and receiving, creating a dynamic exchange that sustains the health and vitality of our connections and just like financial currency, emotional currency requires a balance between giving and re...
Jan 15, 2024•17 min•Season 1Ep. 52
Let's talk about some of the most common masks I have found people wear. 1. The Mask of Perfection: Society often imposes unrealistic standards of perfection upon us, making us to believe that we must present ourselves as flawless. This mask convinces us that revealing our flaws will result in rejection and judgment. When you finally decide to explore your sexuality, the truth is… the queer community can be hyper-critical ourselves. We don’t only receive judgement from outside the community, we ...
Jan 08, 2024•19 min•Season 1Ep. 50
Your mindset plays a significant role in your dating experiences and the quality of your relationships. So, what is possibly keeping you single? 1. Limiting Beliefs and Self-Sabotage: a. Negative Self-Talk: Our internal dialogue shapes our self-perception. If you constantly criticize yourself, doubt your worth, or believe you're undeserving of love, these limiting beliefs can manifest in your dating life. Recognize negative self-talk patterns and challenge them with positive affirmations and sel...
Jan 05, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 49
For a lot of you, this represents laziness, lack of goals, complacency, immaturity, etc. Did you ever stop to think the decision to stay home was a conscious decision that was rooted in effective future planning? Maybe it is based on cultural beliefs? Or maybe he is a caretaker for an aging or ill parent? Here are some possible reasons: 1. Financial Considerations: One of the primary reasons individuals in their 30s may continue living with their parents is financial stability. Factors such as s...
Jan 01, 2024•26 min•Season 1Ep. 48
